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What women want
July 22 2011
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
What a woman wants depends entirely on who the woman is.And probably hormones too.Just stop trying to figure us out and go with the flow... It works with men!Cheers,MS(the female half)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Right this minute, a massage as i have a stiff neck... or instead maybe a stiff cock to massage maybe... hmmm?? But while i figure out what i want, I also want another glass of wine Umm no make that a vodka/oj OR...maybe a frosty cold beer with lime nom nom ummmmm SERIOUSLY JJohnson, most of us female types (moreso on particular days where the hormones take control, but you only ever understand it in hindsight, nature is cruel) don't even know what we want, then we think we do for a minute or in my case a whole f'n decade, then find out I don't... then just get even more confused , decide to then want this, no, that, no no, fuck it! I'll try it all, but can't really commit to all of it, coz it will have to feel right at the time, it depends on mood .... The reality is : WE WOMEN WANT IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT........ just the good stuff, we'll throw back the shite that we don't like, coz even thou we do want it all, we may change our mind as what we thought we like we actually don't, or we did and don't now, or just because.... But ALL just incase we do want it and don't know it yet. Clear? P.S. My answer may seem like i am taking the piss and not being serious, but the scary thing is, it couldn't be ANY closer to the truth...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' Right this minute, a massage as i have a stiff neck... or instead maybe a stiff cock to massage maybe... hmmm?? But while i figure out what i want, I also want another glass of wine Umm no make that a vodka/oj OR...maybe a frosty cold beer with lime nom nom ummmmm SERIOUSLY JJohnson, most of us female types (moreso on particular days where the hormones take control, but you only ever understand it in hindsight, nature is cruel) don't even know what we want, then we think we do for a minute or in my case a whole f'n decade, then find out I don't... then just get even more confused , decide to then want this, no, that, no no, fuck it! I'll try it all, but can't really commit to all of it, coz it will have to feel right at the time, it depends on mood .... The reality is : WE WOMEN WANT IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BUT........ just the good stuff, we'll throw back the shite that we don't like, coz even thou we do want it all, we may change our mind as what we thought we like we actually don't, or we did and don't now, or just because.... But ALL just incase we do want it and don't know it yet. Clear? P.S. My answer may seem like i am taking the piss and not being serious, but the scary thing is, it couldn't be ANY closer to the truth... You nailed it! I could've written that myself, although in my current state, I'll take the stiff cock first please and the massage after that. . All I would add to your post is that there's yet another dimension and this one often annoys me the most. . There are also times when women "want to want" something, but just can't seem to get to that point where we are able to. It isn't enough to have all the best intentions yet not quite be OK with wanting something. This frustrates me no end, but I suspect it probably frustrates the men around me a whole lot more! . Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'. There are also times when women "want to want" something, but just can't seem to get to that point where we are able to. It isn't enough to have all the best intentions yet not quite be OK with wanting something. This frustrates me no end, but I suspect it probably frustrates the men around me a whole lot more! . Flirty x What does that mean Flirty?? You either want it or you don't, no use going against who you are. xxMeeks
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' There are also times when women "want to want" something, but just can't seem to get to that point where we are able to. Would it be any fun if you knew exactly what a woman wanted ? BORING ! As they say..."it is the thrill of the chase" Besides, not all women are the same and to suggest they all want the same ONE thing isn't that stereo-typing ? . But yes, like the hungry Lion and the fleet-footed Gazelle...sometimes we wish they would just lie down and give up ET xox
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RHP User
13 years ago
You either want it or you don't?? Pfft! How often do we women simplify our wants so easily? ... Or am I a complex version of our gender? I think at times we even relish complicating our needs and wants! . For clarification, perhaps I should say we women can have the very best of admirable intentions, yet fall short of them. I personally, can set the bar very high and demand more of myself than I should at times. And I think sometimes we expect the same from the people in our lives. .. Perhaps it would have been simpler to say that I think women can have high expectations of men (and of other women too), but often even higher expectations of themselves. . This has nothing to do with going against who you are as a woman, and I doubt I'm at risk of that anytime soon LOL, Rather, I think we move the goalposts for ourselves and others as we see fit. I was reluctant to blame hormones, as Booba had mentioned, but maybe it does have a little bit to do with that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem'. There are also times when women "want to want" something, but just can't seem to get to that point where we are able to. It isn't enough to have all the best intentions yet not quite be OK with wanting something. This frustrates me no end, but I suspect it probably frustrates the men around me a whole lot more! . Flirty x What does that mean Flirty?? You either want it or you don't, no use going against who you are. xxMeeks Flirty I totally agree, i filed that into why we WANT EVERYTHING, knowingly knowing we may have err got it wrong and throw it back to don't want even if you really really wanted.... For me I have actually feared that want the most.. like the huge milestones in life, i didn't know how i was going to feel on my wedding day, or when my bubba came out -would i feel that bond... For some, that worst nightmare thing of no matter how much want you have, in the end it just isn't enough and the timing is always going to be BAD :( Even though broken up now, the wedding day was everything i wanted, and thank god myself and everyone i know bonded with their bubs... phew... solution, i will just have to skip all future milestone moment, just to be sure... but i am likely to change my mind, who am i kidding? I am a female afterall
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RHP User
13 years ago
Honestly? I think most of the time we do know what we want, we just don't have the balls to say it or go after it. In all seriousness... you know what you want. Don't you?xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
LOL... maybe I just don't realise I want it until I get it. Drives me nuts how some people are always worrying about something that MIGHT happen. Waste of energy Booba!I mean everyone knows if you ignore something long enough it will okay away. Right? LOLxxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
So what do I want from RHP men? I want -Sense of humour, someone that is fun and definitely a little naughty. Someone who can act silly with me sometimes and do something crazy just for the hell of it.Intelligent & interestingSomeone who is sexySomeone who is experimental or adventurousA good kisserHas to have anal sex as one of their sexual interests ... it's a deal breaker for me :P I WANT PASSION!!!I am sure there is more. I have to think about it. xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Either you girls are just plain old friggin confusing tonight or I've had too many wines, but I can't understand a bloody word of this
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm a female Cancerian. I analyse and re-analyse. I hypothesise, I discuss things to within an inch of their life and then reformat the bloody program all over again if it isn't sitting right. I am certainly no worse off for being this way. Instead, I am far more self-aware and accepting of the notion that wants and needs change. . I explained it to somebody tonight when asked about my "type of person" by saying "I like what I like and I want what I want" and unfortunately (?), I tend only to know what I don't want when I'm dealing with something I don't want. . I just don't believe in thinking and feeling and living life in a half-arsed fashion. Better to go out there and actively pursue what you want and take calculated risks for your happiness than to ever regret and play the what-if game... And in all seriousness, yes, I know what I want and honesty is my strongest quality, no matter how much it may unsettle myself or anyone else. I have been described before by a friend as an idealist, a dreamer and they said it like it was a bad thing ... I prefer to just think I am a woman. And it is my perogative to change my mind and the course that I plot as I see fit, so as to ensure I don't wind up regretting anything later. . Hmmm ... I wonder if the OP is regretting having asked this question yet! LOL . Introspective Flirty x
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'So what do I want from RHP men? I want -Sense of humour, someone that is fun and definitely a little naughty. Someone who can act silly with me sometimes and do something crazy just for the hell of it.Intelligent & interestingSomeone who is sexySomeone who is experimental or adventurousA good kisserHas to have anal sex as one of their sexual interests ... it's a deal breaker for me :P I WANT PASSION!!!I am sure there is more. I have to think about it. xxMeeka I'll have what she's having! . Oh! Except, an aversion to anal sex isn't so much a deal breaker for me, but boy, will you be missing out if you don't like it! 'Coz I'd like to think I've gotten quite good at it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ladies the poor guy is asking you what do women want from RHP men... & neither of you have answered the question and you have confused poor DGT. Flirty, yes I analyse things too ...well only when I am having MAN troubles. Gawd the hours us women spend talking things to fucking death....... only recently someone "accused" me of thinking like a girl and that I should think more like a boy. And how does a boy think? The mind boggles. hehexx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thinking like a boy, you haven't got a .... Ohhhh! Hang on! *evil laugh* I answered OP. I want much the same as what you listed and were it not midnight, I might be able to elaborate and add a few things to that list! Truth is, I'm very lucky in that I have all that now. I just got caught up in the age old "what women want" saga. As for DGT, she's only confused because she's all hooked on a little daydream at the moment. Were this topic catering to the bisexual amongst us, I'd gladly list what I want from RHP women too, but why complicate things any further for the poor OP? My wants are far simpler than I've made them seem ... O:-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'LOL... maybe I just don't realise I want it until I get it. Drives me nuts how some people are always worrying about something that MIGHT happen. Waste of energy Booba!I mean everyone knows if you ignore something long enough it will okay away. Right? LOLxxMeekaBut my Greek genes and my mum in my ear for 36 years, make it a hard habit to break...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' So what do I want from RHP men? I want -Sense of humour, someone that is fun and definitely a little naughty. Someone who can act silly with me sometimes and do something crazy just for the hell of it.Intelligent & interestingSomeone who is sexySomeone who is experimental or adventurousA good kisserHas to have anal sex as one of their sexual interests ... it's a deal breaker for me :P I WANT PASSION!!!I am sure there is more. I have to think about it. xxMeeka I have had a year and a bit as a singleton and had no intent to meet people on RHP or elsewhere for anything other than friendship and sexy time lol! And it included the accidental discovery of this site, watching more porn than i ever have, then the real edumacation occurred when i dipped my toes into these forums! I feel like in the American Pie movies, the guys found the bible of sex that was handed for years to the next set of virgins who need to learn the good stuff. So it was news to me that I thought by having had a few threesomes and being turned on my both sexes was really not EVEN a blip on the sexual radar! It isn't that the concepts were all new, but actually having experiences explained by people have experienced these things and understanding, lets face it EVERY LAST detail, no questions are left unanswered here, which is what i love most ;) So that was the path i was on. But i was being agest and seeing mainly the younger gentlemen, which were perfect for all of the above. (and just what i have always done?!) But I am in the weirdest territory mentally right now, as my whole life plan was pulled and now it is a clean slate, and the beautiful youngsters are starting to not be enough anymore, it is just more of the same and my head space is starting to move away from my need of just having fun (which in all honestly would be the perfect life, fun times only thanks J)! But i am a grown up sadly, and i have responsibilities bleerr so i have a future that i need to figure out, and the young mates generally don’t have a lot of the life experience stuff that I need to now focus on exploring, coz i don’t even really know all my options (it was gonna be 30 years of family surban life, and now i know NO NO NO WAY, so what next? I love to aim for something!?), so that is why i don’t know what i want! I have accidently met/bumped and grinded and conversed with the older more wise, more experienced gentlement recently, and was pleasantly surprised at the difference in approach with the sexperience part, and it soon became obvious that they can really help me my sharing the life experience under their belts and not only get all the fun stuff, but kick into a philosophical place too. Not sure it would be a common thing sort out in RHP haha Only willing to meet people that have had interesting lives that I may want!! Also must fuck all night long, have this 30 items on your ‘do’ list, blah blah haha
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' I'm a female Cancerian. I analyse and re-analyse. I hypothesise, I discuss things to within an inch of their life and then reformat the bloody program all over again if it isn't sitting right. I am certainly no worse off for being this way. Instead, I am far more self-aware and accepting of the notion that wants and needs change. . I explained it to somebody tonight when asked about my "type of person" by saying "I like what I like and I want what I want" and unfortunately (?), I tend only to know what I don't want when I'm dealing with something I don't want. . I just don't believe in thinking and feeling and living life in a half-arsed fashion. Better to go out there and actively pursue what you want and take calculated risks for your happiness than to ever regret and play the what-if game... And in all seriousness, yes, I know what I want and honesty is my strongest quality, no matter how much it may unsettle myself or anyone else. I have been described before by a friend as an idealist, a dreamer and they said it like it was a bad thing ... I prefer to just think I am a woman. And it is my perogative to change my mind and the course that I plot as I see fit, so as to ensure I don't wind up regretting anything later. . Hmmm ... I wonder if the OP is regretting having asked this question yet! LOL . Introspective Flirty xThat you were thinking like a guy, nice and simple, i was gonna ask how you managed to block all the normal 'girl on shoulder' opnions, you know the evil you and the good you and the fights between them all day every day about everything?!? I need to be taught to exorcise the voices in my HEAD HELLLP!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' I'm a female Cancerian. I analyse and re-analyse. I hypothesise, I discuss things to within an inch of their life and then reformat the bloody program all over again if it isn't sitting right. I am certainly no worse off for being this way. Instead, I am far more self-aware and accepting of the notion that wants and needs change. . I explained it to somebody tonight when asked about my "type of person" by saying "I like what I like and I want what I want" and unfortunately (?), I tend only to know what I don't want when I'm dealing with something I don't want. . I just don't believe in thinking and feeling and living life in a half-arsed fashion. Better to go out there and actively pursue what you want and take calculated risks for your happiness than to ever regret and play the what-if game... And in all seriousness, yes, I know what I want and honesty is my strongest quality, no matter how much it may unsettle myself or anyone else. I have been described before by a friend as an idealist, a dreamer and they said it like it was a bad thing ... I prefer to just think I am a woman. And it is my perogative to change my mind and the course that I plot as I see fit, so as to ensure I don't wind up regretting anything later. . Hmmm ... I wonder if the OP is regretting having asked this question yet! LOL . Introspective Flirty x D we share the same brain?!?! This is part of what i sent to someone yesterday (sound familar to you?): Love to push people, dig deep and try and understand how differently people think and approach things etc As it may help me understand this crazy world around me a little more! Also hoping that it may be... a positive exercise for some to reflect on the past and present, then assess if it all feels like the right path blah blah I believe there are many people out there blindly ground hogging, not miserable, nor particularly ecstatic about life. Never thinking to take the time as the decades pass, to press the STOP button, reflect on the past, was there any plans and how did they go? Where do you see your future? Brainstorm what if’s of possibilities. Are you happy that you have/are/continuing to strive to reach your potential, are you motivated enough to even care? For me I know and have been told i approach life a little arse about (not wot u r thinking), and have ALWAYS been so sure and confident of what i DON’T like/want/experience etc in life, and very quickly have the compulsion to get out of being in what ever it is that screams ‘WRONG!’ inside my mind. So that is great i always thought, but apparently it is actually making me focus on the negative (understanding that statement LOUD and CLEAR now...unfortunately). I am somehow after 36 stubborn/spoilt years meant to figure out how to actually not do that.... how do i change how i think? I should google it.?! Look for a course, errr read lots of boring self help books and just get more confused?! I have gotten here by my negative method, which i guess is a reactionary way of life. Always have to make a mistake to learn something... maybe that behaviour should have been my clue? But i didn’t know there was another option and that is to, know what i want, who i am, what is my potential, what on earth is it that i should be aiming for that will be my permanent Elysium... No fucking idea, hence i try it, i don’t like it, i put it on the don’t do that again list... so all i have is lots and lots and lots of questions????
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can only speak for one woman, ME. I think, believe and imagine that asking what women really want is no different to asking what men really want. Not all women want the same as nor do all men. It depends on the particular woman. For me, what I want with one partner may also be different from what I want from a different partner. I want to be able to feel, desire, crave, experiment with and seek to satisfy my needs and wants as well as those of my partners. Sometimes hard, fast, deep, raw sex, other times soft, passionate, sensual lovemaking, yet others a quickie, just to come and de-stress without any frills. I want to initiate without rejection and i want to be take. I want to be in control, riding my man ontop, to my rhythm anddesire and I want to be taken, controlled and directed by him. It depends on time, place, mood, energy, lust and sheer horniness. There is no short simple answer. BUT WHAT I REALLY WANT IS THE RIGHT TO WANT ALL THE VARIETY OS SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS THAT I DO, I WANT TO BE ALLOWED TO EXPLORE, EXPERIMENT, DISCOVER AND RELISH MY SEXUALITY AND I WANT A MAN WHO IS SECURE, CONFIDENT AND OPEN ENOUGH TO ALLOW ME MY SEXUAL FREEDOM. IF YOU ARE UNSURE, ASK THE WOMAN YOU ARE WITH, CHANCES ARE SHE WILL HAPPILY TELL YOU WHAT SHE LIKES AND WHAT SHE DOESN'T. TALK, COMMUNICATE AND RESPOND TO HER.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think we now know WHY the op asked the question pmsl...... And if you read through this very carefully... it's quite obvious what women want.. . . . . No seriously.... read it again if you missed it. . . . . It's anal sex Always happy to help out
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RHP User
13 years ago
With women, the devil is always in the detail LOL
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RHP User
13 years ago
A guy wants beer, boobs, and a sandwich. Thats all. Simple.A girl wants - to be a guy. Ahhhh...the simple life....*runs and hides behind the couch to avoid hard objects thrown in his direction*But atleast we all can agree to wanting Anal sex. It really IS what makes the world go round...right? *grins*
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anal sex makes the world go round?? Well I think it would be fair to say that most of us get done up the arse most days. Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
i don't have a clue what women want and suspect some women don't know what they want either (which is more a human than women thing). the one thing i do know tho is that if you give them regular orgasm's then most would be more than happy with that
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RHP User
13 years ago
hmm who is up for it im up for it so fess up who wants it and how hmmm also tell me what you desire for after we had anal hmm enlight me
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Anal sex makes the world go round?? Well I think it would be fair to say that most of us get done up the arse most days. Lol Good call. And you would be right...I mean, just look at petrol prices...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Anal sex makes the world go round?? Well I think it would be fair to say that most of us get done up the arse most days. Lol Shame it isn't ALWAYS done the way we want...
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RHP User
13 years ago
What?? I'm more confused now than when I started!The only thing I've learnt is to be VERY WARY about asking a woman what she wantsAnd anal sex.....thanks Jean (notably a man) for making some sense of this
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RHP User
13 years ago
all of itmore of itwe want it nowwe want it yesterdaywe want it again tomorrowand keep on the ball because it's all going to change tomorrow and heaven help you if you miss something.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Everything she needs and desires but what she gets is another matter. Goes both ways. Desire can be the root of sorrow and the path to gratification. I need a team of analysts to go any further.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Good morning, Mr. Hunt. Your mission, should you choose to accept it is to do the impossible, do exactly what she wants before she even knows she wants it, but do it in a way that makes it look like you did it because you understand her and don't let the fact that you did it once ever lead you to suppose that the very same thing will be right next time. As always, should any member of your team be caught or killed, the Secretary will disavow all knowledge of your actions. This message will self-destruct in five seconds. As an example of the impossibleness of it; an ex wife once complained that I only every bought her things she wanted for her birthday. The next year I bought her a years subscription to Men Only and she still wasn't happy! Women!! Yeah, go figure.
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