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When you read a profile what turns on your interest ?
February 25 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like an interesting quirky profile. Humour is good, filth is not. As for pics, I like to see a face and nice body attached. Genital pics should be left for personal viewing if asked for. In my view anyway.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What do you think about full body shots ? Lots of people stretch the truth in their profile I think and not just the guys with cock size and so forth but the women do too. But I will give the win to the women they can say whatever and still get great response to their profile even the generic one like I'm 30 like shopping......so say I'm attractive but you can judge if a guy had that he would get no lovin lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Of course the photos are usually the first thing that grabs my notice if there is attraction there I'll then read their search criteria. If I meet these, I'll move to the description of themselves and usually make my decision from there. I prefer a profile that is well written, well thought out and provides insight into the mind of the prolfile owner. Humour and self deprecation score bonus points as does confidence and a sense of fun and enjoyment of life. Negative profiles or those with a taste of angst quickly lose my interest.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me.. I look at photos first, then read the profile if I like the photo. If I look at the photo and don't like, I won't even bother reading it.Admittedly there have been a few times, where there hasn't been a photo, I have read the profile and thought, wow thats good, then been given the photos afterwards and everytime it's been a let down.At the end of the day, If I'm going to sleep with them, attraction is the key, not what's written in their profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I get hooked by something personal, something real.Everyone can I write "I'm a down to earth person who is sexually liberated and enjoys a sense of humour". But that can mean anything to anyone.Personal examples and unique characteristics are so compelling. Sense of humour? Is that "I'm a 'lol-cats' addict", or "I've got every episode of Fawlty Towers" - big, big difference, but still 'sense of humour'.Might go and update my profile.... Fawlty Towers, tick :)
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Undeniably.... the two obvious elements people observe first... are the photo and the name.If those create interest... or....comments in a forum do...... then they'll read your profile.Personally, I like someone with a mix of intelligence, sensuality, self awareness and humour without taking it all too seriously.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Filth & smut are a deal breaker for me........Sense of humour and people who have similar interests and desires to mine are more likely to get a reply...to me pix are not necessary as i believe it's pheromones not photos that eventually do the trick.......cheers, R...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Profiles that aren't cliche ridden, that speak about who the people are really do it for me. Spelling is important to me, but grammar is not so much, a profile should be conversational, not an essay. We will look at photos and like to see happy faces in there, not just various stages of undressed body. Photos for us are secondary. If the profile consists of two very generic sentences, yet uber hot photos, we won't contact them. We want a little more substance. Bonus points if they add meme speak in there somewhere, Ms Otori loves her memes.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Watery fowls....classic.From this male's perspective it is trying to distinquish the ones that are sure of themselves. Not overly fussed on what a person looks like, as long as they seem to express that they are doing the best with what they have, whether in regards to the outside or in.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agreed 100%. More often than not it's about the well written profile for me....looks still play a part in the wholistic picture, but commonalities come from their minds not their bodies :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's looking like a unified consensus that it's all about the written word in profiles and that being said, We all have too agree the underlying looks which a photo brings to the profile sparks the move to continue to a message, a flirt or in most cases if you are male the reply that you maybe hoping to get from a female....am I right to say that folks ???
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love reading profiles that say'''I wont stop until I drop'','''I will lick you all night long,''I am an animal and I cant get....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Class is the number one thing, then there is the sexual allure which is very subjective thing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Self-awareness, honesty and forthrightness, a bold "go-get 'em, tiger" attitude.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'snakeeyes5000'It's looking like a unified consensus that it's all about the written word in profiles and that being said, We all have too agree the underlying looks which a photo brings to the profile sparks the move to continue to a message, a flirt or in most cases if you are male the reply that you maybe hoping to get from a female....am I right to say that folks ??? so I look at the pictures, a big wang is always a bonus a six pack and a low Iq and short sighted Icant spell for shit, andme gramma iscrap so Ilike profiles that say Up for a fruck,how about ewe did i mention cock pictures and being crude rude and socially unrefined? luv em
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting '2GuysWithRespect'Class is the number one thing, then there is the sexual allure which is very subjective thing. two first class tickets to Perth are in the post
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred'two first class tickets to Perth are in the post Thanks Tuscan ;) careful what you wish for, you never know!
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' I love reading profiles that say'''I wont stop until I drop'','''I will lick you all night long,''I am an animal and I cant get....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. You mean.... women dont get swayed by such grandiose claims?!BAHAHAHAHAHADG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' I love reading profiles that say'''I wont stop until I drop'','''I will lick you all night long,''I am an animal and I cant get....zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz. Don't forget the "I'm the pussy licking master", "I'll make you cum and cum until your eyes roll back in your head" and of course the ever popular "You won't be disappointed". Snakeeyes, the men here have said some great things. I agree, the written part of the profile is so important! And yes on the face pic and full body shot. No face pic = no deal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It has to be the whole package for me. I have a fairly narrow range of height, weight, body and face I'm attracted to, so pics and personal specs count. No matter how well written the profile is, without those it's a no go. It's an attraction thing, not a judgement thing, and it is what it is. Intelligence and real emotional/spiritual depth are equally important. I like people who are sensitive and capable of taking things seriously. Life doesn't need to be serious all the time but every now and then it does and I have no interest in having people in my life - fleetingly or permanently - who don't have the heart or spirit or character to go there with me. So no matter how attracted I am to their pic and specs, if their profile doesn't reveal who they really are or shows that they're a shallow, simple-minded prat, it's a no go :D
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Twisted_Mister
12 years ago
Is some insight ( not necessarily profound, you don't need a thesis ) into who you are and what you're about. It really doesn't need to be that difficult - 2guys above mentioned class, which is very cool as well. If you stick to the cliches, you're not putting yourself out there. And if you don't put yourself out there, how can you expect realistic responses?
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Vintagetatu
12 years ago
Perhaps mine is too long....Might simply put "shag?" and see if people can manage to read that much ;p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mischuckles - agreed :-)
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