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When worlds collide????
February 10 2013
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rc_80
12 years ago
Well, Id say he would have given you a virtual slap on the back"thats me boy!"
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RHP User
12 years ago
then you don't need to tell. I lead two very separate lives as I come from a very conservative family and live in a country town. So far I have kept my RHP world in Sydney when I visit but am starting to meet people out this way. I need babysitters so I guess my brother will work out what I'm up to soon ...... ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
you go guy,orgies interstate,yay..but WHY were they reading your text messages...hmmm I assume they said nothing or you have already dealt with the issue. I always advise others to choose playmates that are not too local.Should take my own advice.Recently my housemate informed me that he is applying for a job with an organisation where one of my lovers is the assistant manager and responsible for recruitment....they have never met,I am a somewhat paranoid and discrete woman,but sheesh...
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RHP User
12 years ago
...Go figure, 'ey? I prefer the 'friends-with-benefits' relationship to casual hook ups. We never discuss what it is we get up to with our friends but they are introduced to our family just as any other friend might be. Jennylee's family all know that she is bisexual. She is very open about it and it made it that much easier for her daughter to 'come out'. Still, we don't share details and no one has pried into it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're a big boy, and have a private life, I wouldnt be sharing my info with anyone unless I was the one who brought it up. Nobody else really needs to know, unless you have a need to share...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Freya- The text came up on the screen, they literally saw the opening line or 2. Reason they had access to my phone is because I was in a really bad way, slipping in and out of consciousness at the hospital. Neither had said a word until my friend had a few drinks and mentioned it. I skirted the issue last night but haven't really figured out if I should talk about it or just leave well enough alone. Rockers- Dad hasn't said a word, which is unusual for him.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I intentionally allowed my two worlds to collide.It was my birthday recently and I could not be bothered having two parties for my RHP friends and my 'real life' friends, so I had one and people from both sides of town came. It turned out fabulously! I am actually FRIENDS with these RHP friends, therefore real conversation is had not stemming around RHP itself. They knew that my 'real' friends would be there. No boundaries were stepped and fun was had by all.My 'real' friends know I am out there and promiscuous so I don't feel like I have much to hide expect that I use a website to meet playmates rather than pubs/clubs.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I suggest,if you are in doubt,don't.To quote Basil Fawlty ''Don't mention the war''.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is if a client saw me on here, would make for an awkward situation. My parents would die if they found out being extremely religious but really there's no way they would find out. Most of my workmates know I'm on here other than one lady who would be a bit judgemental. I'm not really too worried what others think about it really.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Our worlds did collide....but it was no biggie.the oldies on both sides don't mind...or care.... Family members have profiles here n elsewhere....brother, cousin and a couple of friends and workmates of us both...if we were ever going to be outed, its been preempted...- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I dont do anything that I feel a need to explain to anyone else.... or am embarrassed by if it was commonly known.That, is called being true to yourself.DG I am aware though that my behaviour/actions whether I like it or not are a reflection on my family. My family are well known in my town which is a very traditional, conservative place. It's just how it is and I respect that. Unfortunately society still looks down on promiscuous/liberated women and I'm content in myself not to upset any apple carts. Men usually don't have the same issue.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couldn't have put it better myself!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Our wedding was attended by playmates, relatives and work colleagues. It didn't cause us any problems and by and large everyone behaved...but it did give a couple of interesting moments. Two sets of our playmates had been messaging each other but hadn't met and didn't know we were friends in common. We found it funny rather than awkward. One half of another couple we had met on an adult site prior to her meeting her partner. When he realised there were swingers there he made them bid a hasty retreat....lol.....but we're still friends (albeit platonice and it has never been mentioned since!). I don't think any of the family at the wedding had a clue anything might be going on. If they did, they have never mentioned it.My work colleagues had realised we might be "a bit unconventional" at a a couple of our work "do's" when, after a few drinks Mrs SinS started flirting with some of the females. I was just happy to watch the show ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
The clients are definitely going to see you.. What you need worry about is who they tell if they don't hit on you. I have no pics on here at all. Will email from a anonymous email account after i have seen theirs. giving me the chance to avoid business colleagues, clients, staff and family. Although not full proof......by the time you get to a meeting.....it's mutual discretion. I did avoid one by a phone call though. I recognised....his voice and while the profile and messages grabbed me.....he in real,life sooooooo didn't....I do still smile when I deal with him though., The nine million dollar question is did he recognise my voice....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm super private for a whole bunch of reasons - conservative, small town family, senior management role which I would quickly lose if my discreet activities became indiscreet, and quite simply I'm a private person. I have no desire for my two worlds to collide, though they have already in fact. Five years ago, RHP web chat, on cam, showing from top lip down to shoulders ... and someone emailed me to say I'd know that mouth anywhere. Turns out I grew up with him, close family friend and all that. I confess I completely freaked out but am so thankful that he turned out to be a total gentleman. Still ... I'd rather it didn;'t happen again!
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's not so much that I worry someone would recognise me on here, i wouldnt have my face pic on here if i did. if they are on the site as well it would make for an interesting conversation if I met them in a professional sense. Most of my workmates know I'm on here and I've told the more non-judgemental ones what I've been up to though (without going in to too much detail) one of the ladies gets a little too excited an keeps fishing for more info than I'm willing to tell haha. the million dollar question for me is.. Whoareu? And why you always in hiding :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
For all they know you could of been sending a sexy text to your partner or doing a roleplay thing. Get a password for your phone or an app to send sneaky texts that are hidden
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thats the person you need to be honest with. Do people need to know? That's really up tp you. I think it's a lot like sex, if it feels good, do it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Off to Melbourne this weekend.... And reminding a few who I am..... Look quick .....
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RHP User
12 years ago
A high profile in 2 areas, my work and another where I am 'a face '. I try not to put myself in a position where my RHP persona will get me talked about. If I am recognised I would have to deal with it, but I would rather not be put in that position. I guess that would be the same for a lot of people in the this situation.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I dont do anything that I feel a need to explain to anyone else.... or am embarrassed by if it was commonly known.That, is called being true to yourself.DG That is an interesting statement. Part of me agrees, for two reasons. Firstly, we encourage religious tolerance, racial tolerance, tolerance of sexuality, so why not tolerance of sexual behaviours and "romantic-lifestyle" choices? Secondly, because it is the only "path" that isn't filled with charades and half-truths and a degree of deception (of others and of oneself). It's a path that appeals to me greatly at this stage of my life.Buuut, how do you reconcile the potential upset caused to others? The lost opportunities? The idea that perhaps, in a broader social context, you're backing yourself into a niche?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I delete all messages as soon as I get them I also delete all pictures I keep my phone on vibrate, and only take messages if I am in company I like my secret life I have daughters who would be horrified , and friends I have had for years that would be horrified, why should I embarase them, just so I can out myself nope, this is my own little bit of heaven , just for me
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do not answer my phone and talk to people, if I am with company I only answer my messages when I am free to do so, not while people are around. I only go on RhP when I am alone in the house I delete all my history on my computor the secret life of TR is just that secret
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RHP User
12 years ago
I liked your first post better.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Exactly the same as Tuscan red - everything, nothing kept , no numbers stored , no history - no one knows , I doubt most would be surprised if they knew , but I don't want to embarrass my kids or affect my career over my goings on in private .
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RHP User
12 years ago
My family all live overseas, so luckily I don't have to be afraid of being "found out". Some of my friends and colleagues know what I'm doing (minus the details), and if more found out my only concern would be how it would affect my job. Still waiting for the day when I come across a profile pic of someone I know.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Smooth...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Gotta hate computers. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nevermind...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm very open about my involvement RHP....I see no reason to hide it from my mates....my kids on the other hand...different story....so I guess the choice you need to be making really is, who is going to accept you for you?? Those that don't. Don't need to be in your life anyway
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Ghostbusters'I'm very open about my involvement RHP....I see no reason to hide it from my mates....my kids on the other hand...different story....so I guess the choice you need to be making really is, who is going to accept you for you?? Those that don't. Don't need to be in your life anyway I had a life long before RHP, I have my friends of may years. I know they would disaprove of what I do, but I keep my friends even though their views are not my own. People accept parts of us, not all of us , though the people I know of RHP i can be my true sexual self. there are people of rhp that I may not accept their values or their views, and some are also hidding behind the computer but I also get that, I know that some people are lonely and need to build up an alter ego on here to get attention. but I still think of them as friends. The dented and hurt people and the angry and lost people do need to be in your life or its not a whole life. I accept people as they come, and they can accept me the parts I choose to show them. Nobody loves you unconditinally except your dog.
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RHP User
12 years ago
While I agree with that theory when it comes to those on RHP, those in my personal life accept me for my interests, involvements etc. they don't always think the things that I do are smart, and they voice their concerns, but they're still right beside me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But decided to put them into my pg as I realised people could tell where I work from a couple of the photo's. it's not that I worry about what my workmates will find out as they know I'm on here, it's more the fact if someone recognised it and decided to play nasty. Not worth the hassle.
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