What is it that makes you go yes the x factor?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Its when I meet someone, we are getting on really well and I just keep looking at him and thinking, "I want to rip your clothes off and have you right now!" If thats not there, its not on. As well as a connection, the sexual chemistry has to be there.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  How they make me feel

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Its words, of course there has to be a physical attraction but if you can turn me on through messages and conversation and not just dirty talk but flirting, innuendo and your brain then I'm putty in your hands 👄 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  lovman8

  9 years ago

  and it's very hard to define. Its a combination of intelligence, sense of humour, attitude and looks and body type, Even the proportions of each of these factors vary from person to person in an unexplainable way. If fact the whole unpredictability of your reaction to a woman is one alluring things that makes life interesting.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  but presentation is important to me - it might be shallow but show up in something off the floordrobe and it just says to me you don't give a sh*t . I always make an effort and appreciate the person i'm meeting making an effort too .

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Is hard to define isn't it? Yep all of the above but in addition - seeing the raw hunger in his eyes. And how his body is drawn to mine - not that he cops a feel. But like there's a magnetic force. And his body language - too hard to explain but almost as if he is slightly animalistic? It's very different from being out there and abrupt.

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  PurePeony

  9 years ago

  I love confident, masculine and dominant men. (Not aggressive or pompous, mind you!) I've got a strong personality and can be quite stubborn and a man who can't stand up to me and be my match is viewed to have "weaker" mettle. I like my men taller, stronger, bigger, smarter and wittier. Those alpha male pheromones are hot hot hot!!! Otherwise, I grow impatient, bored and restless and kinda trample over them. To paraphrase Jessica Rabbit, "I'm not bad. I'm just made that way."

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  It's a combination of personality, demeanor, intelligence, conversational ability, and looks. There are many multiple combinations of those traits that can do it for me, so I can't specify any one thing. I know the combination is right when I want to jump on them and do them then and there

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  MrMechanic

  9 years ago

  The vibe.And their pupils.And their lips and hands.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  some have it, some don't, and if they have it and know how to use it, all the other fussy wants go flying out the window for me though, body is important. It's not that I think I'm anything special, it's just taste and what turns me on. I've been in situations where I was turned off when the clothes came off, so sometimes have long stretches between hookups now because I'm so fussy, but that won't change. If I'm being intimate with someone, I have to be full on turned on by them, and feel that in return, if not, it doesn't happen. I'm so horny, there are days where I think, just take the first guy who messages me lol yeah nah

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I turn down a lot of hot guys through lack of trust so that has to be there

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  PurePeony

  9 years ago

  Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' some have it, some don't, and if they have it and know how to use it, all the other fussy wants go flying out the window for me though, body is important. It's not that I think I'm anything special, it's just taste and what turns me on. I've been in situations where I was turned off when the clothes came off, so sometimes have long stretches between hookups now because I'm so fussy, but that won't change. If I'm being intimate with someone, I have to be full on turned on by them, and feel that in return, if not, it doesn't happen. I'm so horny, there are days where I think, just take the first guy who messages me lol yeah nah __________________________________________________________________________________________________ I get those days too! LOL!!! Tried it once when I was new to this site, and absolutely HATED it and then hated myself for ever allowing that to happen. Never again!

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  PurePeony

  9 years ago

  Never underestimate the power of Pheromones! Mr Dream Boat smelled so wonderful when I laid there beside him. At first, I couldn't quite pinpoint what that "fragrance" was. It definitely wasn't the manufactured, contrived smell of perfume or deodorant. And then it occured to me... Pheromones! I can't quite describe the smell but it drove me crazy with desire! I mean Hawaii giant wave-sized desire! You cannot artificially replicate that sort of attraction. Sigh...

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