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What's with the following blur...
August 16 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's called laziness. Or lack of imagination.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
It's a template..... It means the profile is either fake or the owner is bloody lazy. DG- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Agree Ms Elle. Laziness and Lack of imagination.Lad, agree with you too. Template Profile.Most of the time, template profiles are used by "Guest" male members. Males like me that pay for a membership, figure that we should put in a bit more effort. My profile is lengthy, but it's original and honest. I don't get a lot of interest from women here on rhp. Maybe it's my age. Maybe it's that I'm not 6' tall and hung like a horse. Maybe it's because I still smoke when not in the company of Ladies.C'est La Vie.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I will get back to finish my profile= as soon as my wife goes out shopping I can finish this fucking thing. You be the judge of it means= I will send you a fake picture or non and hope for the best. MY friends say I am good looking= when they are pissed and its toss up whats better looking me or my ute.
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RHP User
11 years ago
sometimes Lady T,it's just a tosser
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RHP User
11 years ago
the lack of information on mine is deliberate, serves the purpose for which it is intended and is by no means due to a lack of laziness. I'm genuinely here to meet people and rest assured there is nothing fake about me. I don't feel the need to be an open advertisement nor do I feel the need to 'sell myself' and quite frankly maybe it's a gender thing but some people just don't have to. It can and does work (lucky for me) quite well. I've come across and met some of the most amazing and most unlikeliest people on here. Who would've thought??? You know being generic an all
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RHP User
11 years ago
Iv seen alot of profiles like that and tbh as soon as I read that I don't bother going any further, it's lazy and if they can't put any effort into saying a bit about themselves I doubt it would be worth talking or meeting them- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Shits me even more when they send u a flirt saying I think ur hot what do u think about me? Then bam they have 1 pic of their chest (no head in it) and that poxy info ^^^^ umm...ignore- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm sure it wouldn't matter WHAT you wrote in your profile! One look at your photo and the men are all over you, no doubt. So why bother putting any effort in when, let's face it, you just don't need to?Oh to be that lucky..... ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was just trying to point out that yep it could very well be due to laziness, lack of imagination etc. for generic profiles but it’s not always the case that’s all. I don’t claim to be one of those people that just don’t have to – far from it. My not feeling the need to be an open advertisement stems from being a private person. .. personal and intimate details in my opinion remain for whoever Im involved with. If somebody genuinely wants to get to know me, they’ll take the time to do so. MsElle72, you are that lucky…true beauty comes from within and from what I’ve read of your forum posts you are an incredibly beautiful person.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'KiwiBred' I was just trying to point out that yep it could very well be due to laziness, lack of imagination etc. for generic profiles but it’s not always the case that’s all. I don’t claim to be one of those people that just don’t have to – far from it. My not feeling the need to be an open advertisement stems from being a private person. .. personal and intimate details in my opinion remain for whoever Im involved with. If somebody genuinely wants to get to know me, they’ll take the time to do so. MsElle72, you are that lucky…true beauty comes from within and from what I’ve read of your forum posts you are an incredibly beautiful person. Kiwibred, it is a shame the pic of your eyes is not a little clearer, though we are beginning to see the best in you.Mado
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usnow
11 years ago
KiwiBred, So your need for privacy leads you to putting your face pic up for the world to see , or is that fake also ? Swingnew .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Makes it tough that's for sure, in this world of trying to stand out from other blokes, when you have one of those profiles on your screen, yes you are basing contacting them purely based on their looks, and well how do you sound original saying I think you're a bit cute... but I know nothing about you so I'm just sending you this message because I think you're a bit of alright
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why read the blurb? I just look at the pics!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
...isn't the main reason people don't put face pics up on here for fear of being recognised by friends, family and or colleagues due to the nature of the site??? That's not an issue for me, it's no secret that I'm on here as a matter of fact I'm on here at their suggestion. Gee I dunno, was I having a blonde moment or something? What part of 'being a private person in terms of personal and intimate details in my opinion remain for whoever I'm involved with' did you get confused with. How did you from that to a need for privacy? There's a distinct difference...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Quoting 'KiwiBred' I was just trying to point out that yep it could very well be due to laziness, lack of imagination etc. for generic profiles but it’s not always the case that’s all. I don’t claim to be one of those people that just don’t have to – far from it. My not feeling the need to be an open advertisement stems from being a private person. .. personal and intimate details in my opinion remain for whoever Im involved with. If somebody genuinely wants to get to know me, they’ll take the time to do so. MsElle72, you are that lucky…true beauty comes from within and from what I’ve read of your forum posts you are an incredibly beautiful person. Kiwibred, it is a shame the pic of your eyes is not a little clearer, though we are beginning to see the best in you.MadoThanks Mado, have temporarily changed my pic for a better look at my eyes just for you
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nightpatrol_63
11 years ago
A face is merely a façade, has no bearing on who a person really is! From a males perspective I love intrigue and the necessity to delve and then form my own opinions. Privacy is not about recognition and I agree with Kiwibred, rhetoric on here can be taken with a grain of salt. A wise person once said never listen to self praise or hearsay, always find out for yourself:) So next time you are put off by some generic garble it could be you who is really missing out:) Oh yeh, and that wise person was me lol and it rarely fails. On another note I just love the people who request a face pic so they can see who they are chatting too..pfttttt...We all have the right to reveal when we feel comfortable NOT when we are requested and that should always be respected!!! Hope this finds you all with a smile:)
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madotara69
11 years ago
Kiwibred, you are not just a dag, you are the whole sheep's arse!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'KiwiBred' the lack of information on mine is deliberate, serves the purpose for which it is intended and is by no means due to a lack of laziness. I'm genuinely here to meet people and rest assured there is nothing fake about me. I don't feel the need to be an open advertisement nor do I feel the need to 'sell myself' and quite frankly maybe it's a gender thing but some people just don't have to. It can and does work (lucky for me) quite well. I've come across and met some of the most amazing and most unlikeliest people on here. Who would've thought??? You know being generic an all It is definitely a gender thing .. would you have come across those amazing and unlikely people had they also had a blank / generic profile ? Try it without a picture or reference to your looks and see how many amazing people you meet.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Did I miss something??? I don’t recall attacking anyone on their opinion. I didn’t choose to take offense at MsElle72’s comment (the subtlety of which was not lost on me either by the way) and I could very easily have taken the opportunity to have a dig at swingnew seen as how he/she/they left themselves wide open for one yet you all appear to have no problem taking something that I said completely out of context and shitting on me for it. Funny that… Mr good_chap - for what it’s worth I hadn’t considered it from that point of view although just about everyone has interests displayed which is a good starting point if nothing else and something as simple as what brings you to rhp will get the ball rolling. madortara69 – no offence, I have an awesome sense of humour at the best of times and can laugh at that but I wouldn’t be saying it to a kiwi bloke in the pub any time soon…he’d probly turn around and take a swing at you. IndefatigableMe – by the same token, could the point I was trying to make have gone down a little better if it had of been said (admittedly with a bit more tact) by another member say with a good write up and no pic? My guess is it wouldn’t of as the no pic would have then been the issue. Yeah I agree it is definitely a gender thing but is that my fault – nah so don’t come at me with that and try to take it out on me. For the record: I have done it both ways. I was none the wiser when I first signed up and didn’t even have a pic. When I had something written up (both with and without a pic), not a single message received bore anything remotely relevant to what had been said. C’mon, build a bridge and get over it already LoL… it comes down to individual preferences and ( as Im sure it has been with everyone else) through trial and error.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Nahhh, they give you a big hug,when they tell you that, buy a beer and say safe journey.
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RHP User
11 years ago
gotta love kiwi jokes. And kiwibred I have said things like that to kiwi guys and when they see you're just taking the piss they give it back it's all good fun. As for the lazy profiles, I see the ones with that nd just go must be fake. But who knows how these plkaces work. Ive tried a couple now, and just joined this one yesterday. So far can't figure out what people are looking for, ive tried pics, full on profile write ups, very small detail at other times, pics and no pics. Seriously hardly ever even get a reply. I look like a mugger in pics I swear, so they obviously dont read the rest. Yet abuse us guys for only judging on looks. And I'm afraid I know that for that first message it is basically from looks as your attracted so you say hi.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't have the usual things, it's funny tho as I've only had a few hits, I get that it's better that people live outside the box, but it won't always appeal to all
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry madtara69, I thought you were just having a crack at me in the heat of the moment but I really am the 'whole sheeps arse' and I wouldn't have it any other way It's not like I was saying anyone was wrong I was just saying that it is not always the case that's all. I deal with and find myself constantly surprising people that are pretentious, superficial, tunnel visioned, shallow and sarcastic every other day, cant be avoided, however these are not people I choose to spend my free time with. If they give me a miss for having a generic profile then that's a bonus as I see it Although communicating might be based on an initial physical attraction, it takes so much more than that to maintain a connection. If communication is difficult at best over one maybe two messages, chances are it wont get any better in person. Again (as I see it) in keeping with like attracts like, if its meant to be it will be. Doesn't mean that it will be ongoing (casual or otherwise) but for whatever reason there'll be lessons learnt in the long run
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RHP User
11 years ago
Then there are the superbly penned profiles designed to leave you wondering exactly what may be behind the facade, only to find that's what it is, words on a page and when the facade is chipped away all you are really left with is the shallowness that a generic profile describes. There are 'nights' when all you want is uncomplicated transparency......
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RHP User
11 years ago
Would love to hear your thoughts about my profile.
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