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Where have all the flowers gone
April 24 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
Always was just about fucking for most men in here isn't it?
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madotara69
11 years ago
hoping to find out
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RHP User
11 years ago
But besides having made a few really great friends I would have to agree with Meeka, it's all about fucking for most men, and probably for a lot of the women too. L4Q(Just changed cranky pants for disillusioned pants)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I would be happy for one man to fight for me, never had them fight over me! I don't think I have ever really seen men compete over women, it is usually bro's before ho's
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On_Safari
11 years ago
95% of the messages I get from men are rather direct about seeking "discrete fun" and "NSA fun" and by this I'm assuming Monopoly and Uno over a nice meal and a few drinks AREN'T the kind of "fun" they want. Actually if the majority of men on here realised how damn tedious the "Wanna fuck" approach is maybe they'd rethink the game plan.....scary thing is I guess there are "Ladies" out there who just want a quick fuck and aren't overly concerned about connection or repeat visits and just go with the moment. I wouldn't dare hazard a guess about ratios of those women to men and again if that's what floats their conjoined boats then all power to them. Sometimes I think it'd be nice to pick up a root, Fck him on the bonnet of my car or against the wall of a building then say Ciao. (Sigh) as a single woman YES it is that hard to pick up....I still have to like something about the person. Putting a bag over their heads or gaff taping their mouths shut isn't really good manners is it? 😉 ~ Indy needs a shag BAAAAD
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Before Mr's Ralf!! Lol x
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think its entirely variable, could be 1:5 could be 1:500, depending on age, looking for etc. Cheers N
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RHP User
11 years ago
Due to what I've written on my profile. Of the messages I do get, I'd say a good 50% or more are from men who are genuinely interested in finding love / having a relationship. I have a few male friends I met here over the years. All are keen to fall in love. I think there are great men to be found here and away from here if a woman is clear about what she wants and truly trusts her instincts where men are concerned. Mado, as for men putting in genuine effort to win a woman over - romance her, court her etc - I think it's rare. I still find that men are annoyingly passive in the way they make contact, make plans, show interest etc. They'll persist a bit if sex seems to me on the table but they won't put in the effort for a slower connection to build. Just my experience. It's like many men have lost their way. Sad. - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
It's so easy to say "I can't find a lady to respond" (Messages) It aint no easy task to win a ladies heart, first she needs to believe you like her, so in this joint easy does not seem to work. Are men losing the courage with romantics, the butterflies, what it is too win a ladies mind? (on-line dating) Surely some must be looking for love? (men and women)
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RHP User
11 years ago
If I want kinky NSA I go somewhere else
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RHP User
11 years ago
I will say that I am looking for something more.... Not just here to "score a shag". It is tough to come across as genuine when this site already carries the stigma of quick and nasty wham bam thank you ma'am type arrangements. Because after all the words that I type to a lady are just words on the screen. And for this reason, I do prefer to spend more time getting to know the other person and vice versa....it's hard to show I like to still get a door for a lady, buy her flowers just because, steal cheeky kisses and hold hands, to talk and listen and share stories etc...in just a few words, so yes it does take time to show that. And in this ever increasing use of technology..like social media...I guess there are different ways to show you're a gentleman to a lady...I'm not sure and I am only guessing here but a morning message? A random thought? I dont know...in all honesty I do feel out of touch and out of my depth in these sort of arenas and am still learning the proper etiquette....as I am very much a face to face type of person...it's hard to gauge without seeing facial expressions, body language and the like...but I guess that where the emoticons do come in. An also, I guess this is more of a question rather than anything....but by taking things slow I feel as though that maybe the lady will lose interest as this site is mainly for people looking for sex. I have been described as a Clark Kent....a bit naive and well out of his league in here. So Im wondering if women in here are still looking for someone who likes intamacy rather than a quick fling?
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RHP User
11 years ago
of us are looking for love....and have lost the way.....we are all scared and so we put walls up. In a way I think many men on RHP come with the thought that it is just a fucking side and then get a knock on the head because so many women are real serious with whom they share the sex with.I am looking for love since 15 years, but I am not desperate...when this makes sense.I am happy with my life and me.I was married to a wonderful man, so yes I want this again just with much much more maturity on my part.I cant deal with any bullshit any more, and I also can't live without my freedom any more....so the man I will fall in love with has to be as me a complete or say nearly complete being and free.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'EuropianBliss' If I want kinky NSA I go somewhere else Sure you could find a way for making flowers quite interesting EB, and we know you have a love to fuck. That's a different kind of loving
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'leoman' I will say that I am looking for something more.... Not just here to "score a shag". It is tough to come across as genuine when this site already carries the stigma of quick and nasty wham bam thank you ma'am type arrangements. Because after all the words that I type to a lady are just words on the screen. And for this reason, I do prefer to spend more time getting to know the other person and vice versa....it's hard to show I like to still get a door for a lady, buy her flowers just because, steal cheeky kisses and hold hands, to talk and listen and share stories etc...in just a few words, so yes it does take time to show that. And in this ever increasing use of technology..like social media...I guess there are different ways to show you're a gentleman to a lady...I'm not sure and I am only guessing here but a morning message? A random thought? I dont know...in all honesty I do feel out of touch and out of my depth in these sort of arenas and am still learning the proper etiquette....as I am very much a face to face type of person...it's hard to gauge without seeing facial expressions, body language and the like...but I guess that where the emoticons do come in. An also, I guess this is more of a question rather than anything....but by taking things slow I feel as though that maybe the lady will lose interest as this site is mainly for people looking for sex. I have been described as a Clark Kent....a bit naive and well out of his league in here. So Im wondering if women in here are still looking for someone who likes intamacy rather than a quick fling? because your attitude is gorgeous xo As for your last question, don't leave sex too long, nice guys finish last and you don't want her getting bored with you. But you will know when the time is right if you are getting to know her ;)
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Really 5 to 1........fuck and I'm still having no luck, what hope is there really lol...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' Really 5 to 1........fuck and I'm still having no luck, what hope is there really lol...... - Posted from rhpmobile One of our investigative posters is sure too let us know. It's up to 1 in 500 so far. Thanks N The ball is rolling
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Haha don't really matter because I'm still not having any luck.....💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Where the hell did the 5:1 ratio come from..... not the "official" site membership statistics, I hope
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madotara69
11 years ago
Leoman is our no1 lover DG you know I can just pluck things out of thin air The art of bullshit extroadiniar*
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's Autumn Mado....not many blooms around....gorgeous days here though....Spring is still a few months away,xx C
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'BarefootContessa' It's Autumn Mado....not many blooms around....gorgeous days here though....Spring is still a few months away,xx C Not last night but the night before, twenty robbers came knocking at the door...... oh hang on Not last night but the night before, twenty years we have been married, Tara still has the dryish roses I gave her then.
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inspirit
11 years ago
Though I would gladly wear a flower
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RHP User
11 years ago
For your kind words....and the advice. Ok well that explains the er let's say loss of interest. I still haven't figured out when to talk sex lol...gosh that sounded weird I know but yeh that's the only way I could put it. I made the mistake of talking about it too soon...then I made the mistake of not talking about it at all. Man it's confusing aye...oh and Mado thank you too...so far....but I'm sure there are other guys who are looking for more too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
5:1 is pretty good...I should know after spending a decade in the gaming industry
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I've never been in here for a quick fling, I like to get to know someone and their story.....connection of the mind, long before any other connection.....💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Standing room only and the view is spectacular.....seriously!! Lol it's amazing 😳 already been hit on a couple of times, it's nice but REALLY!!
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Good on ya Indy, get lucky for me will ya please......💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm quirky, silly, blunt, and broken. My days are sometimes too dark, and my nights are sometimes too long. I often trip over my own insecurities. I require attention, long for passion, and wish to be desired. I use music to speak when words fail me, even though words are as important to me as the air I breathe. I love hard and with all that I have... and even with my faults, I am worth loving." Danu Grayson
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well all I can say to you Miss, is why haven't you been asked out on a date? You hit the nail on the head....it really is a connection...a connection of the mind...the spirit...whatever....it's something that to me happens before the physical. Don't get me wrong, I do believe in instant attraction..but being attractive isn't much if the lady and I are not connected and stimulated mentally and spiritually....there are things we don't see in this world that influence our everyday lives....and it's with these things that our hearts, minds and spirits tune into every now and then when we finally stop worrying or being distracted by the things in our lives.
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madotara69
11 years ago
wrong with this picture. The fellows are letting us down, all the nagging about not finding a lady too reply, does not seem to be the way too wow the ladies, try being nice and giving them some flowers in those words. You never know, but getting too know them first, it's sure to change the odds a little.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I hope I'm never single again-u make it sound shit scarey Run Away!!
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Hence knowing Hymey will make a comeback lol. A guy messages you something nice, you're attracted and you respond stating your intent and desires for something tangible, real and messy and full of fire and lust and passion and then they say "This is a sex site and I just want some NSA fun, bye." I'm also concerned that most single men in my age bracket have already been screwed over by some other "piece of work" and they just don't/won't trust or put themselves out there in case it happens again. I think there are a lot of women out there who should be drawn and quartered....and THIS is a contributing factor why meeting someone nice is so damned hard. Yes Mado n Tara it's also like another poster said......most/some not all guys have become passive in their approach to courting a Lady in this world of "I want it now!!" If it requires effort and doesn't come easy it mustn't be worth it whereas (granny voice) back in our day the things worth having the most were worth fighting for. I think I'm worth fighting for.....and I think when I find the right man he'll be worth fighting for too. *wanders off humming "you don't send me flowers, you don't sing me love songs...."*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' Not last night but the night before, twenty years we have been married, Tara still has the dryish roses I gave her then. My mum still has her wedding bouquet from 1971, framed on a wall.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Flicka don't mean to make it scary, it's meant to be a romantic thread. There is nothing quite like the smile just some flowers can bring to a lady, even a mum, I still take our little one out into the bush and we look for wild flowers to take home and give Tara in the mornings with a cup of tea, some toast. The first smile as she wakes, the love our little one feels and the look she gives me, it's priceless. The scary thing is that there is so many beautiful ladies on this site and I don't think that guys are making any effort, I mean how can a bloke win some attention if he does not give a lady some flowers. (flowers can be one of those words that means more than just that word too)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wooing us ladies with your beautiful words Mado. Happy anniversary! Leoman, a friend of mine reminded me of the saying last night "We walk past Clark Kent every day because we are too busy looking for Superman." Please carry on being a nice guy. There are too few of you. JayJay, I love that poem.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Stop asking me to wear lycra. sheeeeeeesh
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madotara69
11 years ago
before some guys started opening up. Thanks DG
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