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What menu addition you will like to see in profile format
January 06 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Would that influence your decision making? Having played a lot or more or whatever in the past 6 months doesnt make one a more suitable lover for your specific requirements or makes them more or less attractive does it? Would be really interested to learn your rationale ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
...is what you seek ?or is it a niceometer...?ORMaybe its just none of your business...?Does it make someone(s) a better or worse lover or person ? 182 days...@ 3 per night... hp xobecause you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Just wow lol. Firstly if they did that, everyone would have to update their profile all the time. Secondly I am really interested to know your thoughts on why this is important. Lastly, the more you post, the more judgemental you sound... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1.Vanilla2 Wannabe3 Learning4 Experienced5 And yeah baby!!!! Or maybe it should just be no ones business but your own. Gawd, I must be more bored than I realised
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RHP User
11 years ago
That is an outrageous suggestion. None of your business. Lol.
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PlushVelvet
11 years ago
Quoting 'CuteNCurvy86' Just wow lol. Firstly if they did that, everyone would have to update their profile all the time. Secondly I am really interested to know your thoughts on why this is important. Lastly, the more you post, the more judgemental you sound... - Posted from rhpmobile I'm with you curvy .. some people only open their mouth to change feet! lol
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority' ...is what you seek ?or is it a niceometer...?ORMaybe its just none of your business...?Does it make someone(s) a better or worse lover or person ? 182 days...@ 3 per night... hp xobecause you're worth it... Willingness would have your charts going through the roof, any who are not familiar to your habits to attractions HP, would more than likely find it unbelievable any way. Much better the way things are done as they are. Of course only interesting to people who are interested in other people rather than interested in themselves. Oh what fun to be a ticket. You're the real thing HP Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
So if you go to a swing party and have sex with 10 People, that's counts as one play right? But I assume that only sucking someone's willy wouldn't be included in the tally, yeah? You start OP, how many times have you played in the last 6 mths? I assume you mean swinging/group sex? Or does that involve one on one sex?
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RHP User
11 years ago
So do I have to be a mega slut for you to even bother to talk to me? Guess I won't be chatting to rupamohan any time soon....
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Being flat out playing today nd my free time is also coming to an end. Just put in few more replies. I will have only short time so I will try to put one reply covering some of you.
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RHP User
11 years ago
NO
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him_and_me
11 years ago
The OP asked what you would like to see added to profiles and gave their own suggestion. You don't have to agree with their idea (for whatever reason it's important to them) but not one person who has replied yet has given another suggestion that I can see... Maybe there could be a tick box for whether you're a regular forum poster or not! ;-) Then visitors to your profile could come and see what you have to say for yourself... Oh, but that activity shows up already on the sidebar. x Me - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I gotta say, I love your work. I couldn't have said it better myself 😋 So OP, does playing with myself count? I might have to turn my headboard into a tally board,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Pole option like facebook has. Instead of using the "nudge nudge wink wink" flirt you could actually play "poke him" instead 👍. Lol and the "like" button for forum comments......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'rupamohan'Being flat out playing today nd my free time is also coming to an end. Just put in few more replies. I will have only short time so I will try to put one reply covering some of you. You really can't tell people what and how much to post!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MsElle72'So do I have to be a mega slut for you to even bother to talk to me? Guess I won't be chatting to rupamohan any time soon.... Must agree there. And I've found myself to be the exact opposite of everything you've posted so far, which has been interesting (in a good way). . Yes, mine would have to be updated all the time, but that's not the reason I'd never answer a question like that. Like Meeka said: It's none of your business. , And seriously, I get too many emails as it is. God forbid, people reading my profile might realise I actually have sex.
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rupamohan
11 years ago
Sorry I am just bit busy. I promise to get back. Meanwhile you will mellow dn a bit. Not offended by any comments and misunderstandings. Hey btw atleast a couple picked up from where I am coming. Don't worry about I like and why I like meanwhile come up with your suggestions of menu that is where I will like you to focus. But again at the end it your choice what you want to say.
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RHP User
11 years ago
If playing alone counts I think we would all have a headboard that looks like the cats scratching post. After all, I think all those here have a high sex drive :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
a 'Normal People' or 'Non narcissistic' menu item...that would be helpful yes, its a joke - don't cry about it :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm with CNC. The more you post, the more judgemental (And Acerbically Sad) you sound. If I lived in Mt Waverley, and had a 8 inch cock, which I'm not either, I really don't think that I'd be bothered walking to your place. Your pics are nice, but your attitude (clearly you the female who posts) is troubled.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Who here kisses and tells ? next thing we will need references !
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RHP User
11 years ago
important question...but not quite sure whether you prefer....yes I am an uber slut...or I am still a born again virgin...but I promise to answer any way you want me to
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RHP User
11 years ago
minimize any potential offence from the OP and ask people kindly to put their flame throwers down for a moment, but considering hardcore lifestylers and first timers may want to mix with people of a similar level of experience, perhaps a question on recent 'level of experience' isn't such an outrageous suggestion for the OP to make. There are a number of regular posters that are quite vocal about the 'safe sex' inclusion in profiles, as in who wears a condom, and when, in regards to minimizing risk factors. Also, there are numerous threads as to how meets can go pear shaped with inexperienced swingers and the awkward dilemmas that can occur with couples who have insecurities and uncertainties about meeting up with other people. Each example gives a reason to ask this particularly broad question that the OP has stated. For me, I would like to see the inclusion of a 'level of appreciation' for both garlic and chilli. Like sex, you can't fake that shit. It's gotta be real, man!
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rupamohan
11 years ago
I am in hurry so I will go thru it bit quickly...it anyway doesn't make sense to answer individually as few have original replies...some just reply I agree with so and so... a) The main idea was to focus on title and suggest some of your own menus....I just gave some suggestion to kick start...I am not looking for some one to agree or disagree with my suggestion and then explain me why they agree or disagree with me. It is your choice..I am happy to lend ear to your view on my suggestion. If I want to explain reasons for my suggestion it is another subject in itself. Some of you amused me by calling judgemental and and I am wondering who is judgemental here..but again I prefer to avoid such arguments. b) All menus at any site or for the matter of fact any information for example smoking etc is used for the purpose of some kind of judgement. You start judging the world the moment you are born. Most menus allow you to simply default to " No answer". It is up to you to decide what information you want to share and it is up to other side to decide how they will use that information. I have no interest in knowing your reasons for parting with some information and also no interest in knowing how other side will use that information. c) So there are all kind of menus and I just suggested one. I had interaction with many and some have liked the idea of such a menu. This give the option for both kind of RHP users those who want to use it and those who don't simple put "No answer". Some other sites gives option to put your play experience. Some overseas adult site have very detailed menus. At the end it is up to you what you want to tell. Even if you want to hide your gender identity. I don't mind giving option " No answer" for your gender. d) Some one ask how do we keep this data up to date - Just like anything else you want to update in your profile..if this is an issue simply don't use feature or put a convenient number. Haven't you seen first timer written in 10yrs old profiles? More over you don't have to increment each count. 6+ means anything 6 or above. e) Some one asked how does this helps in determining the attraction? - I never said that attraction and play count are mutually exclusive information and you can only use one piece of information. Sorry I don't understand your question . I can't answer it . f) Some one said it is slut counter - Hum...I can't comment on your cultural beliefs. In any case if that is how you like. You better call it recent slut counter. My suggestion was to include only last 6 months. if you were slut before or nun before..Í don't think the history is of any help. g) How the idea started? - few playmates came up with this suggestion. I believe recent play count can be a measure of your recent play interest and recent logistic availability but few other reasons were also told to me. In any case the menu simply allows two users to exchange information or not use it based on their own reasons. I don't tell others what menus to use. h) Some one asked do I have to be slut to talk to us - I have only said information in this menu will be useful to us. We don't disclose how we use such information at forum. Nor I have any interest how you plan to use or not use this feature. Lol who is being judgemental here... i) Some on has asked if this menu is available what Rupa will put in - I have certainly not asked anybody here what they will put in. This is premature. Let RHP add this menu and the you can see what we do with it. j) Some one told me I can't tell others what to write in forum - Well I don't care what you write but just for the sake of argument anybody here can tell anybody what to do here. However it is your choice how you want to react. I certainly can't force you to do what I want you to do.
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RHP User
11 years ago
WTF ?
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
how about a check list for some of the common things that people comment on (like the other lists provided)... e.gdon't ask us to reply to guest accountsi only reply to human completed profilesi only reply to profiles with picsi only reply to profiles that are verifiedsingle guys don't call us we will call youi answer all messages even if it is to say no thanks i haven't really thought through what should be in the list properly (it is late after all) but you get the idea, we could poll members and find out the dirty dozen and i am sure it would add a lot of info for a little effort also how about with the lists, some way to distinguish between simply "interested" and "experienced in"?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I thought mine was scary!
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RHP User
11 years ago
this would put another label on RHP folks. In what way???? its up to the one who would judge me on it, and judged I would feel.I don't think its a good idea.I would not tell......its like with all....I enjoy each one of them but don't have to tell anybody how many or few there are or have been.Nope not for me to tell anybody.
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RHP User
11 years ago
a scale from laid back and easy going through to bossy and self centred ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'paint_me'a scale from laid back and easy going through to bossy and self centred ... At least two posters with those first two descriptions in their profile have gotten rather fiery and nasty on the forums recently. (Not OP). . Isn't everything subjective? Hell, we've seen enough disagreements on which body type option "should" be picked when you're a certain size or shape. . I would like a "Fantasize about", "Have tried", "Am experienced in" menu as suggested earlier, to be added to all sexual interests you tick.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We're a couple who plays when we can and don't allow this lifestyle to consume our lives, as we have other priorities that come first. We're also not the type of couple to "notch up" the runs on the bed head, as its not about quantity for us but quality. We have professional carreers, a young family, and we dont get to Friday night and go, "Yeah Baby, its time to go out and swing." If we only play every now and then, that suits us. We dont go out expecting to play everytime we meet n greet, as there has to be an attraction, not just four people with a sexual appetite to suppress. So, Does it really matter how many times you've slept with someone? Is that how you make your decison on what type of person/s they are? If you do, you are quite shallow, and not worth it...
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
ease off the OP folks, its not about your personal attitude or attacking theirs, its only posing the question "what would you like to see added"..... i too can see why experience might be an issue, in this time challenged era some may not want to go through a protracted series of social greets only to have a bum night with beginners and that's fine... like i said the quesiton was "what would YOU like to see added".... why are people on adventurous, liberal minded sites,....so judgmental ;-) @Mesmerised thanks for your support for my idea, like i said if we brain stormed enough we could have a good list... i would also like to further tweak and expand the flirts, i know this has been done before but i cant help feeling the results were what RHP wanted moreso than what the users wanted..
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have fisted two girls.... Does that make me a beginner? Or experienced? ... Again that is subjective. I am an experienced clit rubber but not sure how another girl would feel about my skills. Hehe
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RHP User
11 years ago
Totally subjective, but I'd enjoy that one. That and being fisted.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
You pair are scaring me
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RHP User
11 years ago
Please add;BottomTop Versatile
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RHP User
11 years ago
What about Virgin? Tick yes or no ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
We find all of this and the "rules " in your profile just too "complicated" and a mission to read through and understand . And we thought our profile was a bit too much ? LOL Should swinging be so complex and difficult? It's as if we are dating again. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
In the 'people who viewed you' list.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And we thought swinging was meant to be fun and uncomplicated !!!
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69squirtle69
11 years ago
Indagine. . A poke and like button would be great fun
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playfulfunwa
11 years ago
Couple of thoughts.... 1. Can entertain at home or not 2. Watersports And squirting button 3. Willing to travel...eg 25,50ks 4. A seperate option to differentiate between trans- genders and cross dressers
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Paradisepair' In the 'people who viewed you' list. Good idea
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would like to see more 'rejection' options for flirts.. "Please go back and read my profile again" "Sorry you don't match my criteria" "Contact me again when you are single!!" Lol "your profile does not have enough information... please fill in all the questions" (Or am I the only one that has this problem?) - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
11 years ago
a) Thanks to all who PM with very positive feedback. I am trying to get back to you each personally but also it is easy to acknowledge here. No I am not frustrated with forum regulars as much as some of you pointed out. b) Anyway the feedback I have is members will like to use "recent play count" in their own way. Some prefer low count, some high, some think if this count matches with their own count their can be more connection. Some say it gives them idea about others availability and amount of interest. Some think it means you are good or bad. One member has also pointed to me they are worried about asymptomatic STD and will prefer to play with members who have low play count..anyway the bottom line is everyone uses the count number in his own way. I need to again remind many here that I don't determine how you use , abuse or not use a menu. You find your own reasons. I have my own reasons. I am amazed by many here who have desperately tried to judge what are my reasons...and what makes me laugh that they have courage to call me judgemental. Oops need to finish my laugh before I can write more.. c) Few here had some comments about bed notches / keeping playmate count private etc..The menu "recent play count" suggested by me is not same as "playmate count" For e,g if you played 50 times..it is not known if it was 50x1 or 1x50 or 5x10 or 25x2.. d) It is easy to implement menus that generate number or ticks an objective info. As an example the menu suggest by me above allows you to add further subjectivity based on what you want to make out of it. Menus like arrogant , friendly, bossy etc are good idea but hard to implement as we all have different meaning to it. e) For Bi-male Top / bottom is a good idea..someone suggested it excellent idea. Thanks f) I will also like to suggest a "like count". Likes allowed by all members verfied or un verified but still approved just like validations. Who liked you also visible, but with an option for verified likers to remain invisible (anonymous). There is logic behind why unverified liker can't be invisible. If you ask me the logic I will spell out later. ----------------------------- It is good to see some useful replies. The next summary will be after few days. It is easier for me check forum once in few days, browsing few replies and post one summary.
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RHP User
11 years ago
but I'd like a system like facebook. When your username is mentioned, you get a message on your home page. It would make it a lot easier for me to find out who's trying to use inanimate objects on me.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
BULLSHITOMETER..... I swear, Id be able to use a few peoples in here as a god damned fan lol
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Aimtoplease83
11 years ago
So you just want to know what everyone else is up to?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
good call paradisepair
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madotara69
11 years ago
to leaning on things as a little racial or discriminative DG If we are going to list our Arts, we may as well for pets and wheel barrows even knick knacks. It's a little personal "Bullshit" and definitive to each as an individual. I just think it better left to discovery. Equality is still an issue, so having an instrument for rating who is better than another at bullshit, well some may express it as fact and care and interest. (intimidated, less confidant and hide behind it for attractions) It's too emotional for those who aren't so practised. We need to think about them too. Mado Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
11 years ago
Because it's useless the way it works. have the Q's and A's within free flowing flirts, because they are no more useful. Still the show goes on, everyone can request or offer. So what is stopping us writing the most attractive figures to make your meeting different than us pretending we are something we are not at a meet for drinks or play. If you are seasoned players looking for the same, cant' you tell by the communication exchanged. We couldn't pretend to tell you what you want, if you know it, and we don't. Maybe it is the lack of communication is the problem. To busy getting there without knowing where you are going from your direction. Rely on a list , seems a little naive, ones and zeros. All it really does is lessen your reason for communication and will lead to worse chances for experience. Don't we have messages, phones, chat. for all that stuff. Well we as one not seasoned hard swingers wouldn't take a list like most within profiles as Gold. We will communicate with others. Don't know if we care to be hardened swingers if it is like that. Fuck a cardboard box sounds more interesting. Thought it was people meeting people, so what if you mentor now and then on the chance you did not screen to your expectations. What is swinging all about folk's? Need to think about things, they don't always change for the best. Swinging would be dead and buried to a cesspool? by now, if it did not have some meanings to the idea. Make it meaningless you start looking for what is lost. We are not a ticket. Our profile a joke, we don't know where this path will lead, it has begun. so no lies saying we are more than you want or we, because it is about discovery to what we don't know. Ignorant to think we got there ever, not to mention boring and time consuming, stale for a thrill of it. There is an old saying, for an old meaning "people" This is not agression, not yelling. Just tired a little, to be feeling this way for something that meant something and all but lost with how people treated people, and it worked. Sex is a reasonably meaningful thing for people and you want to hurry it aswel? (you is they or we or us) End of riff. (thought) at least. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
of things in the sky, undefined, transient, a place for imagination to fly. The ultimate play ground of delusions fixated on the vagary of reality The shapes formed from moment to moment, always changing, always new. So out shakily I reach, I am sure I have pined it down this time I know this is me for real... this time I'm sure, I know I am. I have cleared the fields of bovine stains as I poured out gentle rain, left no blade unturned, removed the filters from my eyes and have no fear at all. Hello world its me. Then as the night creeps on an on and eventual sleep comes in, dreams dance in magic circles around my head till sweet morning light lifts me from delight. Morning light warm and bright shows me all the stains I gathered that night from head to toe as I cleaned the field I thought was me. Its not a curse it sticks to me that soothing mask of bullshit, for without it I have no fixed shape or form, there is no real me, at least not for words to tell, for without the bullshit there is nothing to see, even in a mirror as I look for me. We all live in the delusion, not what we are. It does help knowing so, lest you drown in your own bullshit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71'but I'd like a system like facebook. When your username is mentioned, you get a message on your home page. I get referred to as Mesmerised, mesmerized, Mes, mez, MsD and Miss M.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A comment you can make weekly - maybe instead of your subtitle or as well as eg - Looking to play this weekend see our datefinderor Heading for drinks in the city see our datefinderor We would love to meet a couple this weekor Too much vanilla this week to play : ( Lets people know if you are free available.
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abcplus1
11 years ago
Notches on the bedhead? The more notches the less interest from us.
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madotara69
11 years ago
where in those lovely words did you mention the fruit loop in all of me's About time you got up How the fuck am I supposed to know, But the flirts would work for the numbers thing each flirt with a number to it , theres a heap of them only a couple for a use. The rest all mean the same thing, Op asked for enough 1 an 2 6 or 8s that the flirts could work. In a non computerised friutloop mind To the point other than being seen as nothing for a qick timely fix. not welcome to the superstars. How do you make that work if it is open to an honesty box, to being anything other than a hasty idea bound to fail for worth and who is worth is insulted. Validations they go out the window if the validator leaves the site, that fucks thing up a bit for the statistics of things Op is asking so, your a computer bloke, could that validation part of the page, be programmed to suit a system of configuring this idea of data benefiting the better interests for the idea. Not a stupid idea, just put some thought to turning insult into reason of inexperience to allow to it. Respectfully Blindman, we have stated and would not waste your or any ones time who are hardened or regular or more experienced to swinging, as we understand you have a certain language, we do not know, so mentors is the way we might approach this group thing, as we are doing alright as a couple and a basic run of the mill average threesome in respects to the lifestyle and what we don't know yet, And this is called riffing, just saying shit to what is thought to it. what I did say I do know, read again maybe or see the truth to the whole thing. Half at least has come from picking shit obviously from things taken from your thoughts over a respectable amount of time to get a feel in someone else's house, that is open for us if we choose, Treat us like a number Now you turn up you could shove it up your bottom, We would stay our distance. so any way can you point out where that was wrong, otherwise I imagine changing the way things have been done, needs to be thought out well. simply not experienced enough to understand the nature of things and to what can be lost when taken. Sorry but things are still going backwards Sre to be certain blimdman, not going to quote it, though reach into the unreality of rationalising for meanings and to learn stuff. you said to the likes of having certain questions that simply by hearing the answer you would easily know if you were being played, something like that is how i found it, from back when you said it. I don't remember anything said where other people are not welcome, To the lifestyle, just obey the etiquette. I am a married man committed to my wife and we both are friends entering the place. got respect know polite, understand love, and sex a difference. what you need to do a favour maybe, is see this as how someone's as us feel towards the whole thing, Some people are probably better of not trying to change the lifestyle because there is not enough hours in the busy days every day to communicate So just for that lets be a ticket., and your contribution as in the know, didn't really help us Rather take criticism on the chin , get things rite. you bag me as I, well it's just me thinking this, trying not to speak as you. and it is riffing, by that effort, you don't quite get it. And bullshit is Ok, brings out the knowledge or are you full of shit. If you are, then you have wasted plenty of my time listening to you, thinking you know what your talking about. dilusion Beg to diifer your reality is of constantly looking for ways to get around fuck up after fuck up, you don't even know the basics for how to treat each other, got to fight over it. it's a sad world your reality. Mine simple and I know it a lot better than you do yours. Thanks for sharing the confussion to yours If you feel like you are drowning , relax try to breath, go sit under a big old tree lean your back to it, it'll charge some of your energies. Some honey in the comb, chew on it, it 'll help rid that bitter taste. go for a swim, open your eyes in the water, if there is some clean enough to swim. It will help to see things a little clearer Some wild tea leaf, to detox, not eating well, try catching a couple of nice fish, buy them if you need, good for you though. I am in a good place, seeing a lot of shit bullshit, and other than the condition to your health , in your words written a bit shallow, your tired. Other than that no effect and you bought us to here. Hello how are you blindman been missing your knowledge, it could help, otherwise I am going back to play music, stay out of this mess. We've had three fucks this week, work is over for a couple of days, it was before you had this for the time, it's a pleasure We are booked in to have another root when the little one is asleep, and we have time for all the nice stuff with some grape seed oil. If it is to a friday week, then 4 fucks only for us this week Thought about someone ( together we thought to it) 3 times. tonight just us. Not rich but lots of time for it all. that is a truth. Nicer when you wanted a fuck, sweeter anyway. And of coarse you are a story teller too, this aint the chat rooms. Mado hesitant for Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
What i wrote was very late and was in no way intended to offend or in anyway criticise you or anyone. I was in fact in agreement to your words in the post "That's bordering" you had posted earlier, which i thought was a clever bit of insight, and I wanted to say hello. What I wrote was the play on the metaphor of bullshit. A self appraisal of my own attempt at truth. No matter how hard I try to remove the self delusion (bullshit) that is the internal narrative of my mind, the act of self appraisal (cleaning) leaves me feeling clean, only to wake afresh and realize i have just moved the bullshit. What I am can not be written, just as when I look into a mirror I do not see what others see. If the mood is down trodden I focus on the things I don't like, they become disproportionate in my mind, similarly when the mood is upbeat I exaggerate the positive. No matter how hard i try I cant even stop bullshitting my self. So I apologize if I caused trouble or offended. There is a second metaphor in there that was but part of an assumption, maybe you related, maybe not. And as always, never trust a blind man to lead the way.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Have you had something to eat and drink Blindman Only truly been offended once, a troll and Tara never read it, and some of the ladies and gentlemen, checked in in case she did. Otherwise, mentor. Only a couple maybe three minutes out, with the new more quick than short- hand, writing some bullshit wherever happens to have a small gap to be.riffed (in tribute to your wife actually) Mado xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dine-in TakeawayHome delivered
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RHP User
11 years ago
but really ... What do you say to a guy who's just sent the 'looking for some new friends, let's exchange messages' flirt and his profile shows he has 505 friends? Maybe a menu to indicate that they are just 'friend collectors'. Just like the 'sexy photo swap' option let's us know they are just photo collectors.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75'Dine-in Takeaway Home delivered Trying to resist Eating Out pun.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'playfulfunwa' A seperate option to differentiate between trans- genders and cross dressers Totally agree!
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RHP User
11 years ago
why cant you just say on your profile EXACTLY what you are looking for,likes dislikes yadda...life doesn't have to be complicated.
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RHP User
11 years ago
BIG NEWS FLASH....it doesn't matter how many prefences, boxes are ticked,people can be economic with truths. Talking to them is a much more important part of the vetting process IMO.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would rather see a bar similar to another site that allows over users to add either negative or positive rep to your profile.. only shows up as a number ie +7/-1. You can also add vouches so you can have 3 people saying you are a decent bloke/lady etc. May help people avoid those who are planning to put you in an ice bath and steal a kidney ;) lol.. Maybe even a Scale of likelihood to show - so people would have a heads up on the people likely to leave u standing - the trick would be figuring how to know if they had arranged to meet or not so we didn't just have people how have had rejected email advances ending up trashing a persons numbers... Like all things on these sites they are open for abuse and can falsely influence a persons profile ( for good or evil)... And having written all this and thought about it.. maybe its just all too hard and not a good idea after all... Budda
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RHP User
11 years ago
other users.. not over users.. ffs... what ever happened to the ability to delete a post when u saw an error right after posting - so the world didn't see it... There used to be a little x... Budda
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta' Talking to them is a much more important part of the vetting process IMO. The OP wants to know your recent play count, to decide whether you are WORTH talking to!!
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
But people cant even be bothered to complete their profile properly.. and man i suspect are not even created by people ;-)
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
ffs sake cant you get beyond your personal objection to the example they have given and simply answer the question in the OP?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't you grow a sense of humour? Geez, lighten up will ya!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta'BIG NEWS FLASH....it doesn't matter how many prefences, boxes are ticked,people can be economic with truths. Thanks, I had never heard it explained like that! And twowithnolimits, MsElle didn't give a condescending answer, she directly quoted the OP.
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twowithnolimits
11 years ago
@ Mes "MsElle didn't give a condescending answer, she directly quoted the OP." Yes she did "The OP wants to know your recent play count, to decide whether you are WORTH talking to!!" My point is people would be better off if they stuck to answering the OPs question which was not whether they would consider you but rather.. "What menu addition would you like to see added to the profile format" which i think is a valid question and RHP should consider answers and possibilities..as part of ongoing product improvement
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RHP User
11 years ago
I didn't realise you were now the forum police, twowithnolimits. Hope you realise it's a full time job? Try finding a forum topic where every post remains on point. Good luck!!
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Coops27M
11 years ago
"Do you know why i pulled you up?" "Profile and forum history please" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Opinions are like arseholes, some are more relaxed than others.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta' BIG NEWS FLASH....it doesn't matter how many prefences, boxes are ticked,people can be economic with truths. Talking to them is a much more important part of the vetting process IMO. I like to think it's more like leaving some mystery about me
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Coops27M'"Do you know why i pulled you up?" "Profile and forum history please" Blow here!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'Coops27M'"Do you know why i pulled you up?" "Profile and forum history please" Blow here! this is why i love the forums,lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
An option to show when you last had a STI check and was clear. If RHP were responsible they could add a verification system as well. That way you send a scan, photo or copy of the test result to RHP similar to the Verification system and get a nice Tick besides the test date. This would have so many here run to the doctor to get a test.. Would you fuck someone that has never been tested. I think this will be my new mission for the year. All dating sites should implement this. It would have a massive impact on STI rates in Australia. .
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RHP User
11 years ago
ohhhh dear,4 pages of rubbish to answer a trashy question
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rupamohan
11 years ago
I declare this thread closed, that is no more response from my side..but keep going if you have more to add... If I define two main types of diverse RHP user groups- Active swingers (cpls playing at least once in quarter) & active Chat user. It appears this is a very disjoint set. There is some scope to improve tolerance. I will still like to believe those were knee jerk reactions. Thankyou all here and who PMed me and bye bye thread!!!
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' What i wrote was very late and was in no way intended to offend or in anyway criticise you or anyone. I was in fact in agreement to your words in the post "That's bordering" you had posted earlier, which i thought was a clever bit of insight, and I wanted to say hello. What I wrote was the play on the metaphor of bullshit. A self appraisal of my own attempt at truth. No matter how hard I try to remove the self delusion (bullshit) that is the internal narrative of my mind, the act of self appraisal (cleaning) leaves me feeling clean, only to wake afresh and realize i have just moved the bullshit. What I am can not be written, just as when I look into a mirror I do not see what others see. If the mood is down trodden I focus on the things I don't like, they become disproportionate in my mind, similarly when the mood is upbeat I exaggerate the positive. No matter how hard i try I cant even stop bullshitting my self. So I apologize if I caused trouble or offended. There is a second metaphor in there that was but part of an assumption, maybe you related, maybe not. And as always, never trust a blind man to lead the way. You have been overlooked Blindman, absent for times too a movement of cause, off studied perhaps una-where to state of mind's More proper I should have said in short witted witty Witt. Get fucked, as you are up and about, first thing to hunt for. Hope you get one sooner the better me thinks. Mado xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd like to see a persons 'location' and 'looking for' on the forum (I guess with an option to control this for each user) - I've looked at so many profiles of people/couples I think look hot just to find out they're in Perth (mostly, sometime NSW or QLD, very occasionally VIC where I'm from). Also as an item, in the profile, times you are most likely able to be able to meet. I guess for most people this would be weeknights and weekends, but I'm a shift worker and able to meet any time of day (depending on my shift obviously). Might be handy to know for some people.
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Coops27M
11 years ago
Present said appendage i'm to blow in, mein frauderline and i will be more than happy to comply ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can't see how that would be policed? People can say anything lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A fantasy section... As people seem to put a lot of things in their fetish section which they haven't actually done and are just things they want to try. When I search via fetish I expect that person to actively have enjoyed that fetish... Not just fantasizing about it. Maybe instead of fantasy we could call it a todo list hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Coops27M'Present said appendage i'm to blow in, mein frauderline and i will be more than happy to comply ;) Why does everyone keep talking German to me? I'm Dutch...
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gazpacho
11 years ago
More statistics.. I get it... but whoa... that's going to be tough. What's my number? Holy crap. I'm in some kind of trouble... do you mean limited to this year? I could try and guess... but it still wouldn't be accurate... I have a bad short term memory ok? I mean, when I'm fucking, I'm not an accountant! I just want to put the fire out. How will I know what to advertise? For starters I don't know my number.... Does a couple count as one? What about a threesome, foursome or moresome? Do gang bangs count as 1? What if I didn't cum ~ is that one? How many blow jobs count as 1? I think that RHP could put this on profiles. It wouldn't hurt, but it wouldn't be that useful to me. I would leave it blank. HgsGazpacho
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I have fisted two girls.... Does that make me a beginner? Or experienced? ... Again that is subjective. I am an experienced clit rubber but not sure how another girl would feel about my skills. Hehe Well, at least you have beginner sized hands. :p HugsGazpacho
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lilmisssquirt
11 years ago
There have been a few profiles that we really liked and their sexual interests were similar or with way more extras.... I would like to say if you are only into full swap, then don't have the extra's ticked that we really like. The couples tell us sorry it's full swap or nothing, come back when you're willing to give it a go. I think it would make it easier and not waste time on messages only to find out that they're only into full swap. Also being relatively new to the scene, it scares us to hear how many people fucked who each week. We just think wowsers we value our health, but each to their own. - Posted from rhpmobile
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