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What is a great head job - what actually makes it great.

October 31 2011

Having recently asked, whether women do love sucking cock (long story - separate topic) and seems there has been a fairly positive response of yes (with conditions), left me wondering -   Guys, how about some comments for the women, what is it we like best, or what is it that makes a great head, well great?   Me, love the depth, and like fairly soft and slow.   Anyone?

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  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Although I have no doubt there are plenty of women who could talk underwater - I find most cannot talk and give head at the same time..... Ahhhhh the serenity that oral sex provides!!! . I am yet to meet anyone who needs instruction, so don't really give it much thought. If I had to write a rule book Rule 1 Enthusiasm... if you see it as a chore and feel compelled to give head just because it's 'expected', don't bother. . Rule 2 Variety... it's pretty easy to make me cum. Shit I can do it with just one hand. Repitition is the answer - but why would you want to make me cum quickly (Unless we're in the back of a cab or I need to get you back before curfew lol)? The key to good head is to not letting me cum, but keep me so close to cumming that I'm ready to sue you... so work over the tip of my cock, then work my shaft, and my balls. Use your hand.. then use nothing but your mouth. Use your lips, then nothing but your tongue. Then use nothing but your eyes (no not literally!), you know what I mean. As a simple guide... if you need to bring me closer to cumming, work the tip of my cock.. either with your lips and tongue, or take it deep into your mouth and massage it with the back of your mouth... If you think I'm getting too close to cumming then it's time to back off.... so work on the areas less erogenous (but still craving your mouth) gently lick the tip and run your tongue down my shaft to let me cool down a little. Have you teased me enough? If you think so, give it another minute of gentle teasing maybe lick or roll my balls around in your hand before you take my cock back into your mouth and give me a thorough going over. Feel me growing bigger in your mouth.... get me close... then slow down again. You can do this as long as you like... trust me I won't grow tired of it.. you're just going to make my orgasm more intense with each warm up and cool down... so while I might look frustrated and desparate to cum, you're doing me the most massive favour holding out. Then when I least expect it work me up again... and when you get to the point where you would normally slow down, throw me a curveball and fuck my cock with your mouth.... hard, like your life is depending on it. Use your hand to stroke the shaft, tighten your lips around the tip as you slide up and down my tip, run the tongue roughly against my glans and then let me slide deeper into your mouth with each stroke. You'll have me cumming in no time! . Someone professional once stated here that a good headjob should last at least an hour! Sure - that's a fair workout for your neck and mouth muscles - but trust me, I'm super-competitive... so if you think you've excelled at giving me head, well I am going to have to outdo you... and so the snowball begins!!! It's win-win. . Hmmm.... I'm feeling a tad horny now.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Hope for a few comments about the silence.     Love rule 1. Couldn't agree more.     Hope some women take note of th,e holding at the peak comments from JG.   Don't mind telling the guys we can't do oral right, or commenting that guys are finished too quick and gone.   Not too many guys will complain no matter how it's done, but the question is what makes a GREAT head job.   JG, too right can do it one handed, and blindfolded at the same time.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/So-GUYSblow-jobs-31432-Page4

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/So-GUYSblow-jobs-31432-Page4Hehe.... how come you got that as a bookmark Meeks?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Sounds to me like JG's been watching a very talented person at work. ROFL. Whilst that's an awful lot of instruction to take in - it's clearly a subject he's passionate about ... I think the key is to mix it up. . Definitely read the link Meeka's added - I too have it bookmarked LOL .. Do what you love, love what you do and you will do it well. . Flirty x

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    ...do you like to be tied down while you get your head job?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    or should that be looking down at the top of my head....hehe I like that JG I guess it's easy to get carried away for us girls while we're in amongst it Lol So next time I'm going to follow your advice and drag it out a lil bit . Recap: Tease......heat it up.....ease off....tease.....draw it out.....make you die to cum....then suck it like I stole it right? I'm all over it

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Agree on the enthusiasm for sure. It's neat if the lady comes up for air and a chat between rounds after all it is called oral so talking can be incorporated. Playful. Cheeky. Lusty. Leisurely and intent inter dispersed with adoration of the member...and if the facial expression arises during orgasm like she's going to get battery acid squirted in her eyes...well, frankly that's a bit or an anticlimax to an otherwise great blow job. (along with reaching, running to a sink to expell the venom or even the sideshow clown look awaiting the ping pong ball...) finish as it started, in style. Also grip, frequency and lubrication are important but that's individual to the Blowee and imagination by the Blower.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    great head is when its not more than 3/4 of an inch of foam... too much head and you just cant get to the beer without foam on your face

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'D_G_T' or should that be looking down at the top of my head....hehe I like that JG I guess it's easy to get carried away for us girls while we're in amongst it Lol So next time I'm going to follow your advice and drag it out a lil bit . Recap: Tease......heat it up.....ease off....tease.....draw it out.....make you die to cum....then suck it like I stole it right? I'm all over it  I think you've got it, You, Meeks and Flirty would put together a formidable team. Tag team that is

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'MistressT'...do you like to be tied down while you get your head job? But I just love running my fingers through hair and touching, stroking the body of the other.... I reckon I'd be missing out on something tied up... so would they...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Got it in one. I doubt if many can add to your discription. Talking with a mouth full? You have been running with the wrong crowd...of course we can but nicely brought up girls are told to NOT talk with thier mouth full. Doesnt mean we cant l It is so much fun to bring a man to the brink and make him wait..... for a while.....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    receiving head from someone who truly enjoys her work........if she loves it, then its a real treat...if not? why even bother?........ luckily though, my gal loves oral play...and is an adept...theres a reason orgasm is called "la petit mort".....or 'the little death'.....as its truly something 'to die for'..............kill me slowly though honey? please?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    well written.   I love long full length stroking with the hand in between the deep mouth plunges and correct me if i'm wrong but the deeper into the throat, the more 'lubricating' (very different) the saliva, that's when things get really good!   Enthusiasm is absolutley Number 1 though, like it was the last ice cream on earth, 53 degrees in the shade and if you dont ENJOY it, then the next person gets to keep it!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm an expert at something... Knowing how I like my cock sucked... woohoo. Mum is going to be so proud!!!

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    13 years ago

    Well I have never had a bad one.........

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    You've got to love giving head. I love going down a woman and girls you know when a man enjoys that. It's no different for us. Oh and get my nuts licked and sucked that always works.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Jaysus J_G, Love your tutorial!!   Even though I'm off work sick... that's getting me a tad toey just reading about that!