What type of oral sex you like girls?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  every woman is different.... me personally i hate it when a guy pokes his tounge uo instead or around my bottom area (by invitation only there please!) i like their tounge to stay on my clit where it counts : ) and a finger or 2 inside mmmmm always does the trick and BE GENTLE but thats just me... what i hate other women will love..... trial and error see what makes her moan : ) xx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  She's got it right.......

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Yeah I think it would depend on the woman in question and what she likes and dislikes. Women don't seem to come with a one-size-fits-all preference for head. Licking bits rarely feels bad, I think, but the difference lies on the spectrum of good, very good and mindblowing. One word of caution- going to the ass and then back may feel good but could cause a nasty infection. Which no woman will thank you for, if it happens.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'xxticklishxx'She's got it right....... Yeah keep the focus on the clit until it swells to double or triple the size AND yeah, PLEASE go slow with the fingers, i find some men simply do not cut their nails often enough, ouch! same goes with stubble, some stubble feels like sand paper. Hard to get enjoyment when u have internal scratch marks and pash rash on your VERY soft SENSITIVE areas

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  uneventful

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Quoting 'xxticklishxx'She's got it right....... Yeah keep the focus on the clit until it swells to double or triple the size AND yeah, PLEASE go slow with the fingers, i find some men simply do not cut their nails often enough, ouch! same goes with stubble, some stubble feels like sand paper. Hard to get enjoyment when u have internal scratch marks and pash rash on your VERY soft SENSITIVE areas Women .... unlike men .. dont need to be rubbed from top to tail straight thru .. men can wank and rum from top to balls without ending up with abrasions and scratch marks which make it tender and at time painfull .. focus on the lips, the clit and the vagina ... and dont rub or suck straight thru .. for fanny gravel rash is not pleasent...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Techniques-for-licking-out-a-woman-32112this link whilst crass in name .. also provided other insights ..Where oh where is the forum subject search button

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Probably the type that gets them off. Cheers Nev

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  the clit area is enough. notubble, as suggested. a little bit of finger plays. all good and yummy.

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  Hanna_ybbn

  14 years ago

  I think your question opens up an entirely different debate;1. What type of sexual being are you2. What's the quality like?In the first instance, for me personally, it took some time! I have always loved performing oral on my partners. I mean LOVE it. It is possibly one of the biggest turn ons for me. So I wondered why I had such a hard time being at ease when a guy would go down on me. It took a while, but eventually I realised that my issues were 2-fold; I find the act of having oral performed on me a very personal and intimate one. I'm not shy by any means, it's just that I find that's about as intimate as you will be with a woman. This made me come to the conclusion that because of this, I would probably only ever enjoy having oral performed on me if I was in more than a casual situation. Well, I'd still enjoy it, but doubt I would be able to orgasm to be honest.That said - I can flick my little bean a certain 3 ways and down she cums!!In the other instance - quality.Some people - male and female - just have no clue and really make a complete mess of it. Hardly enjoyable. I've possibly suffered more times at the hands of these types and that will have an effect on my outlook toward it too.As far as technique goes; just remember that you also have 2 perfectly good hands that can enhance the entire experience - so many men forget the finger action whilst they are trying soooooo hard to get the button pushing right!In the end; listen to your partner. Really listen. How is she responding when you touch her gently there? Apply a little more pressure here? Caressing there? Does she moan softly? Did she catch her breath? Did her back arch and her hips raise ever so slightly in anticipation? Be aware and you are so going to be in a good place!!Han

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I agree with Hannah that you need to be aware of how your partner is responding to get the best results. Its a combination of the playing with both the clit and her g spot to a point where you find exactly what is working best! Its not rocket science to be attuned to her needs!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Hanna, a great response as usual, very comprehensive. There is a tangent, and another topic to be raised, which i most likely will, about the "Having a hard time being at ease when a guy would go down on me" part of your post. This is not unusual to be heard from a woman, I am unable to clearly identify where the un-ease is - exactly. That is to say, I do not have the slightest un-ease when a woman orally pleases me, first time or not. . Although your 2-fold analysis is enlightening, I am left wondering if you have a certain "point of view" about yourself/that part of your body (in particular) as you prefer certain parameters, to be fully comfortable? . I am in conversation with a good female friend about her oral preferences, any advice would be great. Feel free to decline as I know it's rather a personal topic. T.E.

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  Hanna_ybbn

  14 years ago

  Hanna, a great response as usual, very comprehensive.There is a tangent, and another topic to be raised, which i most likely will, about the "Having a hard time being at ease when a guy would go down on me" part of your post.This is not unusual to be heard from a woman, I am unable to clearly identify where the un-ease is - exactly.That is to say, I do not have the slightest un-ease when a woman orally pleases me, first time or not.Ok, until the past couple of years, I was not really exploring my sexual side. I had been with my husband for 10 years and in that time, he lost all and any focus on being intimate. Ultimately, it was partially why I left him - not entirely.I have always been a very sensual woman. In those 10 years with my husband, I withdrew, became very self conscious, put on a LOT of weight and basically didn't really give a shit about myself.Then I left, found independence and was invigorated to try the things I'd longed to partake in. Slowly. The 1st person I was with after 10 years with my husband - was a woman. I met her via another Adult website and it was my first experience at being with a woman and being with a couple.For me, it was awesome! I really enjoyed myself and the fact that I was with a woman - felt very natural and quite beautiful.For the first time I also didn't feel intimidated.This couple played with me to their hearts content and I lapped up every minute.It was not until this experience though, that I'd ever actually relaxed enough to let myself go completely. I think that having another woman there was a big help.This did not open a flood gate however and I soon found I was back to letting life take me over and once again my quest for inner peace on a sexual level, was put on hold!I'm really only just now getting back in a place to open myself up to experimenting and having fun again.In the past 2 years, I've had casual lovers, friends with benefits and outright fuckbuddy's. This is what I'm finding;The better my partner knows me and responds to me, the more I will react. Full stop.Generally it's not the sort of connection you are going to find immediately with a 'fuck buddy' is it?Allow me to be a little self-righteous here too to a degree; This is my pussy!!! I take very good care of it and am not about to hand it on a platter to someone who does not know what he or she is doing!!!!I love sucking cock. LOVE it. Adore it - would be an understatement. Therefore, I have made it my MISSION to be bloody good at it and to make damn sure that not only is he enjoying it, but that it is making me so damned horny just blows his mind!!What I am saying is; I've researched my passion well. I've listened, taken mental notes and compared scores. I know I do it well and therefore do not hesitate to do it and let the man I am with know I know exactly what it is I am doing and I'm going to be be bloody good at it!Honestly, I think I've only ever been with 2 guys that got me even remotely close to feeling that they were in control of that situation and knew what they were doing. Also, the amount of times that my clit has almost been nibbled off thanks to some overenthusiastic spastic who has no clue - no offence actually meant but for fuck's sake!! Am I moaning? Am I saying 'Oh god yes!' am I breathless? Well? Can you not take the hint?I'd be interested to know the ratio of bad blow jobs to bad pussy jobs actually - there's a thought!T.E you may always ask me anything for I am an open book - except for those pages I tore out and burned Han (takes a deeeeeeep breath - ahhhhhh)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Couldnt agree with you more... You are spot on with everything you said in both posts, from my personal experiences also.I too LOVE to give... It turns me on no end, and apart from my wonderful husband eating my pussy oh so wonderfuly, I do not find it easy to orgasim from recieving, as it does take sometime to know someone and to feel uninhibbited with them.. In saying that though, I met a Midwife once, who managed the feat quiet well XXX

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Thanks for the time you took to write that response Hanna_ybbn, very complete, from a lady who knows herself (and orally talented too). I'm glad you 'Got Out' of the incompletion you were living all those years. To sexually re-awaken and enjoy sensuality as you obviously do these days. . Simply Wonderful.... . Just like you.

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  Hanna_ybbn

  14 years ago

  I lost 55kgs in the process - sort gave me the confidence boost I'd been looking for I'm actually not an image obsessed person at all, so my comfort level rarely depended upon my physical size.That said, dropping 55kgs also gives you the ability to prove just how flexible you know you've been all those years hahahaha!!I've given this some more thought and I am standing firm that good oral comes from the heart.If you don't want to really go down on a woman; maybe you just don't like it and that's ok, but seriously learn to excel in something else and she probably wont care that you rarely go there. I do suggest not going there if this ^^ is you. She will not appreciate, you will waste your time and nobody wins.If you do in fact genuinely like to go down on your woman - chances are you are already doing a good job because you enjoy it!You might still be a little unsure, so tell her!! She might not be used to being asked, so be prepared for this to take a while.And herein I support the theory in which I doubt I will go there with many casual lovers. It's just not worth it.In my case, now I've had awesome oral, I'd rather they give it their all or just don't go there.Han

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  55kg is a slice of self appreciation and a confidence winner there Hanna. Sexy eyes you have, You look delicious. And on delicious activities you write so freely about and do freely as well by your arousing words, I am actually very good at this passtime, Had to do some reading up early-on and practice on many women untill about 28 yeras old I remember.... I would only know I'm good by the reactions I've received since then...Like one lady gasped "what are you doing to me, no really wha..wha...you..Oh Fuck, I'm gonna cum...NOW.... Or something like that.lol. Apparently "Tony knows his way round a bedroom" and that one made me laugh, cheap as it could be taken, I was stoked to be talked about in this manner. A man must have his prowess acknowledged, It's good for the ego. I love this sensual play too, and can spend hours teasing, pleasing and chatting until the intensity arrives and the folllowing orgasm shortly thereafter. Nearly had my nose broken a few times by the odd pelvic bone of an explosively orgasmic woman. Way to go. Way to blow too.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I love it, can I steal it? Hehe Wowzer.... There r some brutal er 'pleasurers' out there! I was aware on the internal scratching and fanny rash, but there are clit biters too???? Ouch!!! Men and them performing oral,I have the experience of late teens early 20s MOST boys not much of clue, lots didn't see it as much of a priority, can't say anyone at that time would have been all that upset if it was in fact taken off the menu! 10 years of relationship. Cut to the last year, SUCH a difference!!! I have met guys that LURRRVE gettn down, the excitement and hunger they have for it satisfies me b4 they even get started lol! The last few partners I swear I'd reached My orgasm limit! I felt like my body was going to either explode/implode or just tremer and shake till imposed out! Different techniques, one guy literally Was chasing me round my king bed with his mouth and fingers and I couldn't stay put at all it was soooo physical, o and o and o! He had a lesbian teach him tricks, wish I knew what they knew! Then another guy, complete opposite, not Matter how hard I'd try and break free or how much I thrashed about, he wouldn't stop or release his tight grip on me! So I seemed to have gotten lucky with the late 20s thru to late 30s what a solar system sized difference from those teen times lol!! Trip down memory lane... Sigh

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  There are no set rules sweetie.. every woman is different, and if you plan it out, that is the one thing that really turns me OFF. I don't plan and don't want a man to plan every move he is going to make on me either. Go with the flow. BUT... listen to the cues of the woman... and i repeat, listen... either to her words or her moans. And the biggest advice I can give you is lick a woman the way SHE wants to be licked... and NOT the way YOU want to lick her or THINK it is the way she likes. So many men lick the way they want and how THEY think it is good, NOT the way I like... a real bummer and a real turn off, and if they don't listen, chances are, I won't see them again. Don't stereotype all women, and don't think that all women like to be licked the same way. Try what you are doing upfront, but if you are not getting any responses, then don't keep going on, cause chances are, she doesn't like it and you aren't doing it for her. Try something different. Some women don't want to say what they like (which is why my age is great, cause I have no problems knowing what I like or getting it lol)... but some women will not say, so if you are not getting the response you want, change the way you lick. Nothing worse than a guy doing the same thing over & over again, and no response.

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