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When is it ok to!
January 13 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Seriously, Blaze. There is no 'right' answer. It depends on the individual and the social circles they run in. You got some pretty good answers in your last thread. Not much point in asking over and over until you find (or invent) someone who'll give you the answers you want. If your mind's made up, leave it at that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
There is no right answer Blaze as everyone is different. 1. Anytime that two people want to sleep together. First date or 10th date it's up to the couple. 2. Not use protection? I assume you mean condoms. Well when you are exclusive with someone and know them well. And maybe after you have both been tested. Otherwise your safest and wisest option is to always use condoms. And you my friend, I hope are getting tested regularly for STDs 3. Again up to the two people. Probably best to leave the kinkier suggestions til after you have been together a few times. Personally I am open straight away with what I like. Doesn't mean I will do it straight away with a new person but yes, usually they will know if I will be receptive to a kinky suggestion before we get to the bedroom.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't know about "socially acceptable" but here are my own rules1) sleep together when you both want to. No time frame on that one2) no condoms = exclusivity for me. 3) asking for things? From the get go. Demanding things? Probably never.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It does sound like you think you have the right answer and are quizzing the rest of us. Is there a prize? Where you say Socially Acceptable, you do not specify the country. Surely you'd get very different answers for, say, India than here in Australia. But to answer your questions: when you meet someone when is it socially acceptable to Q1. sleep together Mmmm let's see, what time is it now? Q2. not use protection Three months, and only after we both get tested and I am convinved my partner always uses protection with other people he might be sleeping with. Q3. for either the girl or guy to ask to do a particular thing during sex i.e. anal, toys ... As soon as I'd feel comfortable enough to not be afraid of whatever answer my partner might give.
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RHP User
12 years ago
what the prize is first
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'what the prize is first It's a ham.
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
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RHP User
12 years ago
How can there be a right answer? People are all different with varying opinions, standards etc.... 1. When both people want to.... 2. Exclusivity and as the other wise ladies say, only when both have been tested 3. Again soon as both are comfortable with asking the question I do have a question for you Blaze, how are you grading this? To ascertain who is right i mean?? Oh yeah and what do we win
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boneheadred
12 years ago
I'm hoping there will be a dinner set to go with those steak knives,but eating with your fingers & licking & sucking the juices from them can be rather fun.
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RHP User
12 years ago
1) Whenever it suits the two people. Plenty of people have one night stands or random anonymous orgy sex and good on 'em if it's what they want. Also good on 'em if they want to wait for a time they both feel comfortable.2) Exclusive relationship. Call me paranoid but if you're dipping the wick unsheathed into everything you meet, sooner or later you're going to end up with one of two types of surprise.3) Whenever it suits both people. I'm sure there are people out there who again have anal on a random first-fuck (pretty rare I'd imagine but I bet it happens) and again, good on 'em.
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RHP User
12 years ago
1. After the second Cocktail is fine 2. How can any of us know. Better to be safe than sorry until there is some kind of committment in place where you can trust 'exclusivity'. 3. Oh fuck ... Hang .. On... Forgot the question .... Oh yeah ... When it feels right to do so. For me ... After the second cocktail is fine!!! I'm not shocked by much, I might have a little giggle then say 'ok, let's try it!' The fact that you asked about social acceptability is more interesting though. Why does it matter what anyone else thinks? These are decisions made only by you and your partner/s for you and you partner/s?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Younseem to thinkmthatbtheres alright answer and there was a little personal jibe at some one in your OP.
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RHP User
12 years ago
'you seem to think that there's ' ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'paintme'Younseem to thinkmthatbtheres alright answer and there was a little personal jibe at some one in your OP. When the OP said Im sure one person in here will have the right answer sounds like she knows everything he meant me... he's been stalking me a for a while. Wants me to use anal toys on him. Disclaimer: Any statements made in this post may not necessarily have anything to do with the truth.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ms.D,he wants your weapon of mass destrucion,does he realise what he is asking for,has he seen that thing? The purple people eater is to be afraid of,very afraid.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Again??? Wow.....he should meeka and her bull 😈
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RHP User
12 years ago
If the prize is a ONE EYE BONE!! I`ll answer.... :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
both in the questions and the profile
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RHP User
12 years ago
perhaps the prize is a ham bone
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't give a rats about socially acceptable !So whatever feels right at the time for those concerned.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Q1. sleep together after a good shag - then all you want to do is sleep - maybe then that's the best time?? Q2. not use protection when not shagging - sleeping. Q3. for either the girl or guy to ask to do a particular thing during sex i.e. anal, toys ... just bring out the toys - you'll soon find out....when one is shoved up your butt.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I move into a new area and have a housewarming... I invite the entire neighbourhood for a long weekend bash... one of the women in the neighbourhood decides to try her luck on me... I find out who she is married to... and when I am pretty sure he isn't around... I take the lady outback somewhere secluded... We fck.. no protection... she offers her anal.. I honour her offer... We hang out a little... and she says she needs to go... Sleep?? fck no!!!!! not the next 4 times either... Protection? Never.. Shrugs... Fck Society, and fck anyone who can't keep a hold of their partners... One day I will get shot.. and the hubby/BF will say "Fck you caveman" And he will be doing society a good turn The End
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RHP User
12 years ago
Q1. sleep together - when you are readyQ2. not use protection - when your monogomous and tested Q3. for either the girl or guy to ask to do a particular thing during sex i.e. anal, toys ... - see Q1
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' I move into a new area and have a housewarming... I invite the entire neighbourhood for a long weekend bash... An up and cumming neighbourhood?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would like a whole meat tray please Q1. When your bodies and minds are drawn together like magnets Q2. When you decide to be exclusive and testedQ3. Before you say giddy up and insert the pony tail
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RHP User
12 years ago
To quote the Bard of Avon…. "This above all: To thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man".... (or woman – a slight bastardisation!). x
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RHP User
12 years ago
*Cheeky grins* Something like that..... Got an address...? I will send you an invite for the one I will be having in my new place in a month or so time. Of course... I am older...and less buff...and well... more lots of things..and less lots of things... SO.. this probably WON'T happen this time.. damn it..
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