letsfind1

letsfind1

M44 F44

Wheelchair

August 23 2020

Would you play with a couple where one of the couple is in a wheelchair?? I'm (the male) is in a wheelchair as I have Multiple Sclerosis.

Comments

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    At the very least you should put it in your profile, that way you'll attract those that don't care and not waste the time of those who do. Hope that's not too blunt, but with communication being so important in the lifestyle, I think it speaks for itself. Would it actually worry us, honestly I'm not sure. I'd like to say no, but personally we see so few new people we say no to smokers and straight singles, so it would probably be a hard sell. Good luck, it's a hard one to navigate

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    Letsfind1 I agree with Spicy . It’s always best to be upfront and honest in your profile . Would we play with someone in a wheelchair ? For us the answer would be yes . It would be the same as with anyone . We would need to feel attracted to them , be able to have good communication , flirting and be of the same mindset as far as playing goes . Just by way of example, my husband is a smoker ( which he attempting to give up )and that is a definite no for many people . My age is a definite no for many . The wheelchair , as with other things would be a no from some and not a problem for others . Goodluck in your search for like minded sexy souls . Ax

  • wildcrazyloving

    wildcrazyloving

    4 years ago

    I have met someone from RHP who has a spinal injury. I did notice one picture where he was in a wheelchair. He clarified before meeting up that he had a disability, which provided space for questions and reassurance. We made some sexy memories.

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    4 years ago

    Definitely be upfront about it and perhaps preemptively answer some questions in your profile (ie - do you participate, do you prefer to watch only - sorry also to be blunt but people will want to know). I feel there's opportunity to have a lot of fun regardless!

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    I agree with everyone else that you really should put your disability and level of involvement in your profile, make it clear as day. Maybe this would be why "people bail" on you? For me personally, i wouldn't seek out an encounter with wheelchair bound folks but it would all depend on the level of impairment and attraction too. Best of luck 😊

  • Sensual_Wheels

    Sensual_Wheels

    4 years ago

    As a wheelchair user myself. I have decided to just list the fact I use a wheelchair on my profile. Yes it will mean that I get way less interest but I am not going to hide the fact that I use one. The majority of people will not be interested in a disabled person and that is just a fact. I have tried to get a woman for a relationship for ages but I get that some people can't get past me using a wheelchair. It is my balance that has been destroyed via nerve damage but I am still functional. I can stand and walk using a frame. Sadly, there is a stigma on disabled people and many forget that we are human and have needs. I am still the man I was before the chair and I still want to be loved and have good sex. I can also respect peoples choices to not want to be with me for being in a wheelchair. What hurts tho, is the constantly being rejected just because of the wheelchair. I have gone to singles nights and I can say that many will not see me as a man, women will flock to gym/fit guys but avoid me like the plague.

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    4 years ago

    Can we chalk the tyres to check for parking compliance?? 😂😂 Used to have a regular at the nightclub that I worked security at that I used to do that to....

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    4 years ago

    If he/she is the right person then of course. I think there would need to be a little more discussion as usually all parties want to provide a fun, satisfying experience. Have fun :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Hell yeah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I am a below knee amputee and it hasn't slowed me down at all.As long as they are aware and comfortable with it all good.

  • compressor

    compressor

    4 years ago

    Yes for sure