Margo_Lover

Margo_Lover

M51 F51

Who Am I Speaking With?

November 01 2021

Any chance we could have a guideline that those of us with couples accounts identify who is speaking in chats & forums? It's a rare couple I find, that identify who we're speaking with at any time. I always assume it's the male, as I find that's the case 98% of the time. But sometimes, it's the female. I try to end everything I say with '- Alex' so it's clear, I'm the one chatting. While Margo does the same. In theory it shouldn't matter, but in reality I like to know who I'm speaking with :) - Alex.

Comments

  • This_couple

    This_couple

    3 years ago

    I don't really bother with it too much. I presume that whoever is speaking is speaking on behalf of both and when we organise a meet is is to meet them both anyway. Given that most people don't put their actual names as their profile name I wouldn't automatically assume that one of you is named Margo so even seeing Alex would be ambiguous unless clarified.

  • Mrs_Deep_Love

    Mrs_Deep_Love

    3 years ago

    I use it as a filtering tool. Those who aren't polite enough to identify who is who on a couples profile simply aren't my people.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    3 years ago

    I get where you're coming from. It's been stated, time and time again over the years in the forums who ever is posting to sign off. And theres been many single males posing as a couples profile been caught out. 🤭 Most couples do sign off who ever is posting and normally most (not all) can tell if it's the male or female. I wouldn't worry too much in the forums as it's just on line. I'd be more concerned when it came to meeting them, that you've got good vetting in place, so you don't get catfished. IE face time/Web cam (or something like like), both of the couple to confirm its them. Ms Foxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Wouldn’t that be basic manners? 😆 oh wait, it’s online, apparently manners aren’t important.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Interesting point raised. Strange, I(mr) always imagine it's the lady I'm chatting with. I guess I'm mistaken seeing people are saying it's usually the male. I do all the communication through RHP, but with my partner involved. We view rhp as a preliminary vetting to save her the groundwork. Mr Sensual.

  • Funluva

    Funluva

    3 years ago

    We are a couple in this adventure and wouldn't be here without each other. So for us what is written is assumed it is by the couples knowledge permission and trust. But that's us. Stay safe ppl.

  • justforthefun44

    justforthefun44

    3 years ago

    When it is a couple or female most of the time it is the Mrs that’s make contact. If it’s a male I make contact. We both always read all messages Rob Sharon 💋💋💋💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    This is the Male writing.( just to clarify for the subject). I am the one who usually does the forum stuff but Mrs S has occasionally added her views. When answering messages I encourage her to deal with them as I have found it's the males doing the 'hunting" lol, so its refreshing to have contact with the Ladies and hopefully get them chatting to each other. We both actively view our contacts and see who is interested etc but I allow her to set the pace of meeting so I know that she is comfortable. Sometimes we don't sign off on who is writing the message but we assure people it's both our sentiments and not just a male they're talking to. (Mr) 😊

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    3 years ago

    If you can pull this off ' your a better man than thee ? I take everything ppl say on here with a grain of salt.. ? It would be nice but ?