What's the best greeting for the first message

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  MFMHotWife

  2 years ago

  Good quality introductions is a good place to start, make an effort there and we might assume you make a good effort playing, I barely give much notice to a "Hi"..... And its pointless sending messages if your more than a couple of hours away from prospects....

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Best advice is to be complimentary and respectful always. And no pressure to respond is key. Example. "Hi XYZ. Just wanted to reach out and say I enjoyed looking at your pics and reading your profile. Would like to chat further if you're interested. If not all good. Hope you have a great week!" Thats how I do it anyway or variations on that.

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  Viccpl

  2 years ago

  Good advice above, also articulate what you share in common with their profile to demonstrate you’re interested in them and not just their pics. We really like messages which are engaging and have personality which shines through. Definitely don’t be pushy (that is, unless it’s in line with the receivers interests 😉)

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  MsSuperFoxy

  2 years ago

  It's kinda like fishing. Effort needs to be put in. 1. You send a respectful thoughtful message like you would if you walked up to her in the street. At least put effort into it. Sexual messages just don't cut it. Absolutely no copy and paste crap either. 2. Have a profile with some effort put in. Because I absolutely guarantee, she will look at it, because if you don't, she will think, no effort in message or profile then he's not going to put an effort in with me. 3. Absolutely have no expectations or pressures. If she doesn't reply, so be. Move on. She doesn't need to tell you why either. Ms Foxy

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  ChevyMetal

  2 years ago

  Always try to end with a question they'll want to answer.

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  Ex007

  2 years ago

  I read every profile I’m interested in in full. I respect what they have to say E.g. only looking for couples. Well I’m not a couple so I’m not going to message them. After reading the profile in full I craft a message making reference to what it is in the persons profile that tweak my interest. In saying that I don’t bother with profiles that are not completed. Or where they have have not used their own words and/or the photos are nonexistent or restricted. Of cause that’s my way and I’m sure each and every person has their way of doing things. So just do it your way and you will find those Who align with you. 

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  FeistyFatty

  2 years ago

  Not one that's spoon fed to you..... Or copy and pasted. Individual.

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  Dirtysecretslut

  2 years ago

  I also just flick past a "hi" maybe even start with a little description of what you would like to do to satisfy us. If we're getting there 100% you'll get there.

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  I also forgot to mention nobody owes you a response so don't get message bomby if you don't receive anything especially if they look at your profile. Same rule goes for "thanks but no thanks". Quickest way to get blocked and a bad rap around the RHP traps.

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  CuriousAsianCpl

  2 years ago

  Reading the profile is a good start, follow that with what the other party is looking for. Then make your opening message something interesting rather than "Hey how's it going". Bonus points if you include a private gallery with better pics of yourself.

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  AWomanWithNeeds

  2 years ago

  Not 'I loved your profile', 'stunning pictures', 'I have needs too', 'do you want to fuck' or 'what are you up to'. I have over 200 messages in my ignored folder with this crap I really feel men don't know how to converse or read.

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  By the same token it really sucks for a guy like me who puts a lot of effort into a message only to be greeted by crickets. It does eventually make you not want to put too much effort into a message because 8 times out of 10 it will go ignored. Why bother writing an epic message if it's just going to be sat on "read"?

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  So starting a message with “Hi” is enough to have your message discarded. Despite the fact we’re taught early on in life that starting a message with Hi or Hello is perfectly acceptable and considered polite. That’s pretty shallow even for a site like this. Wow!

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  deepestpurple

  2 years ago

  Step 1: Ignore all these boring replies about well thought out proper introductions, find something you have in common to show you read their profile blah blah ect. These are things boring forum people repeat that they read on the forum that sound like it could be good advice but its all basic ideas 101 and 1000s of dudes are trying the same stuff boring the pants back on anyone unfortunate to sexually interesting. Do you want to take seduction advice from people who spend this much time on an internet forum repeating the same boring stuff back to each other? Here's a hint - no you don't. Step 2: Do not put much thought effort into an opener that is 99% going to be ignored. Don't degrade yourself with that nonsense. This is a numbers game, spread your efforts thin, investing too much energy into any single person is a failed evolutionary strategy in the sexological niche. Trust me bro. Step 3: Get them to reply to you by any means possible. Once they've replied once they're 10000% more likely to reply again. Get that foot in the door, be intriguing, be confusing, be straight up manipulative. Whatever it takes Step 4: Know what to do with it once you catch it. If you can't get girls to sleep with you irl you aren't going to magically be able to here. All your effort to set up a meet is wasted if you don't know how to convert. If this is you, get some sunshine and seduce real life girls. Yes it's hard but better someone be real with you now lest you become bitter and jaded because that's no picnic either. Bonus fact: "Get your cock out" is by far the most effective advise I ever received here. Your milage may vary as I have a very aesthetic penis but consider that all these wowsers upset by the idea of a picture of a penis might not actually be your target market here.

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  DonnaBrett

  2 years ago

  Sensible informative wording about yourself and what you're looking for. Good spelling and grammar and a facial photo upfront is a must for us.

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