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What is the definition of a big one

June 15 2011

I'm finding it more and more common place that if a married/attached/open relationship woman wants to find somebody that you have to fit into the category of big or over 8 inches of manhood. I can accept this expection of what a woman does and doesn't want as we are all here for our own reasons and not to be judged or understand that rejection is part of the online dating game. So back onto the matter at hand what is an acceptable or unacceptable package that makes a woman happy. I look forward to your comments.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ..But preferably it does come hard neat and tidy,manscaped all the way baby..and MOST of all it has a nice set of abs set firmly in place above that I can run my hands along mmmmmmmmmmm .......nope I dont ask for much....

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    If someone came at me with 8+ inches, I'd tell them to put it away. There is NO WAY that is going anywhere near my bits! To me - 6 - 7 inches feels huge! So to say that all, or even most, married women require someone of 8+ inches is completely uneducated! This is kind of off the subject but... In the Kama Sutra - it explains that women and men are matched sexually according to size of the penis, and depth of the vagina. Men are divided into 3 categories - Sasa (hare), Vrishna (bull) and Asva (elephant)... The women are also - Mrigi (doe), Badava (cow) and Hastini (she-elephant). Obviously, the most desirable is one where your size & depth match... It's all a game of finding your right match! (MRS) foreverlove

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'foreverlove7985' If someone came at me with 8+ inches, I'd tell them to put it away. There is NO WAY that is going anywhere near my bits! To me - 6 - 7 inches feels huge! So to say that all, or even most, married women require someone of 8+ inches is completely uneducated! This is kind of off the subject but... In the Kama Sutra - it explains that women and men are matched sexually according to size of the penis, and depth of the vagina. Men are divided into 3 categories - Sasa (hare), Vrishna (bull) and Asva (elephant)... The women are also - Mrigi (doe), Badava (cow) and Hastini (she-elephant). Obviously, the most desirable is one where your size & depth match... It's all a game of finding your right match! (MRS) foreverlove OR... you could get a mate in to lend a hand... or fist... or whatever the case may be! Is that in the KS? I mean... it should be... a bit of tag team action never goes astray!!HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    The length is not an issue for me but I find a good width (around 2 inches) is very pleasurable. . On the upside to having a small cock is the fact that I can play over and over without getting sore. The wider, longer ones require a bit of a recovery period between "monster sessions". . And... there's the question of anal... it's MUCH more pleasant with a "pencil dick" than a long fat cock ! . Hugs, Sat

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    The definition of big is one that comfortably fills you up and provides satisfaction. Those ladies with exacting specification requirements are either missing out or are larger than average in that department. I know that I would prefer something shorter that hit the right spot than have something banging painfully against my cervix.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Im sure you mean 2 inches from side to side and not 'around'... hehe... that would make it something like thin sausage. Mine is about 5 inches around which I think is fairly average.. Of course you might mean the pensil size you mentioned. in which case I stand corrected ...? Mr JJ

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Depending on where you intend to put it...if you have to lube it to use it and they make a funny little face when it's finally there... | ...it's big. | Those little gurgling noises and her turning blue are a sure sign too. | | Or just skip the lube, back up and charge. If she screams and faints...it's really big.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    There is nut for every shell. Some like it big and some dont. Some find 8 inches average and others find 8 inches very large. Each woman isdifferent and each vagina is different. So sorry but this also has very very little to do with whether the woman has had kids or not so please do not try that old chestnut. Persoally I do not care too much for the size. Yes I prefer on the larger side BUT smaller can be just as good. It all depends on the man it is attached to and how he uses it.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hey Justjuice, . You are correct... I meant 2 inches across NOT circumference... in which case it's probably be about 4.5 inches ! Guess I'm more of a "visual measurer" than a "tape measurer" !!! LOL . x Sat

  • one4thetaking

    one4thetaking

    14 years ago

    never thought a discussion on size would become a maths lesson

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' Some like it big and some dont. Some find 8 inches average and others find 8 inches very large. Each woman isdifferent and each vagina is different. So sorry but this also has very very little to do with whether the woman has had kids or not so please do not try that old chestnut.We complete agree on this. No matter the age, height, weight or heritage we have found girls to vary. Mr Lovali previously believed that the smaller the girl the smaller or tighter her vagina, but we have been proven wrong. As proof, we have met a girl who was about 5"4' and 45ish kilos, so she was quite short and slender, yet she was what he dirtily calls a '5 finger' girl. Then we have also met a girl who is more 6"1' and of an average build who was quite tight and a '1 finger' girl.So moral of our story is, a woman is similar to a man - you cannot tell how well they are or are not endowed until its too late. So just make sure you choose someone you get along with and are attracted too.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Nothing wrong with being a visual measurer, if you're out a inch or 2 it could be quite a compliment depending on which side the inch it favors....lolLove the 4.5 inches... the .5 is very very important..

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    A nut for every shel huh?Like it.hugsS. Quoting 'fionabee' There is nut for every shell. Some like it big and some dont. Some find 8 inches average and others find 8 inches very large. Each woman isdifferent and each vagina is different. So sorry but this also has very very little to do with whether the woman has had kids or not so please do not try that old chestnut. Persoally I do not care too much for the size. Yes I prefer on the larger side BUT smaller can be just as good. It all depends on the man it is attached to and how he uses it.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Or am I just seeing the irony where it aint? Quoting 'stalky' A nut for every shel huh?Like it.hugsS. Quoting 'fionabee' There is nut for every shell. Some like it big and some dont. Some find 8 inches average and others find 8 inches very large. Each woman isdifferent and each vagina is different. So sorry but this also has very very little to do with whether the woman has had kids or not so please do not try that old chestnut. Persoally I do not care too much for the size. Yes I prefer on the larger side BUT smaller can be just as good. It all depends on the man it is attached to and how he uses it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' this also has very very little to do with whether the woman has had kids or not Absolutely agree!! As a woman who has given birth naturally to two (2) very healthy babies (one at 7lb 11oz or 3.23kg and the other at 8lb 14oz or 3.7kg) - I find (as Lovali said) 1 finger good, 2 is tight and 3 uncomfortable... and as I wrote in the first post - 6 - 7" just seems huge to me. Having children makes NO difference whatsoever as to what penis size you are able to take.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'HotSexyChilli' Quoting 'lovali'So moral of our story is... you cannot tell how well they are or are not endowed until its too late. So just make sure you choose someone you get along with and are attracted too. Enjoy the journey, the destination is never guaranteed...Chilli xx If you are only worried about the destination you are missing out on half the fun. The journey is part of the enjoyment in making new friends.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I've had a couple of 10inchers, and they are big. I dont particularly aim for that size, but 7 inches is a good size. I've had a few 8 and 9 inchers which isn't bad, but 5 or 6 inches is pretty small. The norm is about 7 inches, and thats pretty good. I do know a few women who won't even meet a guy unless he is 8inches or more, so obviously they are putting everything on the size of his dick and nothing on if he is a good lover or not... hmmm.. bit silly.