RHP

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What seals the deal?

May 20 2011

Just wanted to know from you ladies, what is it about a guy that seals the deal. I'm not asking about what attracts you initially but after first contact and a little bit of banter what is it your dying to hear or learn about from your possible playmate or suitor?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    What am I dying to hear or learn about a possible root? Nothing really, well I usually want to know if they are married or not. Becuase if they are, I stay no go boyo. (with one exception) Otherwise by the time you get to this stage it really is a matter of chemistry. Is it there or not? And if it isn't, the question then is, am I horny enough to do this guy anyway. Sorry I can't be of much help slim-but-hard. It's just a matter of pheromones I think. Oh and often lots of alcohol so I hear :P xx Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Unless he's a complete douche, it's not the words he says that are going to turn me on/off. Assuming I like the way he looks, it comes down to smell for me. Can I stand the way he smells or do I want to just rip his clothes off and lick him from armpit to arse right there and then?Since I've stopped smoking this has become even more important. My nose at the moment is really sensitive to too heavily applied perfumes/aftershaves/body sprays and also really sensitive to guys who don't smell "right" underneath all that crap.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Each and every person is different and I look for different things from each person. There is no deal maker or breaker for me. Each person is unique and I accept that. I dont want the same thing from each person. That would be a little boring and predictable. If you are asking this question in order to use the information given to your advantage,I would suggest you just be yourself and let your own style and personality shine through.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    It's not one thing it's a whole lot of things. I like Smell ..... if he smells good I agree with Polar_Bear_Girl I could just rip his clothes off and do all manner of things Eyes ..... Nice eyes work wonders Lips .... The shape of his lips I don't know why I just like lips Then the rest is just a nice package and each Guy will be different

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Its all in the kiss . While I am not looking for anything specific to be said if he cant make me tingle with a kiss then chances are he wont when we are in the bedroom (or the kitchen, the park bench, wherever) . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I kno slim, your after a ladies view.but from a man's view on the same subject for ladiesI have 2 agree with Focus, its in the kiss, i am a very passionate kisser and when your with someone who knows how to kiss, lips, mouth, neck and ear, its such a turn on, O and Heather a woman's fragrance is right up there too.

  • SacralChakra

    SacralChakra

    14 years ago

    If he is confident and strong with me I'll just melt. Kissing is soooo important too - its probably most important thing of all, at least at the start... lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'playtoyz'I kno slim, your after a ladies view. but from a man's view on the same subject for ladies I have 2 agree with Focus, its in the kiss, i am a very passionate kisser and when your with someone who knows how to kiss, lips, mouth, neck and ear, its such a turn on, O and Heather a woman's fragrance is right up there too. When I typed smell I meant fragrance not only whatever aftershave / deodorant but also there overall aroma I did see this guy walking his dog the other day and how he looked in his blue singlet and jeans was a distraction. So maybe I should add how he looks in a blue singlet

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I think it just depends on what you're after. If you're after just a night of fun and sex, then you hope you both click, and he will ask you for sex and you both have a great time. If you're looking for a relationship, there's a lot more involved. Yet, everyone is different, and everyone has their own thing they look for. I don't think you can put in in just one sentence or one category what seals the deal. What seals it for me, may not seal it for another woman. I mean come on, you men are all different and look for different things in women, so why would you think we are not the same? We all look for different things that attract us in each other.