What's the best way to communicate?

January 06 2021

I'm relatively new here, coming back after some years away, so with all the changes in tech I'm just wondering what others prefer as a way to communicate. For example if you matched with someone, you like each other and message - do you then just keep it in messages here (bit limited) or do you move to other apps - there are so many now, like $napchat, K1K, Inštagřam and of course many others - even those where you can call with voice or video... What's your choice and/or best experience with?

Comments

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    4 years ago

    If I progress anything from here it’s towards meeting someone in person... Why on earth would you want to sidestep the process?? Seems rather counter productive

  • ElectricDreamers

    ElectricDreamers

    4 years ago

    The hard part in communicating is not which platform to use but how to weed out the fakes and flakes so you're not wasting time or energy on people who were never going to deliver. I've found RHP likes threads to stay aligned with using RHP but if I'm wrong I'll input my 2 cents.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    I go from messaging here (if and when I'm comfortable or feel the vibes) straight to exchanging mobile numbers. Nope of this other app business as I have nothing to hide. They really do nothing for me. If someone wants to see me they put in the effort and pick up the phone. If they become rude, I can easily block them. Apps are good if there is more than 2 people in the conversations. IE for couples, so all people can converse like another couple or 3rd party. I guess it is one way to weed out a catfish or a male posing as a couple. Ms Foxy

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    Our preference these days is to stay onsite until we've met face to face. The new message setup isn't that bad and anyone that can't wait for us to get home from work to reply probably isn't a match anyway. There's always a push from couples to group chat away from here, but honestly if you're both using the app you can do that on here anyway and just sign one person with an emoji. If you're that distrusting that it's a single pretending🤷🏻‍♂️ We do use Kik for long term friends in the lifestyle, mainly because we know people from different places, sites, states, the nude beach etc... There's nothing wrong with chatting here, don't let people tell you otherwise if it's what your comfortable with. Oh, and if you're chatting to a paid member, the pie have their credit card details for a bit of extra security

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    Like with anything, it’s all about personal choice . We happily chat on RHP . If we find we have common ground and promise of something that progress we prefer kik . We just find it easier . You do whatever suits you . Good luck . Ax