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What's with the looks?
March 05 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
maybe you were accidentally reading out loud all your saucy messages?
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RHP User
9 years ago
They were saucy ;) I did get a little flustered when I got a shower pic without warning.....but I was in a women's fashion store haha
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RHP User
9 years ago
That happens to me all the time... When I forget to wear clothes 😳
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RHP User
9 years ago
Put a post it note on your car keys honey.
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RHP User
9 years ago
...I think you've answered all your questions yourself....and I kinda agree. It works the same for men. Walking out of the house with a super-charged level of confidence. It might not guarantee oral sex at the supermarket checkout, but it's impressive how other people pick up on it.
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RHP User
9 years ago
The wicked thoughts in your head nobody else knows. I'd go for the oozing sex cos it's on my mind. Yummm... Peachy
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PurePeony
9 years ago
... you mentioned this because since getting on RHP, I've been experiencing a similar situation. Mine isn't as obvious as yours. It's more like when I walk down the street, I get men staring at me almost as if they want to approach me and proposition me. Those "come hither" looks can be rather ... disconcerting esp when it comes from men who aren't your type. Haha! When I met my ol' friends the day before, everyone thought I was somehow "different" and more attractive in a way. If I can venture a guess to explain this phenomenon, I would say that our dalliances into the sexual arena has triggered the release of pheromones or something on a hormonal level that we aren't conscious about, but it can be picked up subconsciously by others. It's also got to do with confidence, a feeling of euphoria, and the lovely rosey blush that's on our cheeks... the facial cheeks, hehehe!... when we get aroused or excited pre-, intra- or post-sex. Just like strangers can sense from one's body language whether one is happy or depressed or fearful, I'm sure they can pick up horniness and fuckability's wholesome goodness (sounds so delicious! LOL!) and get turned on by it too. If we borrow a term from the animal kingdom, you were possibly walking around "in heat". LOL!!! The nose picks up the pheromones, transmit it to the brain and that alerts the guys around you that you are horny and you want sex. Guys who cannot explain why they suddenly become turned on by you and feel a need to indulge in procreational activities (ahem!) may act nervously and be hot and bothered, but they may not understand what's happening because it all happens on a physiological level on a subconscious level. Women with partners who pass you by may feel uncomfortable and suspicious in response to your pheromones because of the threat of your pheromones reaching their partners and enticing / ensnaring their men. I hope it isn't more obvious issues that are turning heads, eg. skirt's too short and the panties / butt cheeks are showing, the boobies are spilling out and the tits are almost exposed, etc. Hehehe!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Ah....no! Navy and white stripe dress - mid thigh, and white converse 😉 P - maybe I should go and rub myself up against power poles, mark my scent 😂
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lovman8
9 years ago
With a dick pic on your phone has spread the word. PS that's the power of social media. Pps. School pick up line??? That sounds a bit wrong but it wasn't meant like that , you perverts.
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RHP User
9 years ago
It is true that positive breeds positive and negative, negative. Confidence definitely makes a difference to how you are noticed and treated. You may be glowing as you did mention mind blowing chat. But if I were to hazard a good guess I would say some of the above and your perception that is the difference. When we are feeling damn good our senses come alive and our chemistry is at heightened levels which we don't tend to take notice of hence the normal day that seemed not so normal
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RHP User
9 years ago
I thinks it's the smile. When some people smile they smile with a nod that means "g'day" Others smile with a "have a great day" smile Others may smile with confidence and are out to achieve a goal for the day Others smile because of the cheeky thoughts running through their mind I do this on a regular basis as it makes for a very healthier life I believe Have a great day - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I believe you have found your confidence - you know you are desirable to someone and boom you find your walking around with a cheeky smirk on your face possibly recalling moments - ppl will notice this - I love it when I am by myself in my own world of thoughts then I notice ppl looking in my direction and think "why are they looking " I no longer think they are thinking " oh look at that poor girl all by herself" - I think they are thinking " wow look at her she seems so happy " and yes I am - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
9 years ago
... used to tell me that no woman will give him a second look UNTIL he had a gf. Suddenly, the women are throwing him "Come hither!" glances and flirting with him all the timie. You'll go through a drought if you are single with no one to be with. But if you are single and there's a partner walking beside you who is interested in you, you instantly attain a sort of allure and catch many men's / women's eyes and suddenly, others want to grab hold of you and be the cat that got the cream. That's kinda a twist on what Summer said about desirability. We see that in our everyday lives too! Say, we step into T2 and see a lovely tea kit for sale. There are 10 boxes on the shelf and despite the good price, you may think to yourself, "They still have plenty of stock. I'll think about it first." But, if you see only ONE box on the shelf, and the salesperson informs you that that is the last box, you'll grab it without even thinking, especially when you see someone else coming towards that last box. Once someone else wants you, you attain the legendary status of the last box to some of the people who are around you. What people can't have, what isn't easily available, suddenly becomes super alluring. Basically, some people won't want you until someone else wants you! Think of the ex who dumped you and then out of the blue calls you just when you have gotten over your ex and are starting a new relationship with someone else - perfect illustration! LOL! Some folks seem to have a built-in radar for detecting stuff like that.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I was slightly paranoid that I had something on my face at first 😉 But agree with all of the above. Lovman - i hope the school chaplain got some good entertainment from it, hysterical 😂
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Missb4u
9 years ago
I have experienced but it's generally after sex. I think it is to do with the confidence the sex appeal the inner feelings that are oozing everywhere.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Think you're on the money there. Surprised me when I became single again the amount of women who suddenly let me know they were available including friends, a sister in law and my ex's cousin. Suffice to say I never took up with any. Just didn't feel right.
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RHP User
9 years ago
All the time ...little old ladies complimenting me ..oh but that's not what you mean is it ?😳..xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
When we go through a shopping centres, I am usually on a mission..I used to notice, but never really commented on the fact he walked off to the side, and somewhat behind me.One day I did ask why, and he surprised me a tad..said he is curious to watch how people react to my presence..THAT part of it is a little long winded.. but he has worked out how to tell when I have been spending time with Lady Friends, based on the reactions of women.. AND he claims.. he can see the rise in negative attitudes of males corresponding to it.. Noticeably, he claims there are males who respond/react the same as the women do..I don't SEE this.. BUT.. I have seen SOME women for the very first time.. and sensed SOMETHING.. and known we were going to fck..OF course.. it doesn't happen NOW as much as it USED to.. when I was .. well.. sporting a different physique AND.. I did have a friend once.. long since lost track of him.. who genuinely WAS a chick magnet.. and he fckn knew it... THAT was always interesting to watch
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RHP User
9 years ago
even the magpies are leaving the postman alone by the sounds of it lol :p PS. Fuck knows what it is.....just enjoy the liberation ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
When the opposite sex is attracted to you more when they think you have a partner is about trust. Women trust other women over men, and if that other women with the man trusts the man then the lone women will trust him far quicker then a man she met who was not with another women. Lots of women trust couples over single men because a couple there is a woman involved so she wont be alone with a man.In a night club a women can approach and talk to another women no problems, a man cant do that anywhere near as easily.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Maybe I should change my name to SoftandLiberated 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
In a word - pheromones. Something we have no control over but our senses pick it up.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Lingering pheromones. People pick up on this and yes, some women find it threatening and some men hone in like a bees to a honey pot! Well done you. Enjoy the attention. LG
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Home_Eric
9 years ago
It''s a rare feeling and lord knows if it's entirely a fiction of my own ego, but when it happens it's such a lovely, relaxed feeling. Being noticed, getting smiles, feeling shit-hot and gently thinking about embracing and kissing every willing lass you encounter...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice'When you feel desired You become desirable, if that makes sense. Every time I go out after I've just had sex people seem to want to jump me (that's after I've showered). Are you saying that's not the case at any other random time? :P But on a serious note perhaps there's more than a bit of truth in that first bit. In my case, I think perhaps you do show (and feel) a lot more confidence after you've had sex (meaning recently or ever), that it becomes easier not because you're now experienced and know what to do, but because somehow, it physically shows. Also, you feel desired now that you have had someone desire you sexually, and you can stop wondering if anyone does, and you start to recognise (or literally see) similar traits in others, who also now see the same in yourself. Perhaps unconsciously, your body language will change. You will seem more open and inviting, seeming to be more comfortable at closer proximity to others, reacting instinctively in a more positive way to advances, showing less fear or apprehension - all of which generate more interest in yourself. More directly on topic, if you've just had sex, your hormones and awareness are heightened, and you start to see sexiness in people - just everyday people - who you would not have normally seen as exuding sexiness before. And you will be reading into those looks more sexy thoughts than you would normally. Having said that, guys are probably looking at you in the same way as they usually do, with some form of desire or longing (typical men, myself included), so perhaps you are seeing them as sexy individuals rather than just one (two?) of many anonymous eyes.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'SoftandCurious' Maybe I should change my name to SoftandLiberated 😉 Not SoftandLubricated? :P
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm pretty sure it's two things. 1. You're in a sexy frame of mind so you notice the looks around you that you may not have before. 2. You're in a sexy frame of mind, so you actively go looking for hints that others might notice you / desire you more. I feel the same when I'm wearing a damn fine suit - my 'strut factor' goes way up ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
that I have a grin on my face like that cat thats gotten the cream?......or is just about to
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