When its time to party! And your fella decides to sleep!

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  sweetgem

  8 years ago

  Too early to encounter such physical challenge! Could it be your lifestyle? Or medical condition (if you had any that is)? I would recommend you to: 1) Go and seek consultation with your GP, if you haven't already been, just to make sure that there's nothing to worry about from medical point of view. 2) If GP found nothing wrong from medical perspective, perhaps look at your lifestyle and see what you are doing right and wrong. 3) Alternatively, maybe give Traditional Chinese Medicine a try? I suggest this because, I have a number of friends whom were unable to fall pregnant, even with the use of IVF, but they could and did after they (both husband and wife had TCM treatments) turned to TCM for final try. I don't know much details about their treatments, but TCM worked for them and so it could be an alternative for you, and anyone else, who are in need of help when nothing else works. Good luck heavenlysinful, hope you'll get back what's yours soon :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  In general, I think exercise helps greatly - not only physically but mentally. Get that heart pumping! 😊 We've also had guys with the same issue in the past when the focus was mainly on me -not only during play but mostly once the condom goes on. We have made it an effort lately to make the guys feel welcome and as comfortable as possible, sometimes even spoiling them by making them the centre of attention with both of us devouring him at the same time. That always seems to work and it's been a win-win with repeat performances...mmm... 😍😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  boobsandbusted

  8 years ago

  Not sure if you hit the gym but only the other night i had a problem , like never before , looked at what had changed or happened in the last couple of days ,all I could find was hitting the gym like a possessed man and changed pre work out drinks ,anyway next day all good ,but then again, rubber dick a day later ,grrrr long story short ,Google ,Stim dick ,and nope I not taking that stuff anymore lol, caffeine and stimulants are not your dicks friend and apperently either is over working out until exhaustion,,every muscle just doesn't want to work ,including the one between your legs ,so no more intense Work outs before sexy times for mr b Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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  boobsandbusted

  8 years ago

  Not sure if you hit the gym but only the other night i had a problem , like never before , looked at what had changed or happened in the last couple of days ,all I could find was hitting the gym like a possessed man and changed pre work out drinks ,anyway next day all good ,but then again, rubber dick a day later ,grrrr long story short ,Google ,Stim dick ,and nope I not taking that stuff anymore lol, caffeine and stimulants are not your dicks friend and apperently either is over working out until exhaustion,,every muscle just doesn't want to work ,including the one between your legs ,so no more intense Work outs before sexy times for mr b Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I've had a couple of incidences of this, the last one just last week. It's annoying on so many levels, not least of which it's hard to convince the woman in your bed that it has nothing to do with her. I do have an ongoing health issue that could be impacting on it, but I hate making excuses of any sort, it just sounds like a whiny rationalisation. And there's probably more to it than that for me. Both events occurred the first time with someone, so aspects of that probably added to it. I do need to feel connected to someone to want to fuck them, I'm a bit of a girl like that . And sometimes the first time with someone, even if you really dig them, can be a little less than fully connected. But both times I was actually very turned on, but the old fella just wasn't coming to the party. Thankfully I've got a bit of an oral fetish, so falling back on that can save the day. A bit. I'm not sure I'd recommend traditional Chinese medicine though, that's what rhinoceros horn is used for. And aside from the fact that they're an endangered species, it doesn't work. Not that I've tried it... (hmmm )...

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  ReyandJean

  8 years ago

  stay off the piss drink plenty of water keep the blood nicely thinned and ready to prime the pump or hire professional fluffers

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  boobsandbusted

  8 years ago

  I get all the rest but , Keep the blood thinned ,care to share? Cos me and my brain can't think of anything past aspro,lol Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Some of us guys need connection to make it all happen so it's not always up and ready to go. I like the fact that I actually need a woman to turn me on rather than being a "walking hard on" type of guy that just wants to get his dick wet! Even the first night with my gorgeous wife was sub-optimal but the next night was awesome and into the groove once we tuned in to each other. If you're not in the right mind set when meeting a woman then Viagra etc won't help at all because it's not a problem down there but a mind fuck. Mind fucks can be damaging to your performance. OP I agree that a woman that can give the right manual/oral stimulation is just what is needed in that situation - relax, connect and get hard. Then pay back the gift you have received ten fold :) Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Sawadee

  8 years ago

  Mr happy decides he doesn't want to party anymore and that's that. Then the embassesing moment trying to explain it was nothing she did.. But regardless , she still thinks it is no matter your reassurance's .. A no win whichever way you look at it... Have a look at what you're putting in your body . Caffeine , alcohol , medication ( specially blood pressure and anti depression medication ) stress , lack of sleep, overweight.. All these things have a direct effect on your sex organs.. Best to find a good doctor who doesn't brush your concerns . Insist on getting a full blood test and check to see if your testosterone and estrogen levels are OK.

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  sweetgem

  8 years ago

  Please don't just assume that people who practise, or adopt TCM, would use rhinoceros horn as their main or only method to help fix a man's erection problem 😁 please don't scare the OP or anyone else who might be in need of help when nothing else works for them 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  8 years ago

  Assuming there are no underlying health issues..... which I can't possibly know.... then the rest is in your head. If you wake with an erection, have them in your sleep, or otherwise can get it up at other times.... then the physical mechanisms are fine and the issue is what your brain is telling your body at those times you've lost it. Do not underestimate the psychological aspect which has significant impact on all aspects of how your body functions How you wish to understand that, and address it is a whole other topic - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Quoting 'sweetgem' Please don't just assume that people who practise, or adopt TCM, would use rhinoceros horn as their main or only method to help fix a man's erection problem 😁 please don't scare the OP or anyone else who might be in need of help when nothing else works for them 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile I shouldn't discount an entire medical discipline because of one ridiculous and destructive practice. But at the same time, if someone is going to explore TCM for any condition, they should ask about the ingredients and do a bit of their own research, because as much as some of it is obviously effective, other practices are pure superstition. And rhinos aren't the only species facing extinction because of traditional medicine related poaching.

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Yeah, I was, according to doctor most likely stress levels higher than normal! Change of address, job and my boy getting in to school! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  sweetgem

  8 years ago

  Yes, always be cautious of what you (as in general reference) take into your body. Like anything else, TCM is not the final cure and its herbal medicines have side effects too if one is not careful or doesn't know what they're drinking in! So best practice is to see more than one TCM practitioner for first time user, plus do enough research about herbal medicines before start taking them. Of course, I only suggested TCM as an alternative for when nothing works, or worse, when hope is shattered! I don't turn to TCM at first instance when I encounter a health issue. But it is there as an alternative when operation is the only way out for me in western medical treatment, and that I'm not yet ready to live with the complications post the operation 😊 hope that makes sense :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Generally speaking if you're regularly getting erections it's probably a little less to do with a health issue and more so stress, sleep deprivation and the mind. The mind is a powerful thing. You might not even be consciously thinking about anything. For women "in the know" it happens. And they shouldn't feel it's a reflection on how attractive they are to you. From a guys point of view - don't stress if he doesn't stand to attention straight away. The anxiety will make it even more likely you won't get the result you're wanting. Accept that it happens from time to time and it's nothing to be embarrassed about. Relax and do other things instead. From an accepting ladies point of view - we go with the flow, take the opportunity to kiss and stroke, there doesn't need to be an erection to have fun. And if everyone is relaxed about that missing component and still enjoying each others bodies, a surprise just might happen. You're not a performing monkey ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Sweetgem Thanks for your advice and have looked into TCM. R B, I also have the "I need to be into her" for me to get into it!! That and I guess hiring professional fluffers could be interesting!

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I usually say something like "looks like your in for a slow start and a long finish" Hopefully she appreciates that more than a 30 second wonder !I find if I'm into the foreplay and carousing and it's still being a bit slow then create some body contact with your cock, like humping her leg without the humping, then get your face and nose into some pheromones, obviously her pussy is ideal but neck and armpits also work well, I also find the sounds of her pleasure, the soft moaning etc also wind me up.In essence turn her on and she will turn you on.

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