What to expect first time at a swingers party

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  HotNightsGC

  7 years ago

  Hosts will usually try and choose a balanced ratio of single women to couples. Single men are limited to small numbers. Anything can really happen depending on the crowd that attends. It just depends on how people get along on the night. Nothing quite like brand new experiences......, Just dive in, socialise and have fun! 😊😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  ReyandJean

  7 years ago

  Depends on the event. Some want you to strip down to sexy upon arrival or at a time, some not. There tends to be a bit where everyone hangs around chatting or being shy. Then people will drift off to playrooms, get naked and engaged. Some people may hang at the edges watching the action. That's what we did first couple of times. If you start playing with each other, then other people may try to engage with you. Usually polite enough to stop if asked. You are in control, so there's nothing to worry about provided you stick to couples evenings and events with good reps. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  allfouradventure

  7 years ago

  Had a great time at our first one , was a bit daunting but very enjoyable, - Posted from rhpmobile

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  rupamohan

  7 years ago

  If it is a club they will have explicit rules listed. I assume you have read those. Private parties will have similar rules. oh BTW the rules do not depend on visit count so I am not sure why you think your first time visit may have different rules? If you are new to swinging just expect people will be as good or bad as you think you are. Some rules sound good like ask before touching but remember sex is not something to be planned like dinner menu or played like sports with rules. Be practical and take ownership of saying NO or Yes. Ignore the myths about pushy people. It is just a phrase used by lazy people to justify their laziness. Oh don't be surprised if you find few inches goes missing from the dick size quotes in profiles.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I kind of disagree with the above comments. The “rules” all depend on the organizer. Your best bet is to contact them prior and ask them the question. Some parties have lots of single men, some parties have lots of male bisexual play too. I’ve been to parties where everyone has to get totally nude - that’s the rule. So it’s not always the straight couple and chicks scenario. So, my advice. Do your research before you go with the organizer.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Yes dress in your best “come fuck me” outfits. I just wanted to add that parties really vary. Some are awesome some are awful. So don’t judge based on one bad or good experience, keep going until you find the group or party you like.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Seeing a lots of naked bodies lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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  gsbcouple

  7 years ago

  We are attending one tonight. It is been a rollercoaster of feelings this week. From wild sex with MrsS thinking about possibilities to very insecure thoughts about what and what not to do. If any experienced couple would like to get in touch before the party msg us, will be great having someone who knows the ''drills'' to hang out with there.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Not sure who will read this . But must agree. group sex can be planned to a point.. from there relax be real respectful, it's an open event, expect to be approached at some point and know size matters about as much you need it to...remember there is a person attached to the fun bits ;0) and hell if you haven't seen it before maybe you should just keep dreaming about it because that okay too.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Gsb couple. How did you guys find it will be very interested to get so feedback if you don’t mind xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Welcome to the world of swinging, hope you will enjoy and like it. Well we are neighbours (I live in Quakers Hill too) so can give you a few pointers. I am married but wife doesn't like sex so have been to the clubs a few times. 1. The first time will be very intimidating for you guys. 2. Every club have their own rules and they also have themed evenings, so you may just check before going. 3. There is only one club in Sydney which allows single guys and that too on a Thursday and Sunday afternoons and only a limited number, all other clubs are couples or single ladies only. 4. Make sure you are very sure you want to get into this and there is no jealousy afterwards. This can make or break relationships. 5. There are sexeducation sessions last Friday of every month at the Secret spot, that might be a great start for you. Have fun, and feel free to reach out for any further advise. Love charmer - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  We finally located a swingers group/club in Hobart and contacted the guy who arranges all their social activities/meetups etc, and he told me that the best way is to attend an informal social night out with the group at a club or bar, what they call a "greet and meet" night, and just mix in with the members and ask questions, then once you are comfortable that this would be something you may be keen to do, attend one of their play nights and just play things by ear, and start mingling at your own pace, and watch what others are doing. We are attending our first "greet & meet" night this Friday evening at a small bar in town, not sure what to expect, and getting a bit nervous.

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  noeleena

  6 years ago

  Hi Greg, Yeap I,m that mad Kiwi. and I do go to Hobart and planning on June / July next year as I do every 2 years or more if needed, I,ll be in the Rosny county so would you be interested in making contact, I,m a quest so can not do emails to others so may find another way to do a contact letter or something . Thank You. Waimate = south island . ...noeleena...

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