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What you would want from a swingers club.?
October 16 2013
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
Firstly, we found some clubs not mentioning any names , are more like RSL clubs. Everyone just sits out side smoking all night while the dance floor stays empty all night and all the rooms remain empty.. Kind of makes me wonder why they would bother paying so much to just sit and smoke.. So for us we would look for a club that has no outside smoking area lol and a good dj that plays decent upto date music..(also hard to find). Themes are awesome, we love theme nights.. Another great idea to have is a show. A professional stripper come and do a show and then have amateur strip show afterwards.. They use to do that at X club. Made the night a lot more exciting. For us Xclub was the best swingers club ever...such a shame its gone .
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RHP User
11 years ago
It to look like Dexter's kill room. But with better lighting.
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RHP User
11 years ago
......- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Boring!! It's a hard mix because I am not interested in the couples that much but having a large group of straight men.... NO!! So for me, I want to see bi-sexual men. And a lot of them. Yum!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think it's important to have a dress code. I have seen couples in their 50's rock up and the guy is in denim shorts and runners... And stripping off to a sarong ain't that much sexier. I think blue jeans should be banned as well. Really makes the night ordinary when people don't dress up or don't dress in their sexy clothes. Well, for me anyway. Good music, a good area to social in and maybe different themed play rooms would be nice.
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RHP User
11 years ago
cheaper door prices would be ok...- Posted from rhpmobile
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Forus1234
11 years ago
We want the swingers parties like the exclusive private ones in Las Vegas!! VEGAS BABY!
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RHP User
11 years ago
I say this with all due respects...... BUT.... If the dance floor was empty, and you sat around all night smoking.....then does that say anything about the club or it's patrons?? I would say it says lots about BOTH. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can relate to the experience you mention...I found it quite bizarre that the club was empty and people were huddled around rubbish bins in a seedy alley...the ''smoking'' area...depressing at best
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I think blue jeans should be banned as well. Really makes the night ordinary when people don't dress up or don't dress in their sexy clothes. Completely agree. The women are in their lingerie and some guys walk in fully dressed. Not fair and not sexy. Though it's better than that Japanese gent in only his white undies, socks and dress shoes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It seems the parties I've been to (as a couple or single male) cater only for a net profit ?? The people (god love em) that host these parties have sadly lost the true meaning and turned into a small profit machine ??? Yes they need to cover cost (no one should dispute that) but shit the difference between couple and single lady's is miles below the price for a single honest guy... Also some in Sydney use hookers to lift the game ? (I worked long enough in the game to pick a working girl??)
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RHP User
11 years ago
There's clearly a gap in the market waiting to be filled...Who's independently wealthy on here and wants to start up a decent club in Sydney?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Meeka, sounds like my kind of party. Let me know when you throw it and im in :p- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm with coffee n cream an investment needs to be made to developing a club that is contemporary, classy and sexy as hell! I'm a believer in the field of dreams motto- build it an they will come. Just having someone welcoming and professional on the door would be a great start. I went to one place that had a woman on the door that looked like she had just rolled out of bed,and not in a good way! It would help turnover if you were licenced . I loved the Sydney place where it was just a mass of curtained "rooms" and you could hear everything until you got lost in your own mad entanglement of bodies. I also love the idea of having a web cam and being able to put on a bit of a show. I think of it like throwing a party, a great host always makes the night irrespective of what it is. Minxy x
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RHP User
11 years ago
C&C how about some seed capital for a swingers' club ... no pun intended :-dWhat we'd like to see:- dress ups always - no effort, no entry- stylish decor- different music (seriously in this day and age it isn't that much effort to make a few playlists). Who has noticed Vincent by Don McLean at every A&D. I shit you not- A deviation from the red theme. Was new in the 80s, but it's a dated colour and look. - couples and girls only- no domestics (seriously there is at least 1 domestic per night) - take your shit elsewhere people. Everyone is there for a good time not to witness domestics between 1 who is eager and 1 who can't handle it. Save your domestics for private times. It's not a good look in the locker room, smoker's courtyard or on the mattresses- perhaps some sort of membership (Lotus used to do that)
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' I say this with all due respects...... BUT.... If the dance floor was empty, and you sat around all night smoking.....then does that say anything about the club or it's patrons?? I would say it says lots about BOTH. But we don't sit outside and we don't smoke. We even went there with a couple once.. all they wanted to do is sit outside and smoke as well.. We left them there ,it was just too boring.. But it is a mix of both smokers enjoying smoking more than good sex and really crappy techno dance music that no one can dance to lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
We know exactly were you're coming from. We used to enjoy the club scene, but found that it wasn't really attracting anymore, so have shied away and mainly only visit the private parties now. To answer the question in mention, a swingers club in our eyes needs to, Have class about it, No drugs, Singles are ok, A dress code, Decent music, Classy theme nights are a must, and most of all a decent cover charge. Enjoy the journey Peeps..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok you've got me near wetting myself laughing with images of a guy that looks like Psy doing a naked gangnam style dance lmfao- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
What's wrong with blue jeans??? I wore blue jeans to couples club with what I thought was a nice shirt to compliment them...... Lol perhaps I was a little under dressed??- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A good pair of blue jeans that fit well are hot.... In in fact I love blue jeans on hot guys. It's the blokes who wear cheap jeans from Loes, or ill fitting jeans and joggers. Anywhere! It's just not sexy or classy. You are supposed to be enjoy an erotic evening that is outside of the everyday not going to the local RSL to grab a granny. You know?
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'A good pair of blue jeans that fit well are hot.... In in fact I love blue jeans on hot guys. It's the blokes who wear cheap jeans from Loes, or ill fitting jeans and joggers. Anywhere! It's just not sexy or classy. You are supposed to be enjoy an erotic evening that is outside of the everyday not going to the local RSL to grab a granny. You know? My wife complains about the same thing.. Not sexy jeans ofcourse, she loves a pair of tight jeans.. But you do see these really well dressed sexy ladies with there husbands that look like they just walked out of tab lol Makes me laugh though, I bet there wives argue with them about what they wear everytime..for sure they do lol I had these really cool southpark boxers I use to wear all the time..My wife got sick of seeing them on me , now there missing in action women know there fashion I guess..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not that I'm a visitor to these clubs any more but why is it that almost (and I do say almost to cater for the perhaps 1 club i've seen who's different) universally that single men are treated with such contempt and loathing? Its like the mere thought of a single man being loose in a swingers club or party is enough to send anyone else scuttling for the hills! Personally I stopped going to clubs in general (even when invited in as a single male and not made to feel like i was a rapist on release for the weekend) because a) many of the couples there clearly don't think putting in an effort was warranted, b) the alleged swathes of single females who go there to find partners were in a word, 'lacking', and c) the RSL feel was well present and d) the prices were exorbitant as a single man and not worth it when I could, as someone else pointed out above, go to a pub and get the same action cheaper. Not only did I see (and still do see) a blatantly discriminatory attitude of most swingers parties and clubs around Australia towards single men, but there is a monstrous double standard present, perhaps those couples should remember that the male part of their happy little world was once a single male too.. That rant out of the way, if someone built a well presented, professional, equality based club with people who made an effort I can bet that as someone else above said, they would come..so to speak.
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RHP User
11 years ago
One of the issues an organizer has, is that if they allow single Men at the same price as single women, the place would be inundated with men. How do you get the right mix? Also sometimes single men feel like they are entitled to something when they go to a club and they are not always respectful. Unfortunately it's the few fuckheads that spoil it for every body. Did you know that in the Sydney swingers club that on the nights single men are allowed in at $150 a pop.... Single women get in free. I only when the one time And I don't think would ever go again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I went to this awful sex club in Melb once, can't remember the name of it. It was all men standing around in their tighty whiteys and a few older couples. My girlfriend and I walked in, and yes we were new to the scene, but the atmosphere was dismal. When you have a whole place where 90% of the patrons are straight men. What are you supposed to do? Have a masturbation/porn room ? Yes there are women that liked to be gang banged but a lot of women don't like that. If this is is what is happening at a place you will not be very successful. So, some places try and put regulations around how many men and sometimes it's dependent on age and looks too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't disagree that there are some first class knobs out there. Would it surprise you to know (probably not) to know there are some absolute gold plated 24 carrat bitches out there who would shame some men with their behaviour? Why is it different for them? Because they have a vagina? lol while I"m partially being facetious I think the point is made albeit not so elegantly. There is just as much a sense of entitlement there from women (I've found anyway, and I don't pretend my experience is the ONLY experience or reflective of everyone before anyone decides to rant at me..). I don't dispute what youre saying, we've all had our respective experiences I guess.. and its not reflective of what we all wish or want swingers clubs to be.. but, I for one am well out of the scene, i just don't like the discrimination, regardless of the purported reasons for it.. I hope others have a better experience than me anyway.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am really dying to check out a swingers club...but I am a single dude and I hear its off limits for us single guys... I would expect a clean space...a bar with decent booze...lovely ladies and men and also no real bad vibe...my first time I would be fucking nervous but at the same time I hope not to get gang raped by huge big burly men...and maybe the big Amazonian chick in the corner with the big black dildo lol...I am 34 and very vanilla so far in my life but this kink world is slowly dragging me into it and I am liking it but liking it ayt my own pace...I went out with this lovely lady who was into polyamory and also bdsm and she fired me after two weeks of plain jane sex....I had a great time but I do realise that everyone has their thing and their vice....just because you illicit a vaginal spasm does not mean she's going to call you again....such is life....she may want to tie you up and put clamps on your nipples...yikes!
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RHP User
11 years ago
The club scene in Australia? In a word, depressing. We gave up on it a while ago. Having tried clubs in most states we found them uniform in character. The same themes seem to resonate. Too many single guys. Too many couples who haven't really resolved their issues. Lack of respect. Too many lurkers. Tacky decor/facilities. The list goes on. The ambience is overwhelmingly suburban, kind of like a bad 80's party. The organizers usually motivated only by profit cater to the lowest common denominator. We persevered for a while in the vain hope that we would find a club with some class, but they don't seem to exist. Maybe it is just us, but we don't seem to inhabit the same mindset as most of the couples we met at these clubs. It seems to us that these days people like the cache of being swingers, much more than actually swinging. A kind of status thing. There still seems to be this persistent snigger snigger, "aren't we naughty " sort of mentality around the scene here. We now only visit clubs when we travel to Europe, the club scene there is a world apart from what we have on offer here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ahhh roger- Posted from rhpmobile
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ikknowitsnaughty
11 years ago
This is all good stuff guys...whilst we are not independently wealthy.......the thought of developing a classy venue interests us.... Anyone know anything about sex on premises licences?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hi, good topic, a few years back, we had our first swing experience at a New Years party, had a mobile trailer mounted hot tub, and 3 couples. The hot tub was definitely a key element, in making for an amazing night. Also the party time of year helped and couples we felt comfortable with socially, allowed for a frisky evening to be thoroughly enjoyed by all. A few drinks mellowed the atmosphere, as we were all staying over, and once all climbed in and shed their bathers, it was very erotic.After that night we hosted a few parties, The hot tub was the reason to get close, and naked, (or almost), and provided a little wisp of privacy that allowed a little playful getting to know each other.Once aroused and fully horny, the spa is no longer important. However, many people need a little help, to ease the 'normal' social constraints that usually apply to behaviour in public.So if you don't relax and get comfortable, you just sit and chat or smoke.Enjoy life to the maxAnjin :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Absolutely agree with you about the women and not disputing that. My main point is that if everyone was allowed equal access you would still get 90% single straight men in a club which isn't fun for anybody really unless it is a gang bang type situation, hence the restrictions. Didn't say it was fair. Give me 90% bi-sexual men at a party .... I am there baby!! Woo hoo that's what I'm talking bout!!!
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goldcoastcple69
11 years ago
Another thing that comes to mind. If you do plan on starting or improving a club of this nature, they why the hell wouldn't you mc the night? The reason people just sit outside smoking and doing nothing is because theres no host , no show or no central theme to grab peoples attention and get them in the mood.. I guess one would ask themselves..what is key here, in making a difference? At least from a business point of view.. A host or mc? A show of some sorts, ie strippers, amateur strip show, prizes etc? Good music? Where do they get these djs from ? lol I would love to know why music in these clubs is so bad ? A good sign that you need to fire your dj is this..If there is a bunch of sexy women all dressed up standing near the dance floor with their arms folded.. then I think that..is a clear sign the music needs to change lol NO outside smoking area that's larger than the premises itself lol with lounges and heaters and tables ..just have a tiny little area for smoking out in the cold that's uncomfortable.. years ago , the first clubs we went to here on the gold coast and Brisbane were so good. The clubs these days are nothing like they use to be. Now there watered down social clubs that resemble tweed heads bowls club more than an actual swingers club. lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey guys,Some interesting comments here.Suspect the business model for a club is challenging in Oz... hence the lack of clubs. (Wonder why it's not so challenging overseas? Can't just be greater population size and density...However, if we ever travel, it'd be interesting to know what your fave clubs in Europe and US are.:)T
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RHP User
11 years ago
There is a thread on another site where a guy wants to start a club that is for what he terms 'good looking' people. What he more means though is well presented, fit people. Like you can't show up in runners and jeans. I'm sure those of us who have been to a club get disappointed when there isn't anyone in the club we are attracted to.However I can see so many things wrong with the 'attractive people only' policy.1. What if you do ok in society but the doorman doesn't think you are any good?2. What if only one of you is allowed in?3. What if you are attractive but don't rate yourself so never try to get in?4. How hard would rejection be to take if you showed up and got turned away?5. What if you got inside and didn't agree with anyone else being in there 'i.e. you didn't find them attractive?.Fantastic in theory but I can't see it working.There is a Sydney group that vet people before they allow them to their parties, once again good in theory but we have been to these parties and they should have been more strict.We'd also like to see at least a night where ages are enforced. Say a 40s and under night and actually check IDs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gee gee we also heard that spiel about the 'exclusive' parties in the east. They definitely weren't exclusive and I think asking people to pay 200 to a party in your own residence is also a bit rich when most dwarves would hit their head on the ceiling of the play area. I understand he has costs to recoup or people to not pay Must Stop There Or ...
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DynamicCouple36
11 years ago
Our first " foray" into the scene was Saints n Sinners on NYE 2012/3. It was an eye opener for us. 1000 + people in a 4 level venue having fun: chatting, dancing, partying, making out, shagging. As it was NYE there was a great festive vibe. Next we tried Attunga, a venue which during the week is a gay club and then on a Sat night becomes a swingers club. Not a bad venue. Nice bar, dance floor with pole and disco ball, various viewing lounges, glory hole boxes, private and open play rooms, a mirror room ( our favourite) , a sauna, spa and steam room. We used to go there almost every Saturday including the open nights where they let in a few single males. Last Sat of the month is couples only. Management was always quite strict with regards the number of single males let in. Normally no more than 8 or 9. They also watched them carefully. The club was completely renovated in July and the new management now let in 30 single guys. It's become a money making thing. Quantity over quality. The result is that we have been followed to the toilets. The guys have tried to push open the locked door. They have tried to climb over the screen walls to gain access to the private rooms . Possibly having paid $ 85 to get in, they expect to get some action? Perhaps as there are now too many of them compared to the couples that there is competition and so they tend to become very pushy indeed. We now no longer go to open nights. Management won't see the light and that if the trend continues they will end up with a swingers club full of single guys and no couples. We have gone to 2 private house parties in a house specifically decorated for the swinging scene and thoroughly enjoyed the more intimate ambience. So what makes a good swinging club / party for us? Well the mind is a powerful sexual organ and for us the venue needs to add to our fantasy and mental enjoyment. It needs to be different to our home. It needs to be themed and have an element of fantasy to it ( think of the movie Eyes Wide Shut ) . The music needs to also do it's thing. There needs to be areas where patrons can have a drink and a chat. Areas where one can tease and flirt . Perhaps a small dance floor where one can do some dirty dancing . Some open and private rooms with sensual lighting . Good clean bathrooms and showers are a must so as to freshen up before and after . Swinging need not be dirty and seedy. It needs to be uplifted and taken to a higher , classier level we think . And the right venue can certainly be instrumental in doing just that . - Posted from rhpmobile
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ikknowitsnaughty
11 years ago
Thanks for the insight J_L...."eyes wide shut".whilst one of the worst movies we have ever seen, relay started the conversation to our new lifestyle. Maybe a monthly night where everyone has to wear mask/masquerade. ...and must where them all night.....Another night pyjama party ...another night where the guys must be naked but the girls clothed... so many ideas!
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chevtrek
11 years ago
more swingers.more genuine swingers.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Went to the mikesplace Xmas party, it was wonderful, Nice music, not too crowded etc...had a great time
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RHP User
11 years ago
We visited a club in Brisbane the other night and had a hot steamy sexy night. We totally agree with some of the other posters a dress code is important it helps to associate behaviour with dress. We were also surprised at how many people paid good money to sit outside and smoke we thought they were there for the POKE. The room we played in with another couple was poorly air-conditioned or it kept cutting out so it got really hot, actually to hot to continue. A water bubbler or fountain here and there would be a good idea. Chains across the doors was a good idea as it let people know they could watch but not join in. We lost a pair of knickers so when we went looking we found an empty condom packet and a cigarette butt under the mattress so cleanliness is obviously important. Other than those few things the venue and people were well matched and respect was evident, awesome night. A few more in Queensland like Mackay, Townsville and Cairns would be good also, on holidays atm and no others to be found. P.S Happy new year to you all xo
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RHP User
11 years ago
In a word...Class, this comes down to the decor, how inviting it is does it offer a range of open spots and private areas? Are they cleaned regularly through the night? There are some great spots in America, no really classy upscale spots here. Would love to see something upscale marketed to a high end clientele
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Love dexter's kill room..... 😃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
we have been to many "swing clubs" For us, we arnt interested in dancing/smoking or standing around drinking.. We can do that at a pub/club/casino.. Our perfect club would be SOFT music (who wants to shout over top 40 rubbish) Cool décor and ice breaking things like pool table/spa/lounges. Chains on doors to allow open or chained. Single nights/couple only nights and various Theme nights (bi/dress up/fantasys etc) Mikes is probably the best we have attended ..it has it all :) and yes, a dress code for guys...no t shirts or runners would be a good start
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RHP User
11 years ago
SEX, DRUGS, AND ROCK N ROLL,
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RHP User
11 years ago
Used to try out the clubs years ago. In short..there's something wrong with most of them but for quite a wile now we stage our own Hard BDSM parties every month on Capri billed as ''OUTRAGE''. I'ts not for everyone and wasn't meant to be but some of the things we do could and should be adopted by ''swingers clubs''.You only get into OUTRAGE by invitation. You're asked for your password at the foyer by our heavyweight security guys and if it matches your name on their list you're through...and if it doesn't you take a swim in the canal out front {and a number have}. Those invitees are stripped of cameras & phones and of course their clothes as well. I'm not suggesting swingers clubs need to be as severe but they could take more care in who comes through their venue.We have the advantage of a large walled waterfront house, pool, spa and a lot of rooms and while our invitees, some parties up to 80+ people do not charge any fee at all i do think if clubs charge a fee you should at least get reasonably what you paid for....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well have never been to one but shouldn't it be that you wear what's comfy? I would not wear lingerie but I must say you can still be sexy in a low top with some flesh showing. After all its fun to see what's underneath the wrapping mmmmmmm just saying :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I went to one and it was casual and boring, to me its all about the dress code, men should all be in suits and the ladies all dolled up looking amazing. to me a man should always have a nice suit it shows class. ladies would you love it if you were in a room with guys in suits??
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well if some one comes up with a venue, you have a club DJ right here up with all the music :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have attended mikes place twice earlier this year I went there with a friend who asked me to join another couple (they were on rhp) .. I have to admit I didn't enjoy sitting out with the smokers and talking about my kids etc I was there to have fun and escape that mother figure .. I walked away from my friend and the couple and buggered off upstairs to the bar .. I found the place clean but maybe a bit more elegance would be nice ... No shit red ikea lamps .. If condoms are provided have latex free (f.... Learnt that lession there) I do think dress code is important I agreed with the comment on shitty looking jeans it's a turn off .. From reading everyone's feedback I think if someone has the financial capacity to help secure a venue and finance I think you have a good business plan to start with 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We went to one in Perth a couple of weeks ago-- our first time. While the whole scene was very exciting and nerve wracking, it was a shame as the whole place was 80% single guys. We were shocked at how small the place was and to be honest was pretty dingy. No aircond at all. The pool and spa was great as was the pool table. But they only had 1 private room and often had to wait a long time to use it. Being our first time I wasn't keen on doing it where everyone could see or join in. Although we put a bit of a show on for people on the lounge. Lol Plus we were a bit unsure of the rules so to speak. Like on the open beds etc-- does that mean anyone is invited to join in just cos ur having sex with ur man out in the open? Lol We will continue to look around and see if there are other swingers clubs in Perth. I know there is but finding one is the next challenge. To sum it up yes we enjoyed our first time. But felt it could have been a bit more upmarket and more classy and cleaner. So I guess to those saying couples don't get kinky with others, maybe think that like us it was our first time and finding our feet and courage so to speak. But yes we want to play with others, but in our own time. :)) Everyone was very friendly though from the staff who made us feel very welcome and all the people that went were respectful towards us which was a blessing as I was a bag of nerves. Lol So time to find another club now. Perhaps for New Year's Eve. Bring it on we say :)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Damn, I wish there was a like button for some of the comments above. Let's face it, you go to a Swinger's Club for sexual encounters with like minded people.If you want loud music, bright flashing lights and people sitting around smoking, go to a nightclub! One of the best venues I've been to (sadly now closed) had the following: 1. Discounted memberships 2. Hostesses to show you around, explain the rules, and initiate games, intros and generally get the evening going 3. Good music, but not so loud you have to shout in someone's ear to have a conversation 3. Theme rooms, spa, pole dance stage and dance floor, along with a bar and bar person. 4. Dress codes, and regular themed events 5. Entertainment such as a stripper, or BDSM show each evening. 6. A relaxing lounge with pool table etc to get to know people 7. Easy options for the "private" rooms. ie. Door locked, curtains drawn - totally private. Door locked, curtain open - please watch us. Door open, curtain open - come and join us! 8. Games/group room where the hostesses would start ice-breakers if needed. The decor was relatively stylish and low key, and felt comfortable.
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RHP User
11 years ago
bring it on - can you help me with it ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well now I am a little concerned about going to the Perth club :( I remember going to one in Wangara years ago and I too found that a little disappointing. I would like a nice, clean, safe place to play. Rooms as mention that could have the rules posted for the newbies so that everyone knew what the deal was. Hell if someone wanted to start one in Perth with class I'd be happy to Mc
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mikesplace01
10 years ago
Quoting 'Reggie010' I have attended mikes place twice earlier this year I went there with a friend who asked me to join another couple (they were on rhp) .. I have to admit I didn't enjoy sitting out with the smokers and talking about my kids etc I was there to have fun and escape that mother figure .. I walked away from my friend and the couple and buggered off upstairs to the bar .. I found the place clean but maybe a bit more elegance would be nice ... No shit red ikea lamps .. If condoms are provided have latex free (f.... Learnt that lession there) I do think dress code is important I agreed with the comment on shitty looking jeans it's a turn off .. From reading everyone's feedback I think if someone has the financial capacity to help secure a venue and finance I think you have a good business plan to start with 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile Always amazes us when people who have never attended our club seem to be able to pass comment.
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ChateauVino
10 years ago
One thing club owners will all agree on is. You can't ever be all things to all people.They are run as businesses, so you try and cater to the majority as much as possible. And there seem to be massive differences in attitudes towards clubs in each state (We've visited pretty much all of them). Try them all, and make suggestions tactfully directly to the owners if you would like to see something different. Let's face it they won't know unless someone tells them or gives them ideas. Every club finds its niche eventually and either blossoms, or folds.
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
I think we have experienced many of the issues identified by others with clubs. In clubs defence, we are happy to pay a high entry price as that does creat a barrier to some of the socio-economic issues people have raised. We also like to see single guys, and girls, at clubs, but there needs to be a vetting process to ensure they area the right sort of singles, particularly the guys. Guys a night at a club is not an alternative to a brothel. These days we lean more to private parties than clubs, but when we do go to a club we tend to go with a group of friends, as do others, and that does tend to make clubs cliquey. Basically, private parties get to choose who comes and who doesn't, clubs don't have the same degree of selectiveness, that has a big impact on the night. I wouldn't want to 'invest' in a club ownership.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Like already mentioned, we found some just had everyone sitting around smoking and drinking. I couldn't think of a bigger waste of time and money. Secondly, and I know think will make me sound conceited but most people we have crossed paths at the clubs have not met what we wanted physically. We have found people we net one on one in our or their homes to be much more similar to us. Or some parties where invites were given out specifically.
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chevtrek
10 years ago
clubs are boringthe music sucks and so do most who goPrivate big party's are great but you need the money to have them.I think only the curious go to the clubs or would be swingers.
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