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What makes you feel sexy?
September 21 2016
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Chillihoney
8 years ago
Personally, I'm a much hornier gal when I exercise regularly (healthier & happier too).Hello Mojo!! Outside influences can definitely have an impact however I'm sure I manage them better if I can get in around 30 minutes pilates a day.The key is to find some kind of exercise that you enjoy... even hula hooping is great for the core and can get the heart rate up ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
What you just said is exactly how it was for me, and I wished I'd been like that all my life, but set about making up for lost time which I still am. What makes me feel sexy is keeping in shape, keeping myself lean, I like the feeling of my abs, stomach being lean, shaved everywhere, keeping the butt tight, legs in shape, I like being noticed, and like you, I found I had access to the hottest guys, guys I could never have scored when I was young. And now my standards are high, although I do take more time now to make sure they're really nice guys as well, a body is just a body, unless they have the rest going on, for me anyway But I need validation, I'll admit that, I'm turned on when they can talk the talk, and tell me how sexy I am, I don't connect well with guys who don't express themselves well. If I'm turning them on, and they show that to me, that's what I need, I love it. I also discovered how to get my body to respond in a number of ways, taught myself, lots of practice lol and other practice with company, but that made a massive difference. Sex is great no matter what, but without orgasm/s it plains out, starts off good, then becomes boring. It will never be boring for me ever again. The biggest turning point was finding I liked giving pleasure as much as receiving, even more. I don't regret anything I've done or not done sexually in my life or my past, but appreciate every second now. It's amazing, I feel very lucky, and great to hear things have gone nicely for you as well
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RHP User
8 years ago
For me embracing my body has helped me get my sexy back. Allowing myself to enjoy being sexual and sensual without feeling ashamed, trying to accept and love my body rather than compare it to others (only works on good days) 😉 But what makes me feel sexy? Being completely groomed, smooth skin, smelling beautiful - wearing my favourite scent or smelling of soap. Red lipstick, thigh highs and suspenders, a beautiful pair of high heels, sexy underwear, clothes that accentuate my assets. Listening to music - it speaks to my soul, dancing, moving my body sensually. I'm very tactile so being touched and touching, stimulate my mind, being desired - especially when someone looks at me like I'm something to eat ;), and of course mind blowing sex!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Acceptance Of my body after what's been through. Embrace the curves. Knowing what you want in and out of bed. It's empowering Lipstick, heels, perfume, compliments, sexy lingerie. Tattoos (hidden) Being tanned always makes me feel sexy. Attention of younger men. Any man in general really 💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The look in someones eyes when they see you naked..... dressing in lingerie, a sexy dress and heels to go out, and the way my man cant keep away from me when hes home. I feel sexier now than ever, and to think I was dreading turning 50. I see women in Perth in their late 40s and 50s and they look incredibly sexy. I got my sexiness back when I got my confidence back. Long may it continue......just look at Yasemeenah Rossi, 60 and still fabulous xx
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
I believe when all three are combined, it oozes one's sex appeal and becomes an aphrodisiac to others. It's about having self confidence (without being cocky) and owning it within. It will return OP when you least expect it. Yes, I believe it can change depending on ones self confidence, environment, mental health, physical body changes, break ups, changes of life...all sorts of things. I also believe, some even look for validation from others as a quick fix to get it back. I think that back fires a lot of the time as it's a quick fix, short term thing. It's has to come within, it's there, finding it is half the battle. Hope you find it soon. Ms Foxy xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't find I need the validation of someone else (luckily) to feel sexy and do find it comes from within. Maybe I just need to dig a little deeper. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I didn't even start doing this until I was over 50 lol so I'm still a learner driver, still exploring and although time is a big problem for me now, being this age hasn't stopped me, though I did wonder when I put my first ad online, who'd want to fuck an old chick like me. Yeah, let's just say I got with the program pretty quick I've found a lapse in activity lately due to being busy, has at times made me question myself and what I want, but winter is also a good time I don't think to get the sexy on, I struggle in winter, I get so cold. Summer brings us all out of hibernation, certainly that's the way I've been lately, and back out there feeling sexy. If you need to find that feeling again, I'd recommend feeling the warmth of the sun on your skin, some gentle exercise. If I'm feeling completely whacked, in summer I'll just go to the beach and plop in the water haha It makes me feel amazing, even if I'm really tired, that quickly changes, combination of the warmth of the sun, fresh air and the sea water, by the time I get home, I feel amazing. And it's healthy. Sometimes I'll stop communicating with guys and just do that sort of thing for me, look after me, revitalise. And then it can be a matter of finding the right connections. I've gone quiet on a few of mine at the moment, but it's purely because I'm so busy, working on changing that, freeing up more time. But coming out of winter is a damn good start, summer is such a sexy time of the year
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RHP User
8 years ago
Firstly, I realise I am a guy and this was aimed at all the lovely ladies but wanted to throw my 2 cents in. Personally I think all of the ladies who have commented here are sexy (from a visual perspective to begin) with the common denominator being you all express some fun and cheekiness in your pics in terms of what you are wearing or the nature of the photo. That is a very sexy trait. Having never met or spoken to any of you I would be fairly certain that your personalities match which is again a very sexy trait. While one of the questions related to getting older, I think less about the number and more about the person as I know plenty of people in their 30's who are old and plenty in their 50's who are young. Its a state of mind not a number. I would rather be with an older woman with curves and some extra weight who is comfortable with herself and feels sexy than a younger woman with false curves who is more interested in trying to impress her looks than enjoy the moment. Older woman in lingerie and sexy underwear is extremely sexy and even more so wearing it to feel good and sexy even if they don't look like a Victoria's Secret model. As a guy, that is a huge turn on knowing you are comfortable and wear it because you like to rather than just to please others. If we please ourselves first and are happy with what we have it does radiate and guys notice that.
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MsSuperFoxy
8 years ago
Thank you. It's good to hear from a males point of view. 👍 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
8 years ago
More sexy now than I ever have. I have embraced my mind and body and accept myself as I am. That for me was a huge change in attitude. I love to dress nicely and wear something sexy underneath even if I'm the only one who will see it. Sexy is a state of mind IMO ;). xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is what my hubby says to me. It's confidence, it's owning my sexuality and being me :) I won't pretend to be something I'm not. If I'm not 'sexy ' for someone, they can keep looking elsewhere :) Mary xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'blissful_45' More sexy now than I ever have. I have embraced my mind and body and accept myself as I am. That for me was a huge change in attitude. I love to dress nicely and wear something sexy underneath even if I'm the only one who will see it. Sexy is a state of mind IMO ;). xx couldn't agree more as its definitely down to individual attitude.......I think the fact you wear sexy underwear for you is a great example as while it visually great for someone to see you in, its making you feel good about you even if no-one gets to see you in it if more peoples state of mind was that way inclined we would have a far healthier society
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Hotwives_Inc' Is what my hubby says to me. It's confidence, it's owning my sexuality and being me :) I won't pretend to be something I'm not. If I'm not 'sexy ' for someone, they can keep looking elsewhere :) Mary xx absolutely, it is 100% attitude and how sexy a person is depends how confident they are with themselves and how much they radiate it towards others. I couldn't be with someone if I didn't find them sexy
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pussywillow26
8 years ago
No rush Yr a smart sexi woman U know yr worth Yr stright up Down.to earth Funni An heaps more adorable qualites Dont be so hard on yr self find the small Pleasures in Life An the big pleasuers will seek u out Babes I love ya face woman one of the loveliest ladies Im found Keep the faith babes xoxoxxoxo 💋💋💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love ya! You know sexy girlfriend. Thanks for your kind words. Just what I needed. Nothing sexier then ladies who know what they want and don't take bs xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
Soft and curious. For me I'd like to add that the right man can bring out a so much more confident and sexier side of me that is otherwise hard to find. - Posted from rhpmobile
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