When looking on line what makes you think they will be great ,sex ,friends, ect.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  well max brother dont let the internet get u down to me its a bonus if i find women or not , u wont belive the types of shit people come up with on theses sites , if posting un real photos and a bullshit profile works for some people then try doing the same it just may work . but wat happens wen the other party finds out that its all just a joke n that they ve been lied to , ur better off just trying to be urself n see were it takes u .. goodluck

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I tend to read the profile and if the profile suggests that the couple are looking for something similar to us, we send them a flirt or message. Of course we also go by looks but looks aren't as important as a good personality. Generally, I don't think most profiles give enough information about what people are looking for so it's good to send a message and find out, however I don't want to read a profile essay! Cock, vag, and cock-in-vag pics really don't appeal to us as the title pic, what's wrong with a face pic? Or at least leaving something to the imagination? That instantly rules a profile out in our books. I think the key is just to be honest and show your personality.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Max.... Look back through the conversation we had regarding your original username. That alone was a deal-breaker for me.But that's just my personal opinion - someone else may have found it pithy, sexy, attractive - I did not. And I told you that very respectfully.All you have on a web site is a photo or two, and what is said in the profile to make a judgement call. Of course that allows you to be judged! Surely you're not suggesting that everyone should meet with everyone who sends them a flirt or message, because you shouldn't judge them on their profile alone??I "judge"profiles on the entire body of the profile - this includes photo (do I find it physically attractive and what type of photos) and what they say in their profile (do I find it intelligent and honest). By this I make a judgement if I want to red or green light the profile owner!But it's all just my opinion. I've received some extremely aggressive and abusive messages on here from men who have taken great offence to my profile! End of the day - I don't care, that's their opinion. Because for every one abusive jerk on here there are ten amazing, genuine guys.You don't like my profile? Move on!Max, you can't be all things to all people.

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  ForeverLovers

  13 years ago

  Personally I love a profile that is well written, the spelling and grammar have all been checked (and if this is something you find difficult ask someone to help you out, I've done it for others, makes the world of difference), you are given just enough information to want to go further, and the photos are tasteful and teasing (sorry, not a fan of cock/boob/pussy shots).   I also like all parts of a profile to be filled out. I'm not sure how some people think they are going to attract others when they haven't filled out all of their stats. Now I understand some people find that aspect shallow, but let's face it, this site is like a market. We have a huge variety to choose from so we're going to choose the ones that suit us the most.   I also like very specific profiles. And I like positive profiles. There are so many profiles now that are just plain snappy and nasty and you almost feel guilty for clicking on them. There are ways of saying things nicely, so if you have definite turn-offs or a type of person you prefer not to chat to then word it in a way so it is clear but not offensive.   If we open a profile and it has heaps of capital letters (shouting), shocking spelling, just one or two lines (as if they couldn't really be bothered working on anything more) and heaps of "stats" missing then regardless of how sexy they look we just move on.   A profile should be like the art of burlesque. A tease, a temptation, a delicious taste of what may come!   So to sum it all up and answer your question, we choose who we feel will be great for friendship and sex based on how well they have sold their true selves to us in their profile. That we feel there is compatibility. That we are like minded. That we can't wait to take the next step and chat with them and further explore the possibilities!   Cheers! Mrs FL xxx   PS - Just had a little giggle thinking about the worst profiles we've seen, is there truly a match on here for everyone? Is there a guy out there with a giant hideous looking cock pic on his profile and he just says something like "Just wanna have sum fun, no strings, dont care who u r" and then along comes another shocker of a profile, maybe similar to is and they think "wow, this is a match made in heaven" lol! Awwww!

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  Cat505

  13 years ago

  Hi Max I guess we look for something in a profile that makes you different from the others, each person on here would have their own likes and dislike.. Hmm goes both ways.. There are a lot more women on here than men in The age group I am interested in..so why haven't they all contacted me? Obviously there was nothing that tickled their fancy in my profile. I personally like a profile that has been personally written, not just compelled from the drop down list. I also hate these phrases. Easy going and down to earth? What do these mean. Lol No thought or effort in the profile = no thought or effort in bed! Oh and some one that is a bit selective In their wants.. Not the ones that basically read anyone will do from 18-99. Lol Cat

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Everyone is looking for different things.Some are attracted to hot pics,some won't tolerate poor speelling or grammar.I find a profile that really tells a story about who the person is, very attractive. I also find profiles with no photos and template descriptions, extremely off putting.Says nothing . Chatting on line,texting,speaking to the person on the phone,all help to make a decision as to whether or not you even wish to meet the person. Most women want men to read their profiles and when contacting them, to at least be coherent with their messages and to avoid the grunting on the page speak,eg....'hey wots up'....how can anyone respond to that? I won't tolerate rudeness,politeness costs nothing ,as I told a man I had been chatting to the other day. It is only when you meet that you really know if this person is someone you want to spend more time with....or not .xHugs H

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  All you are doing is putting up a very bad add there hon. The picture is terrible The profile only sounds like hot air Especially about making a woman cum, how the hell do know you can do that? The great myth of giving a woman an orgasm till her nose bleeds, try reading the thread on orgasms. Your right its only perception on advertising, and its human nature to judge That is why we are here to make what we hope are informed choices, with the limited information of a profile Who knows if your boring Max its only when you meet and converse if you find a person boring.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  A profile is like a resume - it's first impressions that count. If you have an awful pic or can't spell or you tell people you are the best, they are likely to move on.   Pusscat xxx

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I looked at your profile again Max,and you still have little girls listed there.I find that just plain creepy Max, and I am sure other women would too. no hugs H

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Max... I'd suggest you put your profile through spell check first.... I don't have the time to browse profiles, so I tend to only check people out when they send me an email or a flirt (or if I spot them on the forums partaking in deep and meaningful discussions!). What I do is always read through the email first, then look at their profile - the photo/s, the stats, and then the rest of the profile. If the email is coherent, well-worded (spelling and grammar a must!) and shows that they have read my profile rather than sending me a template email which they've sent the other 100+ girls on the site, they're halfway there. I look at emails more than profiles as I think they require more effort than profiles. The photos and stats are the deal breaker.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  you won't know unless you figure that out right ? ha ha even still I can usually tell if I would click with someone just by chatting to them online ..

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Max.... Look back through the conversation we had regarding your original username. That alone was a deal-breaker for me.But that's just my personal opinion - someone else may have found it pithy, sexy, attractive - I did not. And I told you that very respectfully.All you have on a web site is a photo or two, and what is said in the profile to make a judgement call. Of course that allows you to be judged! Surely you're not suggesting that everyone should meet with everyone who sends them a flirt or message, because you shouldn't judge them on their profile alone??I "judge"profiles on the entire body of the profile - this includes photo (do I find it physically attractive and what type of photos) and what they say in their profile (do I find it intelligent and honest). By this I make a judgement if I want to red or green light the profile owner!But it's all just my opinion. I've received some extremely aggressive and abusive messages on here from men who have taken great offence to my profile! End of the day - I don't care, that's their opinion. Because for every one abusive jerk on here there are ten amazing, genuine guys.You don't like my profile? Move on!Max, you can't be all things to all people.A Like Button would make this so much easier

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'ForeverLovers' Personally I love a profile that is well written, the spelling and grammar have all been checked (and if this is something you find difficult ask someone to help you out, I've done it for others, makes the world of difference), you are given just enough information to want to go further, and the photos are tasteful and teasing (sorry, not a fan of cock/boob/pussy shots).   I also like all parts of a profile to be filled out. I'm not sure how some people think they are going to attract others when they haven't filled out all of their stats. Now I understand some people find that aspect shallow, but let's face it, this site is like a market. We have a huge variety to choose from so we're going to choose the ones that suit us the most.   I also like very specific profiles. And I like positive profiles. There are so many profiles now that are just plain snappy and nasty and you almost feel guilty for clicking on them. There are ways of saying things nicely, so if you have definite turn-offs or a type of person you prefer not to chat to then word it in a way so it is clear but not offensive.   If we open a profile and it has heaps of capital letters (shouting), shocking spelling, just one or two lines (as if they couldn't really be bothered working on anything more) and heaps of "stats" missing then regardless of how sexy they look we just move on.   A profile should be like the art of burlesque. A tease, a temptation, a delicious taste of what may come!   So to sum it all up and answer your question, we choose who we feel will be great for friendship and sex based on how well they have sold their true selves to us in their profile. That we feel there is compatibility. That we are like minded. That we can't wait to take the next step and chat with them and further explore the possibilities!   Cheers! Mrs FL xxx   PS - Just had a little giggle thinking about the worst profiles we've seen, is there truly a match on here for everyone? Is there a guy out there with a giant hideous looking cock pic on his profile and he just says something like "Just wanna have sum fun, no strings, dont care who u r" and then along comes another shocker of a profile, maybe similar to is and they think "wow, this is a match made in heaven" lol! Awwww! Agreed, and to think that a simple Like button would have sufficed....

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