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Where is the line
June 13 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
You look really sexy, have curves on the right places and looks very hot! That's why you will be in a special category for you, curvy sexy! May be you should use this! : )
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RHP User
10 years ago
You look amazing. And you've got photos and describe yourself in your profile - I think that means more than one descriptive drop box. From my experience of messages in here, I'm not sure that many people get further than pictures before they message anyway. Have fun
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think you're definitely curvy, and choosing the "A little extra padding" option sounds like the right one to me. People here have different ideas on which term to use for which shape and size. We've had similar threads asking the same question you did, as well as what is considered "Average" and "BBW", and people's opinions varied greatly. I suggest if anyone is unsure about what to choose for their profile, they could just mention their size, which you did. And of course pictures say a thousand words. I have thing for tall women and I think you look smoking!
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RHP User
10 years ago
There'll be people who disagree, but fuck 'em, they're not for you. You're confident, and you're damn sexy, and both of those are evident in your profile. Nothing else matters.
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swingalingson
10 years ago
Well looking at your pics, And I hope to see your albums unlocked to see more of your yummy pics, Seeing how tall you are you are definitely a curvy woman.With a little extra padding, hence your do have curves which is what curvy is defined ass. But your not large. Can you please unlock your albums
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RHP User
10 years ago
It depends on you and YOU alone.But may I suggest you call yourself curvy...and very sexy too
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RHP User
10 years ago
I haven't seen your profile...it's locked...so I assume your already editing the first draft. But decent, clear pictures leave no room for being misinterpreted, in my opinion. From a males perspective: I have no idea what size 16 means. And ample, curvy, etc are just words. Just saying. After 2 years of living with my ex partner, I never knew what dress size she was...it didn't seem important. All I know is that women's sizes are not the same as mens. I've noticed plenty of women's photos on here are of a poor clarity...you know, very grainy...and never seem to change. Naturally, I realise the reason many maintain that is because they don't need to. But I'm not going into that.Some too have superb, high resolution photos...like above. If your pictures are honest and you have a variety of them you can't go wrong. They'll speak louder than the descriptive options we are given. When I see those options on a profile, I consider that's how they see themselves. I make my own mind up from the photos...and I notice many haven't changed in a year or more. Wonder if they have? Have fun.
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werdvus
10 years ago
Most have it right here sweetness , well this time anyhowz ?Its all about how sexy you are,and with it ........................... Yes you are aptly curvy , ,,,,,,but YES You are also Verv Very Sexy with it ,so it doesn't really matter about the size ,,,,,,,,,now if we could only truly use that same (Point ) of view with us men Its not the size Baby Grrrrrrrrrr ???? Girl you have it going-On for both men and women -Girls would want to be more like you /and guys want to be with you No doubt .....X
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Seachange
10 years ago
From what I can see in your pic here in the forum thread, just put 'with a little extra padding' in lieu of Curvy. I believe we should have this option in the drop down selection. I prefer this than that middle of the road, bland description of 'Average'. Yuk. Like many people said, let the pics do the talking. It is all about perspective and one man or woman can view you differently from the next. Nothing you can do. Those that like what they see, will be in touch with you. Simples.... If you believe you are who you are, then that is all that matters. I have difficulty myself describing my build... I put 'Athletic' as there is no option for 'Deliciously Edible'.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would say your curvy and sexy Its how you feel about yourself that makes you sexy. thats my 2 cents worth - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lilyorchid' From what I can see in your pic here in the forum thread, just put 'with a little extra padding' in lieu of Curvy. I believe we should have this option in the drop down selection. I prefer this than that middle of the road, bland description of 'Average'. Yuk. As for me, I'm just bland and yuk.
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'lilyorchid' From what I can see in your pic here in the forum thread, just put 'with a little extra padding' in lieu of Curvy. I believe we should have this option in the drop down selection. I prefer this than that middle of the road, bland description of 'Average'. Yuk. There is not 'Curvy' option in the Body Type drop down list in the Personal Info section? Where is this? I havent checked her profile so not sure where she puts it down as curvy. In her profile description? Well, if it there, then so be it... And stop with the 'false modesty' bit. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The OP had already selected the "Little extra padding" option. And you're the one calling me bland, not me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think if RHP gave that as an option, the vast majority of women would choose it, and considering a lot don't have clear body pics it wouldn't be doing the poor guys here any favours. If we have to believe Kool, they can't even figure out their partner's size.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' If we have to believe Kool, they can't even figure out their partner's size. It's not that we can't figure it out..any monkey can check clothing labels, I suppose. It's that we don't really care. Your clothing sizes...we're above that sort of thing. Y'know....
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'lilyorchid' From what I can see in your pic here in the forum thread, just put 'with a little extra padding' in lieu of Curvy. I believe we should have this option in the drop down selection. I prefer this than that middle of the road, bland description of 'Average'. Yuk. As for me, I'm just bland and yuk. Just a clarification before I get misunderstood and be taken out of context. I just think that we all are beautiful in their own ways and the description 'Average' just waters down the awesomeness of each one of us. I think we should all think we are better than average. Celebrate our awesomeness... Just my opinion.
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RHP User
10 years ago
tj7777 should be tj10101010 I think rhp should come up with better options. They mostly sound like cute euphemisms trying either not to offend or subtly feel a little humiliated. Especially as you go sown the list. I don't tend to read that stuff too much anyhow, only if there's no photos and I'm trying to build a picture in my head with all the info on the profile. But then again, from experience, one person's athletic is another person's average (or maybe call it 80%er?) one person's large (sassy queen or husky king) is anothers ample (big beatiful...........). I like curvy. I could use some curves.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The line is where ever you choose it to be. 90% of being sexy is thinking you are sexy. The other 10% is finding someone you think is sexy and that finds you equally so. It has nothing to do with size, shape, height, or any other factors. On your profile put.Wirte;For the right person I am perfect if you are.For the body type field put "Average" that way you cant lie.Leave actual figures to when you make contact, if they matter.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Ive not read the responses above..... however I will assume people will already have made comments to the effect of how others view you will vary... due to several factors. Hell... how you view you can vary (people talk of fat days, thin days, good hair days etc) Im tall.... and going by the traditional weight charts Im listed as overweight.... which is utterly ridiculous as Im obviously lean, athletic and muscular. So.... forget some "line" which differentiates a label..... put what you feel suits you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm lean athletic and muscular too ! Ok self promotion done. tj777 with that waist you have more curves than some "average" women and given your height I think that would be a fair call.
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daniel05
10 years ago
I think its how you carry it, some girls make it look really sexy and some don't. Everyone's got their own judgment/opinion about extra padding. Curvy is definitely a fav. oh and ps. you are hot ;) Dan
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am not big but I am not small. Some men say I am chubby and some say I am thin so I put a little extra padding as that's how I see my body. I am a size 10 but still have fat on my body. I think just put whatever you want. Tj I think your body shape is very sexy. You are hot in your pic.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SingleLilly' I am not big but I am not small. Some men say I am chubby and some say I am thin so I put a little extra padding as that's how I see my body. I am a size 10 but still have fat on my body. I think just put whatever you want. Tj I think your body shape is very sexy. You are hot in your pic. WTF?!?!?! If anyone calls you fat or Chubby Lilly, they need to see OPSM!!!! Seriously, I've met you in person and you are slim and anything but chubby/fat.. sheesh...WTF!!! I agree with Daniel also, the way you carry/present yourself (goes for men also) goes a long way.. OP, Hmmmm...Pic's are very difficult to judge from. As for size 16 i would say that would normally classify as on the cusp of Curvy and a little extra weight.. So if you've described yourself as either then no-one could argue (sexy as hell would be a good definition as well ;) ) If a person chooses not to meet based on a pic or two, then they're not worth yours or any ones time!! I for one know i photograph poorly and have received many compliments at meets along the lines of..wow, you're a lot more attractive in person.. :/ As mush as that tickles the ol' ego, i know I'm no oil painting, but I sure as hell don't have a face like a smashed crab either!! hahahahaha I'm happy with what the makers have given me... I hope you are also.. Giddy x
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thank you for the compliment.(blushes)
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