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What would you do if all of a sudden you can never have a Orgasm again... ?
May 21 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
For more than how they make feel in my pants. I love their minds too !
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RHP User
12 years ago
...perhaps we would start Communicating ... GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
How big is his wallet?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I survived. The myriad of types of relationships that with people would be all I need thank you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As long as I would still be held, stroked and kissed I would be more than content.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I ride a motorcycle....for some reason... maybe its physiology, maybe its just sheer bad luck...but my perineum (area between scrotum and anus) presses in such a way on my motorcycle seat, that the vibrations cause my whole groin area to go numb....happened on my last Ducati...which was a factor in its sale, and now on the big bike its happening again, but only on extended rides...maybe its the thump of the 1600cc motor. Not sure... any ways, the last time it happened it lasted a few weeks, and its a very unpleasant sensation....and sex was the furthest thing from my mind....lol eeew.. I do have a friend tho, who is struggling at the moment with penile cancer.... he's a mess, the poor guy, and so are his bits. its not 'sex' that is his big worry or concern.....he's much too unwell to have a very active sex drive...its acceptance. he's feeling very isolated and alone, as its not something that can be offered up in casual conversation...ie 'how's your bits?'....'fuck off' is what he'd be thinking.... I've personally caught him a few times having a quiet cry, and its difficult. I don't know what to say, because 'it'll be alright'....just doesn't work...because it wont be.....he has a plastic tube for a penis. ..and his scrotum is long gone.....and man hugs? well, they just don't cut it... I think if you don't have bits...and your sexual urges, imagination and drives are all working like they always did...It would be maddening... erectile dysfunction doesn't stop men from being interested in sex or arousal, it just inhibits the physical side of it, and its been our experience that there are men out there who have bits that don't work but who are more than willing to adopt the role of 'giver of pleasure' in any way they can....generous we know, but not really what we are looking for..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd have friends. Men and women are fascinating out of the bedroom as well.- Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I would go to see a Doctor for professional medical help, a specialist even if it's beyond GP's expertise. As for whether I would still find men interesting or not, it depends on what level of interaction are you referring to, because you use "men" instead of "man" :-) To me, if it's a man whom I met on a sex site like RHP and for that one purpose eventually, then I would politely tell him I'm sorry but I have to move on. If it's a man I met in the real world and with a view to something more serious, then of course I look for a real brain, a heart and a pleasant personality more than just his small brain! Besides, a loss of orgasm is not bad enough for me to run away, his charm and kind heart can make up for it :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who else would change my light bulbs, fix my toilet and clean the gutters?
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RHP User
12 years ago
love men for far more than their penis and I would always find them incredibly interesting.My libido switched off during a 16 year marriage. I still look at my ex and feel dead I feel the same as Ms_D, as long as I can be held, stroked and kissed I would be very content.
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RHP User
12 years ago
leaves me numb,I just divorce him
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RHP User
12 years ago
had it for nearly 1/2 my life..Packed my bags and left.And discovered some men, with very interesting things called penises.FOXYI think as we age gracefully, sex becomes less and it's replaced with companionship.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've been feeling this myself, and I'm not in any way physiologically deprived. But just recently, I've been feeling very much alone. Alienated in fact, from not only a very dear friend of mine - with whom I have and will continue to share some amazing sexual experiences with - but also myself, as a person, and a being. A man. Questions that constantly drive through ones mind like, what's wrong with me? Why is it, that it feels as though I'm drowning in sexuality and I just can't breathe? Why don't I enjoy sex as much as I used to ?? as it used to be, like food to me. But rather, why is it that I feel as though sex, and sexuality seem to be the only form of entertainment that people recognise between the sexes?? I know it isn't my friend's issue, I know it's all in my head. But my body DOES feel numb, like as if there's something missing. Is it sex? Is it just a hand that runs over my chest as she whispers in my ear?? I'm sure to find the answers to these questions in good time. But, for me, it's very overwhelming to the point of overload. Frustrating as hell to not know exactly what it is that needs that scratch. But the thing is, my dear friend is still right there, holding my hand, not physically of course, but I know she is right beside me, as a friend, and that, in itself is a truly beautiful thing. Would I do the same for her??? Fuck yeah, after all, it doesn't matter if you're in a relationship, or not. If you're physically unable to achieve that level of intimacy, or have a mental block that affects it. You still have a friendship, and I don't believe, that that necessarily means it has to be a member of the opposite sex, or even a level sexuality between you, all you need are your friends. Sue me if that was too deep :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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smo669
12 years ago
If I could no longer have an orgasm (permanently, irreversibly) I'd have my balls cut off.......one less area to scratch!
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RHP User
12 years ago
surely it's not the size that counts but how he uses it :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had a lover for a while who had a horrific back injury and hadn't been able to get an erection since his accident that was years before I met him. Even though we never had penatrative sex (with 'his' willy at least) he was one of the most sexual beings I've ever had the pleasure to enjoy, and hell, his imagination and wily ways were incredible. If I'm going to recall the great lovers of my life, he's right up there. He couldn't orgasm but he was still an incredible sexual being. On the other hand, if I couldn't come ever again I reckon I could go bitter and twisted.
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inspirit
12 years ago
enjoy sex without and orgasm.......Don't you? Orgasms are not be all end all ffs
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inspirit
12 years ago
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inspirit
12 years ago
I enjoy sex with out an orgasm was suppose to read....
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RHP User
12 years ago
an orgasm... I did it for 7 years, as I just wasn't able to due to medication. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me, well without hormone patches and a change of attitude I would not be having the sex i am today. I did not have sex for three years before I joined rhp a year ago I hardly even touched myself I shut down, looked as frumpy as I could and was reclusive, I had a back injury and thought stuff it no more sex for me. A few guys on the beach where I walkedmy dog would try to chat me up,but I would just shyaway from men. would men be interested in me if I was not a sexual creature like I am now. I honestly do not think so, not even my husband. but for me Idont mind at all if a man cannot have sex, so long as he does like the other women say just hold me and make me feel safe but yet to find a man that will hold me without wanting sex. who knows the old folks home may offer that for me one day though the other night a lovely man snuggled up and I feel asleep, wrapped up in his arms. that was pretty nice
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yankmychain56
12 years ago
I guess i would have to occupy myself with something else, but it would be so difficult. Losing your 'manhood' has a REAL psychological impact on a man.I recall back in the army days (U.S. Army), my platoon sergeant was recalling a time when they were on R&R on the beach and some nice VC decided to pepper the place with land mines.His buddy had both legs blown off at the hips.He had his buddy' s head on his lap trying to comfort him as the medics wee working on him.He had no chance of surviving.all he could say over and over was 'is my s h i t gone?" meaning he schlong and testicles.He told them if his cock was blown off to kill him.I guess it means a lot to us guys.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Curl up and die. But then I read these (mostly) beautiful posts. I would let him see other women alone if he wanted to, and/or continue on the threesome journey, I too can enjoy sex without orgasm. I'm also a pretty good actress when I need to be, have faked a few orgasms in my time, before my current partner. Hehe, they thought THEY had put in a good performance... As long as he were still there to hug whenever I need it and spoon at night, and be the Bogey to my Bacall... actually Desi to my Lucille Would probably be more apt... That would still be wonderful. And yes Ms D, who the hell would do all the real dirty work?
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lovman8
12 years ago
Nah I'd still be fascinated by women and at least flirt like mad still. And I get a lot of enjoyment out of giving pleasure , which is possible without penetration, so I'd develop extra sensitive fingers and a longer,stronger tongue. Oh an inspirit.......you need to try typing TWO handed
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sex to me isn't just about orgasm. It's the level of intimacy!!! Gypsy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Isn't that Jim's Maintenance ???- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Who else would change my light bulbs, fix my toilet and clean the gutters? Fuck that, I'm going sailing.
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malfun
12 years ago
ive been single for 13 years tho i did date in this time and had some good time. tho in the past 5 years i havent been with a women sexually as i got feed up with all the bullshit that was comming with it all. i still get an erection from time to time and i do miss the intimacy but i dont answer to anyone and do what i want when i want.One of the reasons aswell is that my knees have gone and i have been waiting for 2.5 years for something to be done with them. I have trouble walking any distance and the pain is debilitating so i thought it was not far to put another person thru all of that. but hopefully soon they will be done and life might get back to normal, what ever that is . But in saying that if there is someone lady that would like to change all that for me i wouldnt say no. a dear old friend of mine had his prostate out and so the old willy didnt work properly but he tried everything he could to pleasure his wife. she said that she could live without the sex aslong as she had him but unfortunately he has since passed. so i guess im saying that sex as itself is not everything in life as long as there is unconditional love nothing else matters really. but hey it is so much fun and feels really good to have it .
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me....there is way more to a man than the function of his penis, there is far more to a relationship than sex. I understand that the ability to have and maintain an erection, the ability to satisfy your woman is all tied up with the way you perceive yourself to be a man...an integral part of the male psyche. If I could never have an orgasm again then yes, it would be a major loss in my life. No more so than losing a limb. There is so much more to intimacy than sexual penetration
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RHP User
12 years ago
What is this thing you all keep talking about? What do you call it, sex?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Some funny and sad posts , and females response's different to males..The sad are those who have to deal with with a genuine loss of function either through surgery (prostate) or some other reason.. This hit home as I know someone who had his prostate removed last year losing his functions . These days Im very carefull what I say and the way I joke with him because I know he feels his loss.Mixed emotions with females.. many have said it wouldnt matter as long as they could still get a cuddle and security from a man. I viewed this with mixed emotions as I believe as nice it was to say , would it be that clear cut in reality ? I guess if you need to deal with it.. you will , somehow..Guys, fairly predictable with some funny comments specially the 'shoot me ' comment.. lol.. Nature has it that a guys manhood is a very important part of who he is.. I think most males would find it very hard.. Doesnt mean he wouldnt adjust to his loss if needed. While ever a man has magic hands and a probing tongue I'm sure most females wouldnt object to extended session of foreplay... Where's there's a will ?Ms D... whos going to change her lights, fix her toilet, and take the garbage out ? lol... read my last paragraph , Im sure that might take your mind away from them boring domestic chores.. Jay
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have recently ended a committed relationship with an incredible man, one I planned to spend the rest of my life with for this very reason. His decision not mine! I would struggle yes but would gladly give up sex for the chance to spend every day with this man by my side. I can tell you that the reality is just as these women have written.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit'enjoy sex without and orgasm.......Don't you? Orgasms are not be all end all ffs Yep. Agree wholeheartedly. Orgasm doenst define how you have enjoyed sharing yourself with some one. And believe me Ive had some fantastic times without coming.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I feel your pain .. I'm sorry to for your loss.. Goes to show there's more than one answer depending on circumstances... chin up.
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