M53
Whats wrong with being a gentleman?
August 27 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
i hate to say it but your profile is boring and u fall asleep reading Woman on here see more profiles than hot meals So do your self a favour and read a few males profiles get a few ideas and go write a different profile So when u write to a woman and she reads your profile it stands out from all the rest Dont go on and on and have a war and peace profile short direct think out side the square dont make it in the gutter Total up to u what u do but take it from a woman who looks at boring profiles as th esaying goes next profile please
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi, I'm not one to blow my own trumpet so to speak. But I will take your advice on board and check out a few other profiles and "talk myself up" and try to stand out from the crowd.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with Kissme. The number of guys on here saying that they are awesome lovers with a masters in oral pleasure are a dime a dozen to be honest. So I really don't take what you have written on your profile very seriously - it doesn't come across as particularly intelligent or interesting. I also know that this is a sex site... but I am not interesting in "wham bam thank you ma'am, I came but you probably didn't" encounters. I am not saying that you are, but your profile reads as if that is all you are interested in.It all depends, on what a woman is looking for I guess. xxMeeka
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi, Thanks for your honesty. Theres not much else I can do to chang emy profile to make it look less like anyone else or make it stand out. Maybe I could just write I'm a dud in the sack? haha!! Thatd be the opposite. Seriously though, the only real way to know is if you actually sleep with someone or get told about it. Some of my sex comes through referrals of girlfriends who tell their friends. Or they are inquisitive to find out whether I actually do have the stamina they've been told about. Word of mouth is probably the best advertisement, but I'm never going to meet anyone off this site unless someone is keen to meet me. I will try to change my profile a bit, but it might read similar to others as their are a LOT of profiles. I am going to head to CI in the next couple of weeks, so hopefully I meet someone there..... Thanks again, Paul
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Mate. Try a pro. Seriously.... you'll learn more than you realise and get more confidence and your wolf will grow... you'll be sharking with the best of the lads in no time. It doesnt much matter what you write in your profile. It's a shopfront. Get int the chat rooms, participate in the forums, go out and meet people in the events... show people what kind of character you are. You say that you're a gentleman... I'm not sure what you think that is... but instad of Sheldon from Big Bang theory, I have James Bond in my head when I sniff my fingers and say to myself "I'm a gentleman"..... so I suggest you switch it up a notch. :)HugsStalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with kissme, for me, your profile says too much of your wants and can dos, okay so you are being honest and trying to prepare a lady on what shes getting herself into,or maybe that wasnt the case, maybe you were just letting the female know that you maybe a gentleman but when it comes to the bedroom, the gentleman dont exist?? i think the ladys will run 100mph before scrolling down to see the rest, It is hard for a male to know what to say to attract the female as the female species can be very complicating, a lot of females like the gentle approach, briefly outline what you are looking for, breifly explain about yourself, dont brag or boast about yourself, this can be a turn off for a female, do some research on the female and learn to understand them more would be my advice, learn what to say, write etc, research rhp and look to see what other males write in their profile because to me, there is nothing wrong with you physical approach in attracting a female, it has to be your verbal approach!cheersgood luck for your futureFUN
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RHP User
13 years ago
A Big thanks for all the feedback guys. I've gone to a couple of events at CI here in Brisbane. Everyone has different views on what attracts women to profiles etc and I'm never going to write something I'm not cos I've always been one to be upfront and honest about things. No use writing you're packing 12 inches when you're obviously not. Haha. I will search a few other profiles and see whats been written and keep trying I suppose. Paul
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RHP User
13 years ago
Learn how to seduce women....don't pressure them for sex!
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RHP User
13 years ago
By definition I dont think you should be describing yourself as a gentleman. Most women adore a true gentleman so if thats what you wanna be then you have learn to be one.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Morticiaaa' Learn how to seduce women....don't pressure them for sex! How to seduce a man? The 3 "F"s.Fight them.Feed them.Fuck them.Works every time.How to seduce a woman?Which woman?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nice guys (gentlemen) finish last.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Voted down the line, time and time again, completely 100% guaranteed. Chicks dig the asshole. Nice guys don't finish last, they finish in the shower. Nuff said.
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RHP User
13 years ago
What you say in your profile is important. How you say it is even more important! I don't really understand why, I think it's a girl thing. They seem to think that the way you say it will show your presonality... which probably shows who you are and what you might want better than what you say... I don't pretend to fully understand it but it seems to be what they like. What's wrong with being called a gentleman? Nothing... if you want to be called a gentleman. Just remember there are Gentleman who are very closely related to 'Nice Guy's' and then there are the Gentleman like the character 'Mr Darcy' which some women seem to prefer... a lot more.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Now maybe I am missing something, but to me there is nothing in your profile that suggests you are a gentleman?? So I dont think think that is your problem! In fact it just seems to be another profile saying how good you are in bed.... And as for you Nick... Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Voted down the line, time and time again, completely 100% guaranteed. Chicks dig the asshole. Nice guys don't finish last, they finish in the shower. Nuff said. Now that is just not true! I, for one have had enough of assholes, and would definately like to try a nice guy :) xxx Cherry
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RHP User
13 years ago
with being a gentleman, so long as its not just an act to get a gal into the sack. if you pretend and are found out, theres no forgiveness......trust me.....however, if you are a gentleman, and can stay true to that regardless the situation, then theres bound to be someone out there looking for you in particular............my lady is my everything...and i operate on the simple "happy wife - happy life" credo...........and my everyday is a happy day as a consequence............
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RHP User
13 years ago
Kedronboy I could not agree more with what Stalky has said. You have no idea how hard it is to meet someone privately on adult dating sites. Women get bombarded with messages and flirts so they can afford to be fussy and pick and choose who they want to meet, despite the fact that there is nothing in their profiles too suggest that they wouldn't meet you. Just the way it is. The best way to meet people on here as Stalky has suggested is to participate in the forums and go to events like meet and greet nights or the few swingers parties that single men get invited to. When people see what you are really like in person, then I am sure you will have a lot more success. Just one word of warning, don't expect to have sex at every party you attend as there are no guarantees that people there will want to have sex with you, but it is a good way of networking and meeting people. Good luck mate.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...that is never lost. Simply a matter of tuning in to their own unique sensuality and sexuality...and if they try to fight you, head for the kitchen and then to the bedroom. Save the rough and tumble for there. | Quoting 'Bratzilla'Which woman? | All of them of course...until you can find one that makes you want to write "Chef's Choice" on their ass with a piece of dark Belgian chocolate. | Food....for thought.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'Voted down the line, time and time again, completely 100% guaranteed. Chicks dig the asshole. Nice guys don't finish last, they finish in the shower. Nuff said. no........assholes dont stand a chance actually....neither do sexist pigs, or sarcastic pricks or arrogant wankers...........you're dreaming if you think otherwise, and only looking to justify your own poor behavior........
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RHP User
13 years ago
I kind of expected that from you guys Mikeandshel, it was easy bait and you took it. You guys don't believe everything you read do ya? I happen to find sarcasm to be charming, though I guess, not so much on the internet. Though I never said I was a prick or an arrogant wanker, and as for poor behaviour... might I suggest you stop projecting your own inadequacies outward? Hello pot, my name is kettle... how do you make so much steam out of so little water? ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'I kind of expected that from you guys Mikeandshel, it was easy bait and you took it. You guys don't believe everything you read do ya? I happen to find sarcasm to be charming, though I guess, not so much on the internet. Though I never said I was a prick or an arrogant wanker, and as for poor behaviour... might I suggest you stop projecting your own inadequacies outward? Hello pot, my name is kettle... how do you make so much steam out of so little water? ;-) beg your pardon? you didnt bait us..........and you know it. you offended us. as you have done numerous times before.......
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
I crave crave crave a gentlemen! Just the thought of a guy who is nice and says/does kind things is sucha turn on consideringim a gentlewoman and unrealistically think people are kind and gentlely like me.... I thought they were an extinct sub-species! Don't stop being a gentleman, you're better off in the long run for being the way you are!!! A
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RHP User
13 years ago
Firstly, let me say, I am a gentleman, but what girl really wants a gentleman in the bedroom? So I convey that in real life, but changed tack completely in my profile because I took advice from people in forums and a couple of functions I've been to. They even wanted me to put up saucier photos etc. I declined that idea, but changed the wording. I do agree with Nick Wilde. Most nice guys do finish in the shower because lets be honest most girls love the so called"bad boy" for whatever reason that may be. Each to their own. Ive tried so many ways on this site to get hits that I will probably just change it back to the way it was originally. And I know the girls get lots of emails and flirts and its hard to wade through all the bullshit. My mates tell me all the time to stop being so nice, but I do believe you should treat people how you expect to be treated. Ive never written anything on my profile that I believe to be untrue, but unless someone actually sleeps with you, how do they know if you're a dud or a stud? And minxyjinxy86, thanks for the kind words. All good, love the feedback guys. One day I'll find the formulae that works. Haha!! Good luck to me. P.S. I will be attending CI in the near future, so may see some of you there.
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RHP User
13 years ago
....and the hot chicks dig it. They do seem to like it too if you have a cigar clenched in your teeth and offer them a double shot now and then....be sure to pour theirs first. You don't always have to say silly sounding fairy floss stuff or even iron your shirt...the truth is they like you to act like a rough and tumble cowboy on the outside and show the nice side off to them. Walk softly, carry a big stick and don't put up with a lot of shit when your sitting at the table...some even like to play cards with you now and then too. | Hide a pair of aces up your sleeve.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im not surprised gentelman are dieing in this day and age there is no point im one of the guys that opens the door to both cars and places for women let them walk first all that old fastion stuff (thanks granddad) but there is no point its more out of respect. girls this day will just think ur being a creep or if there rude they just i dont know not sure how to explain it but really no respect or thanks... i think u might be nice but generally most people its not worth the time but once trained that way u can change....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '69High_Flyer69'Im not surprised gentelman are dieing in this day and age there is no point im one of the guys that opens the door to both cars and places for women let them walk first all that old fastion stuff (thanks granddad) but there is no point its more out of respect. girls this day will just think ur being a creep or if there rude they just i dont know not sure how to explain it but really no respect or thanks... i think u might be nice but generally most people its not worth the time but once trained that way u can change.... is it 'old fashioned'? we dont think so....our 3 boys behave properly (at least around us they do)............its what the young'ns are shown..........they learn by experience and by mimicry. pity it that popular culture tells them its ok not to be polite etc (music, movies and other meida).....apparrently its quite ok for a 20 something to drop the f-bomb and c-bomb in casual conversation with women 25 and 30 years their senior...................
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nothing wrong with being a Gentleman, just don't expect women to appreciate you for it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Everyone. Thanks for all the replies. I have updated my profile to make it sound more like who I actually am and waht I'm looking for. Might sound a little boring (up to the reader I suppose), but it is what it is! Will see how I go, but thanks again for your feedback. Paul
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AddictiveByN8ure
13 years ago
Hi Paul,I'd say the biggest thing would be being more confident in being the gentleman... not worrying about whether the gentlemen do or don't exist any longer. It's a lost art to being the kind, loving, respectable gentlemen that women will look for over the arsehole, player because too many people that assume the "gentleman" tag use it as there excuse for being alone or shy or just not interested in girls that much.The thing is the that most self proclamed gentleman respect others before themselves, took me a few years to learn that you have to respect yourself first before respecting others. Someone that has self worth is attractive regardless of their physical status. Its the reason why bad boys do so well is because they respect themselves the only problem is that they don't respect anything or anyone else.Respect yourself first and you can be the attractive gentleman that every woman is looking for... Granted some would say I'm not the most attractive man in the world but I know I'm worth every woman's time and attention because they, as well as I need to treat me with respect and I in turn return the favour and they respect me more for it.The other suggestion I would make is with your profile, if you know yourself try to just describe the most nature attributes don't say I can be this but also occasionally this it sounds like you don't know who you are and they aren't going to try to figure it out for you when there are so many people to choose from.As for being a single guy on here it is hard to meet new ladies from time to time. However, if your confident and understanding you will find the rewards. My tip would be to ask them in your profile to flirt you if they are infact interested and that you'll then reply with a message.People aren't as different as we seem... most of the confusion comes from a lack of awareness of who we ourselves are and blaming others for our somewhat short comings. Focus on yourself and the rest will fall into place, but never give up on being a TRUE gentleman and not because you have to be but because you WANT to be.This is my understanding from my life experience so please feel free to take as much or as little notice as you choose, just remember its your life and your choice.Oh and Nick... Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' Voted down the line, time and time again, completely 100% guaranteed. Chicks dig the asshole. Nice guys don't finish last, they finish in the shower. Nuff said. I must admit I would have to completely disagree. I think most ladies will "dig the arsehole" only due to the absence of a strong self respecting gentleman... Just unfortunately not too many of these exist in this day and age...Ben
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RHP User
13 years ago
Nothing is wrong with being a gentleman, but there is such a thing as being "too nice". And if you come across as being too nice outside the bedroom, women migh think you are too nice in the bedroom. You want a nice guy if you are looking for a serious relationship or marriage, but you want an animal in the bedroom. Maybe you just come acoss too nice and turn women off. Your profile seems to be too nice for me..
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RHP User
13 years ago
It may sound a little hypocritical of me since I only have guest status myself but, since you're the man, you should get yourself a membership so that you can send out messages not sit back and wait for the girls to flock to you. There's too much competition out there to be so passive. I've made it plain on my profile that I have no interest in a single male and I send back a "I don't see our planets colliding" response to every flirt from a single male without even looking at their profile. However, I do read the messages and while I still reply that I'm not interested 99% of the time, I did receive one message from a very polite rogue (hi, Tom) and got chatting to him. He was a Gentleman but not a sop. Don't be shy, be confident. Confident, without being cocky, is sexy, shy is pathetic. Like the other girls have said, your profile really needs some fine tuning. The piccie of your smile is fine but lose the cutesy pics with the wave and the pointing. Good luck. xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mate, you are who you are. People are either going to accept it or not, and if they don't, well, it's on them. Your profile is but a small window into who you are, so if it doesn't attract much attention, don't be afraid to change it.....sooner or later it'll work for you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Stalky' ... but instad of Sheldon from Big Bang theory, I have James Bond in my head when I sniff my fingers and say to myself "I'm a gentleman"..... so I suggest you switch it up a notch. :) Confession time...I have a fantasy - it involves Sheldon and a gag... and possibly Shibari.*sighs* Am I a freak? (actually I have a similar one about James Bond too (Sean Connery to be exact), but the roles are reversed ;P)
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RHP User
13 years ago
don't believe the "good guy v bad guy" story, the question should be: are the women going back to the "bad guy" or sticking around with the "good guy" *grin* secondly, who is the better lover? - it's an individual thing isnt, nothing to do with good v bad guy -keep your approach simple and straight forward:An interesting profile - start a forum post about it, you'll see how much help you'll get with ideas and suggestionsA good photo, as above, get second opinions, sexy vs boring vs fun vs R rated participate in forums, you'll be noticed, is not a guarantee BUT our chances are increasedAnd be prepared to follow through when contacteda 'gentleman" can be a great lover, funny, strong, sexy, etc... not just "polite" ;)think of what it is you are passionate about (sports, music, hobbies) and why, then think about how someone would describe you as that passionate person, it's a starting point...good luck!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry its just that you do look like Sheldon and when you said your dom in the bedroom Well for me its not in the face or the cute little pose Being a gentelman does not mean your weak. A man with class is like that, but still alpha. Nice guys do often finish in the shower or worse begging you to take them to bed. Bait the hook a tad better on your profile, get better pictures not so sweet. And no I do not mean show us your willy. Though some women like sweet so mabye market yourself as a sweetie
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be a gentleman means to be a civilised, educated, sensitive or well mannered man.To me you need to be chivalrous and respectful while retaining your masculinity. There is no shyness associated in being a gentleman, that's a seperate characteristic. I'm not talking about being an 'alpha male'. Those jack-offs are not gentlemen. Be strong, confident, jovial, thoughtful and accessible and a lady will respond to that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you are that attached to them, put them in your pg and show the public something else.
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RHP User
13 years ago
female describes me in that way these days. Why? He is unattractive Boring Unchallenging In the friend zone Stirs zero emotions in women apart from perhaps sympathy Doesn't ever get females chasing him unless he is a rockstar famous or rich. Displays too many female traits to be looked upon in a sexual way Is comparible to a wet dirty tissue that needs to be gotten rid of ASAP Why is it a lot of girls I meet always tell me how nice and gentlemanly I am? But they will never sleep with me!! Displaying zero traits that stimulate emotions or stir them to put you in the "yeah I would fuck him or consider it category" This can include body language, tone of voice, eye contact, your response to her tests (is he a wet rag, will he agree with everything I say) can he lead the conversation to a more sexual intimate nature, is he another boring smuck... Do you ever challenge and test women back? The list goes on, all this info is out there and has been for ages now. In the bedroom my personality differs depending on my partner, but I prefer to be in control. So in the bedroom, my personality doesn't really reflect my courteous and gentlemanly behaviour when out and about or at a party!! Except for the one rule - I believe ladies should always 'cum' first. Why are you so concerned about how they see your behaviour outside the bedroom and letting them know about it??? I would prefer to just be the new version of myself that craps all over the old sad version. If any female doesn't like or enjoy my style or personality that isn't reallly my problem. I encourage women to give me the flick or vice versa asap because my time is valuable and I have a adversion to low interest women, mentally unstable delusional women etc.... I hardly get any hits on my profile. I've only had a few responses to emails etc. I suppose my real question is, do I need to change somewhat to become more sexually attractive to ladies? 1 Educate the hell out of yourself 2 Watch other males who are obviously successful and emulate So yes fake until the new you has integrated new traits and attitudes. 3 Do some self dev work on yourself. Climb a mountain, ride a wave, get manscaped, watch fight club 20 times do something different that takes you out of your comfort zone. 4 This is a interesting one... are you interesting. I have chatted to hundreds of people while doing security work years ago and there are some boring SOBs out there. 5 Have you done anything exciting that you could talk about with passion to any female you come across? You should be doing cool shit whatever your version of that is all the time. 6 Take a goddam chance, how much more unsuccessful could you be? Maybe your getting some but if not do something different. 7 When was the last time you had a disagreement with a female online or in public? I used to say things like, err do you actually believe that? What a croak of %$# Are you delusional, No are you for real, no I am not into that and never will be... Bribe one of the ladies with attitude LwA (sounds like the female version of a gun club) to help you rewrite your profile minus the word Boy of course. Your words and attitude will have to peak their interest and build tension like the tip of a warm tongue working it's way up the inside of a woman's leg on a hot and humid night...
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RHP User
13 years ago
makes sense what you last said...and its a shame others dont get the same.... its easy to be a 'bloke', or an 'asshole'..but you can be those a 18... its much more interesting and rewarding, being both 'manly' and a 'gentleman'....be 'connected' emotionally.....its what 'grown ups' do.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get a lot of comments about my profile but a poor strike rate from it. While my flat mate put up a straight down the line no nonsense profile and had 2 dates, and a threesome in his first week, and is currently 'off the market' and very happy with his new partner.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...then get in with her and push the button fast. As you are flying to the 60th floor....you will have time to whisper "Your ass looks red hot in that dress" and from there, she may even hit the stop button. | Be sure to let her leave the elevator first too...a true gentleman always makes sure she didn't leave her panties behind. |
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RHP User
13 years ago
mate get your hands on this book! "The Layguide' by Tony Clink, How to seduce women more beautiful then you ever dreamed possible. it is a real conifdence booster and helps you show your good side and show the women you can have the pick of the group....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mate get your hands on this book "The Laygiude" by Tony Clink. how to seduce women more beautiful then you ever dreamed possible it really helped myself and does work when used right good luck dude
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RHP User
13 years ago
I read your profile & all of the comments. Honestly? Guys outnumber the girls on here, so you have to make yourself stand out a bit. No one says you have to change yourself, just spice it up at bit. After all, we are all on here to explore & test the boundaries a bit.Thinks of it from a sales point of view? If you had 10 shops all selling the same thing? Its all about the advertising.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Keep in mind for ever girl you look at their will be 10-15 guys "competing" for that same girl. Don't beat yourself up and DEFINITELY don't come as as desperate or pushy. Also don't beat yourself up :) Nick
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RHP User
13 years ago
"if you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything" Marilyn Monroe
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am new in the site, and started to read the Forum for a bit of fun. I have enjoy some of the responses in this one so I thought to add my bit :)After living in Australia for about 20 years I have come to the conclusion that, generally speaking, women here do not understand or appreciate compliments....It is very common and frequent to compliment women in Europe and even South America, in this places if you do it elegantly and appropriately you will get a great response and appreciation.I have find that here the majority think that you are a weirdo and that is something very wrong with you....Almost never gets appreciation......Now compliments are only a small aspect of true gentlemaness (if there is such a word) there is a lot more than that....it is truly a style of life, not only towards women,but all aspects of interaction with society.I always thought this phenomenon quite interesting and amusing.It goes to show that what works somewhere does not necessarily works in other places.Paris
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RHP User
13 years ago
I've never met an elevator slut. Perhaps there's an open market opportunity. I should give it a try!! Hehe Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
"if you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do anything" Marilyn Monroe
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RHP User
13 years ago
You do realise that your profile says less about you than mine does about me?!? Tell us about *you*. From the prospective of a girl that isn't looking, due to having found, I can say this: the more info you have, the better off you are. If you want to find a girl worth having... hook the bait. That goes for every guy on this thread. You don't have to be an arsehole, or a gentleman. You just have to show us, you.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I personally will always take a gentleman over a man who brags about his cock size.. his prowess in the bedroom and the usual blah blah blah.. I dont even respond to messages where the guy has a cock pic as his representation.. and i dont read beyond the introduction if the message starts with.. i wanna fuk.. or i wanna lick.. or words of that effect, u can always tell a gentleman by the way he words his messages,.. Its the true gentlemen who are the real winners in the bedroom.. they release their inner animal and if they are shy.. usually a little encouragement works wonders cheers Tasti
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RHP User
13 years ago
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RHP User
13 years ago
...be sure to trick them into riding in the service elevator, it takes longer and none of the farking tradies ever use it anyway. Best of all, building security could give a shit and it takes them at least a couple of hours to even think about getting it fixed. | Now then, escalators...I can almost hear the Christmas music playing at David Jones as I recall this one young lass, you can take it from there and the trick is when you have to keep changing to move on up to the different floors. Oh how lovely....beds and bedding are almost always on the very top floor, just take your own a latex sheet. | | | Gentleman may get laid...the more inventive get fucked sideways into a coma.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Those pics you're displaying are a bit on the dorky side. You might consider changing your handle too. Kedronboy kind of has a feel like astroboy. You want to be emulating something more like "Marlboro man".
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RHP User
13 years ago
was this a serious fact finding exercise or just attempted advertising. Either way, was it successful? As an investigation, have you taken any of the opinions on board? If you were simply putting yourself out there to be noticed, were there any sympathetic females that took the bait and contacted you?
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RHP User
13 years ago
He hasn't logged on for over a month.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'kissmetenderly' i hate to say it but your profile is boring and u fall asleep reading Now if only there were more profiles of women that were interesting and conveyed some personality other than "what I don't want and who I don't want to meet"*said with a cheeky grin* ....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Whether online or in the real world, we blokes have to put in the effort while the lasses get to sit back and pick and choose. Ce la Vie.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wash your cheeky mouth out you 2 boys :OI put a lot of effort into mine and a shitload of words too Lol. Just ask all the guys who message me just to say, "Fuck me that was a big read"
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RHP User
13 years ago
...but then he dropped the rough draft on his foot and cut a few thousand words out of "War and Peace". | Hey DGT...have you every printed yours out? | | It would be a violation of the Sustainability Act...you'd look good behind bars, just not under them.
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RHP User
13 years ago
men dont put a fraction of the effort in that a woman does...generally we are a bit haphazard with things like presentation and personal grooming, and most dont get that saying less is actually saying more. women do the hairdressing thing, work harder on body image and style, spend time and money on makeup and nails, and actually take note of the things guys like, enjoy or want..... most guys cant remember the trifling little things like....her eye colour, her fave perfume, dress size, shoe size etc etc, or forget anniversaries etc.......... most women i ever dated could quote these things within weeks of the first date, and thats not surprising....its just caring about the details..... being a gentleman is more difficult now, as the whole equality thing has lead men to the assumption that she wont appreciate things like opening of car doors, and pushing her chair in, or paying for a night out...... or just enjoying that shes a female adult and he is an adult male.... men behave more and more like shes just 'one of the boys'.... and that the only difference is her wearing makeup or a skirt (although thats changed too...men wear these apparrently)..... the language has changed as well....no longer to young men defer to an older woman with respect and consideration....Shels constantly amazed by the colourful language used in messages to us, from complete strangers.....and thats not a productive thing.... be gentlemen guys, it will do much much more for you than playing the buffoon or thug, 'girls' might appreciate you at your beastly best, but women look for much more depth than that. you can be 'manly' and be a gentleman, by just being honest with it all.......it has to be real....and not an illusion conjured up with mirrors......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Leave it to the girls to decide if you are a gentleman. It will be obvious if you are or not when you meet someone. Personally I love gentlemen but look for the inner tiger. The sparkle in the eye that gives you a hint there is so much more to look forward too. Confidence and a bit of testosterone is so much more attractive.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry i dropped off the face of the earth for a while. After careful consideration of all of your thoughtful advice, I'm not changing my profile at the moment..... It says who I am and what I like. I just thought i'd ask the question and see the response..... I wasn't after sympathy from women.... Thats one of the sillier responses, but looking back, i wouldnt have said no if someone offered. Haha.... I do attend CI in Brissy on singles nights, but unfortunately they only have stairs.... So no elevator sex dammit... I like your thinking though! Im not going to change who I am and i completely understand the amountof mail the ladies get, so im notgoing to try the email thing too much..... I like my dorkypics, cos thats what Im like. i like smiling, i like having fun. But i appreciate all your feedback and i look at it all constructively. Im a shy person by nature, so meeting people in person doesnt come naturally. But thats what im trying to work on. Thanks again, Kedron 'Malboro Man' Boy
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13 years ago
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