What happened to manners????

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I think the lack of manners speaks volumes.All part of sifting and sorting, who you want to have contact with. .x Hugs H

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Swinging or not I only want contact with people with manners, it isn't hard to be polite. But you are so right, makes decisions easy

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  All I did was pass, but the tone can be taken the wrong way sometimes and on later reflection one might express differently. I have found the "block" button helpful when the person or people who I have said a polite no to send a steady stream of bile my way and stalk my profile thereafter til I block them..., but it makes responding sometimes even politely a bit of a question mark. But I forgive anyone who has pissed me off as much or more than they forgive me any fault I might make. X

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  ... a lot of folk here lurv assholes ;-) He he, just saying xx

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  There are of course people you just can't be polite too, no matter how hard you want to. There is always an asshole out there who believes you should just drop at their feet cause they worked out how to post a pic of their dick/vagina. These people you can be polite as you want and it won't matter. I guess I'm just talking if I say sent Brunhild a message (haven't read you profile so shooting blind here :)) saying: "Hi, your profile sounds just like someone I would like to meet and I seem to match what you seek, like to grab a coffee or chat here for a bit and see what happens?"She may not even have a tiny bit of interest but how hard is it to just say: "Thanks Andrew, yes we do seem to have a few things in common but you are not quite what I am looking for, good luck and thank you" I retain my dignity and she has said no? Surely this type of response is not too much to expect, took me 17 seconds to type the reply.How you put yourself across is how you are remembered, first impressions are everything

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  guys sometimes its nice to simply use your manners when contacting women on here read the profile if your not a 100% sure if the lady your going to contact is everything you hope or want please dont waste her time by texting her for a couple of days and building the meeting up then at the last minute say sorry ive thought about it and your only a year older than my mother so no its not happening did that not cross your mind at the start of reading the profile if you want an older women think about the age limit first and dont go above it as some of us women have feelings too ive had over 900 messages and even more flirts in the last 6 weeks and sorry i dont have time to waste because the time i waste replying to guys like this the genuine ones miss out or end up thinking i dont give a crap about them when its really because of time wasters so guys word of advice my profile is written in plain english read it thoroughly before making contact thankyou P.S this also applies to the guys that think talking dirty gets me off ive got news for you not all women are into being told you want to ramm your huge cock so hard into their wet pussy til you make me moan and scream in pain or your going to face fuck them til they choke and swallow all your cum( really this makes you sound so up yourself its not funny and i dont know if youve had much luck with women talking that way maybe some but i doubt it ) guys their are some women on here that deserve respect how bout you learn to show some thanks P.P.S i dont mean to offend anyone with my comments only the pigs who deserve it

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I think the whole can't take a hint thing is actually part of the problem?Hint's are often misconstrued or just totally missed.. Also, hinting at stuff is borderline manipulative. Ask for what you want. Be clear."Hey, you seem nice enough. But I'm just not interested. Please don't contact me anymore."It's not rude and It can't be misunderstood. From another post I read this by Rachel001..A QUOTE FROM DR SUESS: Say what you mean and act how you feel, because those who matter wont mind, and those who mind, don't matter.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  True, there is no excuse for rudeness. But I would have to say that a non reply is something that I no longer consider rude if in fact I ever did. I was amazed at how many flirts and messages some of the women and couples get on this site. It staggered me. I messages a good friend on here and she missed my message because she had a couple of pages of them to go through. I really don't get the steady stream of hate mail though! I have only been on the receiving end of it and then only infrequently but there is just no excuse for that. Its all supposed to be about fun on here :) I try to leave my attitude at the door when I have one anyways lol

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Absolutely, thats at the top of my list !!! and respect .Even if to chat or simply to have a fun time I expect to be treated with respect and good table manners if you are lucky enough pass second date and we go for dinner.TABLE MANNERS !!! very important guys , pay more attention.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Fuck 'em! Play hard and go home dirty!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  ....always a sexy trait.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'beachbelle' Quoting 'andyg6911' There are of course people you just can't be polite too, no matter how hard you want to. There is always an asshole out there who believes you should just drop at their feet cause they worked out how to post a pic of their dick/vagina. These people you can be polite as you want and it won't matter. I guess I'm just talking if I say sent Brunhild a message (haven't read you profile so shooting blind here :)) saying:"Hi, your profile sounds just like someone I would like to meet and I seem to match what you seek, like to grab a coffee or chat here for a bit and see what happens?"She may not even have a tiny bit of interest but how hard is it to just say: "Thanks Andrew, yes we do seem to have a few things in common but you are not quite what I am looking for, good luck and thank you" I retain my dignity and she has said no? Surely this type of response is not too much to expect, took me 17 seconds to type the reply.How you put yourself across is how you are remembered, first impressions are everything Omg now she has to write a novel back to you? Who can be bothered. Thanks but no thanks does it in my books and if they dont get that then theyre not gonna get the novel either. Who cares about first impressions on here if its all nsa sex? Noone gives a fuck. Its all about the pretty pics and the size of your boobs. Men dont care about much else really. Nobody owes anyone anything on here, least of all a reply. Anyone with good manners does not have they are looking for stress relief on their profile. Pot calling the kettle black really. Really Belle? We are certainly different people. No, I really don't expect a novel or a life story in reply. I only expect manners, you know what they are right? Yes, Stress Relief is on my profile, very observant. I can however assure you my manners are impeccable. I still however can have hot steamy no strings attached swing from the rafters sex and still retain manners. You can still be looking for a "quick fix" and still have manners. When couldn't I have sex with someone? One of the reasons would be if they were a self serving arrogant pig.................

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  What if the act of "stress relief" was actually just having some down time and being here, RHP, and relaxing What if its not? After said releif I would use my manners and say thank you. My reply you quoted was purley an example, the point was however a reply of any sort. The first time, perhaps I should have added. If someone asks you the same question 10 times and just won't take a hint, fine, but seriously, is it hard? You make it sound, and nicely twisted my words I might add, that I am the prude manners police. Not true, I just expect to be treated same as you. If you send someone a message, are you not expecting an answer?   Anyway, we can too and fro forever. You have different expectations of people, no real need to ridcule my beliefs. I believe in the need for manners and always will

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  But yes you are righ, my manners did escape me. My name is Andrew, opinionated but generally quite friendly guy 6 mths single after 23 years marriage. Why am I here? Sometimes/most times a have no clue at all

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