What makes a good profile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  is a piece of non attached string?Just be yourself,but in my opinion you profile pic is not great,a nice face shot is always best. There is wit in your profile but a lot of negativity too,saying that you are just here to get laid is a bit of a turn off for some women...although it is true many people are here JUST for that very reason , some women enjoy a conversation. Being honest is great but it could also honestly be the reason you are not getting many responses. Many women prefer a little more finesse.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Sorry   but way too many numbers attached to your name..............its like a footy score - Geelong verus Collingwoood - Geelong winning !!!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Are you really submissive, thats a turn off to start with. Freya is right the photo is terrible. Be honest no bs women can tell by reading your profile that your not being honest or sincere. I know you just want to get laid however, I usually enjoy meeting someone first off and at least having a drink and getting to know them. Dont forget the brain is the biggest sexual organ we have.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  The whole profile isn't very attractive from my (Ms Otori) perspective. How about a nice face pic or at least something without the toilet in the background? And for God's sake wear something nicer than those ill fitting ugly old shorts!! Freya's right, there is some wit in there, show off your sense of humour more and your positive traits. Right now you sound a bit too desperate and that's NEVER sexy. What it sounds like right now is: "I don't give a crap about you, I'm not interested in anything but the hole my penis will go in". Go spend $100 and buy a flesh light.It's fine to state that you aren't looking for anything serious but try to advertise what you are going to give to a lady (aside from a spanking). Plenty of women out there aren't looking for solid relationships, they're looking for a good night out, a person to have a laugh with and some good sex from time to time. A profile is like a sales pitch, what is attractive about you? What do you bring to the table? What benefits will a lady get to enjoy when she meets you? Answer those questions and I think you'd have a much better profile and a much better chance of meeting someone.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I'm not surprised that you're not getting much response, that profile is going to turn most women right off. Yeah you may have just ended a relationship and not want another one, but there's no need to throw those points like bricks to smash in people's faces. And it's one thing to just want sex, but it's another to basically talk like you're going to treat a woman like a piece of meat to stick your dick in, then toss her on the street once you're done. It doesn't sound like much fun for her at all, so why would she want to respond to you? You might think you need to be harsh like that to avoid complications down the track, but believe me the women on here are not stupid, you can make it clear that you're not looking for a relationship without sounding so negative and harsh. And even if they're only looking for sex as well, the majority of women on here also appreciate a man whom they can have some conversation with, because it's true that the brain plays a huge part in sex and sexual pleasure. If you feel like you're not willing to even be able to offer this, then maybe you need to wait until you're in a bit better frame of mind before you try your luck on here.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  ...be yourself but don't 'sell yourself' ..... ..provide some description but don't unravel the mystery that is you.... ..a good face pic.. ... ;-)

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  BigJLittleC

  12 years ago

  Just from reading the comments from all the loverly ladies I'm going to go review my profile, I have been the same and changed my profile a number of times and have found that when your open and honest and a bit more descriptive. As we all know we are on here for a similar reason however any encouter is made better with good intelegent conversation (even if it does eventuate in a series of moans and growns) and a bit of chemistry, and if you find someone who knows what they are doing and can keep up with you all the better.   Be yourself, use humour but don't be cras. And good pics get better responses

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  inspirit

  12 years ago

  Would you date you reading your profile? Would you even be inquisitive as to who was behind the keyboard?Would you think your pic was sexy?

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  wingman2014

  12 years ago

  Best advice ever is be yourself . Once you start slapping on the BS you are gone You will be found out If you do find someone who really rings your bell then you want to be able to relax with her Not keep thinking back on your vault of lies to keep your arse covered

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I've just had the rspca on to me about my profile pic.       and puppies turn into dogs pretty quickly.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Somthing to do with animal cruelty apparently

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Philosopherpoet' ...be yourself but don't 'sell yourself' ..... ..provide some description but don't unravel the mystery that is you.... ..a good face pic.. ... ;-) Take this advice ...

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