When meeting with a couple as a single but they want to to find someone else.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Oh you say, hell yes, bring it on the more the merrier...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  ...you just find another couple?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Happened to me twice when I was a single guy here. Both times I opted out. The first time they actually showed me the profile n pics of the lass they'd chosen....,I thought 'nup.. Not goin there' and gave my apologies....second time I chose to pass without hesitation. How you deal with it may be different, but be aware......they probably won't end up with a gal you'd have chosen....gals willing to play with a couple and a guy she doesn't know will be pretty thin on the ground....- Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  12 years ago

  Assume "Couple".... = single bloke.DG

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Damned phone think I might nor have read your thread properly..if it's up to you finding othersw..id say good luck but don't hold yr breath, its not an easy solve- Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  So to me it really depends on if you have met the couple before and have some knowledge of them (even if only socially for a drink or something).... They may well be trying to keep their options open by inviting several people to play, knowing that one or more may cancel on the day. Group dynamic is quite important. I would say that if you have met and like the original couple (and get a good vibe from them) then maybe its a risk worth taking. If you haven't then there's maybe too many variables with extra people all meeting each other for the first time. Personally I only meet up with people for fun times after meeting socially first (so far this has never been on the same day) and always drive myself and don't drink more than one so that I can leave if needs be. A combination of good luck and good management has meant that i have never needed to leave though!Good luck with it!Jay

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Your not (good) enough by yourself? If I were told to bring a friend if I wanted to play I'd politely decline.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I would feel like I was being used as bait which is not cool at all.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You're*

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  My point is if they want to meet a couple why not contact a couple? Why contact a single guy and ask him if he can arrange a couple for them?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  ...it almost sounds like they just can't be fucked to do the work finding a girl/couple for themselves...so they are hoping that you'd be keen/desperate enough in your desire, to play with them...that you'd be willing to put the effort into finding them some extra fun too...in my opinion...if i were you...and was going to put the hard miles in to connect/find a suitable girl or couple,to play with...i would do it for my own benefit...not for the benefit of another couple...if they want YOU...they want YOU without any company required to bring along...if they want a foursome/more some....they should do their own sourcing...

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