M50
What good is a face pic????
September 10 2010
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RHP User
14 years ago
HAHAHAHA WELL SAID I AGREE OOPS!!!!! WAY TO GO EMPTYSKUL
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RHP User
14 years ago
Great rant em! You're definately taking a step in the right direction as Forum seems to flush out the more discerning female & I'm sure your latest contribution will serve you well. Best of luck in your search. J :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Rhp is definetly a hard road to hoe. The size 8 blondes, yep nice to look at, but and big but, personally i would go out of my way to avoid those.There are tonnes of absolutely brilliant women on this site, and you will meet the best of them right here in the forums.They are the real women, the thinking....and feeling types....and you have already heard from one of the best...a woman who always excites my mind and body......but be warned she has a penchant for meaty bites with a solid 9"'s...lolSeriously though, its up to you to present your self in a real and honest manner, there is nothing a lady dislikes more than having smoke blown up her skirt........and they wil stick up for each other till the death, as will quite a few of us guys !So......treat everyone with respect, have a sense of fun and who knows who's interest you may peek!Good luck mate!Cheers Nev
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N4November
14 years ago
Personally, I find it very attractive when a man can spell....... Yes, those pics of sixpacks, big cocks and kinks in common are soooooooo appealiing but it all goes out the window when I get to their words.... and they can't spell. EPIC FAIL. Just be yourself - and heh - you're a very likeable guy - so I'm sure you'll be fine!!! If you get better results from body-parts - go with it! Do whatever works for you. That's what I like about RHP. Look forward to reading more :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hiya emtyWelcome to RHP forums! Fabulous rant, thanks for sharing.I'll be frank ... I'm much more into face pics than other more revealing photos, but I have to admit I probably would have skipped on by your pic. Not because you're unattractive, in fact you're plenty good looking, but because you look kind of scruffy and that implies a whole bunch of things I just can't be bothered dealing with in a man. I say implies deliberately, because I don't know you and don't know if any of those things would apply to you, but I do know that there are a lot of painfully annoying, crude, rude, tasteless men on here, and sorting the wheat from the chaff can be a chore. Therefore, I look at pics of course to see if I find a man attractive but also to see what I can learn about his character. In true human nature, I often make that judgment in a split second.It seems I probably would have been wrong with you. I laughed (in a good way) and was equal parts entertained and impressed by your rant. It was well written, honest, and revealed some kind of personal things about you. Plus, it was a bit funny :)So yep, there are plenty of annoying women on here who are well and truly up themselves. And plenty of crass, awful men. It's human nature to to judge people based on what they present of themselves and if all we have to go on is a pic, I guess people will draw their own conclusions about what the person behind the pic is like.My tip - don't rely on your pic, get amongst the forums or in chat (ideally on cam, face not cock), and meet people that way. Or change your pic, maybe I'm not the only person who would pass on by and while that mightn't be fair, it's still just a fact of life.Best of luck :)lilmiss x
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RHP User
14 years ago
Fabulous that you are being honest here... I like your pic "alot"...Adore your post... Just sift through the fakes and find some real people..like "hullo" lol Agree, hop into the forums known as the Ooze Pond lol..you do get to know people here... Good luck and relax! Perhaps look at the events and attend...It's alot of fun and you get to meet some wonderful RHPers who are serious about fun, company etc etc etc... Take care xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
its nice to hear all your views and thankyou for your advice i think ......actually i know now that the advice to get into forums is alot better than trolling thru search for someone to hang out with . And a big special thankyou to you blackstilletos ..... not sure :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Your very welcome xxxxxxxxxxx Keep chatting...You have essence my friend... xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
If I have learned anything about this site in the brief time that I have been here, it is that there is no one style of pic nor profile that is going to appeal to everyone and probably best to try to be yourself and don't stress. | I don't put face pictures up in my public gallery for a very simple reason...I am on a public speaking circuit across two very different business arenas throughout Australia. No, I am neither "famous" by any stretch of the imagination nor do I have an ego about that...but it is hard on a busy Saturday to walk through a shopping mall the size of say, Chadstone without running in to someone I know or that recognizes me. I prefer not to take that risk here so if a woman is interested and decides "no face pic, no reply"...I do have those in a private gallery and I am usually talking to a picture of cleavage or a corset anyway. Oh well. | The pictures? I had a few up for a while that were taken professionally for business reasons and were very high end? "Those look like they have been photoshopped" or "You look too serious." Change a few..."I like men that do wear suits...your public pictures must not be you." When you have what...200 or so men to every woman as the ratio, those that might look twice normally suddenly are shopping as though the limit were just taken off the charge card and they don't have to pay the bill when it comes in next month. Oh well. / Some of the others are equally amusing..."I don't lke men with beards" Mine is flawlessly groomed and if that were an issue with someone I wanted to spend time with...there is very little that would change in the way I look if I shaved and I do own a few razors. Conclusion? My beard has a personality. Oh well. And whatever you do...if you do just happen to own a "company car" that is a bit out of the ordinary or your watch is real and your suits are Armani...don't let on. "I am not in your league and you are a bit overwhelming." Conclusion: My toys have a personality, it does not matter that I was dead broke when I started working my backside off to earn them and am a product of all of that too. Oh well! / Last one...don't use too many words with more than three syllabels or you are arrogant and probably best to misspell a few words or blow the screen apart with 12 bold text in some shade of neon for emphasis. Oh well. / Short form...don't stress. The good ones that will be fun to be with and are equally grounded and confident in themselves will find you. | Then it's your turn and remember..."no" is a complete sentence regardless of gender!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Delight in who does... We all appeal to different people .. thank goodness as not everyone appeals to me... Sure a lot of people focus on the material things we have .. for some of us it shows that you have given life a red hot go.. but it doesnt have to be a ferrari or a city apartment for me... Take it easy and enjoy ' Sassy xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I wouldn't worry about it empty, it's just the way these sites work. It is interesting that a couple of replies have come from members who are the exact types you are talking about and trying to appear oh so innocent. Not going to mention names but there is at least 2 there.There are genuine ones out there but unfortunately the women get to take there pick from the hundreds of contacts they get and unless you stand out. I wouldn't count getting more views as anything special although it is a step in the right direction, wiont get a contact without a view. I would also be suspicious of any flirts you get because 95% of them come from scammers before the site shuts them down.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Do the nice sounding guys always live in other states good luck emty Great rant by the way. cheers pips
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RHP User
14 years ago
Firstly.. Well done with your profile, honnest and to the point and yay you have face pix!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just posted a question on whether the ladies like intimate photos or not. I had some face shots here but I took them down, dont want the risk of someone recognising me and dobbing me in to my wife. Could get ugly and I want to keep it deiscreet and private. I'm in a different situation to you I know empty, but I have been on other sites over the years and found similar experiences as you describe. It seems that for some people nothing is good enough, but I am hopefull that I will meet ladies here who can accept a person for what they are. It takes a big leap of faith to take the step to meet someone. How do you know that its not a scam? Could be a bloke with a camera in a closet. I guess you have to rely on your instincts, arrange a chat get a feel for the person and then move on. What I'm trying to say is that its just as scary for the blokes as it is for the ladies here. I've so far spoken to one lady here who seems very nice and genuine and certainly didnt comment adversly on my physivcal attributes. I'm no oil painting, i guess you are saying neither are you. I'm here for a bit yet, hang in there you've got a lot more going for you than I have! If it doesnt work out what have you lost? - Nothing, maybe you even gained something along the journy, I have even in the short time I've been here.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is that the worst case of naval lint in history or one helluva belly button wedgie? Can't for the life of me work it out.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Been wondering bout that as well. Look like some kinda painfull medical procedure has been visited upon MidnightOrJust some some new weird fetish i hav'nt caught up with yet!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Is that the worst case of naval lint in history or one helluva belly button wedgie? Can't for the life of me work it out..... I will have to check...I usaually do vacuum that too but it could be lint? Look closely and you will see that I one of my fingernails was a tad longer than the rest on the day the pictures were taken! / Add another one to the long list of defect of character!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Still none the wiser Middy, but hey, thanks for being a good sport & not going all postal over my question. Some ppl are so sensitive! Hey Nev, are you now wondering, as I am, as to the identity of the 2 alleged harridans in our midst? (courtesy of lovenlust) My guess is lovenlust is suffering from a severe case of knock-back-itis or a belly button wedgie. Odds on lilmissfussy & baygirl, only reason being they were the only two female replies apart from mine of course, & I know it isnt moi... lol (not accusing, simply musing)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry Emty but I would have passed you over because of your pic. I have very sensitive skin and kissing anyone with a beard leaves my face red raw and itchy no matter how soft the hair is. You seem well spoken and nice and you are very good looking so hang in there. I am sure you will find what you are looking for.
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RHP User
14 years ago
RHP Subscription...................................$120 Short back & sides with spikey top haircut......$25 Goatee trim and shave by barber................$10 White Bonds tee shirt..............................$12 Pack of TicTacs.....................................$2 Still not getting any RHP shags because most single women in your age group suffer mental disorders.... Priceless!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I went from boob to legs to face and have ahd mroe flirts and msgs from people with the face pic up than anything...but I do understand your position....some poeple are very judgemental about what they want and wont give some lovely people a chance....just remember to give the genuine ones a chance - we do actually exsist.... Kisses Focus
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RHP User
14 years ago
It's how they articulate their thoughts, feelings, etc. If you want to hear rather than read my thoughts and attitudes, let me know, I'm in North Sydney.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged' RHP Subscription...................................$120 Short back & sides with spikey top haircut......$25 Goatee trim and shave by barber................$10 White Bonds tee shirt..............................$12 Pack of TicTacs.....................................$2 Still not getting any RHP shags because most single women in your age group suffer mental disorders.... Priceless!!!! hey im offended by that....i dont suffer a mental disorder...well not a bad one anyway, im kinda normal, nearly fine you have a point...but id still shag the both of you lol roxxy
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RHP User
14 years ago
Getting back into the dating game is both intimidating and hard work. Lucky you are in Sydney, you have options. In Newcastle there are only a handful of females on this site, (two of whom have made comment to this post). Once you get brushed off by the, then you are pissing into the wind, or have to consider a long distance relationship. I really feel sorry for anyone who thinks that interned dating will deliver up a compatible partner at the push of an ‘Enter’ key. Any held with my profile would be greatly appreciated, as I have
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RHP User
14 years ago
Getting back into the dating game is both intimidating and hard work. Lucky you are in Sydney, you have options. In Newcastle there are only a handful of females on this site, (two of whom have made comment to this post). Once you get brushed off by the, then you are pissing into the wind, or have to consider a long distance relationship. I really feel sorry for anyone who thinks that interned dating will deliver up a compatible partner at the push of an ‘Enter’ key. Any help with my profile would be greatly appreciated, as I have
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi - I am a female. And good on you! About time someone told the truth. I agree with you completely. Don't read a book by its cover and certainly don't judge anyone until you have walked a mile in their shoes. I really wish you the best of luck.
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tank__girl
14 years ago
I'm sorry to hear about your lack of success you've had on rhp thus far emtyskull, but yeah I say 'Good things come to those who wait'? Keep your face pic up, I definately prefer to see a persons own unique smile over a 'seen one seen em all' dick pic. And Nev, you also say "The size 8 blondes, yep nice to look at, but and big but, personally i would go out of my way to avoid those". Then in the next breath you say "So......treat everyone with respect, have a sense of fun and who knows who's interest you may peek!"......? Avoid ALL females, that just happen to be a size 8 with blonde hair? Oooo kayyy..? Nice? Have you met ALL the sized 8 blondes in Australia to make your comment justifiable?! I'm sure if one those mean and nasty blonde 'hotties' was to give it up for either of you, you'd jump at the chance! Why aviod them, to avoid rejection? :P But anyway, not my point. I have been a size 8 blonde before, and also not by choice have been a size 18 brunette, and everything inbetween!? ...now back to a healthy 12-14 brunette. It makes me think about the post I was reading yesterday about people watching, and different peoples behaviours. Although it also takes me back to when I was slowly converting from the sexy, size 10 (68 kgs, I'm 6ft) blonde to the plump, pregnant size 18(108 kgs) brunette. It was my body changing not me! But peoples reactions to the way I looked, and the way some peoples total behaviour and personalities changed toward me, from the person I'd known when I was 'attractive', it was just awful. People I had known for years...it was pretty harsh, and tough to deal with when you know your obviously not looking or feeling the best. Those people I felt are not worth knowing. Please give everyone a chance. I now have a totally different view on 'overweight' people, I feel sorry for them!! If it's not their fault, it really does suck....alot, to be overweight! To be judged, talked about and even not spoken to because of the amount of weight you are carrying...? It's really not a fun life. But it seems you can't win i this world!? If you're a confident, attractive, sized 8 woman you're instantly classed as a Hottie, but also a snob...and people still don't want to talk to you?? I was told a year ago by a gf "geee, you've put it on in the ass love". Honest friends are the best friends haha..I've now lost a bit of weight, so last week she tells me "Oh Love!? You're losing your ass!"...WTF!? Should I put some weight back on now....what is the 'right' sized ass anyway, geeezzzzz.....lets just try and love one another for who we are not the size of our asses! Through all the weight fluctuations, I remained the same loving, affectionate, kind, cheeky, flirtatious, horny girl on the inside. You normally say "oh it's what's on the inside that counts" when it comes to 'not so attractive people', but it seems some people need to apply this to everyone of all sizes and makes. That's all for now.........Good luck emtyskull, maybe you could consider a name change?? Not the best of first impressions for me sorry... But if you like it, good for you! X
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hahah, bootycallgirl you rock!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Perhaps i should of said the princesses, which is what i was refering to :) Cheers Nev
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi Nev, I was wondering why you say treat everyone with respect (which I totally agree with) however you also said you would avoid the size 8 blonde !!!!! well I am a size 8 Blonde so isnt that a little judgmental?? Stereotype ?? How can you give advice about being respectfull and then dog a group of people because of their looks or the colour of their hair? Surely if your giving advice on starting a relationship and meeting lots of wonderfull girls off this site which there are lots he should try meeting as many people as possible. Just a thought, but I did agree with the rest of your advice hehe
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yeah poor choice of words.......I do actually know some lovely petite ladies, What i should of said was princesses......and yep i will go out of my way to avoid them! I have had some less than great experiences! So i guess i respect them also.....kinda like the respect you would give to anything that may harm you.Glad to see people will step in and pull me up when i fuck up!Cheers Nev.......Sincere apologies to all non princess size 8 blondes, brunnetttes and others!
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RHP User
14 years ago
visting perth soon
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey emtyskull! I'm a blonde, size 10, possibly hot chick (...don't want to sound like i have an inflated opinion of myself) and personally - I love your face pic. I'm a guest and can't see your restricted pics (bugger) but if I was single again, I'd definitely give you one. I'm probably attracted because I do love a bad boy and that said, your face pics do look a bit like mug shots - might be a tad scary for some women. You sound loyal and genuine - something that is bloody hard to find nowadays. You sound like you deserve a gorgeous, loyal, genuine woman and i'm sure you will find what you are looking for - just probably not on RHP. Good luck hun. Sharon xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
Since throwing my melon on I have had some interest. No pic nothin. Face, full body probably getsbetter results. Depends on the bait you wanna dangle. lmao Stick to face should pay off good luck
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