M45

When do you know you have a Problem?

September 23 2013

Here I am AGAIN seeking advice from the vessel of knowledge that is RHP. I have often wondered whether my appetite for sex is normal. I love great clean sex so much that I could do it all the time(Energy and tools permitting) I think about sex a lot and have explored most of my fantasies including, clubs, watching, being watched, public places, threesomes moresomes to name but a few, but I am still as sexually hungry as I have always been. Saying that, I don't have much sex and have gone a couple of years before and I can be very selective when it comes to playing partners qualities and age( tend to prefer the more mature female species) so maybe that's my problem.That said, When look around me, I feel not many people want sex as much or as often as me which can be scary sometimes. Someone please tell me I am normal !

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RHP User

11 years ago

Yes you are normal :-) Many of us have sex on our mind at different times throughout the day, normally in the most inappropriate moments. I guess we just don't show it openly.

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RHP User

11 years ago

:-)Yes you are normal :-) Many of us have sex on our mind at different times throughout the day, normally in the most inappropriate moments. I guess we just don't show it openly.Thanks for that Nibbleme

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RHP User

11 years ago

It's completely up to you whether you think and feel it is normal.If you feel that your libido is controlling your life in a negative way then do seek help. People are always complaining about their low libido but many fail to recognize the fact that high libido can actually destroy ones quality of life.It impacts your relationships (it may just be all about sex, or the other half may not be able to keep up) and can result in separation.My partner struggles with his, when we were younger he could not control himself and it dramatically affected our relationship in very negative ways. It's funny because you expect it to settle down once you've passed adolescence. But don't forget that men think about sex several times a day... So I assume it's relatively normal.

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RHP User

11 years ago

It's completely up to you whether you think and feel it is normal.If you feel that your libido is controlling your life in a negative way then do seek help. People are always complaining about their low libido but many fail to recognize the fact that high libido can actually destroy ones quality of life.It impacts your relationships (it may just be all about sex, or the other half may not be able to keep up) and can result in separation.My partner struggles with his, when we were younger he could not control himself and it dramatically affected our relationship in very negative ways. It's funny because you expect it to settle down once you've passed adolescence. But don't forget that men think about sex several times a day... So I assume it's relatively normal.Thanks Lolell93 :-) I think you have put my mind to rest and made me think about how my libido affects my life and people in it. I dont think its had a negative impact just yet so I will be grateful that I have a high rather than a low and if it does get out of hand and start affecting others, I will seek some advice. very valuable advice ;-) I guess everyone needs a mrs lolell93!

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Lovinit28andKC72

11 years ago

Well I think it normal.....lol

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Neilvap3

11 years ago

blkldn, I guess I am in some sort of same boat .. even having played in most scenes (mmf, mf, gb, swing, cuck), still looking for more .. @nibbleme : "most inappropriate moents" lol

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