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July 14 2015

Hey all, been on for a little bit, first time on the forum. The wife works away 9 months of the year, being home 4 days a month over that time. We have had experience with others, and with her away, she has encouraged me to look for look for someone to have fun with while she is away, and she do the same. After reading the forums, married men regardless if there wife knows aren't likely to find anyone. Is it worst looking or effort after foolishness. I have a busy life and kids, so travel is hard unless organised. Thoughts in it? . Cheers, J. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

Not sure what you mean by this, but if you're wanting to play alone with your wife's permission, here are my suggestions: - Verify your couples profile, so people know you're actually a couple and not a single guy- Make a singles profile for yourself (and your wife if she likes)- Refer to your singles profile in your couples one, and vice versa and explain that you play separately That way it would be more believable your wife is aware and ok with it, which I think will help you find playmates.In my experience there are definitely women here looking for attached guys, but it's the deceit that many (I've met) have a problem with. Good luck.

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RHP User

9 years ago

They already have partners and are just looking for a bit on the side to enhance what they have and are more likely to seek someone who is already in a relationship of their own. Good Luck

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him_and_me

9 years ago

Hi J. If it is really something you are interested in, then you should pursue it. You'll find your wife will get inundated while you may not get many responses at all. I've found that attending meet and greets or private parties where I get to chat to people and they get to chat to me and my wife really helps. They get a better sense of you, and they know that the wife knows. One thing I will say is that it comes across from your post that you aren't really that fussed about it (ie busy life, travel is hard, is it worth it etc etc). With the lack of responses to messages, you may become despondant quickly. I'd suggest not taking that to heart...just write a well thought out message describing what piqued your interest in the woman you message and what it is you're looking for. If it works, great, if not..move on and don't bombard them with messages/flirts etc. In this case, I'm not sure persistence is key :) One good thing for us guys is that we aren't constantly subjected to "Hey wanna fuck" type messages 😜 Him - Posted from rhpmobile

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jandv

9 years ago

I have read most post on this forum and it reminds me of a few posts. (marriage in crisis) and (single male, practically impossible) posts. Are you happy with this arrangement by the way? How many men or how many times a year could she play? Do you both have rules? What happens if you/she falls in love with a FB ???

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RHP User

9 years ago

Thanks for the advice, J - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

go to a club with your wife and meet women together and try to find an available lady thats interested probably be easier with your lady with you and i mean your lady can get a fuck anywhere you need her help . - Posted from rhpmobile

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