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What is your down fall?
May 24 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just talking about this last night. Some people can't accept compliments graciously without saying but.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is a pretty good sign that the compliment giver has an alternate intention.....usually a negative one- Posted from rhpmobile
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wingman2014
12 years ago
I have always struggled with compliments . Just never felt comfortable for some reason. But not really a problem if you rarely get them I guess :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
you were talking about me werent you... lol...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I always struggle when someone compliments me, in my mind I will often question it but I will always say thank you, will blush & then quickly change the subject lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find the best way is to reply with a smile and "Thank you." whether or not you think you deserve the compliment. Better than the awkward blushing, shucks... I have found that is the best way to deal with compliments.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Must be exhausting being that negative. I hear by promise you from now on I will not compliment you ever again. Done!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just my experiences- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
My downfall. My complete and sometimes destructive inability to say no to hedonistic desires. I am such a slut.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Is a pretty good sign that the compliment giver has an alternate intention.....usually a negative one- Posted from rhpmobileIt depends on the delivery and how genuine I feel the person is. I always say thank you and usually blush, depending on what is being complimented.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I either do the blushing, aw shucks thing or go a bit arrogant. IE she says ' you're cute ', I respond ' yes, yes I am', with my best boyish smile. 😇
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RHP User
12 years ago
Stand in line- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
SirLirkAlot too negative mate... if everyone thought that way we would be living in a pretty miserable society where no one said anything positive or tried to pump up our friends/family tyres... The more compliments we give to our loved ones the more they will feel good about themselves... To give a compliment is to not receive anything for it... It's a flash, a feeling, a moment that you have to tried to express in words to a person... If its to gain something, then it is surely NOT a compliment!! You are a handsome man though.. lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Funny you reminded me Funlover ........... cute ... don't call me cute lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
is chocolate
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RHP User
12 years ago
Twenty years ago I had trouble receiving compliments, now I love them and the giver will always get a big smile. A new female patient of mine (36) told me today she'd guessed my age at about 32, as I have great skin. Score! And no negative intention in sight.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lysistrata13'my biggest downfall is chocolate Especially when it's complimentary.
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RHP User
12 years ago
My biggest downfall would be saying what I think without, well, thinking... In real life that is, where I'm hardly as nice as I pretend to be here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Still can't take a compliment...I blush and go all shy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Op do I list my downfall or comment on receiving compliments?.......... Struggle with compliments, like lurks always worry about their motivation, and usually the giver? ;) My biggest downfall.... Stubborn pride..... Will happily cut off my nose to spite my face if need be!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Fear of trying new things, failure, rejection.Held me back from some choices when I was younger.Trying to outgrow it now :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is a time and a place for it. When it happens in the work place I just cringe. Its not a mans domain either when this happens. Yeah my legs do happen to stand out a bit when I wear tight jeans and my breasts seem to cling to my tucked in shirt. But thats not the point. Compliments make me feel uncomfortable in the workplace
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissPoppins' Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Is a pretty good sign that the compliment giver has an alternate intention.....usually a negative one- Posted from rhpmobile He just needs some genuine compliments!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Lol....it's also a good decoy in the mind of an unscrupulous person.... There's a classic saying....you'll always back a racehorse on its previous form..... That's hardly negative.....just real- Posted from rhpmobile
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5weeta5kandy
12 years ago
Have always struggled to accept compliments, and have responded to them very badly in the past which would of left the giver feeling very bad and foolish, learning to accept them is a huge task, and yes even if you don't agree just a simple thank you is always best.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who comes from nowhere? Should've have your money on that one. But gambling is shit No one wins.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who comes from nowhere? Should've have your money on that one. But gambling is shit No one wins.
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inspirit
12 years ago
I don't any more. I love compliments and i love giving compliments, makes for such a nicer place to live.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've learned to be gracious in my old age and politely say thank you when complimented... It's just good manners really. And my biggest downfall it that I'm a total bitch. Awful when people find out. No filter b/w brain and mouth. Lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I gave you a $50 note and sent you off down a main street of any city here in Aus, telling you to give that $50 to a stranger (not a homeless person) and you'd think "Easy, the first stranger will snap it up"....You'd be wrong. People won't accept it as they think it's a set-up. A fraudulent note? "Where's the camera watching this"? Why me? E.T.C.Try it....Now accepting a compliment or not being comfortable receiving one...Has more to do with you and your self worth value, in my opinion of course, and ulterior motive being the source of your angst...surely that comes to light after the event?
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me it depends on the delivery. Catching a cute girl checking my ass out, I can take those compliments all day. Yet the up front variety can be a little confronting. Sometimes I think it's not just a case of self worth but not wanting to look arrogant and vain. "I think you look hot", "yea, der, it's plainly obvious". Also, in accepting a compliment are you also excepting a sexual advance? Since that is how some men take it when dishing out compliments. CBF
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