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What do you most value
April 24 2015
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
A friend must respect my values and the boundaries of things that we as friends have set and agreed to do or not to do.Go beyond those boundaries and cause unnecessary pain and hurt...........then fuckoff. I would travel long distances to see some friends. But they would have to be special. Particularly friends with benefits as obviously, there is some benefit of doing so..................
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quite recently ended a friendship. Just too negative and dishonest with himself and as it turned out me, told me his thoughts about myself that would have saved me many years of friendship, good guy but couldn't deal with it any longer. If I knew someone a long way away I would try but I do get to Melbourne fortnightly to see my closest friend who I've known all my life. Just to have lunch and chat about our lives.
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RHP User
10 years ago
After 3 major health issues I am now much better. My health is now of major importance to me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Forgot to say my friends were a fantastic support to me. I did end a friendship when one of them responded with "you sick again? get over it". I would travel anywhere anytime to my fabulous friends if they needed me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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LifeUnscripted
10 years ago
We went through a major life change a number of years back, and lost a lot of friends and our support network at the time. Our relationships changed dramatically with our families as well. We quickly managed to replace those friends with far better ones....truly caring for each other, truly there. And honestly those friends became our true family, our family of choice rather than our family of birth. That process really changed us, so now when we are talking about our deepest friends they are truly family. Our deepest friends we would absolutely fly around the world to see. And they have done the same for us. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I stick by people who have the honesty to tell me when I go to far or am doing self destructive stuff but are loyal enough to stay around to tell me the next time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
True friends are the ones by your side offering their love and support without hesitation when times are tough. Friendships have ended over lies and gossip, and when a "friend" was jealous of the time I spent with my partner only to catch her hitting on him (much to his amusement). My closest friend lives over 1 1/2 hours away (not far by some accounts). We try to catch up as often as possible but that sometimes means only a few times a year due to both our busy schedules and lives. We became friends on day one of primary school and we have been besties ever since. LG
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Single_Guy4U
10 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' I stick by people who have the honesty to tell me when I go to far or am doing self destructive stuff but are loyal enough to stay around to tell me the next time. I agree with Funlover. (Also respect) I only have 3x good friends that I have known for 30-40yrs. Unfortunately two live overseas and one who still lives 300km away. I would not have anything more to do with someone who purposefully lied to me (I forgive honest mistakes) All, including myself have travelled (even overseas) to visit each other (true, good, old friends), Wish I had one where I now live.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My family, my health and my mind. Flirty x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are interstate. So I try for at least once or twice a year. Here, my family (brothers etc) are my friends.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive probably only made a small number of really long lasting friendships. Of those I have choose a couple not to speak to anymore. Its based on lost loyalty, I can never get pasted that hurt of not having your supposed dearest friend in your corner when you need it most. I think its a scorpio trait we love deeply but we dont forgive easily and we definatley dont forget.
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lily1970
10 years ago
I have ditched a few "friends" over the last 18 when I became ill....no loss..life is so much better without all the drama queens!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't have a lot of close friends but there are so many things that I value in the ones that I do... their company, support, honesty and values are just a few. Self absorption would make me end a friendship, and has done in the past. Yes, I would travel long distances to catch up with my friends, no question about it :) Much love, Elle xx
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Missb4u
10 years ago
honesty... - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
10 years ago
Q) What do you most value In your friends? * Honesty and respect are the two traits I value most in friendship. In return, I will always be honest to my friends and respect them as a human being. Q) What would cause you to end a friendship? * Lies after lies; when my heart is taken for granted, when people take too much advantage of me; and when I'm being used by heartless people! Q) Would or do you travel long distances to catch up with friends? * DEFINITELY! I have done that several times for my best friends in both Australia (interstates) and overseas. For locally distance, I do that quite often actually. Like where I live now takes an hour to drive into the city during offpeak hour (would be 1.5-3 hours during peak hour), but I still make an effort to drive all the way to the city just to catch up with my friends, who either live in the city or in eastern suburbs. That's what I do for my friends, or people whom I consider friends :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
For me it would be if they did something to lose my trust in them, loyalty and respect is also very important .Ohh and if they became the "me me me " type. Long distance friendships are no problem for me, if a person is my friend then they are worth the travel , refer above lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Much the same as sweet gem
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inspirit
10 years ago
Yes I would and do travel to see friends.
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
I value kindness, honesty, thoughtfulness. I ended the friendship with my best friend about 12 months ago, after some comments she made about my daughter. And when I told her how her comments had upset me, rather than acknowledge that and/or apologise, all I got was "if you took offence, there's nothing I can do about that". Oh really!
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Mr_MrsAraps
10 years ago
I don't have a massive amount of friends but the things I look for is trust and respect but also someone who's company I really enjoy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't have any friends - any takers? LOL Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
heyy have you got a dildo of some sort too i wouldnt mind getn abit rough (stil an anal virgin lol)
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RHP User
10 years ago
i have a handful of friends I trust, respect and adore, honesty and being non judgemental are my most important things, I give what I get. Life is too short for friendship to be hard so that's where I will cut you off. - Posted from rhpmobile
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