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What is it with Tyrekickers?
July 10 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well most people would have a few people on the go...... so they probably got a better offer or a sure thing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
They feel the need to gain a conscience at the wrong time ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
With eyes like yours I know I would not pass you up....
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RHP User
10 years ago
seeing most men whine about how they get so little attention then as soon as they get some, they back away. Makes no sense to me either.
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goldcoastcple69
10 years ago
theyre busy kicking tyres around lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' seeing most men whine about how they get so little attention then as soon as they get some, they back away. Makes no sense to me either. You are so right, It makes no sense at all
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' They feel the need to gain a conscience at the wrong time ;) - Posted from rhpmobile It is always a bad time for me, cause Im usually really keen by that point.. LOL
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Harrisson68' With eyes like yours I know I would not pass you up.... Thanks hunGuess Im not everyones cup of tea though
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Well most people would have a few people on the go...... so they probably got a better offer or a sure thing. I think Meeka nailed it here. took up another offer, I find they often come back
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RHP User
10 years ago
especially with the guys aged 25-35 and those that have cock shots as profile pics. I'm not saying all of them, but from what we have experienced they seem more likely to text and run. Why? Attatched and living vicariously, they are here for an ego boost and for sexting and photo's, a better offer, performance anxiety or losing their nerve, can't match what they have offered, don't want to meet in public first, preferring "stranger sex", wanked over your photo's once too often and just loose interest.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'zappeddancer' Quoting 'Harrisson68' With eyes like yours I know I would not pass you up.... Thanks hunGuess Im not everyones cup of tea though You can be my Earl Grey anytime ! (wink)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Were they validated??? :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Were they validated??? :p - Posted from rhpmobile Why would that make a difference. Besides who bothers with validations anyway.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
"Im not sure about other women's experience but recently I've had a few men who have appeared to be super keen, ready to go, hot to trot (whatever other term you want to use) and then either not turn up, make some lame excuse or just stop messaging all together.What about everyone else? Please tell me I'm not the only one" The wife changed her plans that day.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What age group are you finding the most unreliable babe?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' Were they validated??? :p - Posted from rhpmobile you know I didn't really check, oops silly me. Lesson learnt. See Im still to new to this site I think. Thanks for the tip
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' "Im not sure about other women's experience but recently I've had a few men who have appeared to be super keen, ready to go, hot to trot (whatever other term you want to use) and then either not turn up, make some lame excuse or just stop messaging all together.What about everyone else? Please tell me I'm not the only one" The wife changed her plans that day. Yeah I have to agree with that
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Melbourne_Babe' What age group are you finding the most unreliable babe? I usually look at the 35- 55 age groupI think they are often married although they will say singleIm still learning, But I am a quick study
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes there are alot of tyrekickers around. It has happened to me a few time,I just move on its there loss not yours. If it is a legitimate excuse thats fine but to not turn up with out letting the person no is shit. U have to respect people. I have never stood some one up. If you have other plans or work just let them no asap. But there are plenty more fish in the sea,and with those eyes U should have fish jumping at you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
*Chasing an ego boost? For some its all about the chase and once they've caught their prey they move on *Married men - see above *Nervousness - maybe its not you at all but once they've talked a big game know they've set unrealistic expectations and can't live up to them *Another offer - especially one that guarantees sex on the first meet *Some men are just assholes lol...much the same as some women are just bitches...not everyone is a nice person and unfortunately they are out there *A legitamite excuse - though a phomnecall in advance sould cancel this one out
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RHP User
10 years ago
OP, its not you. it has happened to most of us here. There seems to be a lot of flies buzzing around the honeypots but they can't make commit to diving in. It is pretty frustrating but you have to be patient until you find those 1 or 2 good, regular, reliable contacts to eventuate and you can kick the tyre kickers to the curb. And agreed about your eyes. It's eerie how they follow me around the room.
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
Its the same for men on here, only in a far greater way. Look upon it as their lost opportunity.
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
After being strung along the other night. That it's some kind of a powerplay. I mean essentially single girls willing to play, or couples looking for men are desirable because there's actually an outcome on the cards for some lucky guy. So when No-show Joe, Piking Mike or Sleeping Tom fail to show they're actually taking women out of the pool, and away from other guys who would actually show up. Yes, of course there's the 'better offers' which may have come up but that lack of respect to man up and cancel without some lame-arse excuse AFTER the no-show displays, in my mind, a tendency towards trying to hold the power, in an Alpha Male kind of way - although a true Alpha Male would behave in a way that would result in respect from their peers (other single guys) so maybe it's more true to say 'hold the power in a manipulative loser kind of way' instead. Honestly, unless you were insensitive and self-absorbed why would you ruin other people's nights when they have multiple options on the table, as most single women would...?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Smilingwithfun' Its the same for men on here, only in a far greater way. Look upon it as their lost opportunity. Im learning that lesson too, thanks
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' After being strung along the other night. So when No-show Joe, Piking Mike or Sleeping Tom fail to show they're actually taking women out of the pool, and away from other guys who would actually show up. Hahahaha I love those terms, my new favourite sayings.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think alot of them are all bark n no BITE!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ditto..Ditto... You guys nailed it Exactly! - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
10 years ago
Over committing and best offer is redeemed at final moments. Maybe some offers are simply plan b in case plan a fails. We all have different definition for what nsa means. For some it can mean no courtesy attached.
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hardnslow
10 years ago
This site appears too attract these types and they are both sexes not just the guys. How many emails go unanswered? I can assure you that if I make a date for a meet I will be there if for some reason I cant make it you will be the second too know. Guys that lead you fine women along are arseholes pure and simple, just like going to am auction and someone bidding on an item with no intention of buying it is just a game to some fools. Kama will get them, I can assure you they don't know what they are missing. Hang in there Dancer
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some people protect themselves from being rejected or hurt by having a plan B.... I've found myself 'activated' as a plan B, and trust me, that guy is no longer on the list of friends I play with. It's about respect for others time, for common courtesy. Have found that tyre kickers are not kind to others ;(
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'up4hottimes' Yes there are alot of tyrekickers around. It has happened to me a few time,I just move on its there loss not yours. If it is a legitimate excuse thats fine but to not turn up with out letting the person no is shit. U have to respect people. I have never stood some one up. If you have other plans or work just let them no asap. But there are plenty more fish in the sea,and with those eyes U should have fish jumping at you. Thank you I am learning quickly and realise it is their issue not mine but it is good to discuss it openly
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'hardnslow' This site appears too attract these types and they are both sexes not just the guys. How many emails go unanswered? I can assure you that if I make a date for a meet I will be there if for some reason I cant make it you will be the second too know. Guys that lead you fine women along are arseholes pure and simple, just like going to am auction and someone bidding on an item with no intention of buying it is just a game to some fools. Kama will get them, I can assure you they don't know what they are missing. Hang in there Dancer Just like when I make a date I honour it too, I also know id prefer a fine wine than a cheap bottle of passion pop
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'rupamohan' For some it can mean no courtesy attached. That's gold hun, thanks
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RHP User
10 years ago
This is gonna always be a problem. The anonimity of The internet makes people braver, alas the reality of it all becomes all to real once they/we (yes I include myself as I've pycked on a swing party once, my loss from what I heard) unchain themselves from the monitor and webcam. I look at many (probably too many) profiles and wonder what will we have to bring to each other's table, in most cases I can't answer that and move on, but now when I do actually make a commitment I follow thru, anyway at my age if I kicked a tyre I'd just bust a toe.
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RHP User
10 years ago
we've been super keen many times, based on what we've seen on pics, what we've chatted about and what the other person/people liked and wanted.....sadly tho, the reality is quite often very different, and when you get to drinks and conversation...pre play stuff.....it all goes rushing away
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are lots of forum topics related to it, girls say it's the guys who always dissappoint and never show up. Guys say its the girls who let them down. I think it's just PEOPLE. PEOPLE suck, and are generally unreliable! I've never stood someone up but I have had some bizarre last minute cancellations happen to me, although mostly I've found it's women under 30 who are the lest reliable, older women 35+ usually come through with the goods :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Invisible_Donkey' This is gonna always be a problem. The anonimity of The internet makes people braver, alas the reality of it all becomes all to real once they/we (yes I include myself as I've pycked on a swing party once, my loss from what I heard) unchain themselves from the monitor and webcam. I look at many (probably too many) profiles and wonder what will we have to bring to each other's table, in most cases I can't answer that and move on, but now when I do actually make a commitment I follow thru, anyway at my age if I kicked a tyre I'd just bust a toe. I think there are a number of people who come on the site to get off (don't we all sometimes). They talk a good game until the orgasm hits then they off doing other things. Dissappointing
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Invisible_Donkey' anyway at my age if I kicked a tyre I'd just bust a toe. Yeah me too .... hahaha
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks everyone for your insights and humour on the topic. I find it crazy that people will stand others up when this essentially a sex site, but as some of you have stated, everyone has their own agendas and sometimes it isn't about meeting for sex but pining for something they don't have, have lost or just to live a secret life. Some people are strange yes, we all live different lives and it is a journey/ adventure / roller coaster of a ride.I really enjoy this site and these forums are such a great way to talk to people you may not normally get the chance to. The few I have actually met are awesome and I look forward to all the adventures that await me.Non-Tyrekickers UNITE!!!!!
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hardnslow
10 years ago
Quoting 'zappeddancer' Quoting 'hardnslow' This site appears too attract these types and they are both sexes not just the guys. How many emails go unanswered? I can assure you that if I make a date for a meet I will be there if for some reason I cant make it you will be the second too know. Guys that lead you fine women along are arseholes pure and simple, just like going to am auction and someone bidding on an item with no intention of buying it is just a game to some fools. Kama will get them, I can assure you they don't know what they are missing. Hang in there Dancer Just like when I make a date I honour it too, I also know id prefer a fine wine than a cheap bottle of passion pop I am sure you agree fine wine goes with fine sex
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RHP User
10 years ago
I subscribe to that theory...recently I was contacted by a man who said in his message that he was always intrigued by me and that he was coming to Brisbane for a few days..his profile picture was very similar to a former forum posters.....he opened his pg but did not make his face pic available....In my reply I asked if we had met and could I see a face pic....I was immediately blocked...Perhaps many other women received the same message :-) ....I do think a little mind game was being played ,and I doubt that he had any intention of actually meeting me...so Mr.V,if you are reading this ,I am sorry if I offended your delicate sensibilities xQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
…I last messaged and chatted with the fine ladies of RHP several months ago( courting, if youwill…it was too much hard work…and I want to live a simpler, less stressful life for now ), but I imagine most men and probably all the women( being in the privileged minority here ) are communicating with multiple potential friends at once. Where possible.I kind of feel that when no promises are made, there is no obligation to maintain a "Long term conversation".Though, I agree that there is no excuse for standing up a date, lying to avoid one or other devious machinations. Living to my own code is what keeps me happy in the end. It doesn't require hurting anyone else.And that's all that matters.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Just like a dog.......... they love to chase the tyres round and round in circles, super keen and when they eventually do end up with it, have no friggin idea what they'll actually do with it. Eventually they'll soon get hit by one and they'll stop! Foxy *My post was not actually referring to hurt animals in any shape or form.
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RHP User
10 years ago
if I make a date to see some one I stick to it. A woman might show interest in me and send a wink, I'll wink back yes or no. Then leave it up to the her to make contact. I have been a member and payed to be able to send messages, only to be ignored, so now if someone is interested they can make the effort. I'll stick to the women from the forums that actually want to chat.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have had the same problem though with females and also couples. They seem keen "yes we must catch up" then it is "sorry too busy" and then nothing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A lot of us have probably been stood up more than once. I know I have. I've been on here for just under a year and I must say I have met some great people, and made a few friends along away. I'm starting to get very bored with the messaging back and forth, then you don't hear from someone for a few weeks and suddenly it's "Hey babe, how are you?". Or you get exactly the same introductory message you got 6 months ago. Anyway, now I mainly just stick around for the forums, go to the drinks nights and chat to some of the friends I have made. I think I'm just about done on here.
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compressor
10 years ago
they should do the right thing and follow through. how would they like it being done to them
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
However at the end of the day if one is just chatting and do plan to met...there really is no obligation. I believe sometimes it's ones own expectations. I know as it's happened to me...I've never had a no show however I do get disappointed if they disappear like a magician. It's happened twice to me, so I guess it was 1/2 my own fault in a way. I had expectations being followed through and I invested in them..my own Doing. It's their loss not mine at the end of the day. I didn't loose my dignity or spirit. As they say, Life still goes on. 😀😃😄 Foxy
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