What does being a sub mean to you

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I am face to face with a very smart alpha male.   the rest is up to him

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  Mischeviouslad

  12 years ago

  I have yet to Tap Out.... to anyone lol DG

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  would be into all of those at different times (depending on my mood of course), except the last on...pfffft that's when he can become my slave

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  When I am in total control... :)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mezmerizingeyes0

  12 years ago

  The sub serves; the Master receives. But that does not mean that the sub has no sense of self, or self-worth.The Sub can have just as much power as the Master. the relationship can actually be viewed as a healthy relationship

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  For me, mostly private, teasing, with bits of the other categories. Not too hardcore

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  erotictouch4u

  12 years ago

  It happens to me every day ... just a fact of life living with a lazy woman LOL ET xox

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I like a loving teasing Dom. Helpful and guiding alpha male to take control. A bit of spanking is ok too - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Teasing corporal and domestic .... Thumbs up :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Have so much wild , hot , horny , times dominating a sub Fairly new at being a Dom but the orgasms rock !

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  So, in short, its all of the above, in degrees. I have no interest in a lady not being allowed to talk in public, nor do or would I expect a slave, as such to complete all domestic jobs.   so, using your post:   Public submission - sometimes - telling what to wear in public and certainly either not wearing underwear in public or specific underwear?   Private submission - the above but only in private.   Teasing submission - being tied up blindfolded, and teased but being told not to cum and if you do you will be punished?   Corporal submission - being spanked and restrained, not whips   Loving submission - being told what to do but if you fail playful punishment   mental submission - given tasks to do, no journals, however revealing fantasies and "making" her say things that may be intimidating or sexually confronting etc   Ultimately, its about taking, what she wants and needs to give....;)

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  kinky_master

  11 years ago

  In a BDSM scenario a submissive is what he or she wants to be. At the beginning of a relationship with a dominant the submissive will set her hard and soft limits and if he accepts them then that is their Dom/Sub relationship. But within that relationship the sub can be bratty and difficult, or compliant and obedient. So basically all the different points you mention are part of submission - yet it is your interpretation of it which will make your relationship. To me a Submissive would never disagree with her Master and obey him in alwyas in front of others unless he asks something that violates her limits. As a sub she should put his pleasure in front of hers and ensure he always cums first - yet we all life in the real world and enjoy sharing pleasure - so you would have to be a jackass to enforce that - lol However a sub should have want to look after her Master - do things for him both sexual and non sexual and expect no return. Yet a good master will want to do the same. So it's not that far different from a normal relationship. In my Opinion.

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