twowithnolimits

twowithnolimits

M59 F44

When is a woman not a woman?

May 24 2018

when she is some kind of couple.... can't believe this is still happening , couldn't rhp mods just reclassify all the women who talk about their partners in the text of their profile?? yesterday afternoon is typical, not one , not two , but three single women,...with partners! Woman A... "i was single when i did the profile but now i have a partner and its too hard to do a new profile" Woman B.. " i am single but i want my fwb to be with us......" Woman C.."my husband will be there but he wont join in so that makes me a single woman" are we the only ones who think we are a couple because there are two of us going to be involved and singles mean only one person is involved?? the dynamic we want when answering singles of either sex, is quite different from the dynamics we have in mind for 3somes. we know couples who have single and couples profiles, but the singles profile is for playing as a single (no hubby, partner,fwb involved) and the couples profile is for when both will be present in whatever capacity. Not a problem. maybe the answer is a new category "couples where one may not be involved all the time"? So what do others think, is this just a flagrant attempt to play with the search engine or are people just lazy?

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Thats hilarious. Sorry but THREE Catfish on one day is unlucky. Way too much of this crap going on these days..... when hubby and I first joined 5 +years ago RHP was alot more genuine. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Wow. Honesty is obviously not important to some people. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Some women can be just as fucked up as some of them. Different but just as slimy

  • Dallas1975

    Dallas1975

    7 years ago

    They've realised that single female profiles get a lot more hits than couples would, so they set up the profile just as you've described. Are they not mentioning their partner in the profile at all? Are you only just finding out when you start messaging? I can imagine how annoying it must be! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Xxalex

    Xxalex

    7 years ago

    Bad luck there. I don't get why people don't just put it out there from the start.. What's the point in wasting everyone's time, if they were looking for a couple then they'd look at couples... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • noeleena

    noeleena

    7 years ago

    Hi. To me being a unicorn is about you don't count you can maybe look pretty yet your not seen as a woman who is desirableand guys have no interest in you at all age also becomes part of that, Single age 70, a real woman yet is that enough. ...noeleena...

  • Supernova

    Supernova

    7 years ago

    I see these profiles all the time, single female with "partner that wants to join in" Well bugger off and make a couples profile then ??? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    7 years ago

    In some cases they are not mentioned until several messages in, other times it's in the text but surely that does not alter the fact that they should not be choosing a single woman profile. Makes us wonder what else they aren;t straight about when they try and exploit the profile type. Wouldn't be a pet hate if it wasn't so prevalent around here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And it is exceedingly frustrating when you’ve been comminicating for ages, you’ve spoken about meeting up then all of a sudden there’s a fwb, or partner, or boyfriend or husband that has miraculously appeared on the scene. We were to meet one single lady once and had chatted for months, established a fantastic rapport with her then a few days before she spoke about her old fwb who was back in the scene. We discussed it and told her we’d prefer it was her - she said she was ok with this. We went on and made a time to meeted and then the inevitable black hole got her.. That black hole has surely got to be getting full by now 🤔 It’s a little like false advertising. I understand some profiles start off as singles and then they meet someone but it’s quite simple to close the single profile and start a couple one. It’s just as frustrating when it’s a couple profile and after chatting one half admits the other half isn’t really into it but they are hoping they’ll come around. M - Posted from rhpmobile

  • ROBJEN

    ROBJEN

    7 years ago

    We were reading profiles last night after just completing our membership and found lots of profiles that we found interesting and then when you get into the details of the description you suddenly find out they are a couple. As we say, we prefer a single female, but won't rule out a couple. But when you find out their relationship status this way it destroys the trust immediately and you have no desire at all to proceed any further. As another poster said, 'what else are they being dishonest about'. Again, only new here but maybe RHP should open up to reporting and blocking those profiles until they are corrected.In joining a lifestyle where honesty should be so important, it is disappointing to see. Anyway, just another opinion :-)