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What do you do when she's hot but he's not?
September 14 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is what happened to me. I would have happily considered seeing her alone but they only played together. It's always going to be an issue in threesomes, it's hard enough to find one person who you like and find attractive and vice versa. Finding two, who also happen to be together, is tough. The myth is that we unicorns are hard to find, but it goes both ways....
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RHP User
10 years ago
some times if you meet a person offline, just for a coffee You might find that there is chemistry. Its often the social interaction, the offline meet and greet that might make you change your mind about a person. That being said , yes your right in some ways, its a shopping mall. If you do not get the first hint of it from the display in the window, then your inclined to move on. You might just say, listen I am attracted to your wife, not you so would you mind just sitting in a corner while we go to it. I do not think many men would say no to that.
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MissSarahCurious
10 years ago
If I don't like them, I don't fuck them. That goes for good looking people who are mean or stupid also. xx Sarah
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have come across that issue as well, quite a few times. Often it's because the guy is a lot older than the woman. I don't need models but with couples I do need a certain level of physical attraction to both, and if it's not there I don't bother investigating further. It's one of a few reasons that I've recently stopped actively looking for couples.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Mmmmm - if I'm not feeling the chemistry on a pic of a bloke I wouldn't look at IRL then I doubt if I'd feel it over coffee. Seriously I'm wondering how these hot women get these very average guys. Look, I know attraction is what it is but it really baffles me (and I was married for 15 years so no stranger to long term love). I think if I were part of a couple and my prospective third said 'sit out hubby I'm not that into him' I think she may be offended and rightly so. Anyway, I continue to wade through the requests. On another point - as I said I'm new here - why SO MANY BEND OVER ASS PICS? It seems all I'm looking at is someone's lace or G-string covered crack? Over and over and over. C'mon people..... get imaginative. As a single, straight woman who's sometimes also into girls (NOT BI OKAY!) I find the butt cracks really, really lame.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just say look mate here's 50 bucks how about being a good sport and shooting down the bottlo grab a bottle of wine , and a pizza and stop in grab a couple of dvds aswell while your gone ! I shall keep your hot mrs company while your gone .:-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'katyk304' Mmmmm - if I'm not feeling the chemistry on a pic of a bloke I wouldn't look at IRL then I doubt if I'd feel it over coffee. Seriously I'm wondering how these hot women get these very average guys. Look, I know attraction is what it is but it really baffles me (and I was married for 15 years so no stranger to long term love). I think if I were part of a couple and my prospective third said 'sit out hubby I'm not that into him' I think she may be offended and rightly so. Anyway, I continue to wade through the requests. On another point - as I said I'm new here - why SO MANY BEND OVER ASS PICS? It seems all I'm looking at is someone's lace or G-string covered crack? Over and over and over. C'mon people..... get imaginative. As a single, straight woman who's sometimes also into girls (NOT BI OKAY!) I find the butt cracks really, really lame. I guess the reason hot girls get average guys and visa versa is because they are after something other than looks. Perhaps he has a really good sense of humor, respectful, and is a really nice guy. I guess we don't really get to find these things out due to dismissing them over their looks. Don't get me wrong, i'm guilty of this too, rejecting at first sight. Not particularly proud of it though and now unless he is completely putrid i will give them a chance if i find that they have made the effort with me. I have met 3 guys that i would never have looked twice at in the street but they made me laugh and that a big thing for me
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
Quoting 'katyk304' On another point - as I said I'm new here - why SO MANY BEND OVER ASS PICS? It seems all I'm looking at is someone's lace or G-string covered crack? Over and over and over. C'mon people..... get imaginative. As a single, straight woman who's sometimes also into girls (NOT BI OKAY!) I find the butt cracks really, really lame. You're not our target market katy. I'm not putting my buttcrack away anytime soon... On to the topic of the disparity in hotness between partners in some couples... It's what opened the door to mfm's for us, bringing a little balance to the superhot play partners stakes. And what is that? Why are so many women halves of couples just so goddam gorgeous? Fortunately we've come across a few where they're just a gorgeous couple. But also some people especially guys don't photograph so well, they don't get to wear make up which flatters they way women do.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe it's the girls are not very good photographers? Lol Na, us guys know when we are punching above our weight. And often proud of it. It doesn't mean we don't do our best to keep up with the body but there is only so much a bunch of exercise can do! From our perspective, as long as not major overweight the guys can get away with a few points down the looks scale. Half the reason for being here is for mrs Madmanx to get some girl action. Guys can make up points with a decent sense of humour (or the right accent apparently) In saying that: a nice looking girl that can laugh and enjoy herself will always win over a perfect score in looks if she shows nothing in the fun dept....
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RHP User
10 years ago
No I won't fuk unless I feel a mutual desire n a connection...
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
If I had Wayne Rooney's talent & money, I'd be set for life.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
You like what you like....... if its not what you like..... make no excuses for that and never feel you have to justify your preferences. Keep shopping. DG
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RHP User
10 years ago
We've had this happen before (us being the couple) as we do have a age disparity.However its not the end of the world and unicorns are not as few and far between as some may think and they do exist in the wild. While we have had success on RHP i find it far more enjoyable watching Mr Aussie chat them up (unicorns in the wild) and seduce them into a threesome, actually it's how we met and been together ever since. As others said you like what you like and don't settle for less.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Grab her and come around my place. We'll tape it for him.
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
Same goes for the singles that have so many tickets on themselves you can see why they are single. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
"You're not our target market katy. I'm not putting my buttcrack away anytime soon" I'm talking about the bajillion messages I have sent to me - not you personally. I'm just curious as to why so many butt pics and no one has answered that. I put it down to the Kim Kardashian effect. Suddenly giant arses are all in fashion. Meh. Doesn't do it for me one iota and the whole on all fours submissive thing. Ho hum. Anyway, back to the original question - I appreciate the thoughtful replies, however a sense of humour doesn't come across on a photo and as I live in a rural area, taking the time to meet someone means a lot of travel for me, so there has to be a physical attraction. Still cursing the couple I drove all the way to Canberra to meet - and they chickened out without even so much as an apology. Sigh.
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RHP User
10 years ago
As I do a fair bit of photography let me give all you guys a quick tip. Lighting it is key to enhancing how you appear.If the lighting is what we call 'flat' or front on to the person, it can make anybody look very average as it usually creates no shadowing on the face/body. If you use side lighting and create a bit of shadow across your body, it can make a significant difference. eg stand side on to a full length glass window with a tranlucent blind would make nice lighting, and take the photo from 3/4 or front on. Which makes the OP's point about feeling attraction from a photograph. A lot of that feeling to me is just fantasy (which we all like to feel I'm sure), as I know from my experience of looking at how a photo was taken - meeting someone in real life could either enhance how you feel about them or completely destroy that feeling you got from seeing their photos. Which is why to a certain point some of us like seeing the bent over ass pics - all goes towards creating a fantasy about what they might really be like and what floats some peoples boats. Just pondering out loud because I like to think about the 'what if' for kicks... ... I wonder how we would all go making decisions if this site made us use photo's in a mandatory style that reflects carsales website. 4 photos in standing positionrom left side, front, right side, rear, down stairs, upstairs, all same flat lighting, no creativity. We read the description, see the specs, and decide if we want to... or
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Two_Tarts
10 years ago
You do know that it works both ways... don't you? Sometimes one of us will be more or less into a girl, or the parts of another couple, or they may feel that way about one or both of us. Just like it is in the real world! But most couples come as a package deal, because that is what they are...a couple....and unless they clearly welcome separate play that status should be respected and treated in an ethical way. If you don't tend to like tomato you probably should not be ordering the BLT. You could make yourself look difficult by imagining that everyone else should take the tomato out just to please you, but unlike the local cafe no one here is getting paid to meet your wants regardless of how frustrated you are. Perhaps you are just looking at the wrong section of the menu... :-) Enjoy! Xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agree with your lady comment Katy about no shows...poor manners...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Should read 'last comment' ....
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
Well said😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry 'we want to' (can't be bothered with the underscore) - your metaphor is a little baffling. I don't want to 'take out the tomato' - I WANT the tomato. But I want the tomato to be ripe juicy and delectable. Not shrivelled, wasted and off. I want the tomato, the bacon and the lettuce! Oh and I'm the bacon. Salty, yummy and the bit everyone loves. Hahaha! :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Seeing my pics,a couple who had contacted me,told me that they couldn't possibly have srx with me because I looked like her mother :-) xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
The SRX isn't much anyway, always aim for a deVille convertible!
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RHP User
10 years ago
It happens to me as well, I usually find the woman more attractive. Maybe I'm just much more picky when it comes to men?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I couldn't have sex ... ..even in their srx.... with them anyway...she also looked like her mother:-) xxQ
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Two_Tarts
10 years ago
Quoting 'katyk304' Sorry 'we want to' (can't be bothered with the underscore) - your metaphor is a little baffling. I don't want to 'take out the tomato' - I WANT the tomato. But I want the tomato to be ripe juicy and delectable. Not shrivelled, wasted and off. I want the tomato, the bacon and the lettuce! Oh and I'm the bacon. Salty, yummy and the bit everyone loves. Hahaha! :) Everyone does love that bacon and it would be a crime to pair it up with soggy tomato, or limp lettuce.lol,, Love your work!! May all your tomatoes be firm, fresh, ripe for picking, and accompanied by lettuce that is sweet, firm, and moist on the lips. ;-)
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nibblemebi
10 years ago
I agree. .. couples make it twice as difficult in the chemistry department. Occasionally though. . I am pleasantly surprised. But it's a lot of weeding through a massive garden! - Posted from rhpmobile
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