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What makes great sex great?
January 13 2015
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adventure27
10 years ago
For me it's the connection (aka. chemistry) and the buildup.... Some people you just connect better with ... and it's not always who you expect.... it helps to be open to possibilities!! and for the buildup you can go past the 6 s's: slow sensual seduction seeds sensational sex though there are exceptions to every rule... and variety is after all the spice!
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madotara69
10 years ago
Pizza delivery guy was a pretty good moment. He would not accept the tip though. Mado Tara xx
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Paradisepair
10 years ago
What makes great sex great? A mix of sexual connection, sexual skill and all parties being really 'present' in the moment, floating off into ecstasy allowed, but I find it's best when your partner is really genuinely a sexual being. I'd be really hard pressed to nominate one particular instance as the best ever. I've had amazing experiences with MrParadise where deep love made it really touch us both, the whole two become one thing. I've also really enjoyed a couple of our mfm experiences, maybe because I was the centre of attention, maybe because they can literally non-stop for hours or maybe because I really get off on sex with more than one partner at a time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Presence and connection are the most important factors for mind blowing sex in our experience, being able to feel your way (with heart not hands) into the realms of divine pleasure :))) Having skill and technique is important and can give you good/great sex, but with the connection you know what to do and when to do it without thinking about it. Mr HnH
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Hottie1
10 years ago
Are the key ingredients to great sex for me. My partner/s need to show me (and me return it of course) that I am present mind and body and bring with the play a real desire to be there and ensure everyone has a wonderful time. Where there is real symmetry between all playmates and there is no awkwardness or stumbling, it's so hot! Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have amazing memories of a lover. We used to meet every 2-3 weeks and I know that as soon as the door opened that was the start of our foreplay...... Yes, we went for those 7 hour sessions, always had the bottle of water beside the bed........ What I always remember was how all encompassing each move was. He didn't just kiss, he immersed himself in any one kiss, with his lips, his hands, the slide of his body against mine and that deep breath of air, all of it was saying this is THE kiss........ As I said, this was for each and every area of our lovemaking and my mind and body reacted and reciprocated accordingly, I felt cherished, cared for and wanton all at the same time........ Then when we did take a break, we would be wrapped around each other just talking and touching.......mmmmm
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are way too many types of sex, each has its attraction, none can be the best as it is the mood that sets the activity, from slow and sensual, to energy blazed lust, today slow is the great, tomorrow blazing lust is the best. The only common thread that guarantees great sex for each day and each mood is the partner. From the stumbling virgin cherry poppers to the seasoned swingers, the perfect partner will result in the best of great sex.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I certainly agree with the above on passion and intensity, for me though it's the new, the first taste of her lips, the intoxication of her neck and perfume. Her touch on my body. New experiences too, being in the same room as another naked man, touching his cock, tasting it ! These are the experiences that stand out for me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
always the person - there needs to be the right chemistry for sure!
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RHP User
10 years ago
IME when totally present in the sexual moments, totally blocking out anything past or future with pure focus, it seems like time stands still. Like perpetual bliss. Interesting how after having such great sex it becomes easier and easier to vividly recall those moments later, and project yourself back to that sexual state when you need.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Connection, trust, freedom, compatibility, passion, lust, openness, comfortability, put it all together and that's the best sex I've ever had......๐ A lover, I always felt these things with him, I felt cherished, adored, and wanted. I was made feel like I was the most beautiful, divine creature in the world every time we were together......๐
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RHP User
10 years ago
Pretty much sums up how I feel. It's hard to pinpoint one best lover or one best encounter, a number might have unforgettable, incredible moments or skills. And I like that - life shouldn't have just one pinnacle of great sex. It's nice to discover new bests along the way. Isn't it funny how it always comes back to connection connection connection too... Killer moves are nothing at all without that chemistry/connection. Like a discordant symphony. Whether that connection is from a lifetime together, or from a night of intense chemistry... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Being in the 'moment' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The reaction, eye contact, breathing, touching and squeezing. The dirty talk that makes you feel incredible and like the only person that could make her feel that way. It's paradise for the next.. 2mins
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RHP User
10 years ago
I also had this conversation with a lover. Sometimes you can be attracted to someone but when it comes to the sex it turns out to be "just a fuck". To me this means that the chemistry and connection wasn't there. You might still enjoy the actual sex at the time but it doesn't leave you panting for more. When this happens I don't want to see that person again. Great sex is when you can feel that person right to your core. When you lose yourself in them. You don't feel self conscious, you feel beautiful and sexy seeing the way they look at you. You feel like you can't get enough of them and a long sexy kiss is enough to turn you on again. Your bodies fit perfectly together and every move is in sync. The words great sex don't begin to describe this feeling. The endorphin rush is phenomenal but the drop really sucks
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RHP User
10 years ago
It goes much further than a hard cock, great tongue and killer moves.In the last couple of years 2 guys that I have slept with have been the greatest lovers Ive ever had. With both the initial sex was good but nothing to rave about.As time went on and I developed more of a connection with these men..( not both at the same time...one last year and the other very recent) the sex is explosive!Because there is that connection and bond there is no holding back, time is taken exploring each other, we care enough to want to ensure the others satisfaction...Ive been seeing my recent fwb every now and then for the last year, yet recently we have become very close and its completely changed the sex! I actually feel my body ache and tingle in anticipation of being with him....
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't do the fuk just for the sake of it! If there's not a mutual connection leading into steamy great sex then I don't engage... Great sex doesn't always have to last for hours on end? Some cases of great sex can last as little as an hour...
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great connection sexually and mentally, enjoy each others company. Be able to have a laugh and know what each other likes. Also in the very rare occasion the sex can be really hot with someone you have just met. Who knows when the universe is going to send someone your way.
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inspirit
10 years ago
A Hard Cock A Wet Pussy A King Size Bed A bottle of Bolly and oysters .........and of course his and hers toys
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chemistry..buildup and energy during the act itself (though, sometimes a quickie can be one of the best you ever had depending on the mood etc) :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Knowing that your partner is their for you as much as you are for them in any situation and that you can look each other in the eyes and fuck like you are both 22 again ๐ซ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I reckon within a life time, there comes across a very select few that just get your blood pumping and pelvis pulsing in that extreme buzzing ecstasy !! So then these different times with this person also relates to Something other then just sexual attraction alone. "Giving that the sexual attraction is always on that same level whereas with others it can be higher or lower at times". That leaves us to consider a higher connection between two peoples personalities and company.. So in saying that, this connection can be influenced by the certain place of sex, moods prior to sex, conversations prior to sex, music during sex, even diet.. etc. I believe these are the factors that determine which session was the best with a certain lover. In this case 'a great lover'. And as for which lover you determine the best, it's hard to say but there's always that one or two you can place in the "WILD, STEAMY, MIND BLOWING, JELLY LEGS" category. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ahh there's been some incredible sexual encounters over the years. Some that just had all the right moves and pressed all the right buttons but there was just something missing. And then there are some where they say ask the right things, are smoking hot, eyes that just take you away, but then just fumble and don't quite get it right in bed. Then, occasionally you find the one person who ticks all the boxes, personality, looks and sexual moves. They are few and far between and i could count them on one hand. Those ones that just do it all right and you never want to let go of. Funnily enough I'm glad i haven't met one like that in a long time, coz I'm enjoying being single ;) Keep them just less than my best memories and let's all keep having fun! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Connection the biggest. Which leads to feeling comfortable, which lets you let go of any inhibitions. When this combo happens, I think you feel more confident and want to please your partner, and will make extra effort to do so. I also think the time you spend together before and after can make or break it. I am a sucker for the snuggling and chatting afterwards ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
and say consent ๐๐๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have had some lovers that weren't really that great performance wise, not bad either but the attraction and chemistry that has been so strong that like what L4Q said, it was like 2 people melted into one. There is no better feeling than having someone truly want you and you wanting someone else. It is like something else takes over, it isn't an effort, it is a driven desire to get as much of that person as you can get. It doesn't matter what sort of sex, how long it goes for, what toys or kinks are involved, it all comes down to how that partner makes you feel and how you can make your partner feel.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Must be fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
must be fun. Unlike this post.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Melt!!!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
The most memorable?..is it the most erotic?...is it the sex that touches your deepest emotions because you are so connected?...is it the sex that leaves you sated,or the sex that leaves you craving more?...I choose the one that was the most erotic...and it was also the one that left me wanting more.๐xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Two people on the same page with an equally heightened sense of anticipation and here inside the bubble the air is electric, your skin is tingling and the hair on your arms is standing up.Its all gone quiet like the eye of the storm cause nothing elseexists.And later, when embraced in the recovery position savoring the after shocks and hearing hearts pounding.......that shit eatin grin just won't go away.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Leaves me sated but wanting more as soon as he leaves *long sigh* ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agree with the majority here....chemistry makes the connection intense When your in sync mentally & physically nothing else is comparable
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RHP User
10 years ago
Complete body contact. Having your arms, legs, torso all connected while inside her, while kissing. Cradling her head with your hands. Looking into her eyes with your foreheads together. Never wanting to let go.
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lovman8
10 years ago
Great sex happens when there is more people than yourself involved?????
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RHP User
10 years ago
Currently my hand... we have a connection but I think we need to break up, as the conversation is all one way :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
Me,myself and I have great threesomes...๐๐๐and we never regret it in the morning ๐xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'OF_78' Currently my hand... we have a connection but I think we need to break up, as the conversation is all one way :p Yes your hand is always there for you, any time, any place. Can I count using two hands as a threesome (wink Freya)? But isn't the definition of rejection when your hand falls asleep during masturbation? (Also when a nymphomaniac says she just wants to be friends).
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RHP User
10 years ago
Think about it. We love it and regardless of the last experience... good or bad... we can't wait for next time, because its gonna be the best sex ever. Just a thought anyway.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The lack of sex, makes sex great :)
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On_Safari
10 years ago
The right man/woman/couple.....chemistry
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RHP User
10 years ago
Lust, passion and the heat of the moment
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RHP User
10 years ago
My greatest sex has always been when I have lusted after the lady, craved to see her, cannot take my eyes off her, spent all my waking moments thinking about her leading up to that moment when we are going to be together. That has happened to me a couple of times and the only regret is that I cannot perform as much as the opposite sex can, so I have made do with alternate methods of keeping her on her high. This has only happened when I have known that she has felt the same way. It's a pity we put so much demand on ourselves for hours of sex when the single act of sex can be so fulfilling for both partners, there is no timeframe for a sex act so why not thoroughly enjoy the one time more thoroughly and maybe we wouldn't all be continuously looking for new partners,
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raunchy_grrr
10 years ago
And a person that can read your body as well as you theirs them seeing your desire an teasing it an building it up to a mindblowing experience.....you can have a big cock but its nothing with out the man actually building the moment (many of them) lol to a explosive peak
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm agree with you.and take slow too.for me take 2 months to knowwhat is missing in my life.I have and over due adventure.chemistry is important.and of course man that knows how to treat woman - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
True.I'm with you.but not the quickie.love long session.๐๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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totallygenuine
10 years ago
Attraction and connection/chemistry well that's what I think anyway:) ๐TG
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RHP User
10 years ago
Assuming suitability and attraction is all sorted then the major factor is time. It takes time (and experimentation) to get to know another person intimately, too learn all those little things that reduce them to putty in your hands....
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Naughtydouble
10 years ago
Seduce the mind before the body on most occasions on the odd occasion fuk like its your last ๐ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Trust, total trust..for me that is the only thing that makes the difference...the only way I can truly 'let go'....otherwise it is all just a physical exercise that leaves me rather empty.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I loved looking4quality' comments, about to embark on our first threesome I'm hoping for a deep connection physically to make the experience all that much better, probably fumble around like a teenager lol but I'm also looking forward to that, Treeman can be a very sensual lover, very open to seeking out the right M helper to achieve that loss of consciousness as you say, and to feel total divinity!! Is it all just a dream??? Aware these things take time, lots of branches out there, with plenty of time for climbing ahead ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree - it's the chemistry, connection and then there's that first kiss that really let's both people know if the rest will be great...
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RHP User
10 years ago
On a fully broken-in animal's backa fully broken-in animal rides.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great sex for me happens when you completely give yourself to your partner in that moment, fulfilling their desires and in turn my own. It takes a certain amount of selflessness and is about pleasing my partner, being in tune with her body, her mind and her emotions in that moment
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
My previous comment and topped it with love, well that makes for the most ultimate sex.......๐
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SacralChakra
10 years ago
For me it's some chemistry, a mental connection and some skills. It's wanting more straight afterwards. Also knowing that your partner wants you just as much as you want them. It's gotta be a mutual thing...
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