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What makes a person less attractive?
January 13 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
And you've lost me. Not in that self-deprecating Aussie manner but general conceit, yeah ... nah. Of your list OP, dishonesty, in everything from omitting information to not being true to yourself, and everything in between :) Mary xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
The person has a strong body odour,unwahed hair,unwashed and or dirty clothes,looks unkempt..big turn offs for me. If the person is only interested in talking about themselves,is racist and or misogynist,big turn offs for me. Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
Pimples, birth defects, queenslanders, collingwood supporters, liberals, and rangas.
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RHP User
8 years ago
ArroganceMisogynyRacismHomophobiaIntoleranceIgnoranceRudeness
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RHP User
8 years ago
Liar Homophobic Selfish Lazy That 'I've had a big night and I could be taking any substances' look 😀 3 pictures, one from 1986, one from 1994 and the other 2002 at a stretch 3 pictures, one of Brad Pitt's jaw, one of Johnny Depp's eyes and one of Matthew McConaughy's body No pictures, but the comforting knowledge that he's a 'nice guy' 😇
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RHP User
8 years ago
The 'I'm doing you a favour by allowing you access to my amazing body' vibe 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
on the inside.
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Arrogance. Bad Attitude. Judgmental. Laziness. Bigotry. Homophobia. Racism. Stupidity. Narcissistic Behavior. Rudeness. Dishonesty. Closed Minded. Bad Manners.
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Birth Defects, is the that purely to get a bite out of people? As is the Queenslander comment....💋
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RHP User
8 years ago
Have my list down pat. Perfect lists ladies 😘
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sweetgem
8 years ago
When they being: - Disrespectful (my #1 turn off!) - Demanding - Rude - Desperate/try hard - Greedy/stingy - Selfish - Arrogant - Ignorant - Self-centred And the list can go on 🙃🙃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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lovman8
8 years ago
that explains why I'm not bombarded with offers! For me it is not necessarily physical appearance that makes people unattractive but shallowness, superficiality or not being real that causes me to view them as unattractive.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Betty's list + narcissism and disliking animals.
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RHP User
8 years ago
To have "stirry" in the profile name lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
its my not so subtle tilt at fascism
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RHP User
8 years ago
that50zguy iam a from qld so does that mean me lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Though on this site sometimes it is difficult to be compassionate towards everyone. People who are: Disingenuous Narcissistic Cruel - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
People who gossip make themselves look unattractive. If they're talking to you about other people behind their back, you can be certain they're talking about you behind yours. - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
I either like or do not like a person...there's no in between. Sometimes, I just know instantly when I met a person. It's like a sense I get. Other times, it's their behaviour, which they show me over time. Other than that, I like most people and try to see good in them. Ms Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Is when someone tries to take my freedom away and/or then try to make choices/or speaks for me on my behalf, without my knowledge. Ms Foxy
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Seachange
8 years ago
Good list. Definitely can relate. Add on: insecure people attacking others and projecting their insecurities on them. I avoid them. Seriously Passive aggressive people. ignore Paranoids. Yes you!! 😉 People with no sense of humour. Yawn 😦
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Lovinit28andKC72
8 years ago
Just thought of another one, someone who makes out they are e something they are not, but I guess that can fall under the dishonesty, full of shit or lier banner.💋 50z that's disappointing, but each to their own.
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RHP User
8 years ago
lack of self confidence can be just as much of a turn off as being overly confident. When someone is constantly putting themselves down and seeking reassurance - i cant deal with that. I struggle with body image as much as the next person but I think its better to just fake it till you make it so your potential lovers don't pick up on it.
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Seachange
8 years ago
Made me laugh @ fake it
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ok that one obviously went through to the keeper, I'm not even going to attempt to explain. But no malice intended to Queenslanders or anyone else. (Except collingwood supporters). 😷🤐
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Seachange
8 years ago
Poor magpie supporters. Anymore trashing you make, you'll earn their ire and.have them throw their falsies down your way as they swoop down on you while you clean your pool !!!. Careful their... 😁
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RHP User
8 years ago
guys that lie and hit women
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RHP User
8 years ago
when people say they don't like passive aggressive but their comment reflects exactly that? 😀😇 yawn A big turn off for me is indiscretion and gossip. Absolute deal breaker, with lovers or friends, avoid anyone who is in contact with such people. Privacy and discretion should be a given 😃
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RHP User
8 years ago
Lol Collingwood supporters should be considered for their own Centrelink pension I reckon hehehehe he - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
“And, now, come to this spot Where the spotlight is hot And you'll see in the spotlight A Juggling Jott Who can juggle some stuff You might think he could not... Such as twenty-two question marks, Which is a lot. Also forty-four commas And, also, one dot! That's the kind of Circus McGurkus I've got!” ('If I Ran the Circus' Dr. Seuss).Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' when people say they don't like passive aggressive but their comment reflects exactly that? 😀😇 yawn A big turn off for me is indiscretion and gossip. Absolute deal breaker, with lovers or friends, avoid anyone who is in contact with such people. Privacy and discretion should be a given 😃 In light of so many of your posts, and at the risk of being labelled passive aggressive, I've got to say your post here is truly remarkable! I do not say this to spark conflict with you. Rather, I wonder whether you're taking the mickey (?)
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RHP User
8 years ago
lol Ontology look out 😂 1.Self centred people who constantly blow there own trumpet. 2. Judgmental and negative people who never have anything positive to say. 3. Cheats and liars. 4. Abusive behavior regardless if it's verbal or physical. 5.Bad body odours. 6. Gold diggers. 7. A hairy bush that needs a whipper snipper to get past. 😂 8. No teeth or bad breath. 9. Lazy in the bedroom. (Starfish syndrome) 10. People who play mind games. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'd initially responded with just (literally) 22 question marks, 44 commas, and one dot (full stop), but the mods didn't put it up. My quote of Dr Seuss is as much an explanation for the benefit of the mods as it is for anything/anyone else... I genuinely wonder though. Given the nature of internet fora, I conceive of 'privacy' and 'discretion' as somewhat incompatible with the level of detail @Itouch (and some others) describes in many of her posts. In saying this, I am not being a wowser. I do think there is such a thing as 'too much information', even in the context of some of the various threads of this forum. Call me old fashioned, but there are various activities in life I would prefer to experience, rather than watch, read or discuss. I think sometimes, 'privacy' and 'discretion' actually means discussion does not take place at all outside of the parties directly involved.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' I genuinely wonder though. Given the nature of internet fora, I conceive of 'privacy' and 'discretion' as somewhat incompatible with the level of detail @Itouch (and some others) describes in many of her posts. I'd consider it in this context to be more about privacy of identity. Nobody can identify who she is talking about so it doesn't break their privacy, similarly with discretion, in this place it is used in the context of not letting others know what you did with a particular person. e.g. non-sexual validations all you know if that X thinks Y about Z, but not that X did E with Z
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PatchworkGirl
8 years ago
Whilst ITouch goes into salacious detail in many of her posts, she never reveals anything that could be used to identify individuals that she is referring to - certainly not in regards to her trysts off the forums, anyway. Anything she seats that is directed towards individuals is usually in direct response to their comments in a forum discussion. I think anyone would be hard pressed to be able to find a breach of the kind of confidentiality I'd expect from my lovers in her posts! Add that to my list - have I done one yet? If not, "respectful of privacy" is certainly on it. I don't broadcast my sexual relationships with people, on the forums or otherwise, and I expect the same from people I may meet. My first time on RHP, I met up with a guy, and then found out from a forum friend that he was name-dropping me in his attempt to try and secure a date with her. Not cool.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'ontology' ...Given the nature of internet fora, I conceive of 'privacy' and 'discretion' as somewhat incompatible with the level of detail... Quoting 'S_OnTheLoose' I'd consider it in this context to be more about privacy of identity. Nobody can identify who she is talking about so it doesn't break their privacy, similarly with discretion, in this place it is used in the context of not letting others know what you did with a particular person. e.g. non-sexual validations all you know if that X thinks Y about Z, but not that X did E with Z I don't wish to violate site rules or upset the moderators... Certainly, I've previously offered words of caution and have had posts declined or subsequently deleted. You'd be aware and would agree most people do not take all precautions available and appropriate to protect themselves from clear identification...
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PatchworkGirl
8 years ago
Missed a "not" there - as in, someone who is not respectful of privacy is on my "less attractive" list.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Posts about sex on this forum 😱 😛
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
For me if someone can't take a joke or when you are joking make it serious and argues with you about it. I do admit my body language is an issue when I hear something really stupid and I roll my eyes so hard I can see the back of my head and lately the whispering under my breath is turning into actual talking.
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RHP User
8 years ago
What a sad space some exist in 😉 PatchworkGirl and SOTL 👍👌 Posts don't have to be read, I skip over some that bore me to tears 😏 if I wanted to read a dictionary, I would 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
hairy feet, never liked hobbits anyway bad nails, not asking for a mani and pedi, but a little bit of self maintenance goes a long way regular teeth brushing also helps too oh and, being anti-science or thinking science is boring, instant syonara
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
The old "I'm only joking line"... 😛 Wait...what happens if that joke or mocking someone, really hurts their feelings? Is that still a joke? 😉 Ms Foxy
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Eiliethiya
8 years ago
Ouch! I fall under 2 of your unattractive categories... I'm a Qld'er AND a ranga Fortunately you being on the wrong side of the country, and obviously not as follically blessed as myself, I'll assume your opinion is just jealousy ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Attitude, along with confidence or lack of it! Always a game changer for me!
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