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What does BDSM do to you?
October 23 2011
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contemplating1
13 years ago
A lot of those in politics don't practise what they preach during the daytime, and succomb to their fetishes at night! Me thinks over the centuries, 'tis the religious zealots who have driven these Satanistic practises underground! Hehehe......... The mind wanderssssssssssss......
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RHP User
13 years ago
I would find it very easy to become a professional Dominatrix but in a personal capacity I would not embrace BDSM in any way shape or form. It does not frighten me, scare me, tempt me or facinate me. It is merely something that people do that they enjoy. I have experienced an aweful lot in my life time. I have seen and experienced the not so nice side of life and I know myself. What would be acceptable to me and what would not. When it comes to bedroom games...the best I can offer is equality. I dont take orders very well and then again I do like the feel of a big strong pair of arms gently but firmly holding me. If I get away with too much I tend to lose a little respect.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wet Nervous My heart beat fast My mind race My palms sweat Shake and shiver Get butterflies
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sends me into subspace. Love it. Pusscat xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Does absolutely nothing for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
BDSM..... means an early night...because its a guarantee someones going to fall asleep......boring!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are with you rcflyer....just a passing interest
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RHP User
13 years ago
pain and sex doesnt go hand in hand for us. butt slapping is ok thou...hahaha
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RHP User
13 years ago
BDSM for me is a lifestyle and a profession. The hellfire club is great if you want to dress up and dance or show off your latest subbie. I prefer a hardcore play party which is much more fun. AdventureTime - BDSM is not about pain. It is about domination and submission. Pain can be a part of it if that's what turns you on but mutual pleasure is the ultimate focus. I am sadistic and so I get enjoyment from inflicting pain but I get just as big a turn on from inflicting pleasure.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I was introduced to BDSM by a former partner and it opened up a whole new world to me....I was fortunate to have a fantastic partner to explore it with...one who supported and encouraged me but never pushed when at times I did say No. He was a true Master and understood the mentality of BDSM There were facets of BDSM that excited me and fascinated me and there were some aspects that I went ..."No way..not going there " and never did...but BDSM was journey of which I discovered much about myself and my partner..I got to explore my sub side and also embrace my dominant side. I was fortunate that I had the ability to switch...however I also have to admit it was a phase that I embraced for a time and have now let go. I have found though that so many do not really understand exactly what BDSM is...Ive met so many since who really do think that BDSM is a excuse for "rough anal sex"..or as one male told me only recently - quote" for you to worship my cock and for me to use all your holes at any time, in any place, doing whatever I wish to them and for you to say No, when you really mean Yes"- um hello..this is not BDSM and his eyes glazed over when I tried to explain the gift of submissiveness..... However to each their own..as long as no one gets hurt either physically or mentally and all boundaries are respected and adherred to... For those who maybe a little interested in BDSM and the whole Sub/Master relationship - a excellent book to read on the subject is "Screw the Roses - Hand me the Thorns" Stay safe
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Brae, well as a couple who are novices to bdsm but looking to learn, we are hoping that this website might lead us to another couple who are hopefully a little more experienced, but who might be interested in sharing their knowledge and play with us:) We are just exploring different avenues to make some new friends for a few good adventures!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
We go to such sites as hellfire And see guys being abused mainly by women...walking on guys balls with heels and sticking pins thru his nads is a BIG turn off for us. Havent seen any pleasurable acts?? Sure we do the master and slave thing at times, but thats all part of role playing.. its fun and sexy...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't mind alil spanking but not really into pain as such :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like to be tied up and played with and used but I'm not into pain. I just like being naughty.
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