M51
Where/how to start
September 01 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
Save yourself the money and just attend meet n greets and the like. Flirts rarely if ever get looked at let alone answered as the majority of women are also guests and hence can't message. Go to the chatrooms or hang around on the forums, you have a better chance of success than blindly messaging random strangers who may or may not be real in the first place. Sounds harsh but I think you'll find 90% of the men on here who paid a membership would not do say again if they had the chance. That said, if you do go ahead and upgrade, good luck and all the best. But just message straight out. And make sure it stands out from the crowd it's not just some generic crap or it might as well be a flirt and will passed over in less than the blink of an eye.
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RHP User
9 years ago
..., as a Guest you will have no control. Have no expectations that are different to how you interact with women in the real world. And on that note...behave the same as you would in real life too...winking( a Flirt here ) to the interesting woman across the room will likely do little. Talk( a Message here, requiring a membership ) to people if your interested...just as if you bumped into them in the shopping centre. It's just like real life...though plenty won't sound like they're living in it. And remember, women are the minority here...some may respond with a certain sense of self entitlement. Possibly because of that gender empowerment. Don't worry about it. Move on...you wouldn't hang around for it in the real world either. Good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Will need to travel for a M&G as I don't think Darwin has one..might be people here who would meet socially though xxFreya
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd suggest you think of this place as any adult meeting place (say a bar), with many (many many) more men than women. Would you wink at a woman from across the room, or go over and introduce yourself and try to stand out from all the other guys hanging around? Yes, I think there is an etiquette. Read profiles carefully and if you don't meet someone's requirements (say they only want non-smokers), move on. Start your messages with at least a polite hello, be pleasant and make it more than one sentence. You are competing with a lot of other men (hence women here can be very choosy), so catch our interest and let us know why you think you'd be a match, without bragging. And be prepared for many no's or no responses at all. It's not necessarily you, it comes with the territory here. My opinions only. Good luck.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
And make it an interesting message. No one liners asking for a root. Most men in here have no fucking idea and if you work it out you will be in front of the pack. No guarantee of course. Just like the real world. Some guys offer a roast dinner but they only have sausages in the fridge..... Annie
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RHP User
9 years ago
wise words. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Totally agree with Whateverway Firstly I congratulate you on taking the time to read profiles and figure out who you might be attracted to rather than just sending bulk flirts and when you are a member messages. Any intelligent woman can pick a template email a mile away. Being different on here is really easy and I think will make you stand out from the crowd. Be respectful, honest in what you want without being crude and email about something in her profile rather than a one line email which is not worth responding to ..... oh and do a spell check .... it works wonders. You sound like you are on here with good intentions so I really hope you find what you are looking for. There are some quality people on here if you take the time and make the effort so don't give up.
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Come on ladies...... give the guy your inbox examples of the kinds of messages NOT to write. Thats probably going to give a pretty good idea what a lot of the "competition" is offering. DG
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
To quote a very common initial message " Love your profile pics. Nice arse. My no. 04xxxxxxxx. I'm keen to fuck asap. Ring me" Get so horny when i read that......... No idea....lol.
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RHP User
9 years ago
My number is 04......... Wanna fuck! Nice tits can I cum on them Be at this hotel. On this night, room 2&&. C u there! Easy to get cynical - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Good point DG. I'd like to see examples of the right messages to send as well. Only because I think it comes down more to attraction than the message itself. But do join mate as a message has it all over a flirt anyways. Good luck to you bloke and enjoy your time here.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Hi Annie. Stumbled across your profile and just had to send a message and say hi. Love your pics. Refreshing to see such tasteful and arty shots. Noticed on your activity section you do the occasional post as well. Read a few and loved your work. Would love to chat if you had the time. Not expecting anything more because you probably have a full dance card being such a desirable person. So if you have time, drop me a reply. If not thanks for your time and hope you are enjoying yourself here. By the way, opened my page for you. Hope you like them. Not as nice as yours but i'm learning. Love to see some more of yours. Thanks for reading. regards Desperate xx
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Single_Guy4U
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' And make it an interesting message. No one liners asking for a root. Most men in here have no fucking idea and if you work it out you will be in front of the pack. No guarantee of course. Just like the real world. Some guys offer a roast dinner but they only have sausages in the fridge..... Annie Would you prefer a roast dinner, or a good sausage
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On_Safari
9 years ago
"hey there... care to chat a little and see what naughty fun we can share? I'm an easy going guy. recently moved here from canada. not after anything serious at the moment.just a bit of fun with a sexy woman. let me make you scream with delight I'm in a hotel tonigh on the Gold Coast all by myself. It'd be nice to have some company ;)" OP some men really have no respect for themselves let alone any of the women here because we must all be slits or easy or something right? I've always been a paid member until March this year, now I can't see the point as I'm only here for the social component and friends I actually know. Read the profiles, everything; the tabs and really suss the profile out. As Meander says when you message the Lady mention the parts of her profile you like or things she wrote about herself (not just that you she's into voyeurism and eeotic photography and would she like to photograph you while you wank!). Use an interesting message header, not Hey; Hi, how are you?; Wassup; I'm in town; OMG you're hot hot HOT!! Act your age and maturity and yes the women here aren't any easier than the ones in the real world. I think you'll find we exist in both worlds and for the most treat each as a level playing field. Good luck, I hope the feedback helps you and don't be disheartened by no responses or agro replies, it's a minefield in here....and there's a chance someone else pissed her off before you got a chance. Keep smiling and if you get a chance go to a social function somewhere. Alot of us travel interstate for meet and greets and friendships develop, genuine ones even. Indy
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
With some of the sausage offerings, lamb roast wins the day
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari'I'm in a hotel tonigh on the Gold Coast all by myself. It'd be nice to have some company ;)" They could hire an escort, yet decide instead to try their luck here and save some money. I do wonder it ever works and would love to hear if any guy (or gal) has been successful with a message like that.
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Single_Guy4U
9 years ago
Quoting 'Whateverway' With some of the sausage offerings, lamb roast wins the day Why do farmers where high gumboots. They can put the rear legs of the sheep in the gumboots, stops them getting away, Baaaahh
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'Single_Guy4U' Quoting 'Whateverway' With some of the sausage offerings, lamb roast wins the day Why do farmers where high gumboots. They can put the rear legs of the sheep in the gumboots, stops them getting away, Baaaahh .....
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RHP User
9 years ago
To say thank you Annie for my new template... :P OP the above advice is mostly sound, to message is simple, to message effectively takes work, strike rates are low, if you're not prepared to put in the work, save your dosh. Hp xo Because you're worth it...
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
CeePee I'm not suggesting its easy sending cold call messages in here. In fact i appreciate it can be very daunting to some/many. Its a matter of being respectful and definitely not pushy or hinting at sex. Should be a start of a conversation as you would meeting someone in a cafe or bar. And whats the cost of a months membership to give it a try. Can be the start of anything, friendships and a fresh look at life. Doesn't work you've done a few dollars in exchange for some interesting moments and a bit of a personal challenge and growth. Annie
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hey Ceepee just checked to see if you had been swayed by the comments about joining. I see your still in limbo about that.
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