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Whats your number...... a discussion.
March 05 2014
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gazpacho
11 years ago
It's been a long time since I had a number. Let's see. A typical Friday night might involve going to a sex club, spending some time in the glory holes, the steam room, the showers, in the dark room straddling a peep hole, laying around watching some porn... going to some private rooms with someone or a few.. heading to the sauna... a bloke something like me could easily have made some kind of physical sexual contact with 20 other dudes, fucked three or four and been fucked by three or four before 10pm. On a binge fuelled up with viagra and nitro for the weekend, three nights and two days upwards of 50-100 people... then the mid week accidentals and trips passed a beat... and beaches... then hump night... I mean, a fella can have sexual contact with around 400 a month at a guess if you've got a clicker to help count... Of course, some months you might cut right back to 50 or so... so an average of around 150 fuckers a month is a realistic number for a bit of a slut.. not a total slut mind you.. those guys are rampant... but that's around 1000 a year... if you discount all the fucks while under the age of 20, that's still 32 years... maybe a thousand a year... but let's say half that for the hell of it... its still 16,000 or so. It's a good idea to get tested regularly isn't it. I don't think the numbers are important. What is important is how you feel about it. I have no interest in anyone's number.... it's quite possible and really easy for women to match the numbers I've been speaking about, so I just don't see the point of even asking. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd be lucky to chalk up one of your months in a lifetime Gaz. But agree DG, I couldn't care less, For me or anyone else. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I seem to recall starting a similar Thread called "Scalps & Notches", many moons ago . C'mon DG , you've been challenged to start a Topic but are you up to the challenge ? Lol Sorry , but you do like to give some people here a hard time , so I couldn't resist giving you a friendly serve ;) Back on Topic , I'd say my number is around the 100 mark but it's not something I really count . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have 10 fingers a that's where about I lost count. Have no clue, I would say a lot what ever that means, as a lot for some is a walk in dogging park for others. Its when you start having to ask someone you know you have met sometime "Did we fuck." that you know you have been going a little hard at it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
How is possible that we still haven't fucked? I only count intercourse, otherwise it's too hard to keep up. So that excludes all the women. I've stated my number once and not doing it again.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have long term memory loss:-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
You Harlot!! Youre my idol!
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RHP User
11 years ago
in the last quarter century...but hey I'm looking
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RHP User
11 years ago
42 the answer?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Points for responding to the challenge :) I think you can do better though. As for my number - high enough to rattle my husband 20 years ago, low enough that I'm effectively still a virgin by RHP standards. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh dear. I can count mine on one hand and have two left over loo - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
if I had a rant against you I'd post it publicly, then again. That's the kinda fella I am, oh another great track
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sweetgem
11 years ago
Unfortunately, I would need to build that up before I could make a relevant response to your post DG. *sweetgem, the vanilla child* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You have has sex with more men on a good night than I have in my whole life! Don't you get bored of it?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Gaz, you have had more men on a busy night then probably I have had in my whole life! Don't you get bored of it? But I suspect you are talking about sexual contact not full penetration. Right? Yes I know there is more to sex then that, I don't consider people I have bonked with my Strapon for instance. I don't really keep count, I find it a bit weird. I know some people keep a list of all the people they have had sex with. :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Your list is the white pages I take it? Hehe xxx
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
So thanks for those challenge challengers. The point was.... does it matter, or not.... and why/not lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
DG unfortunately the more partners doesn't mean you are a better lover. I think blokes that go from one girl to another sometimes never take the time to actually get "good" at it, if you know what I mean. :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Lol, both Mr and I have had more partners since being together than we did when we were 'young, free and single' . We talk about shared experiences though, not numbers. I could count - quite easily. But I won't. Kisses, Jak (Mrs) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
That mermaids don't have vaginas:-) xx Q
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Oh fuck it! Sometimes the amount of ex lovers does matter to me and other times does not faze me one bit. However what matters to me is the way people talk about their ex lovers. I mean, yeah it's great to talk about them and all that and I am more than happy to listen, but when it is rubbed in my face.......Well it that does matter to me. Or if it turn into a competition or if I am compared with current lovers or ex lovers - that to me turns me off. I am worth more than that!! I believe it's all in the attitude, one has about their lovers/ex lovers, not about the number it's self. Foxy
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him_and_me
11 years ago
No, I guess not really. Do I think better or worse of someone because of their number? I don't think so. But I'll admit I'm often curious! Perhaps because my number is known and so low... Lol. But then we fall into the monogamous-married-couple basket. Until fairly recently we had only slept with each other for about 16 years (wow, now that we find ourselves here that sounds like a really loooong time). But that doesn't mean we didn't have a lot of sex in that time...we like sex, we just stuck to each other. So while our number of sexual encounters (not partners) still doesn't rival even the shadow of Gaz's roughly calculated (and astounding) total, I know we have a lot more sex than a lot of our regular friends. Hmmm...rambling answer. x Me - Posted from rhpmobile
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him_and_me
11 years ago
Haha! Sorry for all the sentences starting with 'but'. Must have something on my mind.... x Me - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
The ones who just like the hunt, who want more notches than a Pattern Maker, are the ones that worry me. They don't care about any one except the hunt and themselves.. What they don't relise is the psychological trail they leave behind!! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
as in has heaps of the foldy stuff, read equity (preferably cash at hand in real terms). Trouble is unless you see the balance sheet and the red marks against the black it's all just shite, he says - she believes and vica versa . Sad but true
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madotara69
11 years ago
numbers matter for some reason, would it be what? for us that marry and give the option away, to be having sex with just one other. Would it be considered a waste for the numbers, or a blessing for all the times the married can? It's hard to see it, that if it mattered, then somewhere there would need to be a call for sacrifice, if it were to matter for me the man, then I would have to see it that my choice to marry was a choice to sacrifice something that mattered, so then that means that Tara was someone that this numbers thing would have been a choice to choose her forever, and sacrifice having sex with others that matters, bringing it then to what matters more. If the numbers mattered, then I as the man am happy to be called the looser. Never there would have been that choice for me to consider, Just a washed up bum that never listened, if it were that numbers was said "they matter". Mado Mado Tara xx Or does it not apply to married men?
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Sorry DG I am not going to post my mobile number on here for all to see.. Is that what you are asking, as in numbers?? Foxy
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On_Safari
11 years ago
As I've said once before...more than a Baker's Dozen and not quite a Century. Batter up! ~ DG I think I like you...well your mind anyway.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Couldnt tell you i dont count,but i do remember the special ones,and to be quite honest,the bed post deserves more than a scratch :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I managed to express a reason why numbers are unimportant to me, at least I thought so. I didn't actually say my number, but I expressed a reason for being unable to. If some of the readers of this forum keep a little diary, how wonderful it must be for you to be so innocent. No doubt, I had sex with more numbers before starting school than you had before leaving it. Hold tight to your precious numbers. Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Come on Gazzie....... I didn't mean anything by it. Some people do keep lists! It's true. I don't... but my numbers are low due to a little brain washing as a kid that good girls didn't. What can I say. And I did misread your comment ..... I knew you weren't be totally serious but I thought you were implying you had very high numbers. Sorry. Will you forgive me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can recall, and do sometimes reminisce about, every one of my sexual encounters... which is, with even a modest sex life, quite a lot of baggage to carry about :) It's not the numbers, it's the people that count. So if someone wants to keep a diary, good on them - it's a little romantic (albeit a tad creepy). (The bigger number is the count of ones I've fallen in love with haha) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
To answer the numbers are not important. Having lots of lovers doesn't necessarily make you a good lover, and it doesn't mean that you have had lots of awesome sex in your life either. Hopefully, but not necessarily. But on the reverse side having only a few lovers doesn't mean much either I suppose. I can honestly say I have never asked anyone how many people they have slept with... because I have never wanted to admit to how few that I have slept with. But you know, I am slowly re-addressing that deficiency.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' So thanks for those challenge challengers. The point was.... does it matter, or not.... and why/not lol - Posted from rhpmobile A man can have as many women as he likes, and will get a medal pinned on his chest from other guys. Most women do not ask it means nothing to them, as when they have their man they put that all in the past. Men not so easy My husband was a fireman, and I dated a guy who was also a fireman they ended up on the same shift. So I had to tell my husband that we were once lovers. Men have names for women that have more than ten on their numbers, the even prefer less than that. I was called a slut before I even had a single number. Yes DG it matters like hell to women, your used goods if you have too many and no guy wants used goods. Sure they will bullshit women to bits on RHP , but lets face it they will fuck you, and maybe take you to dinner a time or two before they fuck you, but in the end they will go offline into their own social group to find that nice girl who their mates approve off. then they marry that girl and come back on here looking for the girl with the big tits and big numbers. my number? I have no idea at all and care factor is zero
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quality, not quantity - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
My number is quite low. Have never asked for hers as it doesn't matter to me. What I care about is that while we're together that we are interested and enthusiastic. I've once had a girl who was just punching holes in her card and she was a terrible root. Clearly numbers don't translate directly in to performance. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
how many bcoz i can still name them. But I won't.... High sch bf Husband 1 ONS Fling 1 Husband 2 ONS off here Kinda boring list hey??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Yes DG it matters like hell to women, your used goods if you have too many and no guy wants used goods. Sure they will bullshit women to bits on RHP , but lets face it they will fuck you, and maybe take you to dinner a time or two before they fuck you, but in the end they will go offline into their own social group to find that nice girl who their mates approve off. then they marry that girl and come back on here looking for the girl with the big tits and big numbers. my number? I have no idea at all and care factor is zero And then, one day, the wake up and realise that the dream "their mates approve of" (or their domineering mother or distant father or whatever other disfunction to which they are attached), is not really their own dream and is a load of horses ass. Maybe *shrug*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LadyTuscan' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' So thanks for those challenge challengers. The point was.... does it matter, or not.... and why/not lol - Posted from rhpmobile A man can have as many women as he likes, and will get a medal pinned on his chest from other guys. Most women do not ask it means nothing to them, as when they have their man they put that all in the past. Men not so easy My husband was a fireman, and I dated a guy who was also a fireman they ended up on the same shift. So I had to tell my husband that we were once lovers. Men have names for women that have more than ten on their numbers, the even prefer less than that. I was called a slut before I even had a single number. Yes DG it matters like hell to women, your used goods if you have too many and no guy wants used goods. Sure they will bullshit women to bits on RHP , but lets face it they will fuck you, and maybe take you to dinner a time or two before they fuck you, but in the end they will go offline into their own social group to find that nice girl who their mates approve off. then they marry that girl and come back on here looking for the girl with the big tits and big numbers. my number? I have no idea at all and care factor is zero WOW...and all I wanted to say was I've just read the OP in FULL... hmmm value judgements too much for me right now...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Whilst logically it shouldn't matter, I think for guys with a low number (like me!) it does weigh a bit on your confidence. I married young and was in a monogamous relationship for 15 years, only having come out of that a few years back. My current partner has a fairly high number (maybe not by RHP standards, but enough that she's lost count!), and the diversity of experiences (some amazing, some downright terrible) give her a level of confidence in herself and what she likes, wants.... I, on the other hand, feel like I have so much more yet to experience and experiment with, even though I've been pretty experimental and tried a lot of stuff with all of my partners to date (and had a lot of amazing sexual experiences, just with a small number of partners). She actually encourages me to 'scratch that itch' so that it doesn't become a hang-up. That's a longwinded way of saying it shouldn't matter (and doesn't really), but can for some!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Guilty of keeping a list...
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I was about 20 years old , I kept a Sex Diary for a year & recorded every encounter (don't ask me why). Any Sexual Encounter I had inevitably included penetration . I came across this Diary a few months ago , when I was cleaning out the shed . Did I throw it out ? No (don't ask me why)! GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
or writing it down..If someone wants to do that they can as long as they are honest about it. But then again..How does one know?? I can name every single person I have been with..in my head. :) That's still a list. I think secretly people do have a list, I reckon they keep who they want to keep and choose who they don't want want on it. Oh remember that night when.... Oh who could forget. OH yes, that lovely time at band camp.... That 4" who said it was 10" Maybe even they might just keep a list on just strictly ONS?? Who knows if one is telling the truth or not, especially if one is a bragger, cheater, Player?? I also believe some people give out different number amounts, Example being: around sexual partners and around Friends.... impress or maybe to impress another??? I have had men give me their numbers, ranging from 3 digits to under 20!! Makes me think, where they being honest or were they just trying to impress?? Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Absolutely not. The most incredible lover I've ever been with had sex with three women before me. His passion, skill, stamina and depth of connection just seemed to come completely naturally to him. No artifice, no 'method', no arrogance. Just raw and beautiful chemistry. He had (has I assume) a rare nature - strong, dominant, decisive, but also very tender-hearted and deeply loving. I think chemistry, vulnerability and passion are a great deal more important than numbers :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A badge of honour? Does it mean you are better than the next person if you have a higher number....? I would have a low number compared to others if talking numbers of lovers total, others might have high numbers, but does this mean they are better lovers? Maybe ? Maybe not...? There are so many reasons why people have different numbers, and just like guys Who insist that a bigger cock makes them a better lover,opinion isn't fact.... its not an exact science.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have zero ! As my next ONE will be the best. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
But remember each one fondly... I've never been a "notch in the belt" kind of guy. Having said that, I now look back on missed opportunities and wince a little at what could have been! I am more open now than I was, and, while I am not an angel I am more disposed to having a good time than judging people...If it feel good, go with the flow.... One day I may get to a point I forget some of my lovers... that will be a bittersweet day indeed! Judge
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Two_Tarts
11 years ago
Sex when it is at it's best is a personal thing that that you share with someone you like. Anyone who thinks that it is cool to show off to their mates by bragging about the number of partners they have had makes a pretty sad, shallow, and insecure individual in my estimation. I recall an instance joining some rhp friends at a pub for lunch with a group of about 12 of their (mostly non rhp) friends who we were being introduced to for the first time. When we sat down the male half of the couple whispered to me that he had fucked every girl at the table except one and challenged me to guess who the one was. Given that I didn't know any of these women I thought it a huge betrayal of their privacy, and extremely shallow and ungentlemanly behaviour done in a rather sad attempt to show off at the expense of others. Despite our open approach to enjoying sex with our good friends it is fair to say that I was less impressed than he might have expected and I felt down right embarrassed and sorry for the women (my lovely wife included) for having the misfortune to have trusted such a complete Ass. So does your number matter? Absolutely not! What will impress is that that you can treat your partners with consideration, care, and respect both before, during, and after. If it is just a notch on a bed post then you are really not doing a great service to anyone, including yourself. As for numbers, anyone who is prepared to share themselves with you should always rate as Number 1. Enjoy! Mr we_want_to xxx
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Languid
11 years ago
Can we count having sex with ourselves? That would boost numbers for many of us by a quantum leap.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Languid' Can we count having sex with ourselves? That would boost numbers for many of us by a quantum leap. YEP!! After a post I just saw what DG posted in the last person you had sex with Forum.. Yes I think he would include himself in his number..or shall I say numbers. Wouldn't you darlink??? Foxy I do lub ya DG!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
It would boost it by one. Well unless you were Sybil. Lol. (Ooh that was norty)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Really like your point of view Mischeviouslad
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RHP User
11 years ago
is if he said zero. As in virgin kinda zero. Paintme quietly puts her toys away and tiptoes out the door while he goes to the loo ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Andrew Brett Carlos David E..... F..... Grant H..... Ian Jamie K..... Leon Mark Neil Orlando P..... Quentin Richard Sean Timothy U..... Vedad William X..... Y..... Zack of whom I can remember anyway over 24 years of my sexual life
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thinking more about this, I reckon there is a cultural expectation to keep your numbers to a 'reasonable' amount - allowing for us to explore our sexuality up to a certain point. But what constitutes 'reasonable' is beyond me, primarily because I don't think it should have to be defined generally but experience tells me lots of people feel otherwise. I mean, times ARE changing in the way we view women with multiple sexual encounters but I think the good Lady T is quite right; the goal posts are quite different for men and for women even in our evolving societal views. A few of our very good friends know that we swing. They don't ask about numbers (and they would if they thought it relevant); instead, they recognise that we are experiencing something together and for them the 'how many' isn't important. But one lady I work with is very religious and she has expressed views broadly that any more than 1 is too many (allowing for 1 more if your partner died). She would be disgusted and outraged if she even had an idea that Mr was not my one and only sexual partner, let alone that we indulge in this lifestyle. So to her, clearly, numbers matter. So I think it boils down to who's asking and whether or not you give a flying squirrel what they think! Kisses, Jak (Mrs) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Saturator
11 years ago
I wouldnt have the faintest idea what my number is. Which is not to say its excessive.......just honestly never thought of keeping count - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You start life and hope that one will happen, then you think, maybe a few by the time I am done. Then as practice makes perfect, I though I could have 10 in a year, then its 5 or so a month, its feeling good and does wonders for your confidence and self worth. How many can I have in a week, then in a night. Like any good drug it can quickly escalate. Its a full time job, always on the hunt , how many at the same time. More give me more. Then it was just getting to crazy, can I go a day without, yes that was not to bad, Ill skip the weekend. Now oh so close to a week Ill try a week, then a few, sorry cant fuck going for another record, one, two, three months... ha ha haaa. I am always counting, does it matter what it is? not really. 72 days and counting, can I do it, it is a very difficult challenge but I can do it. In 72 days it will be 6 months without a woman, look forward to diving in again, but who knows I might try to count to 12, whats another 6 months, think how proud i will be.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And self respect came along and then respect for female and that ended that! tho What's doing account for my friends was 19 and 5 months 78 Girlz and knew there names lol That's a chicken in a country town !! Everyone wants taste! over 1000 if Prostitution counts but save to say 300 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Than some, less than others. My number is just that, but, wish I could bloody remember! Gettin' old sucks when you can't remember half the fun you've had. :(
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RHP User
11 years ago
Enough to have an idea about what I'm doing...but not enough so I dont get to say "oooo I've never tried that, let's give it a go baby" 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Come andplay - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
When my partner and I were first seeing each other my friend didn't like it. She told him I'd slept with over 100 men. The poor bloke sweated over this until I told him my real number. Thanks to her lie I became practically virginal! Hehe :) It doesn't matter how many you've had, just that you take time to enjoy the whole of the person and pay them the respect of fully reflecting on the experience. No matter how it was. Jess x
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wouldn't bother to put the number of sexual partners up nor tell anyone that asked. Why would they ask? Is it to determine your capability? Or nail you when in a relationship? I did find myself noticing that with certain partners I noticed how many times a day we had sex, all types. I was then finding that it was not interesting, rather the times we truly connected and both had toe curling spine tingling moments, or 3 that I remembered. Those were the times I wanted to reproduce not the volume. However, it must be said the volume builds the capability.
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RHP User
11 years ago
1700 in 5 yrs ,a bit slow to gaz's total but hey i try
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hmmm, I think I've ran out of fingers n toes to count now. Not a huge number I know. But the thing I'm most proud of is I can still speak to anyone of them and not get a slap in the face :) That's what matters to me "Respect" :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's more arousing to sleep with less women, enjoy playing a few and have sex with just a couple ;) The tease and the talk is everything, people who appreciate that feel very pleased to find just a handful of like minds and no doubt segregate themselves from the 'quantity' types who are surely banging away at a terribly empty hole in more ways than one? I think that young guys have an inclination towards promiscuity, perhaps built in, but only guys who remained trapped in that stage carry such frantic desires? Or perhaps people with low self-esteem no doubt...it is no ones business how many people I have slept with, And au think that those who people who are genuinely sexual and have accidentally rung up a number are likely to keep it to themselves for the most part. Perhaps lots of women would be disappointed to hear that a man had slept with many women, perhaps not, sweet dreams are made of these I guess, but it would certainly be nothing to advertise. Pillow talk is like a tabernacle...remains between you and I. It is always fun to find that the respectable looking and acting person you are relating to has the sexuality to have created a few naughty secrets ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
well over 70 and i am 22 years old and want to make it to the century club ASAP.
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RHP User
11 years ago
(Sofa King?) Why?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'sofakinggood' well over 70 and i am 22 years old and want to make it to the century club ASAP. I heard that you get a telegram from the Queen when you get to 100.
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