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When you first joined ...
September 06 2013
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madotara69
11 years ago
Hello mookaWe were and still are like kids in a lolly shop. Though I did not even know what forums were, It took half an hour to find "q" on the type writer, and that made it easier to find "w". He he. Then jman spoke to us and it has been on ever since. Don't boo him, he did not know better. he heWe joined because love making questioned sex and sex questioned sharing and sharing questioned how well we enjoyed each others company and so on. We both found it arousing to question the what ifs, and when we found the what ifs, we were right to question it all in the first place.It certainly pays to talk about things. Mado, Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey it is my thread, I should answer the questions I asked right! I guess like a lot here, I wasn't too sure what to expect when I first joined. Yes I expected to see far better profile pics than on a vanilla site and some profiles left very little to the imagination. Did I expect to get laid from here, initially yes but that idea lasted about a week I think. But I quickly found that unless one stands out, trying to get noticed here is bloody difficult. So I thought about what I was after, changed what I had written in my profile and accepted RHP for what it can provide me - a lot of fun, some great people in the forums and even in the chatrooms and through that, some wonderful friends. So yes, after a paradigm change RHP has met my expectations! Mooks
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had not had any physical contact with a man for 8 years, the remnants of a doomed marriage, and it wasn't just for the physical side of it that I joined, my mental state of mind was suffering as well. I needed to feel wanted and desired without the hassle of dating and so on. I never realised though that my journey would awaken what it has. I have found out so many things about myself :) and experienced things I never thought I would have the confidence to do. Nor did I realise what great friends I would make along the way :))
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
And we're told by more than one couple that we should join up to an online site and that RHP was probably the one. We did not expect it to take 4 months before our first date but other than that we had no expectations. We love the social aspect of the lifestyle and still have no expectations besides the knowledge that things move very slowly here.
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Hi guys I'm back from OS. When I first joined here I was very frustrated and unsure just what I was looking for. I had no idea what a forum was let alone the online jargon that goes with it. I was out of my depth and made a lot if mistakes and was rightly put in my place (by superfoxy if I remember correctly lol) But thanks to RHP I have learned so much about myself and changed a lot of my attitudes on many subjects . My profile has evolved to reflect this over this year and I have made many good friends here. REAL friends . I am now a bit of a forum nut as you well know , I enjoy making people have a laugh even if it's at my expense . It also gives me the chance to give advice on my personal experiences and get advice in return from people who have lived it. Im a very different animal now from when I started out . 🌵
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was on another site. I joined this one because my daughter was on it and as there was not a huge difference in age we wanted to avoid playing with the same men. Yes we have had offers from those wanting the mother daughter thing but that ain't gonna happen. I have made some fantastic friends on here. I get a little weary by the continuous call of "NEXT" and these days I rarely meet anyone. I guess life has made me a little too sad. I joined originally because I felt my partner of over 20 years had robbed me of recreational sex. I certainly found that! Entering a committed relationship I stayed for the forums. Two years later that relationship is gone but I am still here. Did it meet my expectations? I guess it did. It is virtual meat market. A merry-go-round of sexual partners. There is an expectation that sex is a given. There are not many who want to take the time needed for most women to feel comfortable enough for sex and very few who want to stick around for more than three bites of the apple. Yes I do have friends from here that have remained platonic friends during my two year relationship but they are not the norm! I get a little tired of people who act like what they have between their legs is the most important thing in the world. I get that you have been damaged by past relationships and are boosting up a flagging ego. I, like many other women on here, have been damaged as well and this is why I rarely meet anyone now. The constant changing of sexual partners can be extremely demoralising if you let it. It makes a woman feel as if she is just not good enough! If you spent the time to get to know someone, finally meet them for coffee, next time it is for sex and sometimes it is sex on the first meet, you get what you want and leave never to be heard from again can and does make a person feel a little used and just a little dirty! Where else does one meet people these days? I am out there in the community constantly. I don't go on the vanilla sites because the men in there will not travel to meet you. They are the same men as on here. Feeling somewhat dissillusioned!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I knew I was a very naughty girl who had repressed that side of me for far too long. Like many people I read about in the forums I had been in unfulfilled relationships where I didn't feel comfortable to express my sexual self. I needed to connect with people who didn't judge and celebrated all forms of sexuality. The BIG catch was and still is that I am in no position to have any kind of relationship with anyone and for loads of reasons (live in a country town, full-time single working mum etc). So RHP suited me then, and it suits me now. I can come and go as I please and I don't owe anyone anything. I have though, always found the forums a great escape from real life. Hello, my name is paintme and I am still a forum tragic.
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BrightBubbly
11 years ago
I had a hot love affair and he opened my eyes to amazing sex and I did some surfing online. Heard about RHP through another site and joined up.I have been online since the start of the year, wasn't very active to begin with but have been posting in the forums a bit lately.I have been having lots of fun and have met some great guys. The site is pretty much what I expected, my profile has changed over time to reflect the changes in me since I started and the experiences I have had.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I just realised tomorrow is my one year anniversary here. Spooky! I just had a look a my earliest posts (Spookier!) and this is what I wrote on a forum last October: I joined RHP last month, after having been on a "regular" dating site. Until then I had never considered joining an adult dating site. Mainly because it hadn't occurred to me. I'm on here to meet people, and if we hit it off have great sex. One night stands are fine, though I prefer regular lovers. We are all consenting adults here, so I don't see any moral issues. There are certainly less than truthful people on here, but that's another issue. As for easy... I've never been called easy in my life. I have high standards and expect the same from the people I meet. So far my dates have been nothing but great. I feel exactly the same way a year later, though the Fucket list I started shortly after joining does not contain anything it did back then...
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RHP User
11 years ago
be honest being a young charged male I joined up thinking, sweet!! lots of sex with hot girls... Now? I have come to realise and I'm not ashamed to admit, the amount of messages I have sent in comparison to the amount of replies I have gotten is dismal to say the least, not to mention I have not once actually received a message from a girl, reasons for this? maybe I'm not pretty enough, sometimes when I look at girls profiles and see the little icons of their friends I think I would never ever compare to those guys, so in saying all that I cancelled my auto renew on here and once it has expired I will leave it be. In my opinion it seems easier to pick up in a bar or on other conventional dating sites than here, where it is a girls market, and just rubbishes your self esteem..... Anyways that's that question answered anddddd END RANT!!
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Insomnian
11 years ago
I joined a good many years ago. Thinking back, this is probably going on my 5 th year plus. The reason, to see what sets it aside from the more regular dating sites. I didn't expect anything when I joined as by nature I'm more of a reserved character, but what I did find, was rather surprising. The people that frequent this site are no different to the more regular mundane dating sites. Maybe a little more honest. Was and still is a nice refreshing no bullshit site compared to others I've seen. After the amount of time I've been here, I still enjoy looking over profiles and reading the forums.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I joined (AKA SuperFox) November 2012 - Almost a year now.(Happy anniversary Ms.M) :)I was recommended this site by one of my daughters, best friends step-mother!I joined and was looking around the site and discovered the Forums.Think it was more my inquisitiveness about open-relationships, swingers. kinks/fetishes etc etc.I remember my first Forum I wrote called "CATCH22". LOLI truly have met many amazing, wonderful people, REAL people whom I call my friends as in friends.Ms.Freya being one of them :)I've attended a swingers club which is something I thought I would never ever do!My journey of inquisitiveness and wanting to know more still has a long way to go.Plus I really do the Forums. :)FOXYWingman - awwwwwwww I'm sorry, mwahh! HUGS...
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RHP User
11 years ago
SuperFoxxy and I am a PROUD Forum Addict! FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was my first foray into RHP. If I remember correctly, I saw an add on late night t.v. I joined as a guest, met my first 'date', a fireman called Dr. Pussycat no less. I had recently been widowed and didn't really know how to get a new sex life. Well the Dr put that right very quickly. We had an on going FB situation for about 8-9 years. That has now ended so I need a replacement. I am finding though that Lady T has summed this place up correctly and most men on here just want a free hooker for the night. Some are up front about it but most are not. Just saying.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Somehow I convinced him to have an open relationship (which was the last step before our relationship ended). Then we ended up at Lotus Lounge - not quite sure how. Someone there mentioned RHP and a week or two later I joined. I've always been really sexual but because I spent the years 26-36 not having sex, or talking sexy or, well, anything (!), RHP was a massive education. I joined to have an outlet for all the sexiness locked inside me. First I spent copious hours in the chat rooms, on cam. I'd strip, and cavort, and play and watch myself. People assume anyone on cam in there is an attention-whore but those on cam do it for all sorts of reasons. I did it to see myself as sexy again, because I'd become a neutral shell of a woman. So I 'performed' and watched myself and in time I felt the glow of sexiness come back. It was wonderful and healing and just what I needed. I'll always be grateful to RHP for giving me an outlet to find myself like that again. And I joined the forums, which has been a blast over the years. To be able to talk so freely about anything and everything, including sex in all its crazy forms, has been liberating. I love the diverse sexual views expressed here - I don't love the small-minded judgment of others, but that's another story - and I love learning and watching as others learn, having their hearts and minds opened to things. I don't have any expectations from RHP - having cammed, posted in forums, made online friends, made real life friends, hooked up for casual sex, fallen in love, stayed around even through self-imposed abstinence - I fully believe RHP is what you make it :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I had enough of the Normal dating sites....because I found the bottom line there was sex too, just coded in sugar.....and I dont like sugar.I have not looked back, because I found great people on here female and male. Sometimes I think You have to stop and then I think come one its so much fun stay you silly woman.I am not meeting many men, thats because I dont want to....the handful I select or they me or we both are enough for me. I have learned a lot through the forum I read more then I write back but I love commenting on some. What I like too is when I have an opinion and I read a total different mindset... oh it makes me think and thats the whole big secret on here. Yes I have my own idea about something but hearing all the others makes my mind expend in ways I have not expected. Some comments make my blood boil, and this is also a part of learning.....sex....the sexual world and what is in it was mind blowing. Dont laugh you lot, I didnt even know what rimming or dogging was.....and there are more words I have never come across before. What a wondrous world this is.I am sometimes a bit disappointed so few males write in the forum and have not much to contribute and we women say it all. I find this a bit one sided, not our fault ladies, most men are not bothered by what is on the forum.Hey, I found beautiful men on here and I will continue with the SEX because I like it, I like it a LOTIts easier to find men on RHP which are on your wavelength then out there...here you can converse with them before you meet and thats for me a good start. The sex then should it happen, is just a small jump to overcome......lol For now I am in a good place on here, I found I get as much back as I put in so why change.I am here for a bit longer.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Redcliffe dogging...I live in Redcliffe ...and up popped Red HotPie.I was fascinated by the forums and my first post post was in response to a thread of Neptune Drifts about feminism.....Stalky was still here then and he called me a femi -nazi.I was a little shocked but have happily joined the conversation....almost all the people I have met from this site have been at meet and greets and some have become good friends.....yes it can be bad for one's self esteem if you take it all too seriously....I have been here for about eighteen months now ,I delete myself but like crack the forums keep on drawing me back....perhaps my Aunty Edna might come back here too one day...she loved being hit on by all the young studs butit was difficult to smuggle them into the nursing home she said,and one ran off with her zimmerOh and how could I forget,I met my very sexy but virtual ....definitely not virtuous...husband here...the wonderful Blindman.
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Thanks for the hugs My therapist says I have almost fully recovered 👍
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes seriously I have said it before there I was entering my competitions and I had to join to enter....so I did....I didnt assume anything and went on my way. Then All of a sudden men were contacting me...ME?? I had no picture and a bare profile...I was confused why would anyone want to see me??I had lots going on then and put them off until things were clear, I then decided OK lets give this a go. Well first was a disappointment but luckily second was .......JUST WHAT I NEEDED.......he made me realise and remember being sexy...wow probably been here for three years not all active though. I have at times been through things and lost my mojo...searching for that naughty girl again. But as Handmaiden says there are lots of pitfalls too....and its not a free prostitution site. People here do have feelings. Recently it was reinterated again that is a girls world here....bit of bullshit.....there are many things that come into it and I am sure the men are as choosy as the women seem to be.Quoting 'Handmaiden' I was on another site. I joined this one because my daughter was on it and as there was not a huge difference in age we wanted to avoid playing with the same men. Yes we have had offers from those wanting the mother daughter thing but that ain't gonna happen. I have made some fantastic friends on here. I get a little weary by the continuous call of "NEXT" and these days I rarely meet anyone. I guess life has made me a little too sad. I joined originally because I felt my partner of over 20 years had robbed me of recreational sex. I certainly found that! Entering a committed relationship I stayed for the forums. Two years later that relationship is gone but I am still here. Did it meet my expectations? I guess it did. It is virtual meat market. A merry-go-round of sexual partners. There is an expectation that sex is a given. There are not many who want to take the time needed for most women to feel comfortable enough for sex and very few who want to stick around for more than three bites of the apple. Yes I do have friends from here that have remained platonic friends during my two year relationship but they are not the norm! I get a little tired of people who act like what they have between their legs is the most important thing in the world. I get that you have been damaged by past relationships and are boosting up a flagging ego. I, like many other women on here, have been damaged as well and this is why I rarely meet anyone now. The constant changing of sexual partners can be extremely demoralising if you let it. It makes a woman feel as if she is just not good enough! If you spent the time to get to know someone, finally meet them for coffee, next time it is for sex and sometimes it is sex on the first meet, you get what you want and leave never to be heard from again can and does make a person feel a little used and just a little dirty! Where else does one meet people these days? I am out there in the community constantly. I don't go on the vanilla sites because the men in there will not travel to meet you. They are the same men as on here. Feeling somewhat dissillusioned!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
No expectations at all re sexI just wrote that on my profile as well, at the time.I did not have the pictures up that I do now.yes my expectations changed a great dealand are always changingnow I have slowed down from being a pig at the sexual trough ,of oh my fucking god you want to have sex with Moi?to a few good men and the odd lil bit of stay fluff should the mood strike me.Its been good for me, but also have had a few hiccups along the wayI have seen how it can be very bad for some women, especially single women looking for more than a fuckthe best part is that I have made some really great, non sexual friends both male and female.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I Googled "Adult Dating". I dismissed Ashley M and joined both AMM and RHP. I really disliked AMM's set-up and loved RHP's forums. The rest is history.
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cleopatrababe
11 years ago
im with you on this one very sad , and empty after being on various sites they are all the same ,,,,and at my age where do u meet men if ur single and have noone to go out with , its a meat market in here to be honest and the amount of young guys that are wanting the mature woman to teach them how to fuck , good grief im not a teacher im not on here for that ,
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77' Redcliffe dogging...I live in Redcliffe ...and up popped Red HotPie.I was fascinated by the forums and my first post post was in response to a thread of Neptune Drifts …………….Oh and how could I forget,I met my very sexy but virtual ….definitely not virtuous…husband here…the wonderful Blindman.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Initially it was just to get out and have some fun, and I figured that the RHP crowd would be fairly open to all sorts of different activities, kinks and quirks. Now I mostly enjoy hearing other viewpoints and experiences. I updated my profile about a year ago with the first line being "taking a break from the ocean of indifference". Since then I have had some pretty amazing conversations, a couple of play dates but I am generally looking for some passion, some intimacy....anything but the indifference I found from quite a few people on here who seemed to think I was just a penis, tongue and fingers. I am comfortable with where I am in life at the moment and certainly no linger feel a frenetic need to get laid. Not meaning to rain on anyone's parade, just where I am at the moment :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
...and was shocked and horrified as to why friends and family encouraged me to join! It has been an eye opener and nothing short of entertaining at times. Whatever pre-conceptions that I may have had about men (or women too for that matter) have gone right out the window LoL. I love it! It suits me perfectly and I have no hesitation in recommending friends jump on and sign up. I haven't necessarily changed my views with regards to generic profiles but I admit that providing a little more info allows members with limited messaging to make a better informed choice.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I went out to dinner with a female friend one night, ended back at her place with too much wine to drive home. I slept on the lounge (crick in my neck too). The next day my mother and two friends told me to make sure I was behaving "honourably". Rather my friends and family had attitudes a bit more like yours.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have more than a few "rather formal' ones in the mix too. There is a hell of a lot of laughter in my world, even more so since signing up although more often than not it's at my expense these days but it's all good.
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inspirit
11 years ago
hell yeah.....Now quality over quanity and KNOW what I want.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes, like most I have learned the reality of this place... that it brings you back to earth with a bit of a thud 😄 But after altering my expectations, I'm finding its coming together quite well. I also operate out of AMM, and as mesi noted they are different sites but I find that the differences complement each other, rather than overlap. I think I rejoined here in march, I had joined a couple of years ago, but shortly after joining I met someone in the real world, so I suspended my profile. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I joined because i wanted uncomplicated no strings sex. I had left my 23 year marriage earlier in the year and i knew i wasn't prepared to live without regular sex. I also had afew things i wanted to cross off my fucket it list and thought this would be a great place to meat people to facilitate that. I was right on both counts
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RHP User
11 years ago
When living in WA many years ago I met a lovely Mauritian lady who mentioned a site called AdultForums that was run by the Madame of a well known Perth Brothel.I decided to join up and quickly met some awesome people and was introduced to LP's (a club much like the Couples Club in Sydney) and had a ball... upon moving back to Sydney the ex and I visited Sexpo and saw an RHP advertised (as well as on TV) and decided to give it a go as the AdultForums was in decline and the rest is history.Have fluttered in and out of the site a little over the years, the original reason for joining was to meet open minded, and like minded, people to which I have not been disappointed.Since separating from my Ex I have started looking for something more and have yet to find it... I am a patient man.As for ever being shell-shocked... still waiting for someone to do/say something truly shocking here.
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thewinchester
11 years ago
Sadly, just joining a site doesn't a social circle expander make. Nor does a black book expander does it make either.I've had to spend a lot of time sorting my own issues out, to stand a chance of RHP being beneficial.From getting ones message across in a way that's going to interest the other party, but at the same time not jumping into it with just anyone. But a bit of textual foreplayNot ashamed to admit I've not met up with anyone off here yet, not for the want of trying. Have come very close, but own issues have gotten in the way. Given time, I'll open up further and meeting someone from here becomes a possibility.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I joined simply to check out the fuss? As this site started in Perth and I was living there at the time I thought I'd have a look around with no real expectations at all... These days I find it a crack up what people write in there profiles as most are simply full of shit! Most say easy going don't judge n the face is down to earth but everyone judges ? Ps I just seen ur new pics jay jay 66 very nice ass indeed ;),,
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RHP User
11 years ago
When 'Whispers' and it's obsolete web design collapsed, migrated to RHP in it's first burst of popularity. The design has not changed (nor the flirts list) in this whole time. People have come and gone and there's even a private pilot site for regulars who want to Post in real time and unfiltered. Lots of Vanilla nowadays though that's normal. Usual amount of ghosts and keyboard~Chicken~Chokers. Real is not always Real but the Forum Folk are. Never paid a cent to Jetplace but enjoy the community without expectation. We all got the same ideal in some sense regarding sexuality or we would belong to another website and it's common Ideal. T.E.>T.K.>Erotic. Perth.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I joined this site because I googled ones with forums and I chose this one because it had a good vibe to it...and it also seemed to have plenty of WA members which obviously increases my chances of finding someone who might want to get jiggy with me...
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