What gives you the nudge to go for a meet up?

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I meet when I'm ready not when someone else thinks I should. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  to meet asap, too many talk shit on here and I like to see them in the flesh to decide whether there is any attraction.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  but I also go with my gut. I like to message for a little while and get a feel for a person and if it feels right I go for it. I've been very lucky that I haven't yet met anyone I didn't like. I don't believe in messaging back and forth for too long though, there are some fairly important things that you can only figure out by seeing someone in the flesh...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'ralf74' to meet asap, too many talk shit on here and I like to see them in the flesh to decide whether there is any attraction. I struggle for things to talk about in an email exchange pretty quickly when I haven't actually met someone. Face to face all the way.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Thanks for the feedback; I definitely don't want to message endlessly; but there has to be something enticing and different before I make the move to swap numbers, and make plans.. Just hasn't happened yet (this year)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'ralf74' to meet asap, too many talk shit on here and I like to see them in the flesh to decide whether there is any attraction. Just had this conversation last night. I won't know if I could sleep with someone until I meet them face to face, so messaging for more than a few days doesn't add anything for me. Also, in my personal experience, the longer people chat online, the less likely it is they'll actually end up meeting.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  As soon as you have conversed with a person enough that you feel comfortable, you should arrange to meet quickly. Waiting around too long with sms ping-pong will only result in inevitable waning of interest.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Ralf and punk lotus ;) I'll message until the cows come home if needs be... But some just don't even intend meeting... Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I think that those wanting to meet after only a couple of messages are good signs they're a blow and go..... And they're pushy..... That said...... I tend to hold back as I know I either invest too much and come across as needy; or I don't invest enough and am seen to not care.... - Posted from rhpmobile

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  madotara69

  10 years ago

  Tara gets this sexy sparkle in her eyes now and then, that is enough for us. It works too. Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  OP a wingwoman or wingman is a very good thing to have in the swinging life style, but to find a good and reliable one is very hard indeed. With that of course come the reciprocation, you must be able to stand back ready with a high five or scowl and WTF if needed, but never a "You have gone to far". Your wing is always happy for your success, that in this metaphor is but a smile on your dial. Even better when in love with your wing (I like "wing" its both plural and singular in one, so appropriate for this situation.)

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'Sir_pumpulous' As soon as you have conversed with a person enough that you feel comfortable, you should arrange to meet quickly. Waiting around too long with sms ping-pong will only result in inevitable waning of interest. I've heard this before...

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Love to meet up,too,rather talking and talking,first i want to know if the person are real,then second,if i like the person, - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  maybe u r in hard time for now to get ur mate..i believe there someone else gonna waiting for u.. - Posted from rhpmobile

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