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What's your time?
September 07 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. Yes 2. Yes but knowing what I'm like, there would be way too much detail, it would be like a tome 3. Didn't sit around waiting for opportunity to knock, I decided to make the opportunity, build my own door as they say
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I was 18 I met hubby ( he was 20) and thought what a nice guy and he says he thought the same about me but he mucked up when he wrote my number down so I was left wondering what happened to him . Then when I was 20 I met him again and we made sure we got the numbers right , we talked and went out a few times but then he got an offer to play football interstate at a level he had always dreamed of so after a lot of thinking he decided to go to Queensland only for 12 months and we both said if it is meant to be it will be . We talked on the phone a lot but gave each other there freedom , i met a nice guy and slowly stopped ring each other , after 18 months he returned to Bendigo And we ran into each other again but alas I was still with this other guy . A further 6 months on the so called nice wasn't so nice one night when we were leaving a pub late and hit me , and guess who happened to be about 5 meters up the street and stepped in and save me .. He is still with me know and saves me every day 20 years later So we often say if if you persevere what is meant to be will be- Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Hello beautiful, yes, yes and (deeper sigh) sometimes life has other priorities it wants you to concentrate on. Girlhavingfun that was lovely reading. Agree wholeheartedly with the "if it's meant to be" somehow Love finds a way, but then I'm a sentimental romantic dreaming fool and life doesn't always work out the way you'd like. If I may quote a dear friend "it is possible to have very deep feelings for many people - there is nothing to say that there has to be commitment, but life is so short that to enjoy every second with a person and not have regrets is the best way." I'm very newly seperated from a man most women would kill to have, kind, gentle, attractive and a wonderful lover. I simply fell out of love with him. Do I want to dive into another relationship; not really. Not yet, it's not time. Do I have hope that someday I will find another who CAN deal with me on my level, hell yes!! But the timing has to be right. :-) Indy girl on a mission. xx- Posted from rhpmobile
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subgal_gc
11 years ago
Met the love of my life six years ago this weekend. We were together for only nine months but they were the happiest and most emotionally fulfilling months of my life so far. Unfortunately there were circumstances that broke us up and has succeeded in keeping us apart all this time. I have been reliably informed by members of his family that he still cares for me but alas I can't see him turning up on my doorstep anytime soon. After we separated I took quite a bit of time to myself while I sorted my feelings out, then when I felt I could be happy with myself I ventured back into the world of dating/sex. It is fair to say that there is a part of me that will always love him but I refuse to accept that I should live the rest of my days alone just because I can't be with him!! And who knows...there might just be the right guy out there with his own story waiting to meet someone as emotionally defunct as me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
but who knows.....20 years ago we may have not even given each other a second glance... I often think "if only we had met 20 years ago".... how different life might have been.....and then I think " But what if I had not met him when I did" how different would my life be now, I would still be the shadow of myself that I was . We may think the timing sucks but I know my life is richer for having met him at all even if it is 20 years too late
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
A week later he started a relationship with the 'hottest' girl around. She had a major issues, 3 months later he broke it up, we had become friends in the meantime, no sex and sexual tension only developing late in the friendship. We hooked up the next day and were inseparable for 5 years.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My first fiance, but she's on her second marriage and has two kids. Maybe I dodged a bullet?
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RHP User
11 years ago
What happened Foxy? Care to spill the Beans?
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RHP User
11 years ago
That my timing is continuously off :-( I just can't seem to get it right- Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Hi FOXYI think Tara and I started our relationship well before it actually began. I was with another girl and very loyal to that, Tara was very respectable to that. It was not until I had recovered from breaking away from my ex, that my loyalty must have been respected and Tara's respect claimed my loyalty.My ex cheating could not have come at a better time, and I thank her so so much for it. Otherwise I may have only ever thought I knew what love felt like.Mado, Tara xx
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Can't wait to meet you two someday!! :). And my beautiful friend Subby, you k ow you're gorgeous and settling for second best was never going to be you. In time beautiful, hntil then I love you!! Lol. Funlover dodging bullets seems to be your life story.....haha. Foxy I hope your NOT referring to who I think y'are.....pedestals topple and his has a few times. Kick him to the curb. (OMG did I just say that out loud??). And I'm still smiling about the beautiful Ding riding the highs of mutual love and togetherness. All in good time people, all in good time. Also loving how my beautiful friends here all wax and wane emotionally, not as often as the topics do; but with a simple honesty and passion. I might also add I put on 3kg back on partying with you naughty fuckers!!! -.- lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
things are just not meant to be.....the ''what ifs'' or ''the if onlys'' just get in the way of the happening of now.There is nothing we can do about the past,to romantise is to hold ourselves hostage to a mirage....however I know two couples who married,divorced and got back together again,it is definitely possible .I also have a friend who mourns her ex-fiance of thirty years ago,that was her last significant relationship,do not become a Miss Havisham.
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's actually a bit like that right now. I thought timing was complicated with juggling 12 hour night and day shifts with seeing my kids. Now I am also moving house in the very near future. Life just gets like that sometimes I guess. I had to put someone off who I really wanted to get together with and talk to. I find her quite fascinating an I am very interested in what promises to be some stimulating conversation, just right now timing my days off in amongst the rest of life is a little tricky. I just try to keep my chin up, do as much as I can when life throws us these little curve balls :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Am I the only one here who chocked when they read that Mrs paradisePairs husband hooked up with the "hottest woman around" and it wasn't Mrs ParadisePair ? !!! Hp xo 💌 Mr Paradise... You dill !
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Mrs Paradisepair certainly IS a gorgeous hot woman inside and out!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
it was her FIRST husband,not Mr.Paradise...and yes he must be a dill
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RHP User
11 years ago
Tiiiiiick Tooooock! Time get a new watch cause the timing sucks... :( Foxy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You should contact her and let her know you're thinking of her! Believe you me, if she can not read what you wrote..she'll think that's pretty somefink if she feels the same!! I know I would IF the timing was off just a little...go on matey...Go for it!!! :) :) :) FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Awwww big hugs...Thank you for sharing! FOXY xxxxx- Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Your pearls Foxy ;-) xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you....I call them "My Pearls of Wisdom". ;) Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SUPERFOXXY'Thank you....I call them "My Pearls of Wisdom". ;) Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile Yes do love a pearl necklace
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RHP User
11 years ago
1994200120032012....same man.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ironically Foxy I received a message asking if my post meant I was cancelling. If I break my leg this week I will be there.....but on crutches.
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RHP User
11 years ago
She better appreciate that kind of commitment!
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Beachlover1999
11 years ago
That wasn't supposed to happened but did .com situations...... Communicated then met this amazing guy, one of those unreal, rare occasions and believed he was single....which he was.....our lives had been living soo parallel and believed this was our moment of meeting, we came from the same UK village, he went to the boy school, I to the girl school, lived in London and Middle East and ended up in Port Macquarie........ EXCEPT.......he had 'promised' himself to one vanilla girl who was leaving a 15 loveless marriage, blar blar, blar.....sooooo denying who he really is..... We tried friends...........nope
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RHP User
11 years ago
Fingers, legs and Pearls crossed!! Hope all goes well..FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is only as good as the lessons you identify and learn.- Posted from rhpmobile
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BrightBubbly
11 years ago
Quoting 'subgal_gc' Met the love of my life six years ago this weekend. We were together for only nine months but they were the happiest and most emotionally fulfilling months of my life so far. Unfortunately there were circumstances that broke us up and has succeeded in keeping us apart all this time. I have been reliably informed by members of his family that he still cares for me but alas I can't see him turning up on my doorstep anytime soon. After we separated I took quite a bit of time to myself while I sorted my feelings out, then when I felt I could be happy with myself I ventured back into the world of dating/sex. It is fair to say that there is a part of me that will always love him but I refuse to accept that I should live the rest of my days alone just because I can't be with him!! And who knows...there might just be the right guy out there with his own story waiting to meet someone as emotionally defunct as me. I met mine 14 months ago and we had 6 amazing months together. He left me swearing that he would love me forever but just couldn't be "with" me.I also refuse to be alone because I can't be with him but my heart is not ready to love another.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My philosophy is that it can't go badly. At the very worst I will get to know someone whose forum posts I have found at different times....amusing, thought provoking, inspiring and full of insight. So "at the very worst" is still pretty good! But back on topic, I suppose in a way this would touch on another forum topic at comes up perennially. Cancelling at the last minute. I had to cancel a play date about 20 minutes before we were due to meet once as my eldest son broke his arm and I was with him at the hospital. Thankfully my reason was taken at face value and the couple I was meeting didn't let it phase them. Subsequent play dates were had and all turned out well. Work has delayed me a couple of times on the way to play dates as well but they turned out well as well. I think most of us lead busy lives and can accept that others do too and while it can be disappointing trying to work out timings or have adage fall through, as long as everyone is honest, it has been my experience that most of us "get it". We understand and have a fair degree of tolerance.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes it's hard to be philosphical. To really believe that everything turns out exactly as it's meant to, especially when you can see the potential for something truly beautiful "if only" the stars aligned.
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RHP User
11 years ago
As they say..."TIME" heals many things and Good things come to those who wait!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
do good things come to those who wait....quite the opposite...it is so much better to not ''wait'' and make things happen....life is much too short,justforfun and when you meet this paragon of the forums will she say I wonder''Is that a post in your pocket or are you just pleased to see me?
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RHP User
11 years ago
*sighs* I got a "Broken Arm on monkey bars" last minute text Thursday night.. I replied with...LOL "BREAK A LEG" ;) It was quite a coincidence, with your post - I've had a giggle. :) FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
See I would turn up with the cast and sling on :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I might be too stoned on pain medication to drive but I would be ringing and saying...."pick me up, pick me up....we'll have so much fun......I feel great.....ooh shiny!"
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of having sex with a man with both legs and arms in casks (he fell from monkey bars) LOL Is it possible ?? A kink?? *insert thinking man* FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
the "disappearing act" is really playing on your mind. bahahaMado
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RHP User
11 years ago
LOL I must get those thoughts to disappear!! LMAO ...... Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
A difficult fantasy to realise as most men wouldn't want the inconvenience of six weeks in traction :)Better off tying each limb to the corners of a four poster bed!
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madotara69
11 years ago
You are on our Christmas list, got a pressy for yu. Pink fluffy handcuffs. he he
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RHP User
11 years ago
Peal necklace went well this morning :p
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh goody! Whoooooo Hoooo All my christmaseseses's have come at once. FOXY You're on my list too ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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