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What to look for?
May 30 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Have you found anyone at all that ticks all your boxes???
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree with most of what you wrote except the size department, I have found a few lie about it anyway and I am not after anyone huge, just someone who knows how to use what they've got. I have found generally that guys who know how to express themselves about sex are better lovers rather than the ones who talk themselves up with basic references about the act.
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Missb4u
11 years ago
You expect all of that... And I thought I was fussy! For me it's the whole package. I don't like long winded profiles, I never look at the fantasy and I put no faith in anything they say much, kinda harsh I know. It's only after a few messages that they generally show their personality and I make decisions from that. But profiles without pics get nowhere. And I say again, "ask me" as a response to any of the multiple choice questions just shows me lack of attention to detail or something to hide and I won't be asking you. I think in my whole time on rhp I have only spoken to 2 men that had ask me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Lovemaiden your post almost sounds like a man having a whinge because no one responds...lol... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I very seldom search for profiles that match mine. If I receive a message that appeals to me I'll go and look at their profile. I do have a few boxes that need to be ticked :AvailableAge (Sometimes I do talk to people outside my age preference)Distance from meI read their profile and look if there is something in there that catches my attention. I have also made some great friends on here even though their profile doesn't match what I'm looking for as a FB, FWB or lover.
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RHP User
11 years ago
LoveMaiden, should all of these prerequisites arrive on your doorstep at the same time you are going to be one lucky and contented lady, good luck too you. :-)
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
If I like something or a pic or profile..,Well I like it.... IF I don't, well I don't. I know what I want, my likes and dislikes so that for me makes it easy...I look and desire mind, body and soul. If you have that, well you have my utter full attention. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
They have to be into me, want and desire to meet me.. And follow through with that. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LoveMaiden'they are always quick to want to see our pussy pics Who do you talk to most of the time? 18 year olds?..
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RHP User
11 years ago
What do you look for in a man's profile From a guys point of view...I have been told i look skinny ,then people meet me and think he aint skinny!Have been knocked back because of height... some women want a giantAge is another thing we men get knocked back on...Size.. i am amazed with so many cock shots up in profiles you dont know how big someone is.. Personality and humour work well for me.. i am a shooting star !I really only look for Sydney drinks night now ... if that's on im going you can meet me there in a safe environment.Well safe for you lady's not so safe for me ... i think i put me back out dancing with all you women last time..I want RHP compo
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Is what put your back out sweet cheeks. As for the question OP. I would like someone who ticks most, if not all; of my boxes. I don't want to settle, been there done that. I think my profile lists what I'm seeking pretty succinctly also the fact that HE possibly doesn't exist. 😏
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I look no further! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
The only things on my checklist I really stand by are age, unattached and non smoker.......and I wont even look twice at a profile that has no thought put into it...ie..templates
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RHP User
11 years ago
I look for sexiness.
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makoman22
11 years ago
I agree its not right to ask a man about his size,but I also think its fair, that if its unusually small,that u should say ur good with ur tounge,to give a heads up.lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
LoveMaiden, please don't take this the wrong way, it's just my experience...For the second time this weekend I had an OMG / WTF moment and rushed off to see what was actually in my profile!Maybe that's why my mails never get answered - or worse, DELETED WITHOUT BEING READ! Matching "Red Hot Fantasy"? Really?You realise that with just 3 dropdowns, each with 8 predefined options, even by random luck there is approx 1 in 350 chance of a direct match! Anyway, my secret fantasy wasn't even listed. I looked, but couldn't find "Foursome with you and 2 midgets whilst riding camelback across the desert....". It must be nice to live close to the big smoke where you have the choice of hundreds of potential hookups and can afford to be choosy. For mine, I would be looking for :- acceptable looks, right location, some personality, can communicate effectively, and will treat you right in the way you want to be treated.... At the end of the day, profiles are just words and pics that can easily be faked or misinterpreted.You might still need to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince! Rocky
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RHP User
11 years ago
Profile words are often loaded, sometimes indadvertedly, and cannot ever do real justice, but they do hold the threads and clues of where you need to follow up in actual conversation. I also think that 99% of decisions are made in the split second you see a (face) pic.I hate my mug shots, and "I'm told" I look better in the flesh, but without a great face pic, your success rate is compromised. But also, I think people can become more, or less attractive when you meet in person and find out who they are. "Endowment?" Clearly this is highly personal but my opinion, based on the comments from recipients, is that girth is more relevant than length. Makes sense.
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RHP User
11 years ago
For knowing exactly what you want. I'm sure your inbox will be overflowing by now and I sincerely hope you find that exacting lover. Nothing wrong with knowing what you want and going for it, even if your desires and wants appear a little shallow to others. For me, interesting, intoxicating, fascinating, charming, witty, great conversationalist will always capture my attention. Always
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RHP User
11 years ago
...if you can fake that you're in like Flynn
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cougar4fun
11 years ago
Especially after meeting more than one guy after initially thinking their profile pics and information were quite plain and didn't catch my attention so to speak, but turned out to be some of the hottest, nicest and most talented guys I've met. If their profile is acceptable, they put in the effort to message back and forth, seem intelligent enough, make time to do a meet and greet, I judge way more about them by sending messages and catching up for a chat. Having said that, I'm slightly flexible with the age I'm looking for, but Its probably one if the things I normally stick to, there have been a few exceptions though...
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RHP User
10 years ago
So its my fantasy choice which has been cruelling my chances all this time... It is the nature of the beast that the profiles are the only window on the soul of the hopeful suitor in internet site such as this, and that window is particularly small and opaque. You can't please everyone all the time with your summary of you as a person (some people switch off at walls of text, others don't bother with short pre-fab responses). You also can't really convey 99% of you as a person in the little slot allocated. So it is only marginally better than random luck. Having said that., I admire LoveMaiden for knowing what she wants which is better than faffing about. I must admit that since turning 46, I have found it a bit frustrating that I have slipped out of the up to 45 demographic for many of the women I message, albeit by 12 months but I guess I had to reach my use by date some time. I also agree with KIzza that the drinks nights are better vehicle to get out there to show what you are made of. I like to think that an interesting profile may pique the attention of others and then lead to other things when we have the benefit of actual conversation in a neutral environment. Until then I will have to work on my fantasy options.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Sukki' For knowing exactly what you want. I'm sure your inbox will be overflowing by now and I sincerely hope you find that exacting lover. Nothing wrong with knowing what you want and going for it, even if your desires and wants appear a little shallow to others. For me, interesting, intoxicating, fascinating, charming, witty, great conversationalist will always capture my attention. Always Sukki, agree with you there. In my profile although I like a man who is fit, it is not the main criteria, as long as they look after themselves. nothing wrong with average built. I like them to look and smell clean and amorous. Lol, I love a man with a confident sexy attitude and great eyes and lips for kissing.
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