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When is "kinky" actually kinky?

May 24 2016

We are a couple who like to dabble in a few alternative practices. We are by no means hardcore kinksters, but we like to think we have a good few 'kinks' that are otherwise outside the norm. It seems, however, that many people use the word 'kinky' simply as a reference to sex in general; that because they are willing to partake in sex at all, they are "kinky" - however plain. Obviously there is no right or wrong here, but when a couple or single describes themselves as kinky - we want kinky! What is everyone's take on the meaning of "kinky"? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It's erotic if you use a feather. It's kinky if you use the whole chicken. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Is different things to different people. Ive been tied up in a dungeon but I think Im pretty normal. Ive done a few things I used to think were kinky but not any more. There are still things I would call kinky that I would NEVER do. Scat play for example. Its always good to find someone you are comfortable pushing your own boundaries with? I actually enjoy some of the things that were on my NEVER list now? Am I kinky? As I said, it means different things to different people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I am not sure what you mean. Do you mean swingers say they are kinky even though they are having plain sex with others ? Personally I have found that men will say they are super kinky but when it comes down to it they aren't kinky at all. I think they feel because they give your bum a little spank on Occassion or pull your hair they are kinky.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Is my kind of Kink 😈Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We like to think that a kink is , when you do our see something, what is not what most people will the usual sex activities and it turns you on, so that you would like to see it more or even want to do it, it can be your fetish. If you have a number of fetishes and you do enjoy them regular, one can say that you are Kinky. This our opinion. So you can ask us about our fetishes and than you tell us, if you think we are kinky, OK?Always open to any question or suggestion, Hugs and kisses Ton & Macy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Words like kinky or Dom are over used by vanilla people and in the wrong context quite often, on these sites. And so is the word Bi. Reminds me of the self professed dominant who thought squeezing a boob really hard, pulling hair and slapping an arse was what a master dom did to a sub. And that was his sales pitch! Yeah nar, youre not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    And decide if it matches my kinks! I don't think there's a universal definition for kink that you'd apply to most situations, I look for compatibility in interests! I'd be considered tame for some, kinky for others! I know what I like and I look for partners in crime to explore those interests. Mary xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    about sex... she thought I was at LEAST, kinky.. PROBABLY perverted.....BUT, our Demons liked each other... a fckn LOT....and Hers taught her well.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes, you nailed it They're all kinky until you move along a bit. Ask them to share the space with another guy, be in close quarters with another cock, and let's face it, that's pretty mild, we're not even talking kinky there, but most won't even do that let alone anything else. op since you asked the question, I think you should elaborate on what you consider kinky. It's hard to comment when we don't know exactly what you mean. What kinks are you into that others shy away from? I personally don't consider kinky any particular act, that's subjective and personal to the individual, but the mind is way more powerful and what makes a person kinky/dominant whatever. Hard to kind of put it into words but kinky is for me where there are no boundaries with the right guy, and the right mind control, anything can happen, because I want it to

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    What my description is. Label as you wish. Maybe im kinky because I'm a TV. Maybe my partner is kinky for being with me. One shrink described me a little kinked. So maybe that makes it official....?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I was at the local football and I was wondering IF I was in fact KINKY....I was with a new girl I had picked up at the pub.. so, I thought I would ask her WHAT constituted "Kinky"I slid my mouth off her rock hard cock.... and ... No!!.. I thought.. Hang on.. WTF... ????????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Mmmm, I love a bit of kink but don't like pain. To my non rhp friends I'm sure I'd be considered extremely kinky. To my rhp friends perhaps not so much. It depends on the audience I guess..... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • nibblemebi

    nibblemebi

    9 years ago

    Kinky is as kinky does... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Great conversation, please feel free to check us out and tell us, if we are

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Kinky is like a box of chocolates, you never know what your going to get......To us kinky is toys and apparatus....anything that is not a human but is used for sexual activity is kinky to us.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I would say you are pleasantly kinky. Probably similar to most on RHP... But in the real world. Most of my nilla friends would freak out! Lol. Some people have no idea what people get up too. 😆👍🏻