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Which one do you prefer, a) RHP sex b) Non-RHP sex
December 19 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
RHP All the way , coz i know what i am getting tonite, and tomorrow nite and the next nite after , Lol !...
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Originalbadboy
11 years ago
For me RHP, I know what they are looking for in general terms due to the profile system and they know what I'm looking for. Obbi "An intellectual is a person who has discovered something more interesting than sex." - Aldous Huxley
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RHP User
11 years ago
The place where people can talk it up and then starfish on you ! Don't think one is better than the other ,all of life's sensual experiences are great !
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
To me..... sex is about the person, not where I found them. I don't find there's any difference at all because I don't consider that people are different in here or beyond here. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' To me..... sex is about the person, not where I found them. I don't find there's any difference at all because I don't consider that people are different in here or beyond here. DG - Posted from rhpmobile I recently met a guy off a regular dating site for a drink and we really hit it off,he was quite the gentleman and made it clear that he was not one to have sex nor pressure anyone into it on the first date. After that we spoke on the phone a few times and during one of the conversations he mentioned other dating sites he had tried and I also mentioned that I was on RHP. It was like a button had been flipped!!....All of a sudden the way he spoke to me completely changed......not really disrespectful but a lot more forward and sexual orientated. He even stated that he thought it was "hot" that I would be on such a site!!!He obviously thought he didn't have to beat around the bush and that I was a sure thing just because I was on here!Maybe he thought that being on RHP makes me a better "root" LOL!!But I'm just this dam good either way!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' To me..... sex is about the person, not where I found them. I don't find there's any difference at all because I don't consider that people are different in here or beyond here. DG - Posted from rhpmobile Well the way you relate to people on RHP must be vastly different to most of us DG. Ya prude!
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RHP User
11 years ago
@mischeviouslad I agree - it is based on the individual. And the crazy sex factor doesn't rely on whether they came from RHP or not. But as generalization I would say the sex is still very different and the feeling afterwards also. But in the end it is all subjective :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
@JJ Yeh perhaps a mistake on your behalf to disclose that early on. But then again it is also a show of character based on how he reacted. It shows he wasn't genuine in how he depicted himself to you - which usually means he is full of poopoo. Or perhaps he wanted to impress you first :O?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Here , it's all out in the open and upfront . Whereas in Real Life , there's a lot of Pussyfooting around to get to the desired destination . Interesting to note though , that so many people put Sex out front (Bait) , when they are really looking for "something more"... GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' Maybe he thought that being on RHP makes me a better "root" LOL!!But I'm just this dam good either way!!
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Quoting 'JayJay_66' He obviously thought he didn't have to beat around the bush and that I was a sure thing just because I was on here!Maybe he thought that being on RHP makes me a better "root" LOL!! The sex would have been the same..... because you know what you know... and he knows what he knows.... and you would have worked together how you would have. The only thing that changed, was his attitude on how much effort he thought he needed to put in to reach the sex. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe its the free thinking and openness of RHP people that I find enticing coupled with the willingness to experiment. My RHP encounters have far outshone any vanilla experiences. I had a man (customer) pursue me for weeks, dropping into the office, phoning and asking me out. Finally we went out a few times and he was a complete gentleman, romantic, tall, extremely good looking, gorgeous body and treated me like royalty. The dream man (for me anyway)... LOL. Nothing was too much for him to do to try and impress me ... finally the day came when we took it to the bedroom. OMG it was the biggest sexual disappoinment of my life. Needless to say there were no further dates... As a person he was charming, funny and interesting. As a lover.... big fail! Slickz, "However, I find the unknown sexy. I enjoy the journey of talking to someone without any previous knowledge, flirting and then building on the chemistry/sexual energy, which if the night goes well - leads to sex." I get this from RHP too. Depends on what you are looking for and the people you contact on here. SF
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've spoken to a lot of talkers of late and very few doers both here and IRL. I think above all else it comes down to the "chemistry" between 2 people, regardless of how or where they met. I recently met someone at a wedding- instant connection and not surprisingly, great sex. Other times it's been seriously hard work trying to get that connection and needless to say- average sex.
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RHP User
11 years ago
"I don't complain about bad sex, when any will do!!" Lol :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
this side liberating. And I will pay my membership again because I LOVE IT HERE. All my sexy men I ever med on here you rock to me, its without pretense, straight to the point, no stupid talk around the subject, I love you all.Merry Christmas my lovers and all of you too.L
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RHP User
11 years ago
Being on RHP skips the formalities and gets everyone to the point of ' if we feel it , and there's a attraction, we can get it on. In other words, freeing the sexual side of our personality minus the dating process . Mind you , I still like the boy girl seduction process and the build up to the reward, but we don't need this for everyone. Nothing wrong with getting down dirty if you like the look of someone... that's where RHP comes into it's own..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sensory_fun' Maybe its the free thinking and openness of RHP people that I find enticing coupled with the willingness to experiment. My RHP encounters have far outshone any vanilla experiences. I had a man (customer) pursue me for weeks, dropping into the office, phoning and asking me out. Finally we went out a few times and he was a complete gentleman, romantic, tall, extremely good looking, gorgeous body and treated me like royalty. The dream man (for me anyway)... LOL. Nothing was too much for him to do to try and impress me ... finally the day came when we took it to the bedroom. OMG it was the biggest sexual disappoinment of my life. Needless to say there were no further dates... As a person he was charming, funny and interesting. As a lover.... big fail! Slickz, "However, I find the unknown sexy. I enjoy the journey of talking to someone without any previous knowledge, flirting and then building on the chemistry/sexual energy, which if the night goes well - leads to sex." I get this from RHP too. Depends on what you are looking for and the people you contact on here. SF "Needless to say there were no further dates..."Off topic a little but - IMO, you should have given him another chance - as he sounded like the perfect guy minus the first sexual encounter. After all - sex for the first time with someone can be terrible out of pure nervousness. I know personally I've had a couple experiences which weren't the greatest the first time. Once where I ended earlier than expected and then there was another time where I couldn't end at all! Each of those encounters were followed by mind-blowing sex at the next meet. Other than that, I pretty much agree with everything you are saying. It's true what I described - can be found on RHP. But it's still not as exhilarating as the alternative! RHP is great for finding people who are sexually extroverted, open and upfront - so that is what I use it for.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have found sex on here is about the experience/journey we are all here for the same thing great sex .. I have had sex with guys on a dating site and found it to be extremely disappointing ..they are only after there own benefits and couldn't care about my wants or needs .. (Except for one ...mmmmm the poor hotel cleaners and next people in that room the mattress was saturated - to this day I still believe he lied and was married) Hence my reason to join RHP - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Sensory_fun' Maybe its the free thinking and openness of RHP people that I find enticing coupled with the willingness to experiment. My RHP encounters have far outshone any vanilla experiences. I had a man (customer) pursue me for weeks, dropping into the office, phoning and asking me out. Finally we went out a few times and he was a complete gentleman, romantic, tall, extremely good looking, gorgeous body and treated me like royalty. The dream man (for me anyway)... LOL. Nothing was too much for him to do to try and impress me ... finally the day came when we took it to the bedroom. OMG it was the biggest sexual disappoinment of my life. Needless to say there were no further dates... As a person he was charming, funny and interesting. As a lover.... big fail! SF I have Lily Allen's "Not Fair" in my head now
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RHP User
11 years ago
I can SO relate to that....LOL SF
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wingman2014
11 years ago
Litonya.... Well said - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
The only difference is the preconceived expectation you have when meeting someone from RHP. The people on here are no more hot, sexy, kinky, openminded etc than anyone else. They just think they are. Its easy to talk the talk from behind a keyboard. You will encounter just as many limp dicks and starfish on here as you will anywhere else.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You mean that being on RHP can lead to having SEX? WTF! Obi1kenietzsche
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RHP User
11 years ago
I haven't been with a muggle since I joined RHP. :O
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Fuck how often do we say wiukdn't it be nice if there were fewer hurdles to jump and then we find RHP that levels the playing field for most. Then the dickheads (male and female) think that because a few of those hurdles have been removed it's a fuckfest where manners, style, class and just common decency and morality go out the window too. Got news dickheads, if you can't hook up IRL your chances aren't any better here. Lift your game it's a very discerning crowd and use your failures IRL to teach you what NOT TO DO here. Quoting Jay_Me : I still like the boy girl seduction process and the build up to the reward, but we don't need this for everyone. Nothing wrong with getting down dirty if you like the look of someone... that's where RHP comes into it's own.. Jay_Me every encounter where it's been established there is a genuine level of attraction and interest still requires the seduction and flirting and building of chemistry prior to that hotly sought after reward. I'm actually finding it MORE enjoyable on RHP than IRL. Thrn again I think I'm good at it IRL also if past Safari's are anything to go by. Maybe the botmys were right and I am a terminal flirt? 😳 Lol but without seduction and everything else that goes with it it's just 2 people agreeing to fuck and then working out the logistics. Place head here, suck that there, stick it in, pump me baby oo aah cum and gone. YUCK!! Scarily enough there's alot of "players" here who think that's good. Eeuuwwwww. 😝
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E' where manners, style, class and just common decency and morality go out the window too. Too damn much of these character flaws.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I haven't been with a muggle since I joined RHP. :O A Muggle!!That tickled my funny bone !! Thanks Meeka
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RHP User
11 years ago
I must be broken or just plain weird... my recent experiences are to the contrary to a few of the preceding posts... will reserve judgement until I have had more experience Just as a thought though (and I can feel my bum getting warm from some possible flames here)... does RHP put too much pressure on people to be something they may not be thus making RHP based meets for sex more difficult than Non-RHP based meets that end up in the bedroom? For example I know that a few people on the forums have commented that they feel like they need to "perform" whilst in settings that are akin to what this site is about (e.g. CC) because of preconceived ideas as to what those people are like in real life which don't reflect reality. Just a thought. . . SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
I feel I like I have to perform sometimes because of the way people perceive me... And that's only because of the way I write and things I say on the forum. So nobodies fault but my own, and I don't blame other people for it. Besides how can RHP make you be something you are not.... It is each persons choice to reveal themselves on RHP and to say the things that they do. I usually don't mind putting on a little show, just depends how I feel, it's when I feel that I am expected to act a certain way which makes me a little resentful. For example, if a woman mentions be likes DPs, so when a man meets her at CC he assumes that she will DP with every guy there.... Wrong! :( I know some people will be disappointed that I don't intend to go to drinks with strappy poking outside of my dress.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have said this before and I am sure it's true of all the female posters who speak about their experiences on The forum. I don't just want to be someone's RHP experience, I want people to be interested in me as a person. I am more than just a strapon, or group sex... Etc.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Those aren't flaws I observed in you. Quite the opposite actually....ya cheeky shit!! Lol just remember there's a oillow in Sydney with tour name already embroidered on it hahahaha even if it's on your own in that bed xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like some of the ideas you put forward. I agree with RHP the people I meet do expect more in the bedroom. Sometimes this is great - and it usually means a night filled with sex. Other times a night filled with sex is a little too much and I simply feel like a simple - but amazing screw, where there is no pressure to go again and again. This is hard to find on RHP.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Muggle. Perfect term haha.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Can deliver a Cold Custard Tart or a Warm Strawberry Flan. There's no guarantees on the resultant encounter from here being Red or Hot or even a Pie. A no-show or incompatible personalities are equally occurring results.
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RHP User
11 years ago
RHP sex is less complicated. We both know why we are here and I can just say. I want to meet you Tuesday night and I want a hot and horny sex and I love being fucked from behind. I usually find guys are not judgemental towards us ladies who actually say what we like. I've had sensible dates that weren't going to work out and I've put it on the guys for sex that first night. I felt like it, they were ok for a one night stand. In the end I had to really spell it out and just say "do you want to fuck" because he just wasn't getting my subtle "I am on a sensible date" sex hints!
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