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Where are the single bi ladies?
December 12 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bi women looking for couples are hard to find, and called Unicorns because they can seem mythical. So they can be very picky. I like your profile, however if you were to contact me (for arguments sake), I would politely decline due to two things: You say: "I want to find a woman that can turn me on at a glance and a woman that has oral skills that will blow me away" To me that reads that your MMF wish is about what you like and what you want. Sounds like fun for you, but what's in it for me? Will you return the favour and pleasure me until I'm an exhausted, quivering mess? ;-)If yes, I'd advise you to add that. Right now your profile reads a little self involved I think, which I'm sure is not your intention. The second thing is that your husband is not allowed intercourse with me, which for me is a deal breaker. When I am with a couple, I want to play with both and for me that includes being fucked by the husband.Just a personal preference though. Don't give up and good luck! (Please do note that, like me, most women will want to see pics of both of you.)
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
100% agree with what Meaander said
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RHP User
10 years ago
Most couples want to find that elusive bi female. It is fucking hard to find. We have been on rhp for a year and had some very nice experiences. All but 1 have been couples. We have also had a mff experience on foreign soil so we have had the experience a few times. To be honest the mfmf thing is so much less complicated and on a social level is the more rewarding. Not to say that we don't still look for single females. We would love to share the spa with a lovely lady. That is something we are yet to do. Mind you we would like to have 8 people in there as well. Lol. Shit it is only a 4 seater. Have a look at 100 couples profiles and you will see a great deal of them say that they are only looking for a lady. Unless they are ridiculously good looking and have bodies like gods, they will find it as hard as the next couple. We also appreciate how difficult it must be for a single lady. They go out on a date and they are alone, but going to meet 2 people. Must be a little daunting. Try what a couple friend of ours does. Put a date finder for females only, every weekend. You will eventually get a bite. Good luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meander, that is the best use for Xmas lights ever. Very festive.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just don't get some couples. Why don't they hire a sex worker and play out their fantasy, clearly it's all about them which is totally cool but I don't understand why some couples think women would be interested. I don't get it. Hire a sex worker or high class escort. I mean why not?
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RHP User
10 years ago
In answer to the question (although the OP may never read it), no.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hi Sarah,Bit late on this one, but we share your frustration ( we're assuming you find this frustrating.) We've tried finding single females for ages too but to no avail, and just cannot fathom their modus operandi on RHP. Single fems are definitely unicorns , and we just can't figure why they would a) pay for membership with no intention of playing . b) mention that they are 'wild' and up for anything, when the opposite seems true. One of the aforementioned reasons that they probably find it very daunting approaching a couple, might just be right, but if that's the case, why join RHP in the first place when the expectation IS , that at some stage, ( if your profile is honest ) you will have to meet other people. After all, many single female profiles clearly state.---"Seeking : men, women, couples." Single girls actually annoy us more than the single men. At least single men come with an honesty that they want to fuck………simple !!! As couples their attention is overwhelming, but at least we know where they stand.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hiya, a wild and "up for a lot" Unicorn here. Now, I like tall sexy Dutch girls (wink), but I must say I find your profile rather negative. I assume it wasn't always like this, based on your post, though the bit below is a turn-off for me personally. "The timewasters that we REALLY despise (you know who you are) are the losers who are too scared to actually meet anyone, and are only using RHP as some sort of masturbatory aid because they just read Forty Shades, and now just the thought of being a swinger is "like…..ya know…..SOOOOO two-thousand and fourteen !!". If that describes you, FUCK ALL Y'ALL!" Also, the Ms states that she is unsure of her orientation. I'd be a bit concerned that halfway through you might realise you don't actually like women that way. Women have their own reasons for being members, but are you sure they don't want to play, or could it be they don't want to play with you? Attraction can't always be rationalized. Good luck x
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RHP User
10 years ago
think it may have been written by he who wants to get his end in a bit of fresh meat....😝 I mean seriously that kind of aggression is usually a mans way of saying he's just impatient prick... 😈 Cue the pitchfork brigade in 5....4....3....2....1....and go 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Taleros
10 years ago
From the way a lot of couples carry on about not being able to find a single bi lady to join them you'd be thinking all the ladies are frolicking around together at the end of a rainbow. When it comes down to it, you really have to look and see what you actually have to offer to any lady, and not just what they offer for yourselves. If you're all opening up and sharing a part of your life with each other, holding some actual intimacy and helping to fulfill their own fantasies and pleasures as well as your own then that could be on the right track. If all you are chasing is a "plaything" to fulfill your own FFM threesome fantasy then perhaps just go hire an escort, as someone else said. Just have to remember that first and foremost, the single ladies are people too with their own thoughts, feelings and desires. A few such lovely ladies have been helpful by showing in this thread what they might look for, or in some examples what turns them off a couple and their profile, so hopefully some people will take the advice on-board.
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makoman22
10 years ago
Meeks 100, that's what the wife and I do.never disappointed,yes u pay,but it's so much easier.were not a young hot couple,but the escort usually has a great time because we are fun and confidant.i would recommend it to all couples
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' To me that reads that your MMF wish is about what you like and what you want. I meant FFM of course. Great post, Taleros!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I beg your pardon Sir Troll…..who the fuck are you to pull on the mantle of moral superiority and assume what you think is the dynamic our end!? Your reply smacks of a disingenuous, sycophantic white-knighter, of the sort that likes to get morally on-side with the ladies just to further their own end sly end game. Its bullshit and its about as transparent as cling wrap . Meander, I would respectfully add that before our profile devolved to its current cynical form , we asked many single women to join us, always with a tone of sincerity and respect. To paraphrase Taleros, we did indeed invite them to share in our intimacy as a couple (and contrary to what Sir Fuckhead is trying to initmate with his 'fresh meat' comment ) to treat them as valued friends and not 'playthings'. For every person who has found our profile negative, we have had a ton of responses from RHP couples who tell us they love it, and can entirely relate to it. Over the years, it's been our luck to play with single women from the clubs in Sydney to the beaches of France, and therefore we are genuinely at a loss to explain why women on RHP have been reluctant to play. Our current profile ( and we are far from alone ) reflects this frustration and we have long since stopped asking them. We were unaware that my wifes sexual orientation was marked as 'unsure', but seriously, if that's one of the scrutinsed details that people have been using as an excuse to ignore us, then the world is far more petty than we could have imagined.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The best luck we've had is with an old friend. I feel like there are a lot of woman posing as unicorns on here. Some kind of validation I guess.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey, sorry to add to the comments about your profile. But yes, you wife's sexual orientation says not sure and your is straight however you have listed that you are into MMF bi ... which to me means the Mister is bisexual and is into men. You may think it is superficial but your profile is the first thing people read about you so you should make sure that you clear up the inconsistencies. Again, there is lots of choice for women so things like that may put them off. Otherwise your pictures and THEDIRECTORS pictures are............... hubba hubba! Maybe women prefer to meet people at the events rather than meeting one on one so to speak?
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On_Safari
10 years ago
I asked if they would be interested in meeting socially among others from RHP not just myself. They said they were only interested in groups or single females. I asked if they were interested in stimulating me intellectually as a person and not just a plaything. BLOCKED. Ah well, runs back to the woodland shaking my mane. I've had 2 x fmf's, a fffm and a fmfmf seems my mfm is still a figment of my imagination too.
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Who actually cared about my thoughts or need to be attracted to them as a couple.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Hey, sorry to add to the comments about your profile. But yes, you wife's sexual orientation says not sure and your is straight however you have listed that you are into MMF bi ... which to me means the Mister is bisexual and is into men. You may think it is superficial but your profile is the first thing people read about you so you should make sure that you clear up the inconsistencies. Again, there is lots of choice for women so things like that may put them off. Otherwise your pictures and THEDIRECTORS pictures are............... hubba hubba! Maybe women prefer to meet people at the events rather than meeting one on one so to speak? How much of this ^ is for us? We thought our profile was too clear.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Taleros' From the way a lot of couples carry on about not being able to find a single bi lady to join them you'd be thinking all the ladies are frolicking around together at the end of a rainbow.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry, all that was for the other couple as their profile was already being discussed. My comment to you was only complimenting you on your photos. Sorry I wasn't clear. Oops.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Doesn't look like they're any closer to their pot of gold lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Name-calling is seriously uncool. Period.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
There has been two types of couples who have contacted me. Firstly there are the ones who have a set of fantasies they wish to play out, and I am being sought as the conduit for them. All very well and good, I'm happy to try different things. But what about me? I don't think I have ever been asked by this type of couple what I would like to do (other than do my preferences match their fantasies) or what I would like out of the night. It is about meeting, having a quick chat and drink, then game on. It's a couple, and me; that is the dynamic and it doesn't seem to vary. The other type are those who genuinely want to meet with a unicorn as it adds a great dynamic to what they already have and they are relaxed and happy to include another. They're happy to accommodate other's wishes/fantasies, they are want equal access for ALL parties involved. They want to see a female more than once and they do and this usually includes having a drink together while we catch up on news, maybe a meal, then having a wicked time together. It is not about a couple with a chick. Its about three people indulging in some seriously fun times. For those with fantasy lists, maybe shelve them for a while, get used to the dynamics of a ffm, and get your shit sorted so there is equal participation for and from everyone. Then once you are comfortable maybe the regular ffm can then ramp up into fantasy land. I think you might be able to hazard a guess as to which type of couple I meet with
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RHP User
10 years ago
Perfect!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im sorry to hear of your experiences, but there is at least a third kind. We have a wish list (want and needs) we'd prefer be open about, rather than letting the RHP profile check boxes curb our personalities, and lesson the experience. At the same time we do actually read potentials profiles and take note of what they desire, we wont bother them if its square and round. Maybe we're just one of the first two options and I don't know it yet, but we definitely do not need to quickly alter our mind set in order to achieve a relaxed, sexual vibe. I have real trouble understanding how the 'quick drink' could play any kind of long-lasting positive role in this situation. ....yep, definitely a third kind.
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
Directors, your wish list is very clear and good on your for doing that! Many of the things on your wish list just naturally occur during play for me, so I wouldn't have any concerns. I'm curious though; do you consider play if all these things are not going to be on the 'to do' list? What if the woman you're talking to isn't interested in, say 50% of them? Do you continue chatting?
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On_Safari
10 years ago
The ideal "couple" to experience with because it's the whole package NOT the HOLE package that they offer. Been nearly 2yrs and still enjoying their friendship and company. xx
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madotara69
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah we understand that most of our list is just part of the game anyway. We've just found that the boxes people are checking rarely accurately describe what they want, so we decided that overkill would probably seem a bit ego-based but we'd rather that than seeming inconsiderate or ignorant. We have however had a few nasty messages telling us our profile is pretentious, unrealistic and what not, "who'd bother reading that crap" springs to mind. My inner answer to that was "human beings...using this site? I dunno, anyone, nobody at all....who cares? Move on old weird wrinkly pervguyXXXstillatmumhouses69 or whatever your name was". Although I can see how a dullard with a boner might get frustrated by it. So to answer your question, Kissk, Yes, totally still consider play. If she wasn't into 50% of them we'd most likely keep chatting in order to find something that will work for us all. If that never happens then the chatting will naturally end. We've found that the people we like most on this site for how they conduct themselves in these forums are people with absolutely no mutual interests. According to the boxes anyway. Its strange. And a bit sad.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just read it and feel like I know you already. Well done! And im pretty sure there were no boxes checked? Love it. LOVE it. So....ahh........,u wanna chat? xox The Directors
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RHP User
10 years ago
Can anyone tell us where most or a majority of couples meet a female for a threesome? we have been married for a few years now and had a few friends join us in bed with some very nice results,but we were wondering is it just friends and people you know when you go out or are there other avenues to go down?just wondering.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You guys are from New York? Awesome. Don't you have any swingers clubs or sex clubs in NY? That is where to meet like minded people and friends.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hey I'm a bi female desperate to find a couple!! I'm not overally experienced but very keen to learn! - Posted from rhpmobile
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