What's your kink and how did you discover it?

February 26 2015

Until recently I'd never really understood the attraction of BDSM. Mind you that was out of ignorance. I just thought it was about pain and that's always been anathema to everything I enjoy about sex. But do you ever find in life that sometimes the same thing just keeps coming at you from different directions? Well over the last few months both through dating and my photography I've kept meeting women who are into BDSM and recently one took me to the Hellfire Club. It was way tamer than I was expecting but as I was watching the shibari and a girl whipping another girl it suddenly dawned on me that BDSM is about a particularly intense intimacy. And as a photographer I also loved the visual theatricality of it. So last weekend I was in Max Black with a playmate and as we were fossicking through the fetish books I pointed to a book on shibari and she told me she'd always had a fantasy about being tied up. So we bought Two Knotty Boys and rope and headed home. What followed was one of the most intensely erotic moments of my life. I had her tied head to toe and created a series of knots that ran between her legs. Then I just kneeled beside her and gently tugged on the rope running the knots backwards and forwards across her, bending to kiss her but not letting her lips touch mine - each time she lunged up to kiss me I'd pull back so I was just out of reach. So I wasn't actually touching her but her response was off the richter scale. And since then all I have to do is pick up the rope and she cums. And that's another thread in its own right - just blows me away the way girls can go from zero to full cum in a couple of seconds even without any physical stimulation. Anyway we certainly found our kink :) What's yours and how did you stumble on it?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hellfire is basically a night club for people to dress up in kinky gear and meet other kinksters and have a dance. It is meant to be a no sex on premises club. However, I have seen some pretty hard core stuff. Fire play, whipping, cock sucking, paddling, shabri rope play, ball crushing, etc. Anyway it does depend on the night and who is there.... you have to go looking for the action.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You should try an Uber party. They are actual play parties for the BDSM crowd or so I understand.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    10 years ago

    It helps you understand what a Master or Mistressis all about however pain is an option.I have 3 girls who after some whipping come real hardor squirt hard as it is also power play.

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' You should try an Uber party. They are actual play parties for the BDSM crowd or so I understand. Thanks Meeka. Yeah there's plenty of hardcore stuff around. The intimacy around some of the BDSM stuff I get now but still find the heavy duty pain stuff a real turnoff. My playmate got invited to a private BDSM party a while ago and she said there were people doing knife work on each other and intravenous and sewing fabrics into their skin. I just don't think I'd even be able to watch that let alone get involved. But the shabiri - now that's really cool :)

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'EuropianBliss' . ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' You should try an Uber party. They are actual play parties for the BDSM crowd or so I understand. Isnt Uber the new taxi app LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Is very erotic. I don't know about the cum at the sight if looking at the rope. Each woman in the planet has her own set if triggers I need a little touch and can only cum in my back. however I never thought oral sex would do anything for me, now I love b it. There are things yet to come for me but not sure what. I would like control to be taken off me, but have yet to find a man that makes me want to surrender. Moist men want me to control them. And I am good at that 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A number of years ago I stumbled upon a pic of a lady Shibari bound. It was the most moving, sensual pic I'd ever seen. It struck me so deep that I had to learn more. I spent countless hours watching videos. I practiced on myself, and attended live demonstrations and workshops. I've since met and tied a number women, publicly and privately with awesome results. The art of tying built an intimacy I'd not known before. The rope led me to meet others with different fetishes and kinks, which I've also embraced. I was tentative about administering pain, at first, as sensuality was more my thing. However, I quickly learned more about the need for some people to feel it, and, seeing the results for myself, it became less daunting. It's crucial to me that open, honest communication, to ascertain those needs and wants, as well as hard limits, be maintained. Then, of course, comes after care, yet another opportunity to further build upon the intimacy between those involved.

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'thepeach' Is very erotic. I don't know about the cum at the sight if looking at the rope. Each woman in the planet has her own set if triggers I need a little touch and can only cum in my back. however I never thought oral sex would do anything for me, now I love b it. There are things yet to come for me but not sure what. I would like control to be taken off me, but have yet to find a man that makes me want to surrender. Moist men want me to control them. And I am good at that 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile Thanks Peaches for the feedback. The almost kiss is something I hadn't done before - just flowed spontaneously out of what we were doing. And that's what I mean about the particularly intimacy of BDSM and kink - the almost kiss was way more erotic than an actual kiss would have been. And yes the control thing is really interesting. I'm the same - happy to be in control but yet to meet someone I want to surrender to. Now that would be something come to think of it :)

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'KnotSmiths' A number of years ago I stumbled upon a pic of a lady Shibari bound. It was the most moving, sensual pic I'd ever seen. It struck me so deep that I had to learn more. I spent countless hours watching videos. I practiced on myself, and attended live demonstrations and workshops. I've since met and tied a number women, publicly and privately with awesome results. The art of tying built an intimacy I'd not known before. The rope led me to meet others with different fetishes and kinks, which I've also embraced. I was tentative about administering pain, at first, as sensuality was more my thing. However, I quickly learned more about the need for some people to feel it, and, seeing the results for myself, it became less daunting. It's crucial to me that open, honest communication, to ascertain those needs and wants, as well as hard limits, be maintained. Then, of course, comes after care, yet another opportunity to further build upon the intimacy between those involved. Damn but that is beautifully written Knotsmith and really interesting. I see myself as a sensualist and so hearing that you've moved from that space to one where you can administer pain in a consensual framework is really interesting to me. Can you talk a bit more about your experience with that because I SO don't get the pain thing.

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    I would have called bullshit but recently had the experience of shibari. It was without a doubt the most erotic experience so far (with my clothes on). We were at provocation in Melbourne, hubby said to a rope master, my wife would like to be tied up. There was no 'almost kissing' with him because if there was I may have exploded:) he did not touch me sensually either but I can't explain how it made me feel :) Mary xx

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' I would have called bullshit but recently had the experience of shibari. It was without a doubt the most erotic experience so far (with my clothes on). We were at provocation in Melbourne, hubby said to a rope master, my wife would like to be tied up. There was no 'almost kissing' with him because if there was I may have exploded:) he did not touch me sensually either but I can't explain how it made me feel :) Mary xx Oh I get it - that's what the first poster was doing? God I'm naive - I couldn't make sense of her comment. Oh well, cynicism reigns supreme I guess - bit sad really. Thanks for the account of your experience - having seen the way my playmate responded I can just imagine what it was like for you. It really is the most extraordinarily intimate connection. Lol - I'm about as far from a ropemaster as you can get. It was really funny actually. There I was with ropes in all stages of hopeless knots on the dining room table as I tried to get the hang of it (well it was my first attempt). Playmate was sitting beside me quickly getting bored so I said Ok let's do it. Luckily I found all I really needed were slipknots and a few coin knots and like you she just loved it. You gotta try the almost kissing thing next time - explosions are such fun :)))

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'KnotSmiths' A number of years ago I stumbled upon a pic of a lady Shibari bound. It was the most moving, sensual pic I'd ever seen. It struck me so deep that I had to learn more. I spent countless hours watching videos. I practiced on myself, and attended live demonstrations and workshops. I've since met and tied a number women, publicly and privately with awesome results. The art of tying built an intimacy I'd not known before. The rope led me to meet others with different fetishes and kinks, which I've also embraced. I was tentative about administering pain, at first, as sensuality was more my thing. However, I quickly learned more about the need for some people to feel it, and, seeing the results for myself, it became less daunting. It's crucial to me that open, honest communication, to ascertain those needs and wants, as well as hard limits, be maintained. Then, of course, comes after care, yet another opportunity to further build upon the intimacy between those involved. I want what she is having

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    10 years ago

    Definitely my two, flogging, spanking, candle wax, sensory play.....make my eyes glaze over in pure unadulterated delight....other stuff I want to try just need to find the right teachers...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    How Pavlovian! Mine: DP. I was introduced by a dear friend about two years ago, and I can't thank him enough.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I don't get it. It can be pretty with someone who knows what they are doing & I do enjoy being tied up. But watching the whole tying someone up in pretty ropes and patterns is really boring. Don't really get it. Do it once.... Would you bother doing it again?

  • Violetincredible

    Violetincredible

    10 years ago

    I keep finding more... And I seem to go through phases of being into different kinks... I've discovered that I'm both dominant and submissive, a little over theatrical - I like the props and costumes... and although I'm shy I am an Exhibitionist... I also get off on mixing the masculine and the feminine.... Being into power theory and performance I love that after experimenting I can read books that can pretty much explain exactly what was happening. Xxviolet

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'thepeach' Quoting 'KnotSmiths' I want what she is having Lol - does sound pretty inviting doesn't it :)

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'On_Safari' Definitely my two, flogging, spanking, candle wax, sensory play.....make my eyes glaze over in pure unadulterated delight....other stuff I want to try just need to find the right teachers... Well your appetisers sound pretty appetising - so what's on your main course :) And yes I agree about the teacher thing. I'd certainly want to get trained properly before going into suspension play with shibari - could get pretty serious pretty quickly if you got your ropeplay wrong.

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' How Pavlovian! Mine: DP. I was introduced by a dear friend about two years ago, and I can't thank him enough. Hehe - my playmate is crazily pavlovian. She's head over heels in love with another guy on here and all he has to do is Skype her and she comes - no touch, nothing, just the sound of his voice. She's crazily erotic - he's one lucky dude that's for sure :) I'm with you on DP. Haven't done vaginal double-penetration yet but the way you've talked about it on another forum certainly makes me want to :)

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I don't get it. It can be pretty with someone who knows what they are doing & I do enjoy being tied up. But watching the whole tying someone up in pretty ropes and patterns is really boring. Don't really get it. Do it once.... Would you bother doing it again? No I didn't either the first time I saw it - I thought it was a bit like watching someone do macrami but on a body instead of a wall, and about as interesting :) But like I said I kept on finding that it was coming to me from all directions so when that happens in my life I pay attention. And then after the experience with playmate I totally get it. But that's the thing about kinks isn't it - one person's mindblowing experience is another one's major yawn or gross out.

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Violetincredible' I keep finding more... And I seem to go through phases of being into different kinks... I've discovered that I'm both dominant and submissive, a little over theatrical - I like the props and costumes... and although I'm shy I am an Exhibitionist... I also get off on mixing the masculine and the feminine.... Being into power theory and performance I love that after experimenting I can read books that can pretty much explain exactly what was happening. Xxviolet So if you like moving between dominant and submissive that would make you a switcher right? Bit like being bi I guess - all the best options and possibilities :) Yeah with you on the costumes and props - just started doing photoshoots with these and loving it - just so many interesting scenarios and stories and moods you can create. That's really interesting what you say about power theory and performance. The other aspect of kink and BDSM I guess is doing it with an audience so exhibitionism is another strand. That public display juxtaposes with the intimacy I suppose. Hmm, curioser and curioser :)

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' I don't get it. It can be pretty with someone who knows what they are doing & I do enjoy being tied up. But watching the whole tying someone up in pretty ropes and patterns is really boring. Don't really get it. Do it once.... Would you bother doing it again? I totally love being the one being tied up

  • Missb4u

    Missb4u

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'On_Safari' Definitely my two, flogging, spanking, candle wax, sensory play.....make my eyes glaze over in pure unadulterated delight....other stuff I want to try just need to find the right teachers... I love all of these things

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Rope is also one of my favorites, with breast bondage, crops, floggers, impact play, restraints, wax play, needle play, really anything that gives me that rush I look for and love so much.....So yes there is quite a few different thing that I like......Lets not forget an open mind, oh and my strap ons.....

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    I didn't answer how I discovered it all.... RHP Forums, reading, learning, listening, then it also lead my to Fetlife, more bloody reading, learning and listening. Then I started taking it all for test drives...... It opened my mind and discovering that I wanted to push myself, to see what pleasures were out there.....And boy did I find out.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ...once you do it. Its just becomes your normal. 😳

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    10 years ago

    Ms Willow......💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Our kink.....soft candle light, massage table, 2 bar stools, we sit eather side. We can spend hours working our lady over. Love getting her all wet, aroused and moist. Love teasing her through her G-string and leaving her painties on. We find bondage play far more enjoyable when we have our girl allready feeling as if she wants to be used and pleasured, once bound thats when the panties come off, a far more erotic experience finally beening penerated after such a sensual, tender, frustrating tease!!! Haven't quite got our girl to cum in seconds, but working on it, he, he.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I met an extremely talented man on here who is helping me discover more and more what I am into. Right now it's definitely breath play and bondage. Something I wouldn't have dreamed about in my previous vanilla life. Another RHP win 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You kinky bugga ... I learnt some really good knots when I was a Boy Scout which I never ever put to use... Shibari seems a good start... lol...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I understand the attraction for a woman feeling 2 cocks inside her... But I still can't get my head around crossing swords .. However ' being the third and receiving the blow job at the same time ? That's another story.. lol...

  • nibblemebi

    nibblemebi

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_me' I understand the attraction for a woman feeling 2 cocks inside her... But I still can't get my head around crossing swords .. However ' being the third and receiving the blow job at the same time ? That's another story.. lol... It's not gay if the sword cross happens in a woman's pussy! Not sure how I discovered that kink, my imagination and porn maybe?

  • nibblemebi

    nibblemebi

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_me' I understand the attraction for a woman feeling 2 cocks inside her... But I still can't get my head around crossing swords .. However ' being the third and receiving the blow job at the same time ? That's another story.. lol... It's not gay if the sword cross happens in a woman's pussy! Not sure how I discovered that kink, my imagination and porn maybe?

  • nibblemebi

    nibblemebi

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_me' I understand the attraction for a woman feeling 2 cocks inside her... But I still can't get my head around crossing swords .. However ' being the third and receiving the blow job at the same time ? That's another story.. lol... It's not gay if the sword cross happens in a woman's pussy! Not sure how I discovered that kink, my imagination and porn maybe?

  • nibblemebi

    nibblemebi

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_me' I understand the attraction for a woman feeling 2 cocks inside her... But I still can't get my head around crossing swords .. However ' being the third and receiving the blow job at the same time ? That's another story.. lol... It's not gay if the sword cross happens in a woman's pussy! Not sure how I discovered that kink, my imagination and porn maybe?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Pain is sensual. For me (female/bottom) it is an outlet and a gratification of the senses. It's given and received with intimacy and trust. And the pain is always delivered in tandem with care - or it's not done right - they're two sides of the coin. Shibari done well is highly erotic. I love the rope aesthetic. I've also been entranced watching the connection and intimacy of a couple in a scene at a bustling club. The rope and the trust creates connection. I enjoy being a canvass for my partner through rope. We create. Being bound turns me on and it's freeing to allow someone to do that with/for/to me. And some of the suspensions are just kick arse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Probally both... your imagination and abit of visual.. As much as I like the idea of seeing a woman's face when her pussy is filled with 2 cocks.. Crossing swords is another thing. I know I'm missing out ' but thats just the way it is... Still' open to being the third recieving a BJ while watching.. lol... then you are complete...

  • blkcapricornday

    blkcapricornday

    10 years ago

    - both from kinky ex-girlfriends. The bi/bicurious thing was from a bi girlfriend who it was her theory that many of us are actually bi, and its just the power of social conditioning that makes us think otherwise. Why not? The cum thing was from a gorgeous petite ex who was a very unassuming professional by day, and kink-queen by night ;) Was not into it at all to begin with, but I just loved watching her get off by it, and it grew from there. Gotta love messy sex ;)

  • blackbig

    blackbig

    10 years ago

    OP, sounds like a great kink...without much trauma. I need to explore that...I would love to take another role and surrender completely to a lovely lady😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • blackbig

    blackbig

    10 years ago

    Mmmh.. I am going to do just that soon . I am good at giving massages anyway😝 Great idea, Spank. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hi anyone know of any tutorials in Perth or books on shibari . I enjoy doing bdsm big my rope skills are poor . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    In a recent play party I had rubber boots, rubber mittens and rubber mask fitted then blindfolded. Which doesn't sound so kinky but it had the effect of completely altering my senses. The floor felt different through the booties, the mittens made everything or everyone I touched feel different. The mask alters the sounds around you then once the blindfold was put on I just drifted of into my own little world. I spent just over an hour being led around the party, being touched and fondled buy guests whose identity and gender I had no idea of. One of the most erotic experiences I've had in a while.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'seruitute' Hi anyone know of any tutorials in Perth or books on shibari . I enjoy doing bdsm big my rope skills are poor . - Posted from rhpmobile There is a workshop for rope enthusiasts in Perth - try Fetlife.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My kinks are always evolving. There is not one thing that I am into - the more I discover, the more the fantasies keep coming and the more I want to try. It has been an eye opening experience. I have learned that there are a myriad of things that I didn't think I was into, but with the right partner, I didn't even blink an eye. I read a lot on things that interest me - its more the cerebral that gets me off. Although, the physical act of these discoveries were such a sensory overload.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Was the mask one of those gas masks or a gimp mask?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Was the mask one of those gas masks or a gimp mask? Just a tight red rubber mask with a zip up the back.. But with the latex or rubber masks they play havoc with your ears so you put those squishy ear plugs in first. I was at a Halloween party at a club with a latex hood once, before I learnt about putting ear plugs in. Took 2 days for my ears to recover, all that doof doof.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    When I was 30 I met a 55 year old lady that wanted to be fisted. We did it quite easily and we both had a lot of fun. Since then I have been able to share this with a four other women. This is my kink and I find it extremely arousing visually and love the feeling of my hand being in there.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My experience came at an open sex club in Las Vegas. My partner at the time was a stripper and she dragged me in there to show me off I guess... Being an innocent Aussie guy with no knowledge of Kink, I was thrust into it completely almost instantly. She suspended herself in a swing and demanded my cock in her mouth in full view of 2 other couples. She was deft on the ropes and had me hard instantly. We then fucked like animals with her on the swing for what seemed like hours. She was very capable and fit, driving me crazy but with onlookers making me nervous and slow to climax. In a drug induced daze, we left the club, I was exhausted and found my kink almost instantly. I had discovered that making her orgasm and gag aroused me immensely. Later we tried shibari with her arms bound behind her. Then leashing her by her hair across the floor and pinning her to a wall with deep, hard pressure. I was instantly hooked, I found great pleasure not only in penetration, but in use of paddles and especially a crop. I have very deft hands that she'd always loved and finger fucking her always brought her to a squirting orgasm. I found that with tying in certain positions, I could increase g-spot pressure and the pure ecstasy she received made me have explosive, prolonged orgasms. I've found my kink to be an unusual one; I become aroused greatly from giving my partner intense, screaming, squirting orgasms. I found the best method was with hands and binding, gripping and applying pressure. The 5th orgasm is the most powerful if done well, and a good time to stop. The methods of getting a partner to that point is both intense and requires much preparation and trust. I was a natural, having been a boy scout, the ropes came easily. I only like ropes, not leather or latex. Ropes are my thing, binding and teasing with gags and crops my specialty, and also my greatest turn on. No longer would I pound away for hours and not orgasm, I found myself getting so worked up, it would take little to no effort at all. So control was required, and in that, a mastery of my own kink and making my partner very pleased. It's a great reward to lay there giggling away afterwards and cuddling. The trust, the whole thing is very rewarding and I found I simply can't go back...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love to sit at home and dream about wanking. I could do it all day. I don't know if its still considered kinky these days, but I love the self denial, I could whip it out anytime, who would know? two seconds and its all over, but I wont. And that man sized box of tissues is just begging to be opened, its soft generous absorbency taunting me, daring me, oh exciting me.. but I wont. Ohhh I am trembling just writing about thinking about dreaming about having a wank, but I wont, that's so hot. I just love being kinky!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There is a Beginners workshop in Leichardt next week. I really suggest you go and see experienced Riggers as there are safety issues with circulation and airways. Google Sydney Rope Dojo. Additionally join Fetlife and join a rope group. We have a presentation tomorrow night in Newcastle by a world famous Rigger named Satomi, gutted I can't go.

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    You kinky fuckers!! Makes me sad I'm so normal. Wonder what it would be like to be a bit out there.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I guess I've had enough sexual experiences and I don't rlly know what my kink is anymore lol Can someone explain bdsm more to me I rlly don't find it sexy or a turn on but am wondering if anyone can change my mind and tell me exactly what it is and how to do it ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousgirl68' I guess I've had enough sexual experiences and I don't rlly know what my kink is anymore lol Can someone explain bdsm more to me I rlly don't find it sexy or a turn on but am wondering if anyone can change my mind and tell me exactly what it is and how to do it ? Try explaining what chocolate tastes like to somebody that's never tasted sugar or milk.

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Coriander' There is a Beginners workshop in Leichardt next week. I really suggest you go and see experienced Riggers as there are safety issues with circulation and airways. Google Sydney Rope Dojo. Additionally join Fetlife and join a rope group. We have a presentation tomorrow night in Newcastle by a world famous Rigger named Satomi, gutted I can't go. Really useful Ms Herbal - will look into it - thanks :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Whats your Kink???? YAWWWWWN! Most Kinksters BDSM scene people are a bloody YAWWWWN Fest.. pack of day dreamers who fluff about all day, and they're all experts.. just ask them!.. Could anything be more Boring than Hellfire.. has barely anything to do with sex.. Id rather an orgy or the company of horny people who are actually into lots of kinky things with horny kinky people.. If you can list "A Kink" as your kink.. you have a lack of imagination and no sense of adventure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousgirl68' I guess I've had enough sexual experiences and I don't rlly know what my kink is anymore lol Can someone explain bdsm more to me I rlly don't find it sexy or a turn on but am wondering if anyone can change my mind and tell me exactly what it is and how to do it ? No need explaining anything to you IMHO.. You sound like you have fun and a vast interests which is good and healthy.. Most who are into BDSM are like young people are Punks or into Heavy Metal.. its just an expression wanting to be a part of a crowd.. its very dull and boring for somebody with a libido

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'myprofileisreal' Whats your Kink???? YAWWWWWN! Most Kinksters BDSM scene people are a bloody YAWWWWN Fest.. pack of day dreamers who fluff about all day, and they're all experts.. just ask them!.. Could anything be more Boring than Hellfire.. has barely anything to do with sex.. Id rather an orgy or the company of horny people who are actually into lots of kinky things with horny kinky people.. If you can list "A Kink" as your kink.. you have a lack of imagination and no sense of adventure. Firstly Hellfire is not a true representation of kink. Fashion and fluff plus licensing laws that restrict activities. Secondly you are true that kink does not equal swing. I would define kink as being activities outside the "normal" that one derives sexual pleasure from. And though for a lot of people swinging and orgies are out of the normal range of vanilla activities there not called kink because they have there own names. Sex is physical thing, a wonderful physical thing, but the mind is capable of so much more intense pleasures. When you have experienced most ( I don't think anyone has experienced it all ) of the physical sensations of sex we move on to the mind fuck.... And we get our kink on.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think that my exhibitionism is right out there now I found web cam. Something I thought I would never do at all as in public i keep my clothes on. Long skirts and covered up top. Last night I had sex on web cam. I kept my face away but the guy he was loving it and was not shy at all. I could not see what they were saying in the chat room, understandable considering what I was doing. But a few messaged me saying it was nice to watch. If i got tied up it would be a "granny knot" I think I have really stepped out of my comfort zone on RHP but only in cyber land, its safer there

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Missionary, there I said it! Lets face it , vanillia is so out there! I know I know, I am A dirty girl. I think I need a spank. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Is that bullshit directed at us all? Or just a select few? Or has it hit the fan ? And we are all into scat? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'EuropianBliss' . Goodness that's two servings of bullshit from you on this this thread Ms Bliss - this thread really does seem to offend you. Or is bullshit your kink?

  • LightCatcher

    LightCatcher

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'LadyTuscan3' Missionary, there I said it! Lets face it , vanillia is so out there! I know I know, I am A dirty girl. I think I need a spank. - Posted from rhpmobile